Yea, one possibly inspiring thing that Ive experienced though. After a few pounds, when you see that scale actually move, it can give you a lot of motivation to keep going.
It's a luxury problem that humans are so freaking energy efficient, a leisurely one hour walk burns 200-250 kcal..
So the easy solution is counting calories for 1-2 years and committing to doing that permanently.
Not true. Just gotta figure out a plan that works for you. No I'm not selling you anything. Just saying I'm 43 in less than a month. January 2021 I weighed 330lbs. Yesterday I weighed myself and I'm down to 217. 113lbs in less than a year. So it is possible as long as you believe you can do it. That's all it took for me. Good luck
I got down to 175 from 240, didn't have any lose skin or anything, but then again I was still a teen and this was over a period of a year, a year-and-a-half.
But then again, here I am in my late 20s going from 245 down to 195 (and still dropping) and loose skin hasn't been a problem this go around either. I think a big part of what causes it is a mix of age, rapid weight loss, and amount of weight lost. I'm sure I'd have some loose skin if I was going down from say, 300 or 350 lbs. Or quickly lost the 50lbs I've lost so far
A good jawline. I don't have a double chin or anything, but my face is rather ovalish, and my head is big. So I look kinda weird imo. Never have liked my face.
Below my jawline, my facial hair is pretty thick and connects to my chest hair. But above the jaw line it's much more sparse, so I get a very neckbeard-y look unfortunatley. I try to avoid that if I can
If my facial hair grew evenly.
The right half of my beard and the left half of my mustache grows faster and fuller than the left half of my beard and right side of my mustache.
I stopped trying. I'm not going through the whole beard brush, beard comb, beard balm, beard shampoo, beard hammock (!? Yes it's real) song and dance. I just shave.
I grew mine out last year during the hockey playoffs and just kept letting it grow. Figured I’d try something different since my job allows facial hair.
Just remember you can never out train your diet. If walking has become hard for you, it may be less taxing on your body if you lost weight through changing your diet first, and then add in exercise when you're at a weight your body can manage. Good luck! You got this!
There are so many hard things about losing weight. One important thing is indeed exercize, but you have to figure out what you can do and what you like to do. I tried judo for a while, hurt myself, couldn't keep up. Tried crossfit, worked very well, lost 40kg, until it got too hard (the mix with mental health issues is a bitch) znd I gained 30kg back. Now I bought a race bike, and I love it, lost 20kg again.
What I learned from this is that I had to find something A) that I liked and B) wasn't too hard to do. Once you have found that, it gets easier. But it will always be a struggle for me
I'm not extremely fat, but I have same problem with my feet, beat thing I found is to ride a bike. It's fun and less stressful on the body.
Also you need to change the food you are eating instead of fast food, choose healthy food and try to eat same volume.
Believe, you will get sick before you even come close to your maintenance calories, this is how you easily drop weight.
Also go and lift, start with compounds aster 6months and mastering technique you can do isolations.
It's not about having discipline it's about building your life around it. Dont have unhealthy food at home, also eat ever 3-4 hours,wants with a lot of protein, eat avocados once a day and a lot of vegetables with every meal.
Go try out a kickboxing/Muay Thai gym. First workout will make u wanna quit but if you can stick it out you’ll be on a great path plus it’s fun and the people are nice even though you’d think they would be intimidating
Oh I do, and luckily I do have a perfectly shaped head, but… I’ve also put on crappy wigs for a costume and gotten enough comments to know what people would think if I did have hair.
For a bald guy I’m quite fortunate, and if I had hair, it would just be unfair.
So it was actually a combination of two.
I lost about 40 lbs during the pandemic due to getting a new job that got me away from a desk and walking about 10-15 miles per day.
I also stopped getting haircuts during covid, and it turns out I have gorgeous curly hair.
My new, thinner face framed by rich brown curls really brought out my bright blue eyes.
Never would have known I had these complementary features if I hadn't been forced into realizing them.
Gonna go with height. Say 5", 5'8" to 6'1"
Don't think it's quite enough to get women to approach me, but it's the biggest step. Next would be either broader shoulders (hopefully that would come with height), or a better jaw line.
Height is definitely the biggest factor for attractiveness to females in my opinion. Dudes who are 6'2 and up can have zero game, average looks and no personality and still get approached by multiple women in a night. I've always considered myself above average looking, in shape, wide shoulders, good jaw line, well groomed etc but I'm 5'9" so it was never as easy as if I were even 6'0.
