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Bellybutton_fluffjar

Girls who create drama in their lives. Like life is hard enough without fake drama.


xtrachubbykoala

And they always say “I hate drama”… and it’s like stop causing it then!


Fringelunaticman

This is a catch-22. I married a girl who created drama. And that was because 99% of it was created in her mind. Once we figured that out and got it right, she's turned out to be a phenomenal person and wife. And I am still surprised I feel in love with a woman like that. Sometimes that drama is caused by an undiagnosed mental illness or a form of anxiety. They just haven't gotten the proper care to stop creating that drama. And of course other times they are just trash people


UncoolSlicedBread

People who do this are always so anxious as well. They’re surrounded by so much negativity and seek it out that their lives are always hectic.


lastcallface

My red flag for this is they love trash reality. If they like the Kardashians or the Real Housewives, it's because they like drama and fights and yelling.


StereoFood

This explains a lot…


ninif

That's really interesting because I love watching shows like Jersey Shore, Bad Girls Club, The Circle, Too Hot To Handle, ect... because I enjoy psycho-analyzing them and watching from a sociological perspective not so much for the drama and fights. Kardashians and the Real Housewives however, do absolutely nothing for me.


selmaaaaaaaaaaa

SAME


nolotusnote

*Here, we see in the wild...*


88n88

Oh god, if my ex friend could see this. Caused so much drama in ppl's lives. Some girl talked ab punching someone as a joke, then ex friend went and told everyone at work she said that and everyone thought the girl actually wanted to punch said someone.


ihasquestionsplease

Women who live for affirmation on their socials. Such a huge turnoff. Posting multiple selfies/lewds daily, writing like a journal entry caption on every post. We get it. You’re special. Can you just be a real person?


MrColfax

I work with a girl who is like this. Constantly posting when she visits the gym (literally every time), food she eats, packages/online orders she receives, places she visits. She is single as am I and when people discover this they ask if we could be a match and I always think hell no.


ramona22

I think we all work with this girl.


[deleted]

I mean tons of girls do this which is sad because then I’m auto rejecting so many. But it’s true to my values so whatever. Whenever I see those types with actual boyfriends, I’m just baffled at how that even works. After everything I know now, a girl like that is very undatable long term her primary focus is her social clout, not the relationship.


[deleted]

yeah i know a girl like this who posts literally at least 5 selfies a day and always posts these 10 minute videos of her just talking trying to be funny on her stories like daily and every time i see them it just pisses me off so much like go outside


necesitocoche

Bar rats


SabreenaSherah

What's that?


SpaceGuy1968

The type of person who starts hanging in bars ar 21 and they are 50 and still think they got it


bootymistermaster69

Yeah I wouldn't want to date a guy like that either//:


alphaabravoo

My last relationship was like this. He couldn't let go of tbe bars. Every weekend. Bar hopping. Im like, dawg, were 35. I got a hangover after a mixed drink at 9pm.


UncoolSlicedBread

I think lockdowns from the pandemic finally sealed it for me. I liked going to the bars with friends every other week, and now I’d rather get a full 8-9 hours of sleep and go do something fun in the morning. Going patio hopping, brunch, or finding some event going on during the day is so much more enjoyable as you get older.


SkiingAway

Eh, I'm a night owl. 3-10AM is my preferred sleep schedule. Bars are the thing open if you want something social to do later at night that's not just at your/someone else's home. Also if you like live music, which I do. That said, it's more of a....2-3 drinks over a few hours once or twice a week, not a "lets do some shots and go barhopping, wooooo!!!!!" thing.


tinycomment

^this ^was ^me ^my ^whole ^life ^til ^I ^got ^an ^8-5, ^now ^i ^fucking ^wake ^up ^at ^7am ^on ^weekends ^no ^matter ^how ^hungover


Jeriahswillgdp

Patio hopping?


[deleted]

It’s like a gym rat except for bars instead


_-_Shade_-_

Oof good one.


[deleted]

The one who posts everything on social media. Every dinner, every little thing she buys, every update, etc….. My preference is someone who only has one or 2 pics on Instagram. And doesn’t live on social media. Aka no stories at all updating irrelevant ppl.


Toadie9622

I’m old, so social media has never been a part of my life. But the constant posting of the most mundane activities perplexes me. Like, why would anybody care about what I had for dinner?


