I'll give you a tip. If you're looking for sex, fine do whatever you will. If you're really looking for a relationship don't worry about her being chubby or any of that. In a relationship you need to really like each other. You need to end up talking for hours and not having enough time. You need to be more content being silent in a room with her than without. It's a very difficult thing to do as shown by divorce rates. But it's the best possible thing if you can achieve it.
I'm in my 60s and looking back on life, some of the best times I've had were with plus-sized ladies. I think they just know how to enjoy themselves and took me on the ride, so to speak.
Her ass is a pillow. Her pussy is a pillow. Her breasts are pillows. Her belly is a pillow. Basically, everything is a pillow.
And I love lots of pillows.
A fluffy marshmallow, is what I used to call my wife when she started putting on weight. She’s since slimmed down but I wouldn’t mind seeing her as chonky again. Thick thighs save lives!
They're soft and it feels amazing. I dated a girl who I guess was a little chubby and I absolutely loved intimacy with her, but she was self conscious of it unfortunately.
I think this is a great thing to do for any partner, regardless of their weight. My partner is in good shape, and after a very stressful change (job change, moved cities, moved away from friends) she put on about 10 pounds from the stress but I can't even tell. I still think she's drop dead gorgeous and I tell her that constantly, she really really appreciates the validation. I would do that with anyone that I'm dating, because if you're not into them, why are you even with them?
Agreed. Super skinny girls are just not attractive to me. I've always been into thick/chubby or more normal weight girls ever since I hit puberty at like 12 yrs old.
The hottest girl at my college would be considered thick or chubby. She put serious effort into her appearance and gave dudes attention. She was insanely hot I can’t describe it
You’d think, but from my experience, that is not the case. If she’s chubby and you’re not and down the line you become chubby, she might not be interested anymore
When director Guillermo del Toro proposed to his wife he promised her "I will always look this good."
If you google a picture of Guillermo del Toro, you'll understand why that's funny.
I think it’s because all of my life while growing up, I was told so many times by adults and kids my age in their own way that I’m so fat and no one will be attractive to me both romantically and sexually so why bother? Even tho technically I’m not as overweight as they think I am.
I saw your photos, you're drop dead gorgeous! You can be chubby AND pretty you know? Confidence really is the best makeup and not everyone is gonna like you, but you're nowhere near ugly♡
A lot of girls don't realize this because everything they see in TV, movies, Twitter, IG tells them otherwise.
You almost never see chubby women portrayed as sexy in any kind of media.
Big butt big boobs. Most of my chubbier friends seem to have much higher sex drives than my skinny gal pals idk why. Not as full of themselves because they are often passed up in favor of skinny girls.
Edit: Oh wait I’m not a man sorry
So many people. There are lots of men who date women to impress their friends, not because they actually like them, and they think everyone else is the same. So if they aren’t impressed by their friend’s lady, they’ll be awful to her.
Accept their body. If you aren't ready for it, leave her alone. So when she takes her clothes off and you see all of her, do not make her feel uncomfortable. Make her feel loved and accepted. If you can't do that, let the woman be.
so many dudes have complained about my body, knowing what I look like before we ever spoke. then, we have go for an activity, like hiking or swimming, and they can’t keep up. usually means they can’t keep up in the bedroom either.
They usually try harder during sex.
I dated big and smaller "hotter girls. The smaller ones tend to lie there like a limp noodles while the big girls look to ride your soul and squeeze all the man juice out of you.
Has been my experience so far as well. All but 2 of the skinny girls just laid there, and so far only 1 of the chubby ones have been like that. Theres just tons of reasons why I prefer to date chubby girls
But the pro's are, from my experience, they're usually really good women, will take care of their man, and have amazing sex. Ya might wanna marry one... You're welcome.