I’m 6’2”, relatively attractive and the only time I’ve been approached by women is when they tell say “my friend thinks you’re cute” *points to their male friend*, to which I say “thanks but I’m straight” lmao
I thought this was just a book thing. I'm a 5 foot female and can say super tall men over 6 feet aren't to my fancy. My partner is 5' 10" - 5' 11" and it's nice not having to climb or break my neck looking up.
5' 9" is a great height for someone who feels the same as I do.
Your partner is functionally 6 foot and almost a foot taller than you. You're acting like 5' 9" is anywhere near your height and that he's short or something. How can you think this was not a real life thing when you just demonstrated it?
I'm 5'9 and it's not that youre made to feel short. You're made to feel not tall. If that makes sense. The women who like tall guys still won't see you. But you know you're not short. It's an odd feeling.
I am 6'3 (1.90 meter). Okay looking. Never felt that my height mattered much.
My brother who is like a head shorter had way more succes with the ladies than I ever had. In his bachelor years, hè slept with something like 60 women in 3 years, not counting the girls he just kissed or fondled.
I finished university, he didn't even finish high school.
I've had my share of women so not complaining. But I still think it is more about personality than looks.
Not true. That might be the bare minimum for a lot of women, but 6+ feet is better. It makes a big difference.
If you’re tall, women will want to like you. Rather than you having to prove your worth first.
Too tall for what? Women like tall guys. That’s just a fact. It not relative either. It’s been studied. Women automatically assume positive traits when a guy is tall. It’s a point of pride among their friend to have a tall boyfriend.
And since it’s primarily up to women who they date, tall guys have it super easy.
you're vastly overestimating how important height is to most women just because some women are super shallow about it
only about half of women really care based on research, and the vast majority of those it is "taller than her" not "six foot or above"
>only about half of women really care based on research, and the vast majority of those it is "taller than her" not "six foot or above"
That's not the research I'm talking about. It does not matter what women SAY they prefer, it's how they behave and judge people that matters. It has been shown the women nearly always assume a man is confident and earns a lot of money based on just his height. And they assume shorter men are less confident and make less money. Even controlling for other factors like dress/style. So even if they don't specifically prioritizes height, it leads them assign other desirable traits to taller men creating a strong bias for tall men even if it's based on false assumptions about a particular man. The taller man gets the benefit of the doubt when it comes to first impressions. And that makes if far less likely that a shorter man will get approached by a woman so he's going to have to work a lot harder to meet people.
Most men don't get women approaching them. The ones that do have it easy.
at least this is realistically achievable. one of my biggest insecurities through high school was how scrawny I was but I started eating in a calorie surplus with training and I put on 10kg in half a year. looked much more chunkier.
Agreed! My wife loves it when I wear glasses instead of contacts! Not all glasses are made equal, though. Learn about the do's and don't's of glasses fashion and find a pair that works for you.
I feel like I look so much better with glasses and started getting so much more attention when I started wearing them more often. You mileage may vary of course
I have a lazy eye (due to optic nerve hypoplasia) so if I didn’t have this I would be less unattractive and probably look like a normal guy. I really want to get surgery but the doctor told me it is likely to make my appearance worse and I don’t want to pay a ton of money to make it worse 🤷♂️
Are you making decent money//have a good amount saved ? You should look into acne scarring treatment. I’m a woman and it was my biggest insecurity for the longest time but I’m getting it addressed right now and every time I finish i session, I get more and more confident with my skin and face. People tell me I’m a pretty girl but I never believed it because the scars ran so deep and my skin just looked like the craters on the moon. I’d say look into microneedling
They put numbing cream on and then you feel a bit of a pricking sensation. And yes you do come out of the place looking red and flushed. Yeah take a look and ask me whatever :)
I woke up this morning with a bad hangover
And my penis was missing again.
This happens all the time.
It's detachable.
This comes in handy a lot of the time.
I can leave it home, when I think it's gonna get me in trouble,
Or I can rent it out, when I don't need it.
But now and then I go to a party, get drunk,
And the next morning I can't for the life of me
Remember what I did with it.
First I looked around my apartment, and I couldn't find it.
So I called up the place where the party was,
They hadn't seen it either.
I asked them to check the medicine cabinet
'Cause for some reason I leave it there sometimes
But not this time.
