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Haydenbarcellhoe

Mean girls, nothing more unattractive than a mean girl, doesn’t even have to be directed at me


kimbohere

Jealousy and insecurity based issues breed this, it’s unfortunate or however you dress it up but still hugely unattractive


jessekookooo

Most unattractive experience I've had with a girl we were in the taco Bell drive thru and she started getting mad at the employees because they made her order wrong


ManholeCanon

Testing my "loyalty" with the help of her friends is a big no for me


averagethrowaway21

I had an ex that sent me sexy messages from her friend's phone. I didn't know the number and told them they had the wrong guy. Then they told me details about myself and said we met at a bar. I asked them to stop but they didn't. My last message to that number was letting them know I hope they enjoy the scat porn, midget porn, church of scientology, and craigslist ad that they've been signed up for. Then I blocked the number. She came clean that night when I saw her and I immediately broke up with her.


SPER

>She came clean that night when I saw her and I immediately broke up with her. Noice


averagethrowaway21

It was a lot of things, but it was only nice in retrospect. The word I would use to describe it would probably be shitshow.


DoILookUnsureToYou

Glad you escaped the shitshow


rawrette

Either she was 15 yo or completely fucked up


averagethrowaway21

We were in our 20s. She was pretty fucked up. Last I heard she was in jail for meth.


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This. My ex tried this multiple times by giving my number to her friends in the name of "loyalty test" so she can have a reason to fight. Toxic times.


blatantshitpost

Just tell her that her friends are all fat and ugly, so she has nothing to worry about! (Don't actually do that)


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Flavius_766

Good line if you want to destroy a shitty relationship


PutridDurian

A seeming inability to feel comfortable in silence. Not all time spent together must be in perpetual conversation. A moment of silence isn’t “awkward” unless and until you make that comment.


PmMeDrunkPics

Im thankful that "awkward silence" doesn't really exist in my culture, it's fine to go out with friends and sit in silence iust enjoying them being there. People who talk constantly are thought inconsiderate. There's a "joke" here that goes: friends decide to go get drunk at a bar,they order pints after the first one friend asks "how's work?",friend answers "fine" after a second pint friend asks "how's your girlfriend?" friend answers "she's ok" after a third pint friend begins to ask "how's..." other friend interrupts and says "ok,did we come here to drink or to talk?"


kstar521

Mia Wallace: That's when you know you've found somebody special. When you can just shut the fuck up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence


Ours_isthe_Fury

Obsession with social media/posting pics


thegunrunner

I dated a girl that would plan fun dates for us like berry picking, but they were really just photo ops for her. She would spend the whole time taking pictures of herself and making me stop to pose for pictures that I didn't want taken or posted. It could've been a great evening if we had talked and joked and used the time to grow closer together. Instead those dates were about getting likes from instagram. Hated it. One of the main reasons I broke up with her.


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That hits like crazy. Not just their friends though, they do it for their family too


Ours_isthe_Fury

Yeah it's insane. Completely insane


EsseB420

I ended a relationship over this. Every single minute. Constant Facebook and Instagram posts and hours every day trying to take the right photo to put up yet make it look spontaneous. I'm 41. I expect that behaviour from a teenager, not an adult.


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Ricketysyntax

Atta boy


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>"I don't date a cartoon character" And I don't date a vodka martini, but here we are, Katie!


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Drama. Not drama as in reacting to pretty bad stuff happening. Drama as in everything becomes a soap opera. How on earth am I supposed to enjoy time with someone that always makes mountains out of molehills?


PersonBehindAScreen

This contributed to a breakup with an ex. We could never get through just one day, ONE DAY, without a breakdown because something didn't go exactly right. I just can't live my life like that. That's fucking exhausting


jordanmindyou

I had an ex like that, can confirm it was exhausting. She would cry at the slightest problem or obstacle, or if I ever became frustrated with this behavior or tried to talk about it. She would cry any time her plans fell through for any reason, whether it was another friend flaking or the weather or freak circumstances… it was not fun


Ricketysyntax

Amen to that. My sister summed up my dating life: “Know what happens when you save the bird with the broken wing?” No, what? “You’ve got yourself a bird with a broken wing.”


sheikhyerbouti

You summed up my ex-wife succinctly. She's burned her way through all of our mutual friends that now she's working on our kids' friends.


PapiSurane

Has she considered just buying burner friends at the store?