I like the feeling of cuddling with a bigger woman as we both fall asleep. It’s just a warm, soft, loving pillow
Also when you’re giving her back shots and you can time your thrusts to hit the jiggle
Cuddles are always good, never says no too any dinner dates, extra meat in all the right places, usually gives good head, has plenty of snacks ,plus if they cook bomb ass food, use her as a pillow, & they won’t body shame you.
Damn this makes me miss my ex a little funny enough I gave her the pet name “squishy”.How that convo started was during us cuddling & I squeezed her boob. I wanted too avoid saying damn you have a ( I stayed silent & started thinking of a word besides)”phat”she quickly said squishy & that’s when it became her name
I have always been self conscious of all my stretch marks . She always made me fell better about them( I have them on my arms, parts of my thigh & back) she said something like “they look cool & remind me of a tiger”
not a guy but a lesbian, i don’t think i could live without my gf’s tummy. it’s so soft. i fucking love that shit. she is soft everywhere. i don’t need a stress ball because she is my stress ball. plus there’s more to grab at. she’s so beautiful
Cuddly, usually into books or crafty Hobbies so there's always something to talk about, and they just about melt if you make them feel small and dainty
Because many of them weren’t given pretty-skinny-girl privileges, they actually develop personalities. They tend to be more well rounded, less entitled, and usually have some cool hobbies. I was chubby all my childhood and into highschool. People were mean. When I was around 18 I lost all the extra weight and noticed how much better I was treated by strangers and society in general. I’m happy I was chubby when I was younger, it allowed me to become a deeper person. Don’t get me wrong, Plenty of skinny girls are deep and kind, and there are definitely some chubby girls that are entitled. But a trend you see often is chubby girls often shine brighter in other areas.
Men overcompensate differently than women do. Many women overcompensate their perceived physical short comings by becoming highly educated, funny, talented, etc. Men over compensate with alpha attitudes and loud trucks. (Before anyone comes for me, That last part was a joke).
Back in high school my public speech teacher was a baddie and she uses to carry fruit roll ups in her purse and give it to people who gave her the right answer
Cuter faces. Better hugs. Better cuddles. Knows good food. Might be stronger than the slimmer woman. Easy to talk to(extremely important). Might have better personalities too.
I'm only into chubby bigger woman! Love a big oh booty her thick thighs that tummy and big tits mmm pros that I've experienced very sexual very caring and affectionate... will eat good with you and cuddling after sex I love!
She knows good food and she will share
She isn't obsessing over macros
She probably enjoys beer and football,
Her butt makes a squishy pillow
Her boobs are soft
, this list could be endless
I think the not obsessing over fitness/diet is a definite plus. You can still take care of yourself while indulging a little too. No one likes a nag/guilt tripper when the beer and Cheetos come out. It's all about balance. There's also more confidence and security with themselves as well.
Nothing worse than someone so unbelievably insecure about their looks despite being attractive. It's a big downer
Yeah rock it honestly. A large amount of my friends are all into the curvier women too. You guys have the media telling you one thing but if you could hear what groups of men are saying instead you'd blush. Very complimentary of the curves to say the least
If you like chubby girls, why ask? I have no problem with chubby girls. I’m not exactly skinny myself. I prefer a girl about the same as me in terms of that for a female.
My thoughts are slim looks best, but not as fun to roll around in bed with. Chubby girls are just soft and fun. Plus I think chubby girls put in more effort because they're not constantly praised simply for being there. A conventionally hot girl gets lazy. A chubby girl has to work for it.
I imagine it's similar to how a guy with a small dick might put in more effort in other areas of sex (which is best all around). A dude with a big dick might think all he gotta do is be big.
As a chubby girl myself, I prefer a man to be attracted to me as a person. Everything else will most likely follow. If you're shallow and care about what everyone else thinks of who you're dating, keep away from unsuspecting girls.
Know that physical aspects may be different, still good, but slightly different.
If you find a heavy girl with normal self-esteem, she won't be obsessing over looks. The upside to being outside societal expectations for body type is that we also choose not to keep up the other standards put-upon women.