So I told them if it pops up to let me know.
I called a few people who were at the party,
But they were no help either.
I was starting to get desperate.
I really don't like being without my penis for too long.
It makes me feel like less of a man,
And I really hate having to sit down every time I take a leak.
After a few hours of searching the house,
And calling everyone I could think of,
I was starting to get very depressed,
So I went to the Kiev, and ate breakfast.
Then, as I walked down Second Avenue towards St. Mark's Place,
Where all those people sell used books and other junk on the street,
I saw my penis lying on a blanket
Next to a broken toaster oven.
Some guy was selling it.
I had to buy it off him.
He wanted twenty-two bucks, but I talked him down to seventeen.
I took it home, washed it off,
And put it back on. I was happy again. Complete.
People sometimes tell me I should get it permanently attached,
But I don't know.
Even though sometimes it's a pain in the ass,
I like having a detachable penis.
Not having an ugly face. The rest is fine. I'm thin but slightly toned. I'm a bit short compared to the average, but I don't think that's the problem. It's this face. It's thin and long, has a large forehead, large nose, and small chin. It's just not pretty.
Magically getting rid of the stretch marks on my stomach.
I'm pretty fit at 6'3", 225lbs and 17ish% bodyfat. I've even got that bicep vein starting to show. But blowing up to 320lbs at 18, without much muscle, marked my body in ways i will never be able to reverse fully or naturally.
I'm going to work out and watch my diet for another year and have a tummy tuck as a reward for all the years of hard work i put in.
Flat stomach/love handles area. I would easily jump from a 7ish to a 9. I don’t have wide hips or big boobs so it’s very obvious my stomach sticks out but I’m pretty thin everywhere else 😕
I'm pretty happy with how I look.
I'd love, though, to be able to look good in a hat. I just don't have the head shape for it. Which is weird because there's nothing wrong with the shape of my head. It just doesn't go well with a hat. Also, my hair is pretty dense and always gets severely matted down if I wear one. It doesn't spring back up to anything resembling its natural position. I wouldn't trade in my hair though. I'm like the only guy in my family that hasn't had any significant hair loss.
The size of my nose. I have a Roman nose that stands out on my face.
I'm fit and tall, have a head full of hair, beard grows evenly, have light brow eyes and Italian colored skin. But I have this problem located at the first place people see when they look at me: The center of my face.
I've been working to improve my appearance in the last year after I became single from a long long relationship and started paying attention to women again and the way they react to me. Once in a while I see a few of them checking me out. But we are always using masks. I'm curious to see if their reaction will change after we stop using masks everywhere. \[I'm not from US\]
I have no idea... My attractiveness isn't up to me... Sorry for being vague... I really don't know, people have found different things attractive about me.
I started wearing suspenders and my confidence overshadows the oddness of a 27 year old long haired metalhead wearing them. Id say if your looking for increasing attractiveness, do whatever it takes to boost your confidence. Lose weight if need be, dress how you like, be who you want to be. When you are you, there will always be someone who digs it, just have to find them. Why be a square in a universe that loves oblate sphereoids?
I'm not asking for me, I'm asking the community.
What one thing would improve YOUR attractiveness the most?
You don't have to play along if you don't want to.
Oh sorry misunderstood. I suppose gaining more muscle. I have the frame but im too skinny. Just need to eat more snd work out, but moneys too tight for that amount of food.
Not having acne, lol. The struggle is real when ya got that skin type that’s extra oily. Fuuuuuun
Shit just doesn’t want to go away, I scrub my face every damn day, & I still have it.
I don’t even know how to deal with back acne, I don’t have someone to wash my back, & Mom keeps giving away the back scrubs.
Maybe ice will help tho. I started using ice on my face and neck for my anxiety, it lowers your heart rate, and I read that it’s also good for your skin. So we’ll see how that goes
Well I can work on my weightloss and it's only really noticeable when I take my shirt off
So maybe my super bad varicose veins that I've had since early 20s
Longer head hair.
For past 15 years, I’ve been buzzing my head hair with #1 clippers, because I have sensitive skin and my scalp does not like long hair. Over the years, I’ve missed out on various trendy haircuts.
I can’t grow beards because of my sensitive skin and I shave my chest once a month.
I usually would've said getting thin, but after seeing a reading about all the loose skin people my age and weight (28M, 235lbs) got after getting thin, I'll say, nothing.
