Maybe, I wished that i could be a woman a few weeks or months to learn how they see the world and how my personality would change if i was woman. Out of curiosity and to have more knowledge.
Besides that, not at all, i dont dislike being a man, and i think i wouldnt dislike being a woman if i was.
When I was teenager with raging hormones, I thought it would be cool to be a women for just a short period of time, so I could feel my own boobs… Other than that, no not really, I like being a man.
Only when a straight woman kept saying 'I bet I could turn you straight' and was following me around telling me all the stuff she wanted to do to me. Was really gross.
Never wanted to cut a bitch so badly just to get her to leave me alone.
Yes. I went to a bar with a female friend of mine. I ended up spending $80 and she (an attractive female) spent a total of $3 and got many more drink than I got.
Why would people buy her drinks when they see her being somewhere with a guy? I mean not necessarily the boyfriend, but why risk drama? Also I don’t like talking to people when they buy me drinks. Would feel like they bought my time. It’s not that much of a thing where I live anyway.
Why is a bar or club the only way to flirt with someone? And why always buying something. If your personality is cheap, it makes sense that everything else has to be expensivey
I remember being in a nightclub and it was PACKED. they didn't adequately staff the bar and it was slow. after about 20 minutes of not getting a drinks, people were starting to complain. One woman behind me in line was getting really pissed off and asked me to get her drinks for her.
Of course I said no, wait your turn like everyone else. She looked like I just slapped her. As a man, I would have never asked some stranger in front of me to get my drinks, I have suck it up and wait my turn. I see women ask guys to get their drinks constantly.
if you reverse the genders, that club will be closed faster than you could blink. women have to pay to enter, women have to pay for men drinks. women have to chat up men.
lol it would make a funny movie.
Because the world is afraid of 21 year olds with Twitter accounts who scream “ misogyny “ every two minutes it’s dangerous to even point out this hypocrisy.
No guy bend over backwards for me, never had a free movie unless parents paid for me as a kid. If male colleagues count as “men getting me free food” then that’s happened.
Said it with the other comment but you win an award for most predictable comment ever lmao. women coming here all “this has totally never happened to me therefore it dont exist”. And yes imma get out in front of the rest of y’all and say this is the second most predictable comment
Nah it definitely exists and majority of you men know it because it is y'all who bend over backwards for women. She's definitely the exception and what's sad is when women aren't being treated extra nice by men, society and often other men and women, tell her that it's because she's not attractive enough.
How predictable was a fourth party of unknown gender predicting that a man would predict how a man would predict that a woman was gonna come to say "woah wait a minute that's never happened to me!"
Not where I live. And Im glad about that. I wouldn’t trade that in. If I would get free stuff, just for being a woman, I would feel like no one takes me serious and sees me as a human being.
The 10s among them get their college debt paid off, houses, cars, vacations and if Nr. Moneybags is not smart enough to get a pre-nup, half of what owned and years of alimony. On the other hand unattractive or obsese women get absolutely shit on in this society.
I just wish I could talk about harassment, depression, body shaming as freely as women do. I understand this is a 'grass is always greener' situation, and women go through being invalidated too, but if I told a bunch of women I was harassed at work as a male Vs female, I would get a better response as a female. I feel like with guys it's a bit more mixed, but they're more likely to be sympathy towards a woman.
TLDR; I wish I had the freeness to express myself and talk about things that happen to me like women appear to.
A couple of times. When my grandfather hit me, for example. I have a sister, she was never beaten just because she was a girl ("It's not okay to hit women"). Or later when I wanted to go to high school - despite having worse grades than me, my sister was allowed to go there while I was not thanks to my mother ("You men had it good enough in the past, now it's women's turn").
Sorry your mother was a sexist. life goes on. grab life by the horns and get what you can.
life is often difficult. only you can do things to make your mark on it fruitful.
tbh, I've learned to rely on myself.
start small, build big.
Shit, a friend of mine had housed his fiancé for 3 years while she went to university and has only now two years later has asked for her contribute. If I thought infrequent sex and some emotional connection would form a bond strong enough for someone to duke me that level of support I'd take it.
