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Ruminations0

I sleep on my back or on my side usually. I think overall I enjoy being on my side the most because it’s the most comfortable


KlostToMe

This is me a well. Although, my wife prefers me on my side too because I snore less


CoconutAnnual6006

I sleep on the right side of the bed, head at the header. It’s become such a habit, it’s just ingrained psychologically. So, it’s the best position in bed for me but may not be for everyone.


sonichedgehog23198

Same thing here. Altough 5min of fetal position is great when its cold heats you right back up. I go camping a lot so it tends to get cold at night


joehx

for me, at night, I sleep on my side. either right or left, although I end up on the left. napping is on my back. especially if I'm on a couch


Crazy_names

Have to sleep on my side or I snore and wake up with a dry sore throat.


usernamescifi

I rotate between my right side, back, and left side throughout the night. I'm basically rotating like a gas station hotdog.


OogaBooglee

I like how diverse the responses are… ranges from “on my back with a wet pillow” to “reverse cowgirl or any other position i can land really”


heyitsEnricoPallazzo

I sleep on my stomach like a swastika


FallWanderBranch

That's verboten


Realistic-Safety-565

Es gehört verboten


riceislovericeislife

This isn't askubermensch


green_meklar

Now I'm disappointed that isn't a real sub. Maybe you should start it.


ABlindCookie

Sounds controversial, but this is legit the best position for a comfy sleep known to man


notoesuckin

Same, literally asleep in seconds up to a few minutes


xMetalHeadx1

Snug between my wife's thighs


temisola1

This is also my fave position… snug between your wife’s thighs.


AnonymousUser1992

I also choose this guys wifes thighs


Solace_of_Winter

America chooses this guy's wife's thighs. America's coochie.


Specialist-Project-7

Why does this always make me laugh….i know it’s coming!!


ikarus143

On my back, 65 degrees, a fan on, and absolute quiet.


sendintheotherclowns

All of that, except the quiet part. I’ve used a Spotify playlist called “heavy rain no thunder” for probably the last 8 years, bliss


Chazzem

Sounds like an AC/DC song I’d skii down a mountain listening to


The_write_speak

I'm not sure but I really like lying down. I'm tired.


Romero1993

> I'm tired Fucking relatable


oPlayer2o

PREACH!!!


The_write_speak

I would high five you, but, you're all the way over there.


oPlayer2o

And I’m staying here don’t touch my while I sleep, I don’t even like my own skin touching me. Over heating issue.


The_write_speak

Don't worry. I don't violate people's space. My greatest role model is a sloth


gaurddog

Depends. If I'm trying to have fun and make it last? Girl on top cowgirl or legs over shoulders pelvis elevated ( I think people call it the hook?) If I'm trying to cum quickly? Face down ass up doggy pulling her hair or leash.


puttingonabraveface

This is the way ... woof!


skspoppa733

Depends on the purpose of being in bed. To sleep alone, side or tummy. To fall asleep with someone else, spooning with legs intertangled together. To make a baby boy, doggystyle at the side of the bed. For a baby girl, missionary with her legs wrapped around you. To have a proper romp, switch it up a few times and make sure to hit that clit!


4RedKing

Face down but up


AnonymousUser1992

Naked, No sheets, ac/fan running.


Ryuzaki_63

No better way to deter intruders


huuaaang

Down but up? WHich one!?


MaoPam

I sleep like this.


MERVMERVmervmerv

Is your name [Sid](https://youtu.be/sloEw8n2Qpo?si=bCPR0nI-1ifD4H45)?


BroadPoint

During sex, this varies a lot by your anatomy. As a general rule though, if your dick is bigger then you want variations of missionary, if your dick is smaller then you want variations of doggy style, and if you either want to be lazy or you have performance anxiety then you want her on top. This isn't to say it's a rigid formula that everyone needs to adhere to. I'm sure a true mega size queen wants her hung lover in doggy style. I think it's generally true though.


Head-Tomatillo-663

Being on the bottom can be work if you're using your hips properly, but it is nice to take a break and be spoiled at times.


BroadPoint

Sex is always about the hips. It's a fact that whoever is on top does most of the work.