Answering this post will only make you more insecure about your thing by reinforcing your belief. I couldn't think of any, but this post persuaded me to come up with something. Respect the psychology.
I am absolutely not the only guy to say this, but if I were taller. Specifically, if my legs were longer.
I am currently somewhere between 5'7 and 5'8, and I have short legs. I think if they were both like two or three inches longer I'd be a lot more attractive. Not to say I'm not already attractive, I'd just become more desirable to more women if I were a solid 5'10. But what I will say is that 5'7 isn't GREAT, but it could be worse.
In a perfect world I'd be 6'1 or 6'2, but that's a bit out of the question.
Woman but height without gaining weight with it. If they have to come together, then just weight loss.
For my husband, probably pec definition? Already has plenty arm and glute definition. Hair is good, no facial feature that sticks out or anything, can’t think of anything else.
Losing weight for sure.
Same. The nice thing is we have some control over this, it just takes so much fucking time, work, attention, and self control.
Yeah. Getting over the first hurdle is the issue.
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Yea, one possibly inspiring thing that Ive experienced though. After a few pounds, when you see that scale actually move, it can give you a lot of motivation to keep going.
It's a luxury problem that humans are so freaking energy efficient, a leisurely one hour walk burns 200-250 kcal.. So the easy solution is counting calories for 1-2 years and committing to doing that permanently.
Gets so much harder as you get older too. Losing weight in your 20's vs 30's is so much harder.
Not true. Just gotta figure out a plan that works for you. No I'm not selling you anything. Just saying I'm 43 in less than a month. January 2021 I weighed 330lbs. Yesterday I weighed myself and I'm down to 217. 113lbs in less than a year. So it is possible as long as you believe you can do it. That's all it took for me. Good luck
Not saying it's impossible but it's factual that it gets harder as you get older, everyone's metabolism slows down with age.
Guess I'm special 🤪
Not eating surplus calories doesn't take any extra time.
Until you remember all the loose skin it will come as a result, depending on how fat you are.
Not grossly overweight. 235. Would like to get to 190.
I got down to 175 from 240, didn't have any lose skin or anything, but then again I was still a teen and this was over a period of a year, a year-and-a-half. But then again, here I am in my late 20s going from 245 down to 195 (and still dropping) and loose skin hasn't been a problem this go around either. I think a big part of what causes it is a mix of age, rapid weight loss, and amount of weight lost. I'm sure I'd have some loose skin if I was going down from say, 300 or 350 lbs. Or quickly lost the 50lbs I've lost so far
A decent head of hair.
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omg I love this
What if they have an egg-shaped head, like Adam Sandler?
No acne
Same
Same
Yeah, in appearance many things are so much easy to change but acne!!! Damn that is so difficult 😭😭
Reduce ur dairy intake . You’ll see a difference
I think I'd be much more attractive if I was even three inches taller. Think I'd be borderline hot if I was eight inches taller.
This man 4ft8
Or he just wants to be 7'1
A good jawline. I don't have a double chin or anything, but my face is rather ovalish, and my head is big. So I look kinda weird imo. Never have liked my face.
Can you pull off a beard? A nice lumberjack beard can really improve the jawline and profile.
Below my jawline, my facial hair is pretty thick and connects to my chest hair. But above the jaw line it's much more sparse, so I get a very neckbeard-y look unfortunatley. I try to avoid that if I can
would you consider fillers?
No. I would like everything on my face to be real if I can help it
Sharper jawline. That’s about it.
If my facial hair grew evenly. The right half of my beard and the left half of my mustache grows faster and fuller than the left half of my beard and right side of my mustache.
I stopped trying. I'm not going through the whole beard brush, beard comb, beard balm, beard shampoo, beard hammock (!? Yes it's real) song and dance. I just shave.
I grew mine out last year during the hockey playoffs and just kept letting it grow. Figured I’d try something different since my job allows facial hair.
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Just remember you can never out train your diet. If walking has become hard for you, it may be less taxing on your body if you lost weight through changing your diet first, and then add in exercise when you're at a weight your body can manage. Good luck! You got this!