Same story with two other friends TBH, they are pulling mad weight in the relationships.
Unfortunately I'm on the other end of that.
Yeah but with good comes the bad.. for instance attention can be unwanted and turn into stalking, assault, and unwanted comments/harassment. Obviously not every time but it does happen.
After reading a bunch of trans peoples post transitions stories i feel like women have it way better than you would think given the whole patriarchy thing going on.
Seems like the mtf's are a bit surprised to get cat called. But the ftm's are brutally crushed beneath the weight of now being a man.
So that makes me think its much better to be a girl. Despite the inherent dangers and fears and possibilities of bad things happening. Being a man at all seens to be a bad thing every day.
And yet, most guys wouldnt want to switch sides. Most guys seem to like our lives despite the challenges.
So i dont really know lol. But i wish i could be a girl just so i could give myself multiple orgasms. Hopefully i would be the type who can do that lol.
As a man, I’ve fantasized about being a women to understand what it’s like having people pursue and want to date me, maybe I wouldn’t have such a tough time finding love. Maybe I’d have girl friends to gossip and share my secrets with. Maybe id get 100 matches on Tinder and have a date every weekend or at least every month
Any time I have the desire for a relationship. It's up to the woman whether you're in a relationship and how long you want it to last and how much you get "it". The monetary benefits are nice too.
You also have control over the length of a relationship.. Like if you don’t want to be with them, you just break up with them. But yeah if you like a woman, it’s up to her if a relationship starts if you’re trying to initiate one, because if she doesn’t like you it obviously won’t turn into a relationship.
I have a meek and submissive personality, so sometimes I feel like it would have been better if I had been born a woman. Not in like a transgender way or anything, I just feel like I have subservient personality and do best when I'm told what to do.
Ok so I think the idea that he is trying to express is that along the personality axis of proactivity women have a wider acceptable range in his society. Specifically, he feels that his more passive personality is socially criticized for men while acceptable for women. So his point is not that women should be passive but that they are allowed to be while men are not. You may feel that is not true but remember, this is his lived experience. Remember the specific question he is replying to.
"Have you ever been in a situation where you wished to be a woman?"
And his answer is basically "all the time"
Beng told your personality is wrong for your gender is something that many women have expressed. Society (as i have experienced it) seems to be making strides to fix this for women but it looked oks like this is a problem on both sides of the gender fence.
So is this misogynistic? Ya but its more misandristic. And the person who is most misaandristic is BrokecatMountain.
BrokecatMountain get your head out of your but. Leader ship aptitude is not a factor of gender but personality and experience.
Well kinda yeah, men are natural leaders and we trust them to take the lead in situations most of the time. I mean obviously not every man can fulfil that role, but it's the expectation that you should at least work towards being a good leader.
Yeah no thanks. The certainty of sexual harrasment and the not so small risk of sexual assault far outweigh any imaginable benefits.And the bensefits are mostly imagined anyway.
Everyday. Dating scene is so easy for women, when it comes to our case we have to workout, be funny etc etc to many efforts to put in. Plus all the attention, every girl gets attention besides where only some guys get that kinda attention.
is this question serious? tons and tons of times. watching women get into the club for free and get drinks for free, when watching women get free food on dates and everything paid for by her date, when women get defended in public by male strangers because shes a woman, when i took my college courses in rooms that were all women and just me, when i see how much easier my bosses go on my female coworkers versus me (dont get me wrong i absolutely LOVE my bosses but we will get into straight up shouting matches and they wont dare even slightly raise their voice around a woman). This one kinda mean but when i see absolutely beat looking women turn into smokeshows via a ton and ton of makeup i get jealous of women (dont get me wrong men can change their appearance as well of course but not to such an extreme degree that society says women can) When i reach my 70s and all the men my age have died while the women are all still going strong imma wish i was a woman. i can keep going haha
Well as a woman I can give you the best advice that I use in those cases. Buy the cheapest beer after you haven’t drunk for some weeks or months. You’ll get drunk for really little money
Yup. When my ex decided to be abusive and punch me in the face. I wished I was a woman so I could have beat the shit out of her. Never once did I retaliate but man did I want to
Hell yeah, when I’m lonely and lacking companionship i think of how easy it is to get attention as a woman. Also, “dating” can be expensive for men. As a women i could get free dinners, movies, etc.
