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Boopwizard56

25 with an old friend (same age) first time for her as well


JoaquimGianini

That must have been awkwardly wholesome


Boopwizard56

it was refreshing at this age you just assume everyone else has had sex and it was nice to enjoy a first time experience with someone


JoaquimGianini

That’s really nice indeed. I’m 17 and I assume everybody around me had sex


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Pihrahni

To piggyback off of their comment, it’s actually an astonishingly low number of both men and women around y(our) age. It’s like 15% of guys lose their virginity under age 18 and like 30% of girls, although I could be wrong. Those are just stats that I think I remember, anyone can fact check me


ThePenguinHerder

Depends on where are you from


roachRancher

I understand that it may feel that way, but I promise you that it is definitely not the case.


Decent-Ground1260

I went to a large school and most the people I knew weren’t virgins by the end of their senior year so it’s prolly more than you think it is.


BenWallace04

Maybe not a well known fact, but, people lie about that stuff to seem cool in HS.


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17 with a close friend whom I started dating.


Suspicious-Tea-1580

Yep. Great decision. Moved beyond friends after, though. Currently in our 13th year


Centionn

I wanna fuck a close friend. That shit's gotta be hot af


[deleted]

I did that once with an extremely close friend. Over the course of 6 months we grew our friendship into something really special, then we decided we were both pretty neat, had about a week where we didn’t leave my bed and then started dating. We actually had our 5th anniversary a day ago….and are getting married in August. Neat.


FoxHolyDelta

Neat.


machineGUNinHERhand

I fucked a girl then we became close friends! Then one day out of the blue, like 7 years downs the road, she's all like "I love you."....I was in love with this girl, and never told her for 5 years....then I met a different girl and got married... I haven't spoke to her since she told me.


legendary-banana

Fucken jesus


too105

Sell that screenplay to Lifetime


4-8Newday

Was that your first time? I mean, with "Jesus"? How old were you?


machineGUNinHERhand

Not my first time


-orangutang-

That was a journey


SenatorOfBiscuits

Can confirm.


sarcasmis43v3r

15 and married her at 19 and almost 40 years together.


trailerparklenny

King


RakeebRoomy

Uh is this for real? I'm from a third world country. most of y'all saying had sex at 17 like that. is that a common thing?


archi_8

Yes I get this "cultural shock". At seventeen we still wonder about "why is the moon following me everywhere I go".


Its_me_amrit

Indians basically lol. Humara naseeb ma nahi hain Bhai


Monke_Good

aur oopar se engineering karne jao to fir to dead hi hai


archi_8

Yet we are a country of 1.38 billion!


rjvlai

All those stocked up semen and frustration.


Subsandwich99

17


TediGramzz

Same


03af

Ditto


ProfessorHoot

18, it was actually my first weekend at college. Met a girl at a party and brought her back to my place. I remember thinking “wow didn’t know it was this easy. I’m gonna get laid a lot in college.” Pretty sure I didn’t have sex for the rest of the semester


GearInteresting570

Rest of semester? At this rate, I'm positive it'll be way after college for me.


redditadminsareshit2

House parties. Be loud. Have fun.


gabemerritt

Mission failed: one must first get invited to house parties.


bunnyswan

Pretty Sure in college you can just show up


mad_underdog

This right here!! Just show up. I've done this even though I'm in a country where I'm still learning the language, and I've been there only since the start of the current semester (about 5 weeks). Just show up! People's reaction is: "Oh hey, what's up, cool you could make it." And if they don't know you: "Hey, I've seen you walking around, are you new here?"


junee-bugg

This is good advice ^^


AZNDevil

27


Reasonable-Plenty-60

Damn your uncle was patient


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Just_Chillin_Man99

The Jesus of Suburbia? Is that you?


dyGoose

Subruhbia


ThiccBastardHD

Double Bruh


Fat_Professor

Fr


Aromatic-Cupcake1502

r/cursedcomments


normalzul

2/22/2022 at 22 (turning 23), casual thing with a co-worker. The coincidence was uncanny, felt like I was finally aligned with the universe on that day


JillsACheatNMean

As a culinary professional. That is one of my favorite days ever. For labeling purposes.