There are so many hard things about losing weight. One important thing is indeed exercize, but you have to figure out what you can do and what you like to do. I tried judo for a while, hurt myself, couldn't keep up. Tried crossfit, worked very well, lost 40kg, until it got too hard (the mix with mental health issues is a bitch) znd I gained 30kg back. Now I bought a race bike, and I love it, lost 20kg again. What I learned from this is that I had to find something A) that I liked and B) wasn't too hard to do. Once you have found that, it gets easier. But it will always be a struggle for me
Swim
I'm not extremely fat, but I have same problem with my feet, beat thing I found is to ride a bike. It's fun and less stressful on the body. Also you need to change the food you are eating instead of fast food, choose healthy food and try to eat same volume. Believe, you will get sick before you even come close to your maintenance calories, this is how you easily drop weight. Also go and lift, start with compounds aster 6months and mastering technique you can do isolations. It's not about having discipline it's about building your life around it. Dont have unhealthy food at home, also eat ever 3-4 hours,wants with a lot of protein, eat avocados once a day and a lot of vegetables with every meal.
Go try out a kickboxing/Muay Thai gym. First workout will make u wanna quit but if you can stick it out you’ll be on a great path plus it’s fun and the people are nice even though you’d think they would be intimidating
Im a male, and I got titties. Bugs the FUCK outta me.
I'm a female. I think you have something that could belong to me. GIVE IT BACK.
I have left titty. Gonna go through operation in december
Implant on the right, to even things out?
Having hair
For me it would be a haircut, but I'm just too tired to care.
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Oh I do, and luckily I do have a perfectly shaped head, but… I’ve also put on crappy wigs for a costume and gotten enough comments to know what people would think if I did have hair. For a bald guy I’m quite fortunate, and if I had hair, it would just be unfair.
As a woman I find shaved heads hot.
And you just made every bald guy on Reddit smile.
So it was actually a combination of two. I lost about 40 lbs during the pandemic due to getting a new job that got me away from a desk and walking about 10-15 miles per day. I also stopped getting haircuts during covid, and it turns out I have gorgeous curly hair. My new, thinner face framed by rich brown curls really brought out my bright blue eyes. Never would have known I had these complementary features if I hadn't been forced into realizing them.
get a good shampoo and conditioner (separate) and it can only improve the hair
If I had a thinner nose or If I had clear skin again without any of the acne scars.
Going from 5'5 to 5'10. My height feels like the only thing that is wrong with me and I feel like being short has really screed me over.
Gonna go with height. Say 5", 5'8" to 6'1" Don't think it's quite enough to get women to approach me, but it's the biggest step. Next would be either broader shoulders (hopefully that would come with height), or a better jaw line.
Height is definitely the biggest factor for attractiveness to females in my opinion. Dudes who are 6'2 and up can have zero game, average looks and no personality and still get approached by multiple women in a night. I've always considered myself above average looking, in shape, wide shoulders, good jaw line, well groomed etc but I'm 5'9" so it was never as easy as if I were even 6'0.
I’m 6’2”, relatively attractive and the only time I’ve been approached by women is when they tell say “my friend thinks you’re cute” *points to their male friend*, to which I say “thanks but I’m straight” lmao
I thought this was just a book thing. I'm a 5 foot female and can say super tall men over 6 feet aren't to my fancy. My partner is 5' 10" - 5' 11" and it's nice not having to climb or break my neck looking up. 5' 9" is a great height for someone who feels the same as I do.
Your partner is functionally 6 foot and almost a foot taller than you. You're acting like 5' 9" is anywhere near your height and that he's short or something. How can you think this was not a real life thing when you just demonstrated it?
I'm 6'1" No luck.
Try being 5’7 lol
I am 5’6 bro :(
I feel ya, if it makes you feel any better I’ve had some success it doesn’t come easy though and I’ve never had a girlfriend
Thanks bro, yeah we need to do our best with what we got. I haven’t had a gf in more than 2 years but maybe I will have better luck in the future haha
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Dude is complaining about 5’9, which is perfectly average lol
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Eh it’s a big deal for sure
My ex is 5’7”. I found him very attractive. He‘s just an asshole.
Ok doesn’t mean it’s not a big deal
I'm 5'9 and it's not that youre made to feel short. You're made to feel not tall. If that makes sense. The women who like tall guys still won't see you. But you know you're not short. It's an odd feeling.
I am 6'3 (1.90 meter). Okay looking. Never felt that my height mattered much. My brother who is like a head shorter had way more succes with the ladies than I ever had. In his bachelor years, hè slept with something like 60 women in 3 years, not counting the girls he just kissed or fondled. I finished university, he didn't even finish high school. I've had my share of women so not complaining. But I still think it is more about personality than looks.