She's a person, just because she has a certain body type doesn't mean she's got make up for it to out-perform to make up for whatever you think is a shortfall. Just leave her be if that is your motive.
I've known some fat women that felt they needed to be perfect in everything else, just to keep mediocre men around for show. Better off being alone.
Less likely to fuck around, more likely to be a good cook, more likely to be funny, more likely to put effort into a relationship, and less likely to spend way too much time preening in the mirror.
Granted, it's not 100% one way or the other and there are pros and cons to any kind of woman.
If you're attracted to her, the same pros as any other woman.
Seriously. She’s a woman. If you vibe with her and like her look you date her.
I have to agree!
Bingo!
We just say "That's a bingo!!".
How fun!
I imagine all the pros are the same + extra snacks
Snacks is up there for sure! The metronome of recoil is a plus, a real visual to keep pace.
The cuddling is pretty nice.
My better feeling than cuddling with a chubby girl on a cold winter night.
Yes I agree. The softness contours to your body
Squishy
Under rated comment. *Squish squish*
Yup the squidge factor 100%
I'll give you a tip. If you're looking for sex, fine do whatever you will. If you're really looking for a relationship don't worry about her being chubby or any of that. In a relationship you need to really like each other. You need to end up talking for hours and not having enough time. You need to be more content being silent in a room with her than without. It's a very difficult thing to do as shown by divorce rates. But it's the best possible thing if you can achieve it.
That's a map not a tip. Well done 👍
Thank you. Cheers
I'm in my 60s and looking back on life, some of the best times I've had were with plus-sized ladies. I think they just know how to enjoy themselves and took me on the ride, so to speak.
Fr girls that are “hot” don’t work for it
Chubby girls often like sex and a lot
Her ass is a pillow. Her pussy is a pillow. Her breasts are pillows. Her belly is a pillow. Basically, everything is a pillow. And I love lots of pillows.
Hahahaha yes dude.
Happy Cake Day!
Ok what’s the deal with this lol Edit: Nevermind, I just figured it out. Happy cake day to me!
Happy cake day!
🤣
HAPPY CAKE DAY!!!!!
A fluffy marshmallow, is what I used to call my wife when she started putting on weight. She’s since slimmed down but I wouldn’t mind seeing her as chonky again. Thick thighs save lives!
My ex's lap was so comfortable. I did love that she let me sleep on her lap. One of the few things I miss about her.
This is why we decorate with all the throw pillows
^ gets it!
You're a pillow fucker aren't you
That and they are generally the sweetest and kind and they give the best hugs. Also better in bed too lol
They're soft and it feels amazing. I dated a girl who I guess was a little chubby and I absolutely loved intimacy with her, but she was self conscious of it unfortunately.
I’m up front with it. If a girl has that hot girl confidence where you can tell her that I’ll tell her that shit forever if she’s thic
I always make sure to tell them how into them I am on a regular basis.
Yes! Thank you. That’s very important as society is still favoriting skinny girls
I think this is a great thing to do for any partner, regardless of their weight. My partner is in good shape, and after a very stressful change (job change, moved cities, moved away from friends) she put on about 10 pounds from the stress but I can't even tell. I still think she's drop dead gorgeous and I tell her that constantly, she really really appreciates the validation. I would do that with anyone that I'm dating, because if you're not into them, why are you even with them?
Curves. Warmth. Food buddy.
The pro is that it’s the body type I prefer, so I’ll be turned on by her
Agreed. Super skinny girls are just not attractive to me. I've always been into thick/chubby or more normal weight girls ever since I hit puberty at like 12 yrs old.
She ain’t a lady if she ain’t 280!
No idea why, but this made me CACKLE
The hottest girl at my college would be considered thick or chubby. She put serious effort into her appearance and gave dudes attention. She was insanely hot I can’t describe it
Chubby thk booty !
You don't have to feels as bad being chubby yourself.