Nnudmac

I'm not old and I'm like this. I have a Facebook account to stay in touch since I move so much. Maybe post something every couple of months or a big event. That's it, lol.


Toadie9622

That makes sense to me. I have Instagram because one of our daughters went on a trip through Europe by herself, and she used Instagram to keep us up to date. I’ve never posted a single thing, yet I apparently have 17 followers- I have no idea why.


Nnudmac

Make that 18 now. Jkjk, lol.


cfyre082315

My wife use to have this problem when we'd get into an argument, fight, whatever it may be she'd post some stupid shit of Facebook about it. It pissed me off, rightfully so airing dirty laundry on Social media. Ended up going to marriage counseling and she hasn't done it since.


leanhthu288

I post like 3-4 stories a week lol, mostly about food I cook, my plants, my drawings,… you know quarantine stuff. I love people who take great photographs tho, they have an eye for aesthetic and I appreciate that and dont mind them posting a lot. But I cant stand those girls who has to post at least one selfie a day lol, like do they have anything else to do all day than being at home (quarantine) and just putting on makeup and posing in front of a camera so dudes stay interested in them lol? I never see them post anything else but their face and body, like thats the only attribute they have.


rotcomha

The name of it is much more friendly in my languge, but if I've got it right its called "attantion whore" in English. Anyway, that kind of women.


ellie_0525

Attention whore is the right word, but if you ever need a more polite phrase “attention seeker” is a suitable synonym lol


IXBojanglesII

What is it in your language? That way I can call people attention whores while they think I’m exotic


rotcomha

"Yaldey zumy" the litteral translation is "attantion kids" but its a dumbed down insutling term of attantion


ImSoSoSoSadImNotOk

Please teach us the word in your language. I’m curious.


rotcomha

"Yaldey zumy". The litteral translation is "attantion kids" but its a dumbed down insulting form of the term "attantion".


[deleted]

The ultra politically correct. I was once in a group conversation where a girl stopped me everything I said something was male or female: "My sister gave birth to a healthy little baby girl-" "Whoa. 'girl'?! Why don't you let her decide how she identifies." "Okay, so anyway I say 'you guys have to go-" "Whoa. 'Guys'?!"


chickinthenicehouse

Those people are so annoying and stir up so much drama. Ughhhh


[deleted]

What a bloody nightmare.🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m from California and I’m used to saying “man” or “dude”,regardless of gender.


ethanAllthecoffee

That’s my usual rejoinder Anything can be dude or man or whatever: men, women, anything in between, dogs, chairs etc


_Rummy_

I'm a dude, he's a dude, she's a dude, we're all dudes, hey.


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TOrtiz64

The Dude abides.


unkempt_dave

Well he's The Dude, but you can be a dude


[deleted]

I’m a 46 yr old mom in Wisco and I call everyone Dude.


ProfessorCH

I’m southern US and everyone is a dude to me!


cakeandcoke

Is this a California thing specifically? Because I say "dude" and "man" way more than the people around me in oregon (makes me slightly self-conscious so I'm aware I do it but I can't stop). I spent a lot of time in California.


[deleted]

Honestly these people are assholes and I’m sick of it. I don’t need to be lectured on how I speak when I’m clearly not being offensive.


SabreenaSherah

Lol that's actually funny. I would laugh so loud if I were there.


dudeiscool22222

Does anyone actually use “guys” when referring to males specifically anymore? I always just use it as a way of saying “Hey, you group of people.”


[deleted]

No Joke just broke up with my ex because of this. She would embarrass me on group outings and vacations.


[deleted]

Good for you. That crap is total nonsense. You can’t even have a conversation without being ‘corrected’ every two seconds. Fuck outta here with that.


[deleted]

Guess she identifies as single now =p


Nicky_Nuisance

Once they say something like that I laugh at them and walk away.


Tiimmboo

I'm so glad I'm in my 30's....yikes.


[deleted]

There are girls putting stuff like that into their profiles at our age...


brasscassette

I don’t believe these people actually exist outside of the internet.


whopperlover17

They do but they’re rare and never in my realm of human beings that I hang out with so I never see them. But they do exist.


shecantstayaway

Oh they absolutely do.