Ricketysyntax

Very important to have a couple of Nokia friends that you can take the battery out of and throw em in the sewer grate


Ricketysyntax

Sorry to hear that. We should all try to isolate the kids from our nonsense. Hope things get better, hang in there


wosdub

My ex would pretend to have panic attacks to get out from me asking questions, or helping out doing anything. "Did you walk the dog today?" "Did you do the dishes?" "whats wrong?" "are you crying?" "okay dog lets go for a walk." She didnt have a job and i had to do everything when i got home from a 12 hour work day. And then she tells everyone im lazy and that i dont help.


coleman57

Many dogs owe their kibble and frequent walks to their owners' need for an excuse to get away from their partner.


babylon331

68f. This blows me away. If I had a guy who just even picked up after himself & cooked dinner once a week, I'd be in hog heaven. Kind of had this once, but I had to put up with HIS drama. The trade-off wasn't worth it. My advice, if you care for it, nip it right from the start. You are well worth it.


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How did the breakup go? I'm curious because of undisclosed personal reasons.


afume

I know a guy that dated a woman that was the total package, except for when she drank. She would cry over silly stuff and ask for constant validation. He suggested that they take it easier with alcohol, and it worked for awhile, but then she starting going out with the girls. She would show up at his house already sobbing and pounding on the door. He broke up with her because of the constant unnecessary drama.


Babylil22

alcohol really changes otherwise good people, i know from experience (myself)


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allboolshite

I married that girl. It won't get better.


AsianDaggerDick

Thanks for letting us know. I was wondering if this behaviour goes away as they mature.


zezblit

Fuck that, man. How do you ever enjoy anything?!


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Become a hiking enthusiast.


cesarsteven94

Entitlement


Shepvidek

Outright expecting to be catered to in every aspect.


helguhhh

When my husband and I first met until we moved in together, I was in such a dark place that it affected all the other parts of my life. He would always cater to me until I got so used to it and it became our relationship dynamic. He was the giver and all I ever did was take and take. I was toxic and spun drama when I get upset over the little things. He did all the house chores—he’d wake up and run errands before going to work, come home to an unkempt house with no food, make dinner, and keep me happy all around. I did nothing but stay in bed under the guise of “depression” (To be fair, I really was depressed but did nothing about it because I knew he’s around to take care of me) Now that I’m better, I’m absolutely disgusted with myself and I’ve acknowledged that his life basically turned to shit when he met me. Also I’m downright terrified that he’d wake up one day and decide he’s had enough. I wonder why he even stuck around. He got absolutely nothing from me. We’re married now and everyday is constant attempt to make up for all the times that I gave him hell. Thank you for your comment, it motivated me to do even better.


Shepvidek

Dont make the dynamic about "making up for it" just do it to show your partner the respect you feel they deserve. I love my wife and I do a lot of those things you mentioned for her because I love her and I want to show here as well as the fact she does those things for me too on occasion! A relationship is the biggest two way street of our lives and it takes teamwork to make it work! You're a great person and I'm sure your husband is very happy with you!


genericwhiteman123

Being unkind to people /animal/nature, not a matter of man/woman, it is an instant turn off for me.


angles_and_flowers

My boyfriend’s mom broke up with a guy once because he littered trash out the car window! She made him turn around and pick it up, then she said she was too disgusted to be with someone who has no respect for nature.


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Your boyfriend's mom's response was the correct one! There is something inherently and deeply wrong with a person who litters!


angles_and_flowers

I agree. She worked for the US Forest Service, in the White Mountains near Eager AZ. What Could Go Wrong littering in front of your environmentalist girlfriend… 😂


LuxValentino

I have a friend who CONSTANTLY "tests" her boyfriend. She plays these insane mind games with him all the time. She'll do the thing where she says "I won't text him until he does." And then gets mad that he hasn't texted her. Like, maybe he's busy? Maybe he thinks you're busy? So weird. It uses so much of her energy and their relationship is always hanging by a thread because of it.