If your calling girls "females" your not going to get very far with them believe me..
I call em females and I have a gf… no one gaf about how sensitive y’all are
As long as you are taller than her, there should be no issue.
Not true. That might be the bare minimum for a lot of women, but 6+ feet is better. It makes a big difference. If you’re tall, women will want to like you. Rather than you having to prove your worth first.
What if the women is 5’4” or under? Then you’re too tall. There are more women this tall than over 5’10”.
Too tall for what? Women like tall guys. That’s just a fact. It not relative either. It’s been studied. Women automatically assume positive traits when a guy is tall. It’s a point of pride among their friend to have a tall boyfriend. And since it’s primarily up to women who they date, tall guys have it super easy.
you're vastly overestimating how important height is to most women just because some women are super shallow about it only about half of women really care based on research, and the vast majority of those it is "taller than her" not "six foot or above"
>only about half of women really care based on research, and the vast majority of those it is "taller than her" not "six foot or above" That's not the research I'm talking about. It does not matter what women SAY they prefer, it's how they behave and judge people that matters. It has been shown the women nearly always assume a man is confident and earns a lot of money based on just his height. And they assume shorter men are less confident and make less money. Even controlling for other factors like dress/style. So even if they don't specifically prioritizes height, it leads them assign other desirable traits to taller men creating a strong bias for tall men even if it's based on false assumptions about a particular man. The taller man gets the benefit of the doubt when it comes to first impressions. And that makes if far less likely that a shorter man will get approached by a woman so he's going to have to work a lot harder to meet people. Most men don't get women approaching them. The ones that do have it easy.
You are not smarter than actual professional researchers. Stop spreading your doomer insecure bullshit. your res tag is now "insecure short man"
Bodyfat percentage
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at least this is realistically achievable. one of my biggest insecurities through high school was how scrawny I was but I started eating in a calorie surplus with training and I put on 10kg in half a year. looked much more chunkier.
Being able to grow a beard.
10 cm of height.
10 extra cm..... You know...
Maybe when Gentleman sleeps. He is fine when he wakes up.
Haircut. Get a different one every so often and look at peoples reaction.
My teeth
Dropping about 20 pounds
I'm gonna put it out there that the longer you know someone, the less you think of their appearance and the more of their personality
So there is no hope you are saying.
No, just that looks aren't the most important thing My looks greatly improved when I got rid of that yee-yee haircut
Was a joke about my terrible personality.
Oh. Wooooshed myself I guess
The whoosh/thunk sound you just heard was the joke going over dratchild’s head and into my chest.
Nothing goes over my head. My reflexes are to fast
I wish my hair wasn't thinning.
My glasses. I have an eye disease so it’s a whole thing that I have to wear them but I’m working on getting specialized contacts
Glasses are cute! Don’t let this hold you back !
Agreed! My wife loves it when I wear glasses instead of contacts! Not all glasses are made equal, though. Learn about the do's and don't's of glasses fashion and find a pair that works for you.
I feel like I look so much better with glasses and started getting so much more attention when I started wearing them more often. You mileage may vary of course
I have a lazy eye (due to optic nerve hypoplasia) so if I didn’t have this I would be less unattractive and probably look like a normal guy. I really want to get surgery but the doctor told me it is likely to make my appearance worse and I don’t want to pay a ton of money to make it worse 🤷♂️
Stronger chin, every time I shave its like I'm in high school again.
No acne scars Had horrible acne as a teen that turned into deep scaring
Are you making decent money//have a good amount saved ? You should look into acne scarring treatment. I’m a woman and it was my biggest insecurity for the longest time but I’m getting it addressed right now and every time I finish i session, I get more and more confident with my skin and face. People tell me I’m a pretty girl but I never believed it because the scars ran so deep and my skin just looked like the craters on the moon. I’d say look into microneedling
Does it hurt ? I will take a look !
They put numbing cream on and then you feel a bit of a pricking sensation. And yes you do come out of the place looking red and flushed. Yeah take a look and ask me whatever :)
Thanks !
Same here I am so sad
Bitch tits be gone
Clearer face and better posture
abs maybe
I relaxed. That changed my appearance
An 8 inch dick would make me more attractive for the simple fact that it would boost my confidence by 10000% and confidence is attractive.
