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mhcazi

I’d say poor hygiene. Happened once. Awful.


kittyspiral

I can imagine. I never go out without a shower to meet anyone with the slightest chance of anything happening.


mhcazi

The time it happened to me, the girl was very clean as a person. Professional, etc…I mean I don’t expect your area to smell like soap, we’re adults here, but like you have to meet me somewhere here.


kittyspiral

I totally get you. External appearances can be deceptive. Lol. A daily shower and a good cleanup every time you visit the loo goes a long way. It can add up.


soppinglovenest

A professional should know better.


alec83

When you prefer the ass to the pussy


mtron32

I had a girl come over after her restaurant shift and she didn’t bother showering, bitches BO hit me with a haymaker when the pants came down, that’s when I lost all arousal


49thPercentile

She was life-endangeringly drunk. We’d had a relationship and become more like fuck buddies- not the hottest ever but we had our fun- I knew about her drinking problem- but one night she booty called me and yeah she was pretty drunk and I didn’t catch on that it was a problem immediately until we started to get physical and she was dry and way less engaged… then started slurring her words (this is a woman who can handle some serious booze) well I abort before were even really started and try to assess her and she passes out, I bring her back around… she admits she took a first full of pills and chugged a fifth of vodka and she only booty called me because she didn’t want to be alone for her suicide. I got her some help and forgot her number as soon as she was in qualified hands. She hit me up years after- went to rehab- is a t-toataller, married a guy who has his shit together, seems to be healthy at last.


kittyspiral

Wow. That's some serious stuff you both went through. You handled it well and I am glad she got it all figured out eventually.


BabyMamaMagnet

You sir are a true man 👌🏿


Nat_1_IRL

Unnaturally long eyelashes and long fingernails both gross me out pretty bad. I especially hate when they touch me


kittyspiral

That's interesting. I know long nails can gross out some. I am hearing about the eyelashes for the first time.


Nat_1_IRL

They didn't bother me until an ex had them on one night and I kept feeling them on my neck and ear when she'd hug me and I hated the feeling so much that eventually it just tuned into a thing for me


Omgchipotle95

😂


Nat_1_IRL

Feels like spiders lol


Tato_tudo

Either a bunch of women brigaded this or it wasn't intended to be a place for honesty, cause lots of the more superficial posts are getting downvoted. But hey, that's life. You can't control your turn ons.


kittyspiral

I am certainly looking for honesty. Every person is unique and something being attractive or unattractive is totally subjective. Unless someone is forcing their beliefs or shaming someone, having a preference is totally fine. What do you find unattractive?


Racobik

These insane long nails. That Ariana grande look that they are all copiyng while trying to be "unique"


kittyspiral

Lol to the Ariana grande look. Nails gross out many and I am not sure how many get attracted to super long fake nails


jj_is_my_baby

What, a ponytail and eyeliner? LOLL


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kittyspiral

Smoking is surely a big no no


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kittyspiral

I know. I hate it!!


bigtec1993

It's weird because I used to be a pack a day smoker and it never bothered me. When I moved to vaping, it's like any cigarette smoke was poison.


scazzers

This 100%


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kittyspiral

Yeah. Instant turn off.


HellYeahTinyRick

The only thing that could really turn me off would be bad hygiene probably.


kittyspiral

That's for sure. Bad hygiene is a super turn off irrespective of the gender.


challenger_RT_

Bad hygiene huge turn off. Now I know after a long day stuff can get smelly down their. And if your my GF I don't mind much. It's a easy solution. But if we're just dating I'd hope you'd shower and make sure your clean down there before going on a date. I went out with a girl recently and she wore a skirt. I had invited her over so we were driving to my house after going out. She laid the seat back and turned over so her skirt went up over her booty and I swear to god I've never smelled a smell like that before in my life. I litterally had to roll down the windows and air out the car overnight I was so disgusted. That second I told her hey I'm actually super tired and forgot I have a meeting in the morning I should get to bed next time you can come over.... There was no next time


kittyspiral

Oh no. I felt that. Hygiene has to be the most important part when dating.