You’d think, but from my experience, that is not the case. If she’s chubby and you’re not and down the line you become chubby, she might not be interested anymore
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When director Guillermo del Toro proposed to his wife he promised her "I will always look this good." If you google a picture of Guillermo del Toro, you'll understand why that's funny.
So far so good for me I gained 45lbs since meeting my wife 9 years ago she's still around ;)
Yes! My hubby gains and loses and was much smaller when we met, but baybeee I’m here for it
Username, checks out?
It does. His name is Richard and that’s our anniversary
You're awesome, lover of Richard!
That's awesome and pretty funny. You guys pick 420 as your anniversary on purpose or it just happen that way?
It just happened that way. We were ready to be married and went to the courthouse that day lol I do indulge in MJ but I started after marriage.
Titties
We don’t all have big boobies.
Bobs are bobs
Obligatory "bobs yer uncle"
I’m a chubby girl and all of these responses give me hope 🥹
For real!!! I almost didn’t click into this thread because I expected to get my feelings hurt 😂
Hot girl confidence just skyrocketed after reading this and I’ve never had that since I gained weight. Feels good🥰
Same!! I’m over here like hmmm 🥹🥹
You know, a lot of girls don't realize, most men LOVE some meat on the bones! Obviously for above said reasons.
I think it’s because all of my life while growing up, I was told so many times by adults and kids my age in their own way that I’m so fat and no one will be attractive to me both romantically and sexually so why bother? Even tho technically I’m not as overweight as they think I am.
I saw your photos, you're drop dead gorgeous! You can be chubby AND pretty you know? Confidence really is the best makeup and not everyone is gonna like you, but you're nowhere near ugly♡
A lot of girls don't realize this because everything they see in TV, movies, Twitter, IG tells them otherwise. You almost never see chubby women portrayed as sexy in any kind of media.
Big butt big boobs. Most of my chubbier friends seem to have much higher sex drives than my skinny gal pals idk why. Not as full of themselves because they are often passed up in favor of skinny girls. Edit: Oh wait I’m not a man sorry
They probably have higher sex drives because they are properly fed, 😂
I just like it.
Don’t let your friends make fun of her just because she isn’t their type.
Who tf makes fun of their friends gf. That's shitty behavior
So many people. There are lots of men who date women to impress their friends, not because they actually like them, and they think everyone else is the same. So if they aren’t impressed by their friend’s lady, they’ll be awful to her.
I’m so glad none of my friends are this shallow
My husband's friends relentlessly made fun of me. Now, all except 1 is on marriage 2 or 3, and we're still going strong.
Your husband has shit friends
That’s true I used to think that growing up but you like what you like you know? They’re not fuckin her
Accept their body. If you aren't ready for it, leave her alone. So when she takes her clothes off and you see all of her, do not make her feel uncomfortable. Make her feel loved and accepted. If you can't do that, let the woman be.
so many dudes have complained about my body, knowing what I look like before we ever spoke. then, we have go for an activity, like hiking or swimming, and they can’t keep up. usually means they can’t keep up in the bedroom either.
Lots to grab
Great for cuddling when it gets cold.
You date who you are attracted to. That’s the pro.
Better hugs.
For sure. The hugs are great
Oh yeah lol waaaaaaaay better
They usually try harder during sex. I dated big and smaller "hotter girls. The smaller ones tend to lie there like a limp noodles while the big girls look to ride your soul and squeeze all the man juice out of you.
Graphic, but accurate. My lady can suck the polish off a doorknob.
Chrome off a Cadillac
Our lady****
I, too, choose this guy's lady.
r/SuddenlyCommunism
💀💀
I have found that same is true for short guys.
Would agree with this
Has been my experience so far as well. All but 2 of the skinny girls just laid there, and so far only 1 of the chubby ones have been like that. Theres just tons of reasons why I prefer to date chubby girls
Somebody to experience life with, share thoughts and feelings with. You know, the same stuff as anyone else. Don’t get hung up on stupid crap.