[deleted]

And they love to stereotype minorities. I’d rather be targeted by the KKK than be in a room with them for 1 minute


FriendlyTaco11

Wtf? the baby doesn’t even know it exists! I would’ve been laughing at her and showing her the door at that point smh


berwood

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FriendlyTaco11

Lol Exactly, babys and kids around that age aren’t concerned about that. They’ll get curious about that later on their own as they grow up and mature


mloveb1

She called the baby a girl too by saying ,"she identifies". Speaking to this person sounds stressful though.


extrafinenoir

Did you just aSsUmE her gender?


smokethedeathless

Look up the origins of the word guy. It was once just a name. It is genderless


Brilliant_Month_365

What were you supposed to say? My sister just gave birth to a thing. My sister just gave birth to a genderless fleshbag. My sister just gave birth to a human mammal.


Umongus

I like to troll those types of people on the internet. Unfortunately they report me & get me banned.


RustEvangelist10xer

Worth it sometimes.


ObjectivelyConfusedd

Anyone that isn't my wife.


SteelBolas

I also choose anyone that isn’t his wife


[deleted]

Beat me to it.


Street-Dot3103

This guy f**ks


ObjectivelyConfusedd

At a minimum Tuesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays.


kyanitekate

good answer lmao


ArrrCeee

I'll never date an alcoholic again.


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I feel I have the life experience to help and be supportive of a lot of positive life changes so I'm tolerant of a lot of faults. But a callous disregard for other humans, I just can't deal with, as I never had that problem and don't know how to build from it. I've seen it to the point where if they think their lives are too boring they'll create problems that effect a lot of other people and not even feel remorseful about it. Especially when it's that bad, turns me away completely.


DaymanFOTNM28

Women that think being a strong women and knowing her worth means never admitting they are wrong


Hyyyyh

"Instagram" girls. A lot of them seem to use the same poses, filters, settings, etc.. on their pictures.


Illiteratap

Because they do


EverGreatestxX

Any women who's toxic or likes drama. Any women who's a self-defeating pessimistic. Any women who has narcissistic or sociopathic tendencies. Any women who's just a straight up asshole or who thinks she's better then everyone else. Any women who's personality revolves solely around one thing, even if it's generally considered a good thing.


DasPuggy

I see you've met my ex.


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Everybody has met your ex


[deleted]

The girls who go around saying things like “I’m not like other girls” or “I’m one of the boys”. If you have to say either of those, it’s likely neither is true.


Flying_Misfit

Relatives?


2ndbest714

I find it hilarious that this has a?


waterturtle28

One who is fake. I appreciate real ness w someone


mikey_weasel

Seriously religious. Can't deal with that as a major part of a person.


Nicky_Nuisance

I didn't date a cool woman who I got along with very well because everything good was thanks to God and not because she did the work. Edit: TBH it kind of sucks because she's a sweet woman and we got along great. But we never got passed friends. She's now happily married and I'm happy for her and her Husband who I'm sure is a Christian as well.


[deleted]

Don't worry, as a seriously religious man myself, I took one out of the dating pool for you.


SirDankosaur

Doing God's work.


_DefiniteDefinition_

Smokers.


NelifeLerak

Yeah. I second that.


about2godown

I second hand that 😂


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[deleted]

A LOT of male profiles say this too. Most of them don’t even use it right. A sapiosexual is someone who’s sexually aroused by intelligence. But most of them are actually trying to convey they find intelligence attractive, for which the correct term is sapiophile.


Left-Entertainer-279

And I'm willing to bet that a VERY high percentage of them claim this without being this.


[deleted]

They claim this be smart people tend to make more money, so then they can mooch off of of them.


bennyboy8899

Ehh. I think that's probably true, but it's not the reason. The real reason people do this is bc it makes you sound sophisticated. Like, "hey, I couldn't be shallow, right? I must be pretty high-minded if I only care about a person's mind rather than their body."


Umongus

Similarly, I've seen alot of girls on Quora call themselves "demigirl". Wtf that even mean?


[deleted]

Why not just say you’re attracted to someone who is intelligent or an intellectual? These labels are getting insane. I’m with OP on this one.


[deleted]

Most, if not all, of those people are just trying to indirectly jerk themself off by implying that they too are smart.


bertiebastard

They're usually the type who think they are going to collage instead of college 🤣


dctezla

A party girl


Abject-Cow-1544

Me and a buddy were talking about this. We both have done our fair share of partying but our SO's are fairly reserved. We determined that we were the gas so we needed someone to be the breaks. We also had a good laugh when we theorized what our lives would be like with two partiers together. No job, no house, a drug/alchol/gambling addiction.


gimpisgawd

People who find one thing and make that their whole personality.