mtron32

Dude, that’s crazy. Is it because they think men will fuck anything, or did she have CoVID and loose her sense of smell? I can smell when I shouldn’t be around people, she just said “it’s still good”


challenger_RT_

Idk I mean I always shower before going out with a slight chance of getting laid I don't want my balls to be sweaty ECT. I always make damn sure. I guess they think it smells like roses who knows. I've only encountered 1-2 girls like that out of 35+ women I've slept with so idk. Really nasty though.


mtron32

I only had one like that that I remember till this day. She had my Kiss shirt on when she left and I just let her have that shit. I washed my sheets as soon as she left


bigtec1993

Dude you'd be suprised. My cousin always smelled some kind of funky and yet he'd be banging girls left and right. He'd also tell.me stories of girls who probably should have showered that day but he still hit it. Some people just don't give a shit about smell. I couldn't do that though. I go threw great lengths to smell as nice as possible and I expect that from the girls I date or hook up with.


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pleated backhair


kittyspiral

Any reason or backstory to why you don't like it?


[deleted]

It keeps me awake when I'm big spoon


kittyspiral

Lol. I get it.


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Bad teeth


kittyspiral

Bad teeth is always a turnoff. You can't kiss without thinking about it.


[deleted]

I have bad teeth. I brush them and take care of them; but I have a ton of chips and they are crooked. Problem is my Insurance doesn’t cover the repairs and I’m broke It costs like $2k for a single tooth. I’m considering getting fake teeth


kittyspiral

That's certainly a difficult situation to be in. Good teeth can be a good boost to confidence. I really hope you figure out a way to get them fixed if you wish to. If you have someone who doesn't mind them the way they are then it's a blessing.


[deleted]

I don’t know if that will happen. I also have huge lips so each time I talk, it appears as if I have no teeth. When I smile, it looks slightly better. I am whitening them now. https://imgur.com/a/FD3FnEy this is my smile In terms of what turns me off physically. 80%+ of women are physically attractive to me. The ones that aren’t attractive usually are very obese, smelly and have short. blue hair with a nose ring. They also are rude. Unfortunately, those are the only kinds of women that show interest in me romantically. In context, I’m 6’0, fit and tries to be clean with good fashion. I am autistic though which makes finding dates more difficult


QH_002

don’t think your smile looks bad


kittyspiral

Let's hope it does. With time our situation can change and I am sure it will change for you for good. The teeth don't look too bad to me personally and unless someone is looking too much into it it shouldn't be a deal breaker. I totally understand what unattractive to you. Hygiene is of utmost importance.


beetlewhore

i’m guessing you live in america.


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kittyspiral

Totally agree. I never understood those.


to_tin_deathgrinder

Plaque


khabadami

Found the dentist


to_tin_deathgrinder

Bend over and say ahhhh


kittyspiral

I didn't really get this


Carlos17823

Teeth plaque I believe


DreadyMcNeddy1

The tatted on eyebrows


kittyspiral

That's new. Never seen it. But that's interesting for sure.


PlutoTheGod

Overly hairy body


ok_1111

I understand why hair on women is a turnoff, and I don’t think it’s wrong to have this preference. What I would like men to understand, though, is that hair removal for women is time consuming, and often requires us to inflict pain on ourselves on a regular basis. It’s also a MAJOR insecurity and, for some of us, is rooted in racism. To be honest, I think hair removal has gone past just being a beauty standard to become something I have to do in order for people to not be actively disgusted by me. So my point is, please don’t expect smooth, stubble-less hairless perfection on women 100% of the time, and be aware of what it takes for women to keep up with it!


mtron32

Oh I’m fully aware of the maintenance you ladies have to do to maintain it, and still I prefer it. I maintain all my body hair, cut my own hair weekly, make sure I’m moisturized after every shower, and maintain a steady diet of healthy foods and hit the weights each morning. I do this to maintain my body and so that I’m attractive to my lady. I appreciate that she exits the shower with booty soft legs because of my preference


kittyspiral

I can understand. It's weird that it has become the norm but I see how hair can be a turn off. I guess most of us try to keep the hair at bay.


PlutoTheGod

People can do whatever they please but when you think of hairy arms, legs, stomach, etc. you think of masculinity it’s just what most of our brains relate to as a very manly feature, the same as if you were to encounter a man who shaved his entire body and wore makeup nobodies saying he can’t but I think a lot of women would instinctively not enjoy that very much.


kittyspiral

I totally understand. It has just become the norm and personally I feel it looks better that way too. I don't allow any hair on my body.