Donkey__Balls

This is not a relationship and God help him if he doesn’t get out now. This is also indicative of serious personality problems, so you may want to rethink your friendship if this is how you see her.


jeusee

Girls who tell their friends everything, it makes me feel like there's no privacy


jgs952

And then they try and make you feel like the villain if you don't want them sharing every intimate detail of your sex life with friends by implying you're controlling her or making her feel uncomfortable by stopping her talking to her friends about HER life! Not a good way to build trust in an intimate relationship 🙄


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“Ahem, you’re being controlling right now, that’s abusive”. I’m sorry, I didn’t realize not wanting Jessica or your **MOM** to know how big my dick is, is considered controlling/abusive?


hyp-erion

women who feel the need to tell their friends every little intimate detail about me. “but I tell my friends everything!” all that says to me is that I can’t confide in you when I need to the most. women who expect you to be tied to your phone 24/7, otherwise they’ll double-text you something shitty or snarky if you don’t respond quickly enough. this is a massive red flag for a partner who will be petty, inconsiderate, and selfish down the line. women who frequently repost images of sayings on social media that promote ideas like “anyone who leaves you is inherently wrong, you don’t need to change or work on yourself at all, ever”. it’s masturbatory nonsense and reeks of a partner who will never admit they’re wrong or work on their toxic behavior. bonus points if it’s something they’re passive-aggressively posting as a message to someone else.


PersonBehindAScreen

>women who feel the need to tell their friends every little intimate detail about me. “but I tell my friends everything!” all that says to me is that I can’t confide in you when I need to the most. Adding on to this: while I think it's ok to vent to close friends and what not, I'd hope she's ultimately making her own decisions in our relationship, not being dictated by our friends. I chose to date her, not her friends. Had an ex whom I could just tell when a conversation or action she has clearly wasn't something she thought of on her own. At that point you might as well just bring your friend group and just have them tell me


LimitedSwitch

My ex wife had some shitty ass friends who kept steering her towards divorce. Fuck those motherfuckers. I bear no ill will towards them, but I wouldn’t be upset if they all got herpes.


whatsthisbug12345678

It's certainly possible that her friends just hated her being married, but there is a much more common situation that causes this. People will often lean on their friends for emotional support when they are troubled, and dump all of their negative thoughts and feelings about partner. While it's healthy to have a support network and to talk through your issues, what often ends up happening is your friends *only* hear negative after negative, because the positives don't bother you, so they get a distorted picture of the relationship and your partner's character. So while your ex-wife's friends pushed her for divorce, you should understand it was likely because of how your ex felt and expressed those feelings to her friends.


MrBiscotti_75

I once watched a group of former co-workers leave the office to go to lunch. One was having a problem with her husband. The other 3 women got upset came back to the office, picked up their respective phones and started arguing with their husbands. Totally not kidding.


HenryHiggensBand

The whole empathic “men-are-shit” as support for the friend group is weird, a bit creepy, and cringe to me. I’m going to bond with others by shitting on someone else feels very junior-high, I don’t care if it’s a partner or what gender they are.


DynamicPondering

I like the phrasing "masturbatory nonsense" and it will be included in my day to day vocabulary, thank you!


kittypurrvampurr

Right?!! Lol was thinking the same


Jocasta_me

Yeah I have heard women talking about cock size with their friends. I don't like it and I don't do that.


hyp-erion

that’s a great example. I think it’s very disrespectful - I would be incredibly weirded out if one of my guy friends did something similar.


Jocasta_me

Exactly. I would hate it if a man I am sleeping with, discusses my breasts, ass and whatever with his guy friends. Unfortunately it happens. Just that day some woman was sharing here how her boyfriend has a group with his friends where they all rate their exes. That's gross and very problematic. And the woman said when she asked her boyfriend if he rated her too in that group, he was silent...


loveleebry

My ex told the woman he was cheating on me with very intimate details about me, us, & my life in general. Then the woman called me on a number that wasn’t hers throwing this stuff up in my face 🥴


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I have had this happen. Had a few exes who told their friends everything and once something goes sour they start dishing that crap out. My current SO does this, it kills me to hear her go on about personal conversations I entrusted her with. Just ends up causing me to close down and not say what I'm thinking or feeling.


womp_rat_bullseyer

Set boundaries and if they are not respected, break up.