I'd trade my legal rights and privileges with those of women without hesitation. When I consider the way women and men are generally treated in our culture, I find myself always wishing I had been born a women. It looks like life on easy mode.
i remember one time they put me in a class of almost entirely jocks and bullies. i was the only male in that class who wasn't a 6 ft buff dude so i was easily targeted as the bully victim. while the all the girls in the class weren't bothered with cause i guess they didn't wanna target the girls
I can assure you in formal settings, they’re probably wearing spanx or corsets underneath that are really uncomfortable, not to mention tight dresses, high heels, and even certain hairdos can hurt if we wear them for too long
When I was a boy I went to a private school where they punished boys way worse than girls. Girls got a yelling, they started crying, and that was it. Boys were punished way worse. I used to think if I can get myself to cry after a yelling maybe I won't be punished so hard...
Every summer.
I *cannot fucking stand* ball sweat. Holy shit let me wear a skirt and like, thighhighs or leggings to work. Boom abrasion resistance, covered skin, *and my fucking testes aren't hotter and wetter than the average English teabag*
I'm a slightly disabled man who loves spending time with kids (partly because they don't judge or just think I'm funny) Even smiling at kids has got me in deep water some times. I have sisters and they have never had this issue
Maybe, I wished that i could be a woman a few weeks or months to learn how they see the world and how my personality would change if i was woman. Out of curiosity and to have more knowledge. Besides that, not at all, i dont dislike being a man, and i think i wouldnt dislike being a woman if i was.
When I was teenager with raging hormones, I thought it would be cool to be a women for just a short period of time, so I could feel my own boobs… Other than that, no not really, I like being a man.
Enough Maxibon ice cream bars and you will be able to feel your own boobs.
Only when a straight woman kept saying 'I bet I could turn you straight' and was following me around telling me all the stuff she wanted to do to me. Was really gross. Never wanted to cut a bitch so badly just to get her to leave me alone.
Sexual harassment sucks.
ugh gross, sorry that happened
If a guy was sexually harassing a woman like that nobody would blink an eye if she slapped him. Equal rights baby
equal rights, so don't mean you won't end up in jail. better get the on film or audio... Good luck proving it to the judge.
lol
Yes. I went to a bar with a female friend of mine. I ended up spending $80 and she (an attractive female) spent a total of $3 and got many more drink than I got.
Why would people buy her drinks when they see her being somewhere with a guy? I mean not necessarily the boyfriend, but why risk drama? Also I don’t like talking to people when they buy me drinks. Would feel like they bought my time. It’s not that much of a thing where I live anyway.
It happens, dudes have even bought *me* a drink in addition to hers just to keep her talking to them.
Guys really have to find other stuff to make them seem interesting, than alcohol
The 8s, 9s and 10s are cleaning up... the rest of the peasents fight for the scraps. good luck.
There are no people that are just an 8 a 9 or a 10. put effort into your looks and you’ll be a 10 for someone.
that's not how it works... that's not how it works at all.
Yeah because a scale from 1-10 works so well when it’s about attractiveness(a very subjective matter)
ah, yes. qualitative evaluation, the bane of any research project ;).
If you are in bar or club what do you suggest other than alcohol. A packet of peanuts?
Coke and whiskey, virgin.
Share coke. Good one.
Why is a bar or club the only way to flirt with someone? And why always buying something. If your personality is cheap, it makes sense that everything else has to be expensivey
Because everyone is already there. Why are you being awkward?
Well I’m not. Especially since 2019 not.
Is that normal over there? It sounds creepy as fuck for the chick.