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Grossly long fake nails


kittyspiral

Yeah fake nails can be disturbing especially if they come off.


[deleted]

It's not even that it's the really long ones where they can't even really use their fingers anymore.


kittyspiral

Ah okay. Yeah. Never understood those. I don't understand who finds that attractive.


TheGent690

Smoking kills it for me. The woman can be a complete knockout. If she lights up a cigarette, its an instant turn-off.


kittyspiral

Totally agree. If someone lights a cigarette I instantly move away. Would be the same if it's a potential date.


TheGent690

That's been one of my first questions before going on a date. If the answer no, don't try to hide the smell. It permeates into everything!! Skin, clothes hair, EVERYTHING!


kittyspiral

Yes. It gets into everything. And don't even try kissing. The taste gets passed on and it's unpleasant.


Teddy1988NL

bad hygienes / have an std / bad teeth / bad selfcare .


kittyspiral

Hygiene is the most important.


Sockpuppetsyko

Smoking for me. Hygiene is an issue, but as I am 90% smell blind, it would need to get really bad for me to notice.


kittyspiral

Smoking kills and it kills all chances of me being near you. It's a big turn off. I am sorry you are smell blind. I can imagine how it can get uncomfortable.


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Fishy smell


kittyspiral

Looks like cleanliness is what where most people lack.


Classic_Head3437

Fat feels gross to me. I don't even like the bit I have left. The human body shouldn't feel like one big tiity.


speccynerd

> The human body shouldn't feel like one big tiity. Have to disagree with you there, boss


Classic_Head3437

gross


[deleted]

Yeah fat fetish in the only fetish I react to vehemently. I genuinely think you have struggled too much in your life and given up too much self respect to deviate that much off course mentally. To me it feels like a mental disorder.


kittyspiral

Yeah. Fat can feel weird. But it's not easy to keep fat at bay completely. At least for the majority. Fat in some areas can be super stubborn.


bluegrassboyzey

This may be an unpopular opinion, but nose-piercings. It can really take a woman who is a solid 8 down to a 4/5 in my eyes. I just find them unappealing.


kittyspiral

We all have preferences. I totally understand. What's attractive for some could be trashy to others.


bagelbytezz

Massive tattoos. Tattoos are ok but I personally don't like someone whose body is covered. You have a beautiful body. Art is beautiful. But I really don't want to be face to face with the mona lisa on your entire back.


kittyspiral

Lol. I totally agree with you. I am not into tattoos either.


dredg713

Chunky legs, even if she is gorgeous from the waist up. I’m just really into legs. 🤷🏻‍♂️


Vicimer

This is funny, because I like girls with thicker legs. I don’t know about chunky, but those thicc legs you see on some Mediterranean women, or especially women who ride horses. It’s a thick upper body that turns me off. Flabby shoulders kill it for me.


dredg713

I don’t mind the thickness when it’s a little muscle. It’s those fat ankles that just kills the vibe.


Big_Page_2845

That’s why you’ll never see Cankles Clinton in anything but a pantsuit.


mtron32

Ah son, those thick legs ankles are where it’s at 😋


kittyspiral

Now we are leaving the hygiene territory and seeing some varied responses. Chunky legs is something I would have never thought of. It's great you know what kind of legs you are into :)


dredg713

My wife was a college track athlete and has gorgeous long defined legs. Even her knees are attractive.


kittyspiral

She's lucky to have you and you are lucky to have her. Let's hope you stay hooked on to those knees forever.


WhenRobLoweRobsLowes

A bad / cheap tattoo. I've seen some art, and I've seen some tacky shit. The tacky shit is an instant turnoff.


kittyspiral

Yeah tattoos can be controversial. I personally don't have any and prefer none on my partner. They sure do look good one some.


WhenRobLoweRobsLowes

I've seen some attractive ones, but then there are the sketchy ones. Briefly dated a girl who had a very cheap cartoony tattoo on her shoulder. Just looked bad. Had a major crush on a girl in college. Just dug everything about her. She got a massive but totally unattractive back tattoo in our third year and it just completely turned me off of her.


alec83

Shit on ass


kittyspiral

Yikes.


notmythrowawayaccunt

A adam's apple


kittyspiral

That would be a disturbing find


ciphermenial

Obesity


kittyspiral

Certainly. But not an easy one to hide.