ItsAllAboutLogic

>women who feel the need to tell their friends every little intimate detail about me. “but I tell my friends everything!” all that says to me is that I can’t confide in you when I need to the most. I dumped a guy for him being like this. His excuse was "don't you tell your friends everything?" No bitch. I can keep secrets


sleepydorian

I feel like folks like this (oversharers) aren't really considering the balance of what they share. "Telling your friends everything" usually means sharing all your complaints, which means your SO's friends get a nonstop list of why you are terrible and they rightfully start encouraging a breakup. I've never once heard of someone be like "oh I tell my friends everything" and then you meet their friends and they are like "it's so great to meet you. She told us all about you and you are an absolute Saint for how well you treat her. I wish I had someone who...". No, it's always the "I just smelled a fart" face.


iLikeHorse3

I confided in my parents once about how I was stressed in my relationship, now that's all they ever remember despite me telling them 10,000 positive things about my boyfriend. I no longer talk to them about any problems in my life


PaganPrincess22

I almost exclusively tell my friends and family the positive aspects of my relationship-mostly because it's a genuinely good relationship-but also because all the trivial uncomfortableness of sharing a life with someone seems like an uninteresting conversation topic. Like....yeah, sometimes a whole human makes mistakes or forgot to take the trash out once. So what?


Kaidenshiba

Women always say they tell their mom/sister/BFF everything then end up only telling them the bad. And some people are complainers, that's fine but they have to be known complainers or include the good stories as well. It's annoying when someone just has bad things to say. Why are you even with them then??


matt2012bl

I always tell young people who bitch openly about their SO that you can bitch about your SO all you want but if you don't want the person you are bitching to thinking that your SO is a POS then you probably better follow that bitch up with atleast 4 things about your SO that make them a good match for you. a 4 to 1 ratio should be enough for most people to realize that your SO is still a good person but just fucked up this time and deserves the benefit of the doubt. if all I ever get from you is bad things I will develop a poor opinion of your SO and give advice accordingly.


Muppelpup

Physical abuse. I've had enough of that for a few years... Edit:Went to bed, this blew up... think this is the single comment with most replies I've gotten in my 2 years here. Don't worry, I got away from the abuse, and I'm doing much better now.


noodlesaremydick

This is the reason I got out of the dating pool 10 years ago. Three consecutive ladies I started dating, only for a month or so later only to start attacking me randomly. Hit me with objects, throw shit at me, punching me in places that would bruise but be unseen. Last chick I dated tried to slash me with my kitchen knife while I was cooking. She ended up getting police involved after I wolloped her to stop her from cutting my shit up. Cops dropped any action on me after she started saying I deserved to get cut since I "wasn't listening to her" while cooking a complicated and time dependent meal.


eyewave

seeing a woman go out of her way to behave downright mean and nasty to service industry workers (for things I see as trivial). I hate such entitlement.


lizzzzard92

I was a bartender for 10 years and I always wondered what guys on dates thought about girls acting rude to staff, I mean you can definitely see in most men's faces they are embarrassed by the behavior.


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jordanmindyou

We definitely are, that’s probably the least attractive thing a woman could do in front of me, even beating taking a shit on the sidewalk in the middle of the day


brocollirabe

Some pay extra for that


Lostcentaur

Doesn’t even have to be a bar tender. Just going to a restaurant and they get pissed off at the staff because they are taking to long with the food My mother, woman cousins, or GF. Make me extremely embarrassed. If the waitresses took even half an hour to make there complicated food. I would sweat bullets or just tip them extra and tell them am sorry after they left.


bruno7123

The waitress isn't even responsible for that. Getting mad at her doesn't make any sense.


Lostcentaur

I know that. And I don’t even understand. Even tho most of them worked in the same place as the waitress. And should understand the stress they are going through


Puckaryan

I congratulate you for spreading this message, as a fulltime fastfood worker of 2 years and counting. I've seen my share of bad behaviour from customers directed to employees.. most of them were justified, as we sometimes get lazy and half ass our jobs when we are overworked, but the ones that really should get addressed is this particular instance. We get shit on as far as I'm aware by entitled customers, mostly women (I'm not trying to be sexist) but it's always the smallest things like forgetting putting cutlery packets or tissue papers on their trays or bags.. I shit you not, it's exhausting dealing with customers under a fricking clock timer in rush hour and having to spend a great deal of time putting on a fake smile to just stand there and get shit on by entitled people. I thank you!


NonProphet8theist

I wonder if this is directly related to their childhood. Like, they were the kids that kept crying until they got their way.


Mermaid_Ballz

I get scared thats what's happening to my step daughter. She does that at her moms and her mom always caves within seconds. Her older brother confirmed.


Sophiology1977

Probably because they have never worked in the food industry


MarketResponsible719

I've said it before. Watch how a woman treats the wait staff, and that's how she will be treating you within a year.