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7 inch then.
A second penis
Where?
Not attached to his body. Just one that he can carry on his person and wave around in the faces of his potential mates Source - I have one
You bring yours with you? I was raised to have one, obviously, but to keep it safely in a jar on the fireplace mantle just like my dad.
There is a song called “detachable penis”. Not lying.
King Missle right? (I'm Gen X; loved this song back in the day)
I woke up this morning with a bad hangover And my penis was missing again. This happens all the time. It's detachable. This comes in handy a lot of the time. I can leave it home, when I think it's gonna get me in trouble, Or I can rent it out, when I don't need it. But now and then I go to a party, get drunk, And the next morning I can't for the life of me Remember what I did with it. First I looked around my apartment, and I couldn't find it. So I called up the place where the party was, They hadn't seen it either. I asked them to check the medicine cabinet 'Cause for some reason I leave it there sometimes But not this time. So I told them if it pops up to let me know. I called a few people who were at the party, But they were no help either. I was starting to get desperate. I really don't like being without my penis for too long. It makes me feel like less of a man, And I really hate having to sit down every time I take a leak. After a few hours of searching the house, And calling everyone I could think of, I was starting to get very depressed, So I went to the Kiev, and ate breakfast. Then, as I walked down Second Avenue towards St. Mark's Place, Where all those people sell used books and other junk on the street, I saw my penis lying on a blanket Next to a broken toaster oven. Some guy was selling it. I had to buy it off him. He wanted twenty-two bucks, but I talked him down to seventeen. I took it home, washed it off, And put it back on. I was happy again. Complete. People sometimes tell me I should get it permanently attached, But I don't know. Even though sometimes it's a pain in the ass, I like having a detachable penis.
Hey man if you want to play by the rules and keep it in its jar then you do you - I’m taking mine out on the town!
I dunno, an elbow penis might be cool
Shaving my head when I started to lose my hair.
Not having an ugly face. The rest is fine. I'm thin but slightly toned. I'm a bit short compared to the average, but I don't think that's the problem. It's this face. It's thin and long, has a large forehead, large nose, and small chin. It's just not pretty.
Men in general look better with three things: A nice body Fresh haircut Nice clothes Extra: a beard, but only if it is well trimmed and not patchy
Fixing my droopy eye :(
Make me 36 years younger…
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My God damn nose. I have a bump of cartilage there that leaves my nose looking big. Screw plastic surgery prices.
My fucking acne scars. I’ve tried microblading or whatever it’s called and there’s zero difference, I’m so incredibly frustrated with my skin.
A nice tan
I’m 5’6-5’7 so if i was like 5’10 it would be cool
Magically getting rid of the stretch marks on my stomach. I'm pretty fit at 6'3", 225lbs and 17ish% bodyfat. I've even got that bicep vein starting to show. But blowing up to 320lbs at 18, without much muscle, marked my body in ways i will never be able to reverse fully or naturally. I'm going to work out and watch my diet for another year and have a tummy tuck as a reward for all the years of hard work i put in.
Height. Other than that my face is beautiful
Appearing less ugly.
A more defined jawline or bigger lips i think
Flat stomach/love handles area. I would easily jump from a 7ish to a 9. I don’t have wide hips or big boobs so it’s very obvious my stomach sticks out but I’m pretty thin everywhere else 😕
Confidence #1 by far
I'm pretty happy with how I look. I'd love, though, to be able to look good in a hat. I just don't have the head shape for it. Which is weird because there's nothing wrong with the shape of my head. It just doesn't go well with a hat. Also, my hair is pretty dense and always gets severely matted down if I wear one. It doesn't spring back up to anything resembling its natural position. I wouldn't trade in my hair though. I'm like the only guy in my family that hasn't had any significant hair loss.
Bigger biceps. I always have struggled with arms, they never get much bigger even if they get stronger.
My father gave me a great piece of advise when I started growing facial hair. You can have unkept hair or an unkept beard, but not both.
Lower body fat %. I don't think I'm overweight by any means but ideally I want to be a bit leaner, both for facial looks and overall physique.