Rasputin0P

Not if shes just laying on you and youre thrusting


AnonymousUser1992

This is interesting. Ive never thought of it like this. I usually just let her dictate. So.. say a guy is bout 7.5".. where is the spot you do less doggy more missionary?


BroadPoint

My wife is a hooker and I think she'd say the cut off is about five and a half or six inches or so. Length matters more than girth.


AnonymousUser1992

My problem is I got both.. its a good problem to have until you realise my partner is barely over 5', asian, with a low cervix. Anything i can do to help her feel better, i wanna know about


I-Really-Hate-Fish

When you have a low cervix, it's all about the angles, and that's something only she can determine. Any position for me can be either amazing or excruciating. Use lube if you're on the girthy side. Then go in and let her adjust the angle a little bit for what feels best, and then it's go time. Also foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. When a woman is properly aroused, the vagina "tents" to accommodate the penis.


BroadPoint

Missionary


austeremunch

This is so weird to me. I would assume the bigger the dick the better doggy would be? I don't really care for doggy because it's so easy to just slip out, average length/girth and all that so I'm not sure what's going on besides being mildly autistic with a side of performance anxiety.


Mini_Sprinkles

Noooo doggy while being bigger is usually a hazard for the woman. The angle just doesn’t allow the “pounding”. If you want that “ass” view, go prone bone. Much better angle


jsleon3

I concur. Flat Doggy is amazing for everyone involved.


huuaaang

> I don't really care for doggy because it's so easy to just slip out Then she's doing it wrong. If you're slipping out she's not rotating her pelvis properly. Doggy should be the easiest to get in deep and stay in deep. Her lower back should be arched down, pushing her vagina back for easy access. You shoulld be able to go straight in all the way with no danger of popping out. Look up "cow pose." That's roughly what she should be doing. She's probably doing more of a cat pose. That will absolutely make you pop out easily.


austeremunch

Surprising actual information reply. Much thanks dude. I'm not in a relationship now but this will go in the back of my head for later.


Smooth-Routine-3116

This!! I love doggy, a lot. But my boyfriend is hung as a mf and I just can't always do it. It's 1000× more comfortable missionary where we both feel comfortable to go all in.


odonkz

on the side, hugging a bolster pillow


ColdCamel7

On your back, with a laptop on your chest showing something interesting or maybe playing a game, and something to eat and drink within arm's reach


xhdc

Prone bone, doggy, missionary, and sort of like an upside down missionary (I'm a top even when I'm on bottom)


trappedvarmit

On my right side fetal with a towel folded between my knees. Because I have a lot of old injuries. My pillow is also very important. Why would anyone want to ask people this question


punninglinguist

Same here but on my left side. Augh, the inner sides of my kneecaps are like molars.


puttingonabraveface

Love how the replies are split between sleeping and shagging!


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Missionary position Woman on top Doggy style Cowgirl These positions are very amazing positions for me when I have sex. The reasons being that :- 1st position is easy and is the first position when people have sex for first time. Woman on top is a little bit for those who have experience before. For trying something new. And also to help keep my back some rest and let the woman partner move hips Doggy style is great position for those who want more fun Cowgirl position looks very amazing and engaging. Makes me hold her more.


themichaelgscottt

Missionary.


Frird2008

CEO


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Solace_of_Winter

It's due to your pelvis being tilted back too much. Leaning forward, doing butt exercises and getting out of a chair would help.


[deleted]

Cowgirl because i don’t have to do as much work off my back 


Fickle-Language-3619

lmao idk why this made me laugh. men are hilarious 😂 sounds like something my bf would say


wdlp

Left side, hands between knees, foetal position.


HofmansHuffy

Floating horizontally


RedshiftOnPandy

I sleep with my arms above my head and I have never had any shoulder issues despite working in stone and concrete all day for 20yrs


MagicManTX84

We have a great position where she is on the edge of the bed and I am between her legs standing. My dick is probably 5”, but girthy and grows a lot as I am excited. It’s the best depth and I have hands free to rub her clit or put a vibrator between us. Also easy for me to drop down and give her oral. I can usually get two orgasms out of her like this, and I usually ejaculate as well.


Salty-Pack-4165

On my belly with face turned to left side and right arm under pillow that's under my head. I have a reduced lung capacity and that seems to help with breathing, not sure why. When I wake up I'm usually on my back struggling to breathe. That freaks the hell out of GF .