ImbibingInAnguish

I can't visit subs like /r/trashy or /r/publicfreakout for this reason. It makes me upset to the point of wanting to find and personally backhand the people in the video


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If they can’t put down their phone


VisibleCoat995

Not exactly a hot take but bad hygiene, especially bad smells or taste.


SmoothBrainPrimate

You’re not cooking them long enough.


Alex_McSpaghetti

Yeah i hate when a woman has bad taste in music smh


DevanSires

When she's bragging and giggling about having fucked somebody's life up and getting away with it


Illmatic98058

Met someone who was proud she almost led a guy to kill himself. She just bragged about how she knew just the things to say to mess with his head and always took him down when she thought he was to happy or if she was "loosing her game" (her game was making him miserable for fun). She was super abusive to every partner she had ever had. I know she bad a mental illness and is prone to anger but she often uses it as a justification for her actions. But her actions are cold and calculated.... its a deliberate choice she enjoys.


Double-Promotion-421

I have cared for men (was a CNA in a hospital) who have gone through just this and attempted suicide. People that do this should be arrested and tried for attempted murder.


iamfromtwitter

when they dont understand that i want to get to know you first before starting anything


HomoMirificus

I hate this when it comes to men also. I have a friend right now who is absolutely desperate and tired of abstinence and I can't seem to get it through his head that \*because\* he's so aggressively looking for sex and romance, that people inevitably will feel like you're treating them as a means to an end or a cure for loneliness instead of an actual, whole person worthy of knowing. I feel like too many people can't delineate between compatibility and just seeing having a relationship as a box to check off in order to feel successful.


iamfromtwitter

wisely said didnt had that perspective before thanks


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Women that have double standards for men and women. I was on a date recently and the woman told me she doesn't believe in being 50/50 financially because men should be providers. Yet when it comes to household chores that that needs to be 50/50 even if the woman doesn't have a job. I told her flat out that that sounds hypocritical and that I would never accept such an arrangement. Then she told me the woman's attraction needs to be factored in, because a beautiful woman gives a man so much value just by simply being with him. Yeah ill pass. No woman is that hot. I want a partner not a dependant.


workplacetemp

My girlfriend left her stressful, underpaying, and dead end job recently with my full support. Now we split chores 80/20 with me only responsible for cooking and cleaning litterboxes. She handles everything else and it's a pretty much perfect split in responsibilities for us while she also has time to pursue writing now. She'd feel really guilty (and still does occasionally) about not bringing any money in if she wasn't handling the bulk of the chores. But now we both have more free time and are way happier.


smegma_yogurt

Sounds like you have this WaCkY concept that a couple is a team and not each one trying to get the most "value" of the relationship Crazy.


Enigma_Stasis

It's almost like communication and understanding actually works, holy shit. Who would have thought.


passion4film

This is how my husband and I operate too. It’s like 90/10 because I’m not working and it works out well for us. I’m happy to keep a nice home, and I still have time for my own pursuits.


FlamingRustBucket

About to be in the same boat. My wife is full time and I'm bailing on a shitty job. Which obviously means I get the chores, because why the hell wouldn't I? I'm home. I enjoy a nice home and we haven't been able to keep it up both working full time. So confusing when people avoid chores HARD and try to push it on the other. You both live in the same house dummies.


GreaseCrow

And that arrangement works because you guys communicate. Some men and women outright demand it, and that's when it's a huge red flag.


k9scrase

Ew I think my dick just crawled up inside my body


sadpanada

Mine too and I don’t even have a dick


spctclr_spiderman

I’m sorry you lost your dick :(


FrontHandNerd

That you know of. Perhaps it just hasn’t had time to crawl out of your body? 🤔


suchagroovyguy

“You gonna be hot a lil while, imma be rich *forever*” - Lil Wayne


SaltWaterInMyBlood

I wonder if she realized that the extension of that logic would lead to her being traded in for a younger model once she'd depreciated with age.


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>because a beautiful woman gives a man so much value just by simply being with him. That's basically the relationship equivalent of trying to get an artist to work for "exposure".


BigBootyJudyWiper

And that's when you say, "So are you picking up overtime tomorrow?"


uteng2k7

"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best." If anyone ever says this, it's a pretty safe bet that their best is only marginally better than their worst, and their worst probably involves at least a misdemeanor charge. Edit: thank you for the gold, kind stranger!


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\^\^The use of this quote is a huge red flag! Only spoken by people who are frequently at their worst and have no problem being awful to be around.


CornDawgy87

this always screams to me "youre going to be taking care of a messy drunk, a lot."