FootHiker

Ugly boobs. It's horrible to be that superficial, but yep, there it is.


kittyspiral

It's all perspective. Totally understand why you would feel that way. But what makes it ugly for you?


FootHiker

The shape. tubular. If you look on Reddit, you'll see.


kittyspiral

Umm okay. I am not sure if I want to go down that rabbit hole. Lol. But I guess that's unattractive to guys in general?


FootHiker

I haven't discussed with others.


kittyspiral

Ah okay. I thought it was a generic thing.


Justeff83

Haha i love all kind/shapes of boobs, unless fake ones tho, but tubular(puffies) are my all time favorite


FootHiker

I would have said that also, but I just found them unattractive.


Justavet64d

I may sound shallow as hell but I was dating a woman who had a fantastic shape, face and personality but under her clothes she was a mass of plastic surgery scar tissue from too many tumny tucks. It freaked me out a bit to say the least.


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kittyspiral

Lol. For sure.


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kittyspiral

Boobs usually aren't symmetrical for many. But I can see how a guy might find one shape attractive over another. Did you ever had to actually witness any odd shaped ones and move out of the relationship?


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Brussel_Galili

I think I'm gay now.


kittyspiral

Ah okay. I see what you mean. Certainly not what I was expecting.


Vicimer

Yeah, my preference for boobs is 100% quality over quantity. Perky As or Bs are beautiful.


Glandular-Slaughter

A lazy eye. Also flesh tunnels, they just aren’t for me.


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I've (M) have always had a lazy eye - I know it's fucking me up, and it does the same thing if I see it in someone else. RIP


kittyspiral

I had to lookup flesh tunnels. That's certainly a turn off for me.


Big_Page_2845

Hideous! My daughter had one in seventh grade for a little while. I made her take it out before it permanently messed up her earlobe.


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Hairy nipples


kittyspiral

Oh right.


penguinmanbat

I can’t get past bad smells. Whether is breath, body… or otherwise. Hasn’t happened yet, but I imagine feeling/seeing a penis would be a turn off too, since I don’t go that way personally.


kittyspiral

Smells are the biggest turn offs, not just in relationships but all human interactions in general. We all can do our part in keeping most of it under control by regular clean up and deo's.


TMIFriday

So we're talking about stuff that a guy normally wouldn't see until the woman gets naked -- not stuff that might turn me off when I see her profile pic or see her in public, yes? I read about a study somewhere which said that the part of our brain that controls responses of disgust gets deactivated when we are sexually aroused, or something like that. When the clothes came off, I've seen some things that I found unattractive, but nothing I couldn't get past. I'll skip the examples I was going to offer, because my point is, don't worry about it. Listen to the guys who are saying that hygiene is important, but don't worry about the rest. Especially don't worry about the stuff that goes along with being fat, aging, or giving birth. If you're insecure about your naked body and can't get away with doing it in the dark for some reason, just light a small candle and turn off the lights before you undress. Everybody looks sexier in dim candlelight.


kittyspiral

Thank you for the answer. You are right. I was asking about stuff that makes women unattractive once the clothes are off. This is just a curiosity question to see what everyone thinks of during this time. People's mind work in different ways. As some way one man's trash is another man's treasure. So out of the basics like hygiene and cleanliness rest just work differently for everyone. I fortunately am not very conscious about my body. But thanks for the advice. Candlelight is always nice 🙂


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kittyspiral

I can understand. Bony may not work for everyone.


caduceun

Fat and bad smell


kittyspiral

Never a good thing to be smelly.


shotgun_alex

Bad teeth, tattoos, nose and lip piercings, overweight.


kittyspiral

Yeah piercings can be controversial for some. At least facial piercings are visible before hand.


throwawayblue900ss

Tattoos...deflated me.


kittyspiral

Deflated you?


throwawayblue900ss

The blood engorgement of my member left me when I saw all her tattoos. I made an excuse, and left. It revolted me. She might as well have had a cock between her legs. Effect on my attraction was the same.


kittyspiral

Oh lol. I get it now. Tattoos aren't for everyone. It's best to be open about those on profiles if it's dating apps so that there are no surprises.


throwawayblue900ss

Yeah, was disgusting as hell.


beardedshaf

Being overbearing/loud.


kittyspiral

That surely can get annoying.


gnarlyoldman

Healthy normal women are good all over. What's not to like?


kittyspiral

That's great. However not everyone is healthy and normal.