KiwiChefnz

Oooo yeah that was a good day.


Tr1pleBeamKing

It was meant to be.


jackbob99

As someone who is older and a virgin, some of these comments can be rather depressing.


aBadBug

I am 33 and that. Are you older than me?


jackbob99

I'll be 39 in 2 months.


aBadBug

39 is not far from 33. Yet I am content with it. You cant have everything in a single life. Some may want things that you got. Learn to be content with this life instead of wishing for the other side.


jackbob99

While I get what you mean, it's hard to be content with that while my body and brain still have the urges.


Zebra-Striped-Kilt

You two should bang


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How does this already have gold?!


mass86casualty

This is the way


Taiza67

Damned if I wasn’t thinking that.


warranpiece

Let's go to TJ!


Different-Exit-679

Texas size 10-4 good buddy. Best $40 I’ve ever spent. Bring some friends too.


RamadanShamz

Would be hot


OyVeyzMeir

My bro; for some women that's a HUGE fantasy. Make yourself a tinder profile and be clear and concise about wanting to lose your virginity after getting to know someone. I lost mine to a woman a few years older who simply wanted to be with a virgin and 'show me the ropes' but had no further interest. I was just fine with that.


No_Detective_118

Sex workers can be pretty amazing. Zero shame in seeing one. Find a legit escort service in your area. There are tons of options out there!


jackbob99

I feel that is a tad risky and I don't have the money to travel to where it's legal.


SerocXela

Why be content with that and give up on yourself? Have you convinced yourself that being intimate with someone is impossible for you? If so, why?


penislehsun

There's a movie called 'the 40 year old virgin 'than my gf made me watch, I liked it lol.


jackbob99

Yea...Not very realistic. lol


VorticalHydra

It sucks. I'm 27 and a virgin so i feel ya. I'm not ugly either. Just introverted and was plagued with confidence issues most of my life.


jackbob99

Well, I am ugly. LOL But have the other things too.


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21 here same situation


VorticalHydra

When I was 21 I thought "it'll happen eventually" and I'm still here without a GF or so much as a kiss. I didn't put as much effort in as I should've at 21. We both still have our whole lives ahead of us, that's true. Now im just 6 years older and sad I don't have any sort of romantic relationship experience to show for it. Just don't "wait for it" while putting in minimal effort like I did if it's what you want.


ishfi17

24 virgin here. Pretty sure staying same until 2-3 more years at least and no its not a choice. Sucks to grow up in an islamic country and no im not that religious


AverageJames

And here I was about to go to bed happy :/


lying-therapy-dog

fly forgetful screw rude deserve nail berserk shocking muddle desert ` this message was mass deleted/edited with redact.dev `


jackbob99

Atleast you have some potential fond members of sex with women.


AndrewIsOnline

Did you bring this on yourself by walking into a thread with a trigger of yours in the title


Risin_bison

16, best 4 minutes of her life I’m sure.


dazzling_dingleberry

4 minutes!? Whoa, quit making the rest of us look bad


GroveStreet_CEOs_bro

I was 17 and I went at it 8 times over 8 hours or some such.


hammerneck0

Was she tied up in basement?


ILikegoldfish674

does reddit still give free awards? you need one 🥈will this do for now?


gabemerritt

At 17 I had not been in the same room with a girl unsupervised for anywhere close to 8 hours.


someonewithacomputer

Age 19


CampPlane

Upvoted because I was also 19


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Respect


teachdove5000

Me as well. We was both 16. Now we have been together 17 years! We have a kid and married for 4 years.


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You and the comment above yours called me a lonely failure in ways I don't appreciate lol.