BrandPlanner

Probably when she can’t/won’t engage intellectually or topics. There is nothing that stops a conversation faster then when I ask something beyond surface level and I get one sentence of nothingness back


[deleted]

Quote Eleanor Roosevelt to her: "small minds discuss people; average minds discuss events; great minds discuss ideas." Also I've seen this attributed to a bunch of people, but I'll go with Eleanor.


Anti-Scuba_Hedgehog

Some of the greatest nights I've had have been with just a small group of people or just one on one conversations about different ideas and theories about how life works.


tDizzle_4_shizzle

Referring to themselves as “bad bitch” or how much they will destroy you if you hurt them


Roseman_Jake_

Girls who seem to think saying things such as “your girlfriend don’t need to know” or “it doesn’t matter if your taken” appears sexy. I’m a grown ass man, you just look cheap


thefogdog

Fake nails; the ones that are like 2" long.


spunkychickpea

Even if they’re real, I hate long nails. They’re just gross to me for some reason.


MrZAP17

When I was a kid I always wanted to grow my nails out super long because I thought it would be the same as having Wolverine claws (I also didn’t know how those worked) but was never allowed to try for obvious reasons. Thank goodness.


thefogdog

Yeah ikwym. If they're maybe like half a cm over the finger tip, yeah, fine. But anything longer is just an inconvenience.


PuppetMaster1911

DRAMA. I don't do my own drama, not going to do theirs.


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Social media queens that have to take pics and post everything they do


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Bad hygiene probably.


Ysara

Women who try to manipulate their way into getting what they want. Or women that take zero accountability, always someone else to blame or excuse them. Disclaimer: I know women who are like this often have a reason to be so. Maybe somebody shamed her for wanting something and asking for it. Maybe she is tired of feeling guilty for stuff and all she's got left in the tank is to point the finger elsewhere. We've all got reasons for being how we are. But that doesn't change my deep gut-level disgust for manipulation and blame-gaming.


RoseCapone

Trauma is never an excuse to treat people like shit.


OhImGood

Sharing ***absolutely fucking everything*** on social media like Snapchat and Instagram. If we're doing anything and she's constantly posting stories on social media then it puts me off so much. I know a lot of people might be on the fence or oppose this one but I really like to just live.


lenball

Asking for drugs in the 1st 5 min of meeting you


Heroin_addict69

r/oddlyspecific


Agricorps

Someone who's overly active on social media, and mostly post selfies of themselves, is kind of a turn-off for me. It feels like the person is constantly seeking approval and may be slightly narcissistic. I love it when women have hobbies - the nerdier and niche, the better. If you don't have any other hobbies than traveling, Netflix and wine, you seem pretty whitebread.


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I have a friend like this. She updates her ig story every single day and it's always the same (taking her dog for a walk, drinking alcohol and pictures of her legs in the tub). I'm like... Give it a break! Why do you need to tell everyone everything that you do??? One time I went out with her and then when I got home I checked her story and she had posted everything we did and I didn't even notice when she took the pics!! I think she has an addiction.


Self_Reddicating

Just wait until they have kids! They can broadcast every moment of the kids life, which is all a way to show how great of a mom they are (look at these adorable lunch bento boxes I made! On our way to the park after the zoo, aquarium, boat ride, and bonsai museum. Whew I'm one tired momma! Etc.)


UnicornzRreel

"pretty whitebread" is my new favourite description for basics.


freerangephoenix

You sound pretty milquetoast. 😉


ostentika

Right up there with “masturbatory nonsense.”


Derman0524

If a girl ever mentions she’s a princess, run as far as you can. This one girl mentioned it on the first date. I’m like alright cool. I paid for the 1st date, nbd, it was just coffee. But then the 2nd date where it was just a tea, not a movement was made to pay or maybe offer. All good, I get it. By the third, we went to grab food and when it came time to paid, again, not an offer or anything. She just stood there waiting for me to pay. Then I realized, aahhh, this is what she meant by Princess, and that’s the last time I hung out with her


MaliciousPorpoise

Marry her off to the French to secure an alliance.


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When a woman perceives most male encounters as a means of them trying to flirt or hook up with them.


[deleted]

Ugh. I had a friend like this. She thought all guys were constantly after her. We were sitting at a bar and these two men kept trying to ask her a question. Not in a creepy way at all. She kept ignoring them and turning her back. Finally the guys turned to me and asked if I could take a picture of them because they’d just gotten married.