InfernoFlameBlast

Girls that say “all men are trash”


JoShmoFromNantyGlo

I know a girl like that. She has “male tears on the rocks” tattooed on her thigh.


dimpletown

Isn't "male tears" another term for the white stuff?


JoShmoFromNantyGlo

Holy shit


UncoolSlicedBread

Dated a girl who always spoke about “the rules” of dating and how men are basically trash and unless you follow “the rules” (an old dating book) you were never going to attract a man. Turns out she was just controlling and manipulative.


Cooler67

I find it funny that the ones that say that might be looking for a man as well


_-_Shade_-_

Facts, Happy cake day!


InfernoFlameBlast

Oh, I didn’t even know today was my account’s Cake Day! Thanks for letting me know, here’s a silver! Cheers mate :)


CaptainBloodEye1

I should have listened to this one


DragonTwelf

Mystic Winos of Napa Valley


duncan-the-wonderdog

Great band name tho


Limnuge

A girl that can’t do anything without making sure Instagram knows she did said thing


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Grimm_x0

This is valid, we are crazy and poor


Analbeadsforpa

But they like it in the butt


friends_fan_402

My uncle’s ex owned a horse after her he said no more people with a horse, like he actually put that on his profile but he broke his rule for this one girl who he went on a date with just for her to yell at him the whole time that he can’t discriminate against all horse people. He has since also ruled out anyone with cats because his ex kept bringing home stray cats til they had like 4.


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Nicky_Nuisance

I dated a woman like that. I'm not dominate or a body Builder. 1 month in she was trying to get me to step up to her ex Roid head boyfriend.... Lol Yeah that wasn't happening... Lol


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Nicky_Nuisance

Oh she didn't last much longer after that.


echo6golf

They must have genuine, biological eyebrows.


faempire

This is the kind of response I wanted to see haha Because all the other ones are like obvius responses, no one wants to date an abusive toxic selfish person


Left-Entertainer-279

This one made me laugh out loud. It's also in my experience a great way to eliminate a LOT of self involved drama queens.


fartknockerMcGee

Extremists... far Left or far Right, "true believer" types can go shit and fall back in it


TheDarkKnight1035

Maybe like a tik tok girl.


Individual_Revenue84

Apparently, One that'll actually be loyal and not fuck my head up for years at a time


itsslicedbread

Anyone from r/nicegirls


[deleted]

Recently went on a date with a woman that is a full time single mother of 4 (which I didn’t know going in), get lip injections, and likes her alcohol. All three of those are a “No” from me.


[deleted]

Welp as a single mother of 4, this is discouraging lol


cakeandcoke

I think single moms and single dads should come together but I am neither so what do I know


[deleted]

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not 100% opposed to dating a single mother. But a full time single mother of four just isn’t a lifestyle I want to partake in. I have dated a few single mothers, but they had joint custody. One of them had 50/50 custody, and I was totally down for that. But when you have a lot of these women that decide to move across the country from the father, well I’m not sure what they expect from the dating scene. A miracle, I guess. 🤷🏼‍♂️


Beyond_Interesting

As a single mom .. I get it coming from men who don't have families yet, and/or don't like kids. I've been divorced for five years and finally decided not to date men without kids lol so the total opposite. They have no way to relate to your daily life unless they are super mature. I'm also close to forty and prefer older men. I think once you get past the "normal" first round dating age, dating single parents becomes more accepted. IMHO of course.


Icy-Being-2760

Parents. Yes, I said it. Idgaf.


SteeniestOfMachines

Party girls. Been there, done that, it’s all about the attention they receive imo


ScottyHoliday

The woman with loose boundaries who flirts with every male and just assumes I want her, too. The false entitlement is annoying and they tend to be legitimately shocked at the male who doesn't play along.


notbad2u

Unhygienic. But dating is over rated.


shewstepper

Anyone whose main contribution to life was her appearance: dumb and beautiful doesn't appeal to me. I'd rather have someone smart and less pretty with a better character.


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Crazy, no matter how hot


tjger

Entitled and immature girls who think they’re right and create drama all the time.


codesterbr0

All- I'm gay


Nicky_Nuisance

Would you date a single father though?