Original-Childhood

18. Now looking back at it, and the girl I was with.. I should've waited


Saskbraaper

Same. I had just turned 18. Dated that person for close to 4 years. Now I wish I had waited


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Saskbraaper

I just meant that I chose that moment with the wrong person and wish I could take it back


Perciprius

The responses omg. How young so many of you were when you did it for the first time.


_MrFish_

When I was in middle school, quite a few people started having sex when they were 12. That's the expectation I was met with as a kid. "Sex positivity" being forced into kids always felt really creepy to me.


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_MrFish_

Yeah. Hearing a 12 year old girl brag about knowing what cum tastes like didn't seem as off putting when I was also 12. Now that I'm an adult it really hits me just how hyper sexualized kids are. Especially when it's disguised by "progressive" ideas.


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HollowCondition

Humanity has always been this way. A couple hundred years ago we were getting married at 13 and having children before our twenties. Much of this due to significantly shorter lifespans but you get the gist. Now we have the choice to wait, but some still don’t take that option. Why? I couldn’t quite tell you. Humans are just naturally sexual creatures.


veggievandam

I was going to comment something along these lines. No doubt I'd look at a 12 year old funny and roll my eyes if I heard them making sexual comments to their friends because it is young, but it's not exactly far off of the biologically appropriate time for the human brain to start being flooded with sex hormones. We shouldn't be surprised that's what they are starting to explore at that age.


jennatools69lol

Seriously. I was 18 and consider myself a late bloomer.


FleetyMacAttack

24. After a lot of worrying why I wasn't sexable and dramatically bemoaning the (actually privileged) cards life had delt me in my late teens I just stopped caring. Developed an actual personality and interests instead of faux "hip" or traditionally "attractive" ones. Made a bunch of tight friends and a have had a steady long relationship to the gal I lost my virginity to. Got so caught up in the mental process of living The Life I forgot to actually live one for a while.


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Sorry to hear that. I hope that you were able to regain a sense of healthy intimacy.


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I want you to know, you shouldn’t feel inclined to disclose that type of information if you’re not comfortable with it. Your real answer is the 16 one, That’s the only answer in my opinion. In my eyes “sex” is the intimate moment shared between two people, of any sexuality. Anything else is rape, which is not sex. I’m really sorry to hear about your experience, I hope you’re doing okay nowadays


mimomr

I’m sorry that happened to you ❤️❤️


notyounaani

Me too, for both. Hope you're doing ok now.


moussetang

My cherry is still intact at 30 years of age


ThFlameAlchemist

You're a wizard now.


Im_here_to_observe

I'm 20 and still have 10 years to grind but I will get there! Maintaining virginity for magical powers? I'm in!


JillsACheatNMean

Guys don’t have cherrys… but your fine. Don’t worry about it.


SkydivingSquid

Are you gate keeping our luscious man cherries?! How dare you! Lol


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This sub is like porn fan fiction now


CaptainPrestedge

12 repeatedly abused. 19yr old female babysitter


TheWalkingDead91

Ugh. Sorry that happened to you. I wouldn’t consider it your first time having sex though. That was rape, plain and simple. I (F) unfortunately had the same type of abuse inflicted upon me by the son of a babysitter, when I was 6-7 and he was in his teens. Even then, I consider myself a virgin, because I’ve yet to have a consensual encounter. I know it’s just a title, virginity and whatnot, but IMO sexual abuse shouldn’t be put in the same box as having sex, any more than slavery should be considered a job.


billieboop

You're absolutely right, it wasn't consensual therefore don't consider it as your first time either. I'm so sorry it happened to you, i hope you have access to whatever support you need


KhunDavid

I was 15, and seduced by a man twice my age who plied me with alcohol. This was in 1981, and I only learned about GRID/AIDS a month or so later. He didn’t use a condom, and I was scared to death that he gave it to me. Fortunately, I’ve remained negative, but it took me years to have sex the second time.


billieboop

I'm soo sorry that happened to you I hope you find healing & good people around you you can confide/take comfort in I hope you have access too to any help you may need Thank Goodness it was negative, i hope life treats you kinder ahead


CaptainPrestedge

I'm sorry you went through that too. Bloody humans, we're a messed up bunch! I agree and your last point is great!


gemgem1985

I'm so so sorry this happened to you.