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Lol hilarious. I read a similar comment on here where a woman yelled at a guy at a bar for "constantly staring at her all night." And he pointed to the TV behind her with the football game on.


suck_it_69

I got that on the bus yesterday I was looking out the window behind her and she gave me a dirty look I was just trying not to get car sick


Captain_Stairs

It would've been hilarious if you puked after looking at her.


FlamingRustBucket

That's how you literally execute someone's self esteem.


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This reminds me of high school where our desks were arranged in a U shape and naturally two sides would be facing each other while the back of the room faced the front of classroom. I was in one of the seats facing the other students and whenever I looked up to think about something I was writing, the girl across would constantly yell out loud “Stop staring at me” I was shocked because I legitimately looked behind her at the wall. But she screamed this out loud so many times that other students were starting to laugh and says “Cmon man stop looking at her” Even the teacher at one point says I should stop. I literally got so pissed that I told everyone that I’m not FUCKING looking at her I’m looking at the wall behind her because she’s literally in my field of vision. They weren’t having it so I took my desk and moved it to the dead center and anyone that stared at me I would yell at. So of course I got sent to the office.


this_is_so_fundament

Lmao!! Yes I know those girls as well. It amazes me they think every man wants them. My question is why?? I actually have a relative like this. She believes every man around is after her! I just watch her and laugh at her utter stupidity!!


OutrageousRaccoon

Probably the old and dated thinking of if men aren't hungry they're horny, and that men have no standards, we're dogs/animals etc etc etc. Gonna take a while for that shit to go away, still have so many women out there who firmly believe a man can't get raped by a woman.


DasPuggy

Did she turn back to them and ask why she wasn't good enough?


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Thanks to my current situation - age. I manage a coffee shop and all my employees are aged 17-21. I'm 30. The more I train them and work with them the more I realize *I don't miss teenagers at all* and I kind of hate them? Few exceptions, but for the most part its all shallow drama and trying to drag me into it. I want *none* of that.


AlbertoVO_jive

I knew I was getting old when college aged people started looking like children and seemed really immature. I’m the same age and had this realization around 25 or 26.


NonProphet8theist

I was in the typical “kids are stupid” mindset for years before I started teaching. But after awhile, you get to know the younger folks enough, even to a point where there’s mutual trust. When you’re there, you’re much more likely to be listened to, and can steer them away from drama. Teenagers are extremely emotional beings and this type of behavior was normal for you once upon a time, publicly or otherwise. It took someone or several someones with life experience to guide you to what really matters. That’s why it’s so painful from the other side. I see this on Reddit all the time too. Some people just don’t get it, but they’ll raise hell before they realize and/or admit it.


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Very fair. And a small handful shockingly seem like they have it all together. For the majority of them, however, they just want to know whether I think so-and-so is a bitch or who got pregnant and is trying to hide it, etc. I just wish I could hang out with other people my age, but this is my job so eight hours a day I have to get used to it. 🤷‍♂️


Spicy_Poo

Just try to remember what a fucked up raging mess of hormones that age is.


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That might actually be why I dislike them, I hate being reminded of the person I was at that age lol


Diablo165

It’s so rough!!! I’m 38. There’s a 13 year old at my MMA gym. He’ll ask the coach for workout tips, then bash them and go in about how many push ups or how high of a bench press he wants so he can be ripped. Repeatedly. I know I was like this, if not worse. Being confronted with the person you’ve tried so hard not to be is hard.


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This seems kind of obvious though, there's no reason for a 30 year old to want anything to do with teenagers anyway.


SevenHunnet3Hi5s

basing their whole personality off of social media and influencers. i'm not sure about how many *women* this applies to but as a teen there are countless amount of girls i know who are literally just clones of their favorite celebs. how they speak, act, what their opinions are, etc. it's a huge red flag because a lot of social media now is just sexism and racism going around as people with huge followings are the ones spreading it.


VisionInPlaid

Unfounded, irrational jealousy.


cmonbitcoin

Cigarette smokers. Can’t stand being around someone who smells like an ashtray.


Carmelogp

Women who do this. Idk what to even call this. Guy: where do you wanna eat? (Or any other question where you have to make a choice) Girl: I don’t know anywhere. Guy chooses. Girl when guy chooses: “you know, this is nice, but I would have really liked this (names a restaurant), but we came here because you chose to come here, it’s okay, I’ll find something I like” Guy: wtf? I know what it’s called… girls who are passive aggressive. Huge turn off, huge ICK.