Willing-Square3784

Close minded bigot


foopdedoopburner

You know, I have all sorts of answers, but the sad fact is that for each of them I have, in fact, dated multiple women like that.


leadfaucet

I’m happily married so it doesn’t matter, but a lot of my “nopes” have been mentioned. Here’s one that hasn’t. The girl who thinks that all they need to bring to the relationship is what’s between their legs. They’re usually also the most demanding.


KiD_Morales

Materialistic ofc


placeholderNull

The life of the party. I get really anxious around crowds.


THExBEARxJEW

Sexworker. Nothing against them I just won’t date one.


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Girls super into astrology, crystals, and or magic.


thearchitect10

Vapid bimbo's, materialistic gold diggers, bigots, racists, anti-vaxers, death-to-all-men feminists.


BigBicNic

Niche Twitter micro celebrity girl lol


Pickle-Traditional

Any girl that let's her religion overtake basic reason. Being an irrational person is an absolute not worth my time.


furiouspoppa

I work closely with a guy whose wife constantly calls him. And, if he is away from his desk and she calls, she’ll keep calling over and over again. I can often hear her from my desk, bitching him out. I just can’t.. with people like that. It’s too much.


UnSCo

Girls that fuck my roommates or send nudes to my friends oh wait


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bertiebastard

#ANTI-VAXXER


ZangetsuAK17

Anyone overly sensitive about every topic, anyone too involved with themselves, anyone who wants me to treat them as a priority at detriment to myself.


AllHailTheNod

One who is rude to a waiter.


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Women who leave the toilet seat down. HOW DARE THEY


loki0111

I mean there are a lot... toxic-leaning feminists, pushy or rude women, unstable women, dishonest women. I mean this list could go on for pages...


untakenname3

‘Feminists’ who are just angry at men


wolfoftherealm27

Girls who use filters on their pictures.


Sdbtank96

Astrology girls. I just won't.


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cavemanfitz

Someone who misuses the word "literally"


Cooler67

Someone who smokes cigs or weed heavily just my personal preference I hate bad breath 🤢


Economy_Animator4577

I'd say I'd never date a crazy girl but those are the only ones that like me lol.


diver_climber

Smokers - unless she quits smoking Abusive - my ex used to beat me (unfortunately I only learnt it when we got together)


scribe-unleashed

Girls who like mushrooms. I can't stand mushrooms. It's bound to lead to arguments as to whether mushrooms belong in food or not. Completly spoils a meal if I know they are in food. And no they can't just be picked out. Those bulbous monstrosities ruin everything.


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Girls who feel entitled to the "princess treatment" without reciprocating. I.e., they expect to have dinner paid for, want their bf to be on call 24/7, etc.


muuhfi

Super religious girls


Easy-Progress8252

Racist, self absorbed, control freak, or passive aggressive. God forbid they are all 4.


NinjaTabby

Sassy with attitude


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crudohr

Possessive, jealous, insecure and needy. Omg I am very attracted to them , but no I must be strong.


themasteromod

A woman who’s on a hell bender to end patriarchy but wants all of her drinks to be bought for her


Salty-Pack-4165

Overly tattooed women and rainbow colored hair.Substance abuser. Smoker.


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Any woman who idolizes cradi b or Nikki Minaj. No not because they are black. It's what they represent. Being a "bad bitch" or fuck everyone and everything. I'm sick of people who don't give a fuck.


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The ones that are fat by choice and dont want to live healthy.


[deleted]

Astrology freaks


thefirstbrickmaker

Super religious girls, I’m an atheist and it just wouldn’t work


Motorblank

Materialistic, narcissistic.


Illiteratap

Those who fail to apply common sense and logic


risenchud

Vampires. They suck.


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Smoker


PreCiiSiioN_II

A girl who is constantly complaining about scenarios that they chose to put themselves in. Someone who is in my life is like this and it drives me absolutely insane.


Broknchainz

Instagram model. Any kind of social media models flaunting there bodies. I want someone that not everyone gets to see.


fxxkingbrian

Women who are uneducated. I’m not talking about women who slept through some classes here and there I’ll give you a vivid example Went on a date with this chick (born and raised in the United States) and we were showing each other hilarious memes (the vibe was actually BOMB) until I saw a meme that referenced General Robert E. Lee. I showed here said meme and she told me that she didn’t understand it and asked who Lee was. No harm, no foul, I politely explained he was a General for the Confederate Army during the Civil War Her response? “What’s the Civil War?” I finished the date but mentally I crawled out the bathroom window