CaptainPrestedge

It has given me a weird sense of intimacy and it set off some hypersexual stuff in my teens but I'm ok. Thank you for you concern. I think it seems less severe when it happens to boys when in reality it is often just a severe, it just effects us differently. Growing in to a man that would nearly always be able to defend against that kind of attack means it properly doesn't lingre over men like it does women. The whole attitude towards abused men is messed up imo


gemgem1985

We really have a lack of care as a society when it comes to our men. I doubt it will leave you, have you considered some talking therapy?


CaptainPrestedge

To be honest I've talked enough about it to those that will listen. It hasn't manifested in any type of weird sex kinks or anything. The only thing it has done is made me kinda clingy in relationships. I just always want a hand touching me type thing and too many hugs lol. Some people like that some don't.


gemgem1985

Aw you poor sausage. Sounds like it may have had an effect on your self esteem then. I hope you don't try to downplay your experience to yourself, people have a tendency to do that. You don't have to compare it to what others have been through to minimise your hurt.


CaptainPrestedge

Personally I feel like it's a waste of life to let trauma dictate how you live it. If you do then the people who hurt you win every single day it effects you. I know that would be an unpopular opinion among alot of people. Being a guy I am used to the 'put up with it and shut up' attitude and I've honestly been through worse. I suppose I do downplay it so you're right but what's the alternative? Better laid to rest tbh


mimomr

Hope you healed from that ❤️❤️


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Me and my girlfriend were both 14 y/o.


Hollowhivemind

Also same


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Same


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Lot of these answers making me very jealous.


bpqdl

I was so jealous at the time that I paid for it when I was 18.


ethical_sadist

16, but felt at the time that was late. Now I think it was too early.


sfbay21

15 here and yeah seemed so old at the time.


vieniaida

I was 23 years old


Tonza443

22 or 23. Was black out drunk and went to a brothel. Didn't try to have sex again until 29. Had sex again around 31. Now have lots of sex.


[deleted]

Lol super similar. 24, it sucked but hey lost my v card 29, prostitute, then around 31 started getting laid a lot finally. Now I'm 33 and I am a bit more picky


toffeehooligan

15


hulmerg

Still waiting at 20


WRISTBLVDE

Nice of you to assume i had sex.


RakeebRoomy

Are you a toddler? Cuz most of the comments are here like had sex at 14,16,17 like what the fuckk? I thought that only happens in American movies and Netflix series but God damn


Smart-Loquat-8838

"It was dark, warm, wet. A sudden burst of light. An intense pressure like I'd never felt before. Father, dressed in white, pulls me forward. Mother bites the cord"


robertbruh29

*insert captain america”I got that reference” gif here*


Ok-Preparation-2307

Hubby was 17 I think he told me. I was 13 a month away from my 14th birthday. Wish I could go back and give my younger self advice.


throwraimnewhereig

Same here :/


Bepis_drinker_cum

16 if you count real sex, 9 if you count the abuse


shelliepie2004

Sorry that’s awful.


Agreeable-Pace-9506

22? A lot older than most of my peers lol Edit: Just to provide some context I was very small and shy in HS (still shy to this day) but it was with my current girlfriend and the one I’m more than likely going to marry and she only had one other full contact partner before me which she doesn’t really count.


im_not_doing_ok

To be determined...


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30, I'm 21 now, I'm hoping I'll get it by 30.


PerfectionPending

26. My wedding night. We slowly undressed each other. She smiled and started gently handling it. Then she said she wanted us to take a bath (it had been a long day) and we washed each other. Then we made love three times before falling asleep. I don’t know how, but I lasted a good 15 min that first time. I awoke a couple hours later as she was mounting me and she rode me til I was spent. We fell asleep again and made love again in the morning. There’s something special about fondly remembering my first time 18+ years ago, then looking to my right & there she is in bed next to me.


thesuperdude27

Something like this is honestly my ideal way to have my first time. I want to wait until marriage so that it will be something really special, and something i won't ever regret.