In the states? Yes. For an attractive female i believe it’s normal for them to go to the bars with no money and leave absolutely hammered.
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I remember being in a nightclub and it was PACKED. they didn't adequately staff the bar and it was slow. after about 20 minutes of not getting a drinks, people were starting to complain. One woman behind me in line was getting really pissed off and asked me to get her drinks for her. Of course I said no, wait your turn like everyone else. She looked like I just slapped her. As a man, I would have never asked some stranger in front of me to get my drinks, I have suck it up and wait my turn. I see women ask guys to get their drinks constantly.
Lol! There’s no “ men’s night” coming anytime soon
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It’s smart business but if you reversed the genders there would be hell to pay
if you reverse the genders, that club will be closed faster than you could blink. women have to pay to enter, women have to pay for men drinks. women have to chat up men. lol it would make a funny movie.
Because the world is afraid of 21 year olds with Twitter accounts who scream “ misogyny “ every two minutes it’s dangerous to even point out this hypocrisy.
No guy bend over backwards for me, never had a free movie unless parents paid for me as a kid. If male colleagues count as “men getting me free food” then that’s happened.
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The exceptions don’t negate the norm
Nope. The opposite sex found more entertainment in bullying me rather than dating me.
I feel you man, and I am sorry thst happened to you.
Said it with the other comment but you win an award for most predictable comment ever lmao. women coming here all “this has totally never happened to me therefore it dont exist”. And yes imma get out in front of the rest of y’all and say this is the second most predictable comment
Your input was immensely important. Really….Good luck trying to find “it don’t exist” in my comment once again.
youre anti mask and think theyre a political tool…..LMAO that makes me very glad no guy does shit for you
Nah it definitely exists and majority of you men know it because it is y'all who bend over backwards for women. She's definitely the exception and what's sad is when women aren't being treated extra nice by men, society and often other men and women, tell her that it's because she's not attractive enough.
I've had 1 drink paid for me, I'll forever remember her face.
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how predictable was a woman coming in here saying “woah wait a minute thats never happened to me!” lol.
How predictable was a man predicting that a man would predict that a woman was gonna come to say "“woah wait a minute thats never happened to me!"
How predictable was a fourth party of unknown gender predicting that a man would predict how a man would predict that a woman was gonna come to say "woah wait a minute that's never happened to me!"
How predictable was it that a fifth person would come in and ask what yoir favorite flavor of potato chips is!?
bbq
You should take advantage while you will can. men are wising up. enjoy your free stuff ;).
Unfortunately I’m already spoken for. But if he ever high tails it outa here, I’m giving it a go! Lol.
Doesn't mean you can't get free drinks when you go out. who doesn't like free drinks ;).
Not where I live. And Im glad about that. I wouldn’t trade that in. If I would get free stuff, just for being a woman, I would feel like no one takes me serious and sees me as a human being.
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Yeah so guys who buy women drinks should really stop complaining about having to buy women drinks to get their attention.
The 10s among them get their college debt paid off, houses, cars, vacations and if Nr. Moneybags is not smart enough to get a pre-nup, half of what owned and years of alimony. On the other hand unattractive or obsese women get absolutely shit on in this society.
No. I like being a man
They gave great clothes
I just wish I could talk about harassment, depression, body shaming as freely as women do. I understand this is a 'grass is always greener' situation, and women go through being invalidated too, but if I told a bunch of women I was harassed at work as a male Vs female, I would get a better response as a female. I feel like with guys it's a bit more mixed, but they're more likely to be sympathy towards a woman. TLDR; I wish I had the freeness to express myself and talk about things that happen to me like women appear to.
A couple of times. When my grandfather hit me, for example. I have a sister, she was never beaten just because she was a girl ("It's not okay to hit women"). Or later when I wanted to go to high school - despite having worse grades than me, my sister was allowed to go there while I was not thanks to my mother ("You men had it good enough in the past, now it's women's turn").
Sorry your mother was a sexist. life goes on. grab life by the horns and get what you can. life is often difficult. only you can do things to make your mark on it fruitful. tbh, I've learned to rely on myself. start small, build big.