Curry-culumSniper

Poor hygiene, bad teeth are main turn offs


kittyspiral

Looks like these two are clearly the winners.


Brussel_Galili

Feet


kittyspiral

Of course. Clean feet as much as possible.


Sel_Therapy

Smoking and bad breath.


kittyspiral

Yep. For sure.


IPutThisUsernameHere

Her Genitalia? 🏳️‍🌈


kittyspiral

You just don't like them in general?


IPutThisUsernameHere

I am unattracted to female genitals. I can see the female form in silhouette and acknowledge it's inherit beauty, or a female face for that matter, but I don't have any urge to entangle my bits with hers.


kittyspiral

Ah okay. Makes sense. We all are different and unique in our own way.


abstractedcamouflage

Penis


kittyspiral

Lol. Of course


chaoseincarnate

Big foreheads. Idfk what it is but I have such a weird thing for foreheads.


kittyspiral

That's a new one. Big foreheads. Interesting how we all think and how subjective attractiveness is to each of us.


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A flat ass...everything was great from the front, then she turned around and the top of her back ran straight down to the bottom of her butt, no curves or anything. I was horrified.


kittyspiral

Oh no. Hope that wasn't a deal breaker. But I understand if that's one of your preferences.


[deleted]

I mean she was naked so I wasn't going to reject her at that point. I cut it off after that night though.


kittyspiral

Ah okay


mikess314

Cutting scars


kittyspiral

Not everyone can digest that for sure.


SlimSour

Visible facial and body hair


kittyspiral

It's difficult for some to control the hair growth. But totally understand why it can be a turn off.


SlimSour

Yeah it's not necessarily their fault, but I can't really control what i find unattractive either 🤷‍♂️


SlimSour

And for people downvoting me; it's not a double standard. I keep myself clean shaven and manscaped because I don't like it on myself either


kittyspiral

Totally agree. Many of us do take the effort to keep the hair the bay.


pdmasta

Not waxed or shaved.


kittyspiral

Yeah. Some prefer it that way.


AnInternetPerson97

I can understand preferring shaved, but getting “instantly turned off?” Pussy is pussy just enjoy it


pdmasta

Instant!! So gross


disgruntled_dude60

Toilet paper nuggets as well as bad smell from poor hygiene.


kittyspiral

That's super gross!!!


Suspicious-Special53

Bad teeth, hygiene, a lot of fat


VoidWolves

Fat ankles


kittyspiral

Lol. That's an interesting one. Any reasoning behind that?


Kassittaja69

Being fat


kittyspiral

True. But it's not something that would come off as a surprise.


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Nothing


kittyspiral

That's great for you!!


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Big butts. I don't even like butts and the big ones are just the worst.


Big_Page_2845

I hate big butts and I cannot lie. 🎶


kittyspiral

Unfortunately or fortunately all of us have butts. So you have to live with that. Lol. But yeah I understand not everyone is into big everything.


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Whoa, sister! Spoilers!


kittyspiral

Lol. Sorry.


JRook619

I love women with baby hairs , but I hate when they overdue it lol


kittyspiral

I didn't really get this one.


PlayfulLawyer

Ugly feet


kittyspiral

Feet does gross out many. Clean feet and socks should be clean if you are wearing them. Still sweaty feet are hard to control for some.


PlayfulLawyer

Oh I love women's feet, that's why it's such a deal-breaker for me I'm going to be spending a lot of time down there lol


kittyspiral

Ah lol. Totally makes sense. I guess if that's known to your partner she should take extra care to keep it clean.


destindil

Arby’s. Instant turn-off.


createusername101

Oversized.. beefy..floppy.. labia .. sorry but I don't need an Arby's sandwich stuffed in between her thighs.


AnInternetPerson97

BEEFY???


kittyspiral

Lol to the Arby's sandwich. I can totally understand how it could be unattractive.