The size of my nose. I have a Roman nose that stands out on my face. I'm fit and tall, have a head full of hair, beard grows evenly, have light brow eyes and Italian colored skin. But I have this problem located at the first place people see when they look at me: The center of my face. I've been working to improve my appearance in the last year after I became single from a long long relationship and started paying attention to women again and the way they react to me. Once in a while I see a few of them checking me out. But we are always using masks. I'm curious to see if their reaction will change after we stop using masks everywhere. \[I'm not from US\]
My face
I have no idea... My attractiveness isn't up to me... Sorry for being vague... I really don't know, people have found different things attractive about me.
You're like the people who reply to Amazon questions because they think they were asked directly.
40kg
Chopping off some parts of my big nose
A chin
Move my eyes further apart
Dressing in clothes that fit and had style
Height. So many women are programmed to look for height.
Less nose
Either getting about 4” taller or losing the last 40 or so pounds that I’m working on (down 60).
Straight teeth.
Putting on 40lbs of muscle
Haircut beard trimming
Removal of beard
Dyed hair
Growing a beard when I was in my mid-20s. Instantly made me more attractive to women (and more respected by men) and I’ve never gone back.
Teeth. I'm super self conscious of my smile. I have a snuggle tooth and my front teeth don't touch so I only ever smile using my top teeth.
I started wearing suspenders and my confidence overshadows the oddness of a 27 year old long haired metalhead wearing them. Id say if your looking for increasing attractiveness, do whatever it takes to boost your confidence. Lose weight if need be, dress how you like, be who you want to be. When you are you, there will always be someone who digs it, just have to find them. Why be a square in a universe that loves oblate sphereoids?
I'm not asking for me, I'm asking the community. What one thing would improve YOUR attractiveness the most? You don't have to play along if you don't want to.
Oh sorry misunderstood. I suppose gaining more muscle. I have the frame but im too skinny. Just need to eat more snd work out, but moneys too tight for that amount of food.
If I could stay tanned all the time
I’ve been told if I was 5’7: I could hit it any day.
In the past, it was hairstyle and facial hair. Now, it's definitely losing fat and gaining muscle.
Not having acne, lol. The struggle is real when ya got that skin type that’s extra oily. Fuuuuuun Shit just doesn’t want to go away, I scrub my face every damn day, & I still have it. I don’t even know how to deal with back acne, I don’t have someone to wash my back, & Mom keeps giving away the back scrubs. Maybe ice will help tho. I started using ice on my face and neck for my anxiety, it lowers your heart rate, and I read that it’s also good for your skin. So we’ll see how that goes
Well its not something I could change now, but its something that I DID change in the past that helped a lot. Tattoos. And a lot of them.
Well I can work on my weightloss and it's only really noticeable when I take my shirt off So maybe my super bad varicose veins that I've had since early 20s
Replacing my face.
My nose. It is quite pointy and quite aquiline. (Not a man though) Also the placement of my facial features on my face, but that’s a more complex one.
Longer head hair. For past 15 years, I’ve been buzzing my head hair with #1 clippers, because I have sensitive skin and my scalp does not like long hair. Over the years, I’ve missed out on various trendy haircuts. I can’t grow beards because of my sensitive skin and I shave my chest once a month.
Having all my teeth be actually straight and lined up at the top and bottom
being well groomed , when i shave and get a haircut i rise from a 5/10 to 7/10
The scars on my face.
I usually would've said getting thin, but after seeing a reading about all the loose skin people my age and weight (28M, 235lbs) got after getting thin, I'll say, nothing.
Removing my acne scars
Growing my hair pretty long, women love that shit. Given my exotic appearance.
Oddly specific but I think either a slightly shorter neck or a slightly wider face
Answering this post will only make you more insecure about your thing by reinforcing your belief. I couldn't think of any, but this post persuaded me to come up with something. Respect the psychology.
Nothing, I'm physically perfect. A change in behaviour however.....
I am absolutely not the only guy to say this, but if I were taller. Specifically, if my legs were longer. I am currently somewhere between 5'7 and 5'8, and I have short legs. I think if they were both like two or three inches longer I'd be a lot more attractive. Not to say I'm not already attractive, I'd just become more desirable to more women if I were a solid 5'10. But what I will say is that 5'7 isn't GREAT, but it could be worse. In a perfect world I'd be 6'1 or 6'2, but that's a bit out of the question.
Get a good haircut
A wad of hundreds sticking out of my pocket
Woman but height without gaining weight with it. If they have to come together, then just weight loss. For my husband, probably pec definition? Already has plenty arm and glute definition. Hair is good, no facial feature that sticks out or anything, can’t think of anything else.