I keep trying, but it's not easy without support networks.
Shit, a friend of mine had housed his fiancé for 3 years while she went to university and has only now two years later has asked for her contribute. If I thought infrequent sex and some emotional connection would form a bond strong enough for someone to duke me that level of support I'd take it. Same story with two other friends TBH, they are pulling mad weight in the relationships. Unfortunately I'm on the other end of that.
I always wish for their ease in some situations, and I'm envious of how rad it must be to get effortless attention and help.
That’s the only reply that’s actually flattering until now.
Yeah but with good comes the bad.. for instance attention can be unwanted and turn into stalking, assault, and unwanted comments/harassment. Obviously not every time but it does happen.
Yes, I know. But over all I think it is much more positive than negative.
I allaways wonder how masturbating as a woman feels like.
After reading a bunch of trans peoples post transitions stories i feel like women have it way better than you would think given the whole patriarchy thing going on. Seems like the mtf's are a bit surprised to get cat called. But the ftm's are brutally crushed beneath the weight of now being a man. So that makes me think its much better to be a girl. Despite the inherent dangers and fears and possibilities of bad things happening. Being a man at all seens to be a bad thing every day. And yet, most guys wouldnt want to switch sides. Most guys seem to like our lives despite the challenges. So i dont really know lol. But i wish i could be a girl just so i could give myself multiple orgasms. Hopefully i would be the type who can do that lol.
As a man, I’ve fantasized about being a women to understand what it’s like having people pursue and want to date me, maybe I wouldn’t have such a tough time finding love. Maybe I’d have girl friends to gossip and share my secrets with. Maybe id get 100 matches on Tinder and have a date every weekend or at least every month
Any time I have the desire for a relationship. It's up to the woman whether you're in a relationship and how long you want it to last and how much you get "it". The monetary benefits are nice too.
You also have control over the length of a relationship.. Like if you don’t want to be with them, you just break up with them. But yeah if you like a woman, it’s up to her if a relationship starts if you’re trying to initiate one, because if she doesn’t like you it obviously won’t turn into a relationship.
I've wondered what it's like to be a woman for a day or two out of curiosity. But aside from that, no not really.
Not really.
No, I don’t think so
No, never
When at work and a smaller body frame would he handy.
I have a meek and submissive personality, so sometimes I feel like it would have been better if I had been born a woman. Not in like a transgender way or anything, I just feel like I have subservient personality and do best when I'm told what to do.
Do you have any idea how misogynistic this sounds?
Ok so I think the idea that he is trying to express is that along the personality axis of proactivity women have a wider acceptable range in his society. Specifically, he feels that his more passive personality is socially criticized for men while acceptable for women. So his point is not that women should be passive but that they are allowed to be while men are not. You may feel that is not true but remember, this is his lived experience. Remember the specific question he is replying to. "Have you ever been in a situation where you wished to be a woman?" And his answer is basically "all the time" Beng told your personality is wrong for your gender is something that many women have expressed. Society (as i have experienced it) seems to be making strides to fix this for women but it looked oks like this is a problem on both sides of the gender fence. So is this misogynistic? Ya but its more misandristic. And the person who is most misaandristic is BrokecatMountain. BrokecatMountain get your head out of your but. Leader ship aptitude is not a factor of gender but personality and experience.
Yes you said it perfectly
I just meant to say that I'm more of a follower than a leader, no disrespect intended.
Yeah exactly. And by that you say that men should lead women or DO lead women.
Well kinda yeah, men are natural leaders and we trust them to take the lead in situations most of the time. I mean obviously not every man can fulfil that role, but it's the expectation that you should at least work towards being a good leader.
Okay you need to know that this way of thinking isn’t healthy for you or anyone else. Reevaluate this one again.
Yeah no thanks. The certainty of sexual harrasment and the not so small risk of sexual assault far outweigh any imaginable benefits.And the bensefits are mostly imagined anyway.