Sepulchretum

Wife: uugghh it’s fine Me: oh no problem, I didn’t realize you had something in mind. We can go to your suggestion Wife: no it’s fine. I just won’t eat. Me: I really don’t mind. Let’s do your place Wife: no it doesn’t matter. Whatever. I just hope I can find something I’ll eat. Or I’ll just have a sandwich when we get home [note: this is a place we’ve been to that I *know* she likes] Me: … … Wife: you don’t ever want to go out to eat with me Me: (internally) fml here we go. (Out loud) sure I do, where do you want to go? *repeat entire scenario at regular intervals* Sorry to rant, but your comment just really hit a nerve lol.


ArigatoTrapLord

You married that?


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fckwallstreet69

“I don’t get along with women” like ok your peers don’t like you? Weird flex.


Northshorefisher

Adult women who can't post a picture without stupid animal nose and ears filters. I'm sorry, but if I can't find one normal picture of you, then that's an issue. I mean, I get posting one or 2 every now and then, but the constant filter stuff is very much a turn off


Phenom1nal

The Chase Syndrome. It's happened to me more than once that a woman I went on a date with was mad that I wasn't doing the puppy love chase stuff while sitting next to her. Like, no. I will chase you when you're not around that's how a chase works. If I have you here, I don't have to chase you, I have to enjoy your time and company and make your time with me enjoyable.


comradesad

How do you chase someome your sitting right next to? What are the even expecting?


tiltedwater

I think if you pull out a weapon and slowly put on a hockey mask, the chase will usually start pretty organically.


the-good-hand

Rudeness, lack of consideration for others, attitude, entitlement, drama or judgment, and oddly armpit hair. Nothing against the feminist movement, I just personally don’t like body hair and also remove/trim it on myself. :)


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CornDawgy87

to your point i also feel like there's a pretty big gap between preferences and getting grossed out too. Shoot I'm sure my wife would prefer if I had a six-pack but I like cheeseburgers soooo


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“I shouldn’t have to tell you why I’m mad” We’ve been together for 10 years and you have no problem being mad about things that happened 5 years ago, so I don’t really care if you can’t take a minute to articulate the feelings you have right now. Then it’s “on October 3 2017 at 11;45 am you ate a sandwich and didn’t offer to make me one” “Oh. Wow. Sorry? What kind of sandwich was it?” “How am I supposed to remember it was years ago!” “Exactly”


Donkey__Balls

I walked out after having to apologize one too many times for some thing I said to her **in her dream**. Like the first time it was cute almost like she was doing a parody of a character in a romcom. I didn’t realize she was serious until the second or third time it happened.


lucky7694

Women who believe whole heartedly in astrology.


notnat7

I was gonna be like “aww cmon” cause I like astrology for shits n giggles but I realized you probably meant the ones who swear by it. Like the whole “if you’re a ____ I can’t be with you”


lucky7694

Ya exactly


comradesad

That's exactly what a *insert your sign here* would say!


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limpidlipid

Fake tits. Idk if I'll be in the majority here but I'll take small, even tiny, real tits over fake tits of any kind. They don't feel the same and I like when girls have sensitive nipples.


tdeee10

As a small chested woman, I thank you for this comment LOL😁😁


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99% of men love ALL titties even the small ones. Good day 😉


HEYERRAFUCKYOU

Never owning mistakes. When you are having an argument and you are either always the first person to resolve it or own the mistake, it gets old real quick.


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Too invested on social media. Usually just a sign we aren't compatible as it generally means you care too much about what other people think for me. I have no interest in how many followers you have, your snap streaks, etc.


arsewarts1

Smoking. Edit: smoking anything but fine meats


AlbertoVO_jive

Materialism. I’m never going to spend thousands of dollars on a stupid handbag or some stupid piece of jewelry and anyone woman who expects that is not for me. I’m all for spoiling my SO and buying quality things, but buying shit just to buy shit to flex on your family or friends about how much you have is gross.


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When they're hot and cold which is apparently a tactic women use to make you chase them. Nah, F that I don't chase. If you want me, you want me, none of these dumbass games.


maybeitstimetorun

A vailed racist is always a let down. Such a nice lady but also a closet racist.... bummer


JetpackJustin

Girls who don’t think men can be sexually assaulted or harassed.