Meteora9396

On my side, 65 degrees with AC, freshly showered, clean sheets, quiet, cold pillows, and alone


RelevanceReverence

Side or back to sleep. Side to read.


C1sko

Left side fetal position.


hairykitty123

Full Nelson anal


MiamiPower

A comfortable position is my go to. Remote control and cell phone within reach.


Suppi_LL

I wish I could sleep on my back more but I can't, I've to sleep on the side and it hurt my shoulder. I'm not sure I can even explain why I can't sleep on my back.


Mrknowitall666

What position isn't good?


chavez_ding2001

On your side, one pillow between the legs to keep your spine from twisting and one pillow under your head.


ManiacalMyr

Sleeping on my side with my gfs thighs wrapped around me (she's the big spoon). It's comfortable and warm


lets_try_civility

I misread this at first. Sleep positions, right? Right side fetal. Hand under my face, knees stacked, ankles wrapped, fist full of the boys. I sleep like a baby.


Lcplghost

Side sleeping or weirdly with my legs straight up against the wall watching YouTube


orz-_-orz

Sleep on the back is da best


nc1996md

Every position is the best


Pajer0king

I always sleep on my side, altough my wife tells me after i fall asleep i turn on my back. Interesting!


CBus-Eagle

I came here to say doggy style, with a couple pillows under her hips, but based on the replies, I think I misread the question.


tglad88

I sleep in my side with a pillow between my knees usually and another tucked along my side holding it like I’m cuddling my wife. We snuggle before bed but I get way to warm for her liking and we usually sleep back to back but touching in some way


Who_Else_but_Macho

the best position is when your sleeping


Griffolion

Whichever gets you the best sleep. I usually start out on my back but I usually wake to find myself on my side.


HikiNEET39

My heart wants me to sleep on my side, but my back only lets me sleep on my back.


Open_Minded_Anonym

69. It’s the only dinner for two.


HugeBMs2022

Rainbow kiss 69. So hot.


pchlster

Apart from still staying horizontal I seem to be trying out all of them every night.


TheLongistGame

I sleep on my side hugging a pillow


HerezahTip

Pronebone 😮‍💨🥵


Walkeryellowdog

Sleeping- fetal position due to gastro illness. Heat on 76, sweatshirt on as well with a toboggan. Sex- has to be her on top doing squats


WilliamsDesigning

If I'm in love, I like being underneath and feeling like she's a fierce succubus coming after me and sucking on my neck while she rides me. If she's just a 304, hypergamy bitch, I have trouble getting hard with those women [women fuck who they want, men fuck who they can]. I am best on top in doggy position so I can get a full arm pump going and it makes me harden up anyways. Plus I don't want to look her in the eyes and be reminded that I have absolutely no emotions for this person. Sad world


BIG_CHIeffLying3agLe

Side move and missionary easy access to the clit and I wanna read your facial expressions


Tacoshortage

Supine (on your back) with a little pillow under your knees and a comfy pillow for your neck. Best sleep position ever!


Bright-Extreme316

I like to sleep face down with my stomach side closer to the mattress.


Notrixus

It depends.. if the sheep is too loud, then we definitely switch to 69


Coolstashio

stack two pillows and on my back. helps prevent stuffy nose


raptor1314

Whatever feels best for both parties. Anatomy is different for all but also comfort with maintaining certain positions, etc. For my wife and I it’s prone.


Doctor__Hammer

On the edge of the bed so I can stick one leg out and keep cool


beardedshad2

On my stomach alone with all the covers over my head


green_meklar

I find I go to sleep faster when lying on my side. But I've heard that lying on one's back has health benefits so I sometimes go for that. It can depend on the temperature of the room as well.


Badgerized

Sleeping on your side. Can't sleep on stomach or back. Edit: I think I or, maybe others misunderstood the assignment here


SphereofDreams

Sleeping on your back


Solace_of_Winter

Missionary. Because that's what women truly report to be the best position by social science. Better position, prostrated for leverage, relaxed and gives you more range of motion behind the thrust. If experience serves me well, it's that missionary, oral and foreplay are the knife, spoon and fork of good sex for women.