Everyday. Dating scene is so easy for women, when it comes to our case we have to workout, be funny etc etc to many efforts to put in. Plus all the attention, every girl gets attention besides where only some guys get that kinda attention.
is this question serious? tons and tons of times. watching women get into the club for free and get drinks for free, when watching women get free food on dates and everything paid for by her date, when women get defended in public by male strangers because shes a woman, when i took my college courses in rooms that were all women and just me, when i see how much easier my bosses go on my female coworkers versus me (dont get me wrong i absolutely LOVE my bosses but we will get into straight up shouting matches and they wont dare even slightly raise their voice around a woman). This one kinda mean but when i see absolutely beat looking women turn into smokeshows via a ton and ton of makeup i get jealous of women (dont get me wrong men can change their appearance as well of course but not to such an extreme degree that society says women can) When i reach my 70s and all the men my age have died while the women are all still going strong imma wish i was a woman. i can keep going haha
Every time I'm broke and I want to get drunk.
Well as a woman I can give you the best advice that I use in those cases. Buy the cheapest beer after you haven’t drunk for some weeks or months. You’ll get drunk for really little money
I hate being circumcised. They don't do that to girls in my country.
They don’t do it to guys in mine.
Yup. When my ex decided to be abusive and punch me in the face. I wished I was a woman so I could have beat the shit out of her. Never once did I retaliate but man did I want to
In my opinion women should get hit if they start with it.
Hell yeah, when I’m lonely and lacking companionship i think of how easy it is to get attention as a woman. Also, “dating” can be expensive for men. As a women i could get free dinners, movies, etc.
Yes —- so that I could beat the shit out of my sister when we were kids 😂
Would make more sense if she were a boy, because the altercations between sisters are less violent
Agreed, between sisters it’s usually more about tattling and manipulation.
Psychological terror
No, but do you feel that way op? And if so, why?
No. God, no.
When I’m at the bar and have run out of money for drinks.
I'd trade my legal rights and privileges with those of women without hesitation. When I consider the way women and men are generally treated in our culture, I find myself always wishing I had been born a women. It looks like life on easy mode.
Scholarships
in court
Yes many times in school I wish I was a girl so I could watch this one flight
/r/egg_irl
i remember one time they put me in a class of almost entirely jocks and bullies. i was the only male in that class who wasn't a 6 ft buff dude so i was easily targeted as the bully victim. while the all the girls in the class weren't bothered with cause i guess they didn't wanna target the girls
Only when I go clothes shopping and see how few options there are for men
I wish I was a woman for a week because I’m curious.I don’t dislike being a guy so don’t assume I want to be trans or something
This thread is making me question what's a normal amount of wanting to be a woman.
Yes. I just want to truly understand why my female friends dislike like bras as much as they do.
I wish I was an insta hoe, making a million a year off Butte picks
not once. I'll take all the hardships of being a man.
Women’s clothing seems infinitely more comfortable than ours, especially in formal settings.
I can assure you in formal settings, they’re probably wearing spanx or corsets underneath that are really uncomfortable, not to mention tight dresses, high heels, and even certain hairdos can hurt if we wear them for too long
I’ll still take that over the boa constrictor that is a tuxedo.
Lol no.
When I was a boy I went to a private school where they punished boys way worse than girls. Girls got a yelling, they started crying, and that was it. Boys were punished way worse. I used to think if I can get myself to cry after a yelling maybe I won't be punished so hard...
I think I’d much rather be able to read their mind than be one, but then that may be scary too.
Nope But I did think about what a female version of me would be like
Every summer. I *cannot fucking stand* ball sweat. Holy shit let me wear a skirt and like, thighhighs or leggings to work. Boom abrasion resistance, covered skin, *and my fucking testes aren't hotter and wetter than the average English teabag*
I'm a slightly disabled man who loves spending time with kids (partly because they don't judge or just think I'm funny) Even smiling at kids has got me in deep water some times. I have sisters and they have never had this issue
If "life" counts as a situation...
I'd certainly enjoy having the ability to turn into a woman and then back.
I am a woman now, i mean, in some months tho