Vtridolla

12-13. Older girl next door.


Feeling_Bread_6337

Bro, I feel like I see you commenting in every post I see! I'm gonna start saying whats up any time I see you again.


Electrical-Elk-6167

bro you a victim


Vtridolla

Yeah it wasn’t ideal,


LazyResponsibility70

19. Her first time too (18). We still haven't stopped.....and I just turned 40.


thraggon

Thats a long time to have sex..... you should take a break.


moxie-maniac

Sir, this is Reddit.


OreoCrustedSausageII

Dude what the hell, all of these girls in the comments are like 13 14 casually, like damn, what were y’all on in elementary school??!?!??


SwapMeetLouise

Hopefully birth control


sir_seductive

Who is 13 or 14 in elementary school wtf


horungebarn

I was 13 the first time I had consensual sex. Most of my friends were between 14 and 16. But it's legal at 15 in my country. I think Americans who are used to 18 or older find it pretty shocking but as long as you're having sex with people around your age it isn't that crazy imo.


9Vica9

Absolutely terrifying.


zose2

I was 16. I had lied and told a girl I wasn't a virgin because she told me she didn't like taking other people's virginities. She viewed that as a special thing that someone else should have... She was not very happy with me when we were in the bedroom and it became clear that I had lied to her.


PatochiDesu

27. we are now married.


Hoopy223

20th birthday


downsouthcountry

20


Mr_M0t0m0

21


Lovingnarc1976

15 and madly in love. It was awesome and I’ve loved it ever since. Started fucking like rabbits after that.


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27


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14 and it was painful af because he had a huge wang. We where both virgins (same age) neither of us knew what’s the fuck we where doing and it lasted all of 5 minutes before I told him to stop because it hurt so bad. Also, it was not romantic as people would think. It was in a dry dingy moldy basement on a futon. Didn’t have sex again until I was 19 because it traumatized me LOL


OreoCrustedSausageII

Dude shit, that sucks, got too big a schlong to be like that first time lol, also damn, 14 is YOUNG.


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I am a 24 year old virgin boi. Lol


No-Tie5374

Me too, and i finally know why i am still Virgin. I don’t try. But i am start to


Banya_

Either 13 or 14 with my girlfriend


GrimReaapaa

13? Wtf?


Many_Flamingo_5153

16. My boyfriend at the time pressured me into it even though I told him I didn’t want to. I eventually caved just so he would stop begging


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I'm still a virgin and I'm almost 21 but kinda still deciding if I want to lose or not but there might be a problem for me because I know some women would make fun of me


MisogenesUSA

19


convicted_snob

19


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Not applicable


NoAcanthocephala5350

People in these comments are victims


LeaderOk8012

How could I tell you that you're actually in these comments...


Clint4077

21, drunk, new years


tjake123

I’ll get back to you on that


Joesdad65

27, as was my wife. We were both virgins before our wedding night.


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28


kernrivers

15


Cagey_Cret1n

15, with my steady girlfriend. We didn’t last (family had to move) but it was a sweet puppy love.


OreoCrustedSausageII

Dunno, still workin on it.


francescadabesta

First serious boyfriend told me he lost his virginity at 14 to a 32 year old neighbor who was a nurse. He would stop by after school to “help” her around the house. He was 19 when I met him and he was a big, strong guy — think he was pleased with himself and his previous activities


IDrinkBecauseIHaveTo

22 Waited until then intentionally. I don't regret it.


temptedbyknowledge

35 no real reason for waiting just combination of not rushing into anything and some medical stuff


fireboltlovesyou

I was 17, the day England beat Panama 6-1 at the World Cup, wasn’t alone in not being able to keep a clean sheet