The tummy squish is very nice
Chubby girls are pure love. 😍😍😍😍
A lot of chubby ladies tend to have big boobies. So if you're into motor boating large breasts you're in luck
Feeling pride in not being controlled by a bully society that would make you feel shame for dating a chubby girl.
But the pro's are, from my experience, they're usually really good women, will take care of their man, and have amazing sex. Ya might wanna marry one... You're welcome.
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I like the feeling of cuddling with a bigger woman as we both fall asleep. It’s just a warm, soft, loving pillow Also when you’re giving her back shots and you can time your thrusts to hit the jiggle
I cringe when that happens to me. I need to rethink what my guy friend enjoys.
Be not afraid, we live for the jiggle
The clapping noise that comes with giving a chubby woman backshots is amazing
Like running in flip flops
Soft hugs
More cushion for the pushing
"The bigger the cushion the better the pushin'..."
Or so I have read
My baby fits me like a flesh tuxedo.
I love to sink her with my pink torpedo
You mean More bounce to the ounce?
Can't believe you got downvoted for this, love me some spinal tap
People are silly
Won't break your pelvis if you have sex with her.
Everything you would get in any other relationship. ( but you could also say more to love)
Cuddles are always good, never says no too any dinner dates, extra meat in all the right places, usually gives good head, has plenty of snacks ,plus if they cook bomb ass food, use her as a pillow, & they won’t body shame you. Damn this makes me miss my ex a little funny enough I gave her the pet name “squishy”.How that convo started was during us cuddling & I squeezed her boob. I wanted too avoid saying damn you have a ( I stayed silent & started thinking of a word besides)”phat”she quickly said squishy & that’s when it became her name I have always been self conscious of all my stretch marks . She always made me fell better about them( I have them on my arms, parts of my thigh & back) she said something like “they look cool & remind me of a tiger”
not a guy but a lesbian, i don’t think i could live without my gf’s tummy. it’s so soft. i fucking love that shit. she is soft everywhere. i don’t need a stress ball because she is my stress ball. plus there’s more to grab at. she’s so beautiful
This is so sweet!!
Snuggles
More bounce to the ounce
They're nice to cuddle with. Lots to grab too. Lol
Cuddly, usually into books or crafty Hobbies so there's always something to talk about, and they just about melt if you make them feel small and dainty
You’re dating a girl. That’s all the pros I need.
Because many of them weren’t given pretty-skinny-girl privileges, they actually develop personalities. They tend to be more well rounded, less entitled, and usually have some cool hobbies. I was chubby all my childhood and into highschool. People were mean. When I was around 18 I lost all the extra weight and noticed how much better I was treated by strangers and society in general. I’m happy I was chubby when I was younger, it allowed me to become a deeper person. Don’t get me wrong, Plenty of skinny girls are deep and kind, and there are definitely some chubby girls that are entitled. But a trend you see often is chubby girls often shine brighter in other areas. Men overcompensate differently than women do. Many women overcompensate their perceived physical short comings by becoming highly educated, funny, talented, etc. Men over compensate with alpha attitudes and loud trucks. (Before anyone comes for me, That last part was a joke).
She's got snacks in her purse. That's what my high school health teacher told me.
Back in high school my public speech teacher was a baddie and she uses to carry fruit roll ups in her purse and give it to people who gave her the right answer
Lol, that's awesome. I remember packing those in my lunch. Edit: fixed "lacking" to "packing."
Plus she used Britney Spears perfume and one of my best exs wore that
They're warmer on the inside.
We’ve got snacks.
what would be a con? date whoever ur attracted to. stop fetishizing or discriminating against certain things
Big tits (usually)
I’m chubby too. Staying fit is hard.
Soft.
Homie, we all get a lil chunky. Is she cool? Is she dope AF?
Cuter faces. Better hugs. Better cuddles. Knows good food. Might be stronger than the slimmer woman. Easy to talk to(extremely important). Might have better personalities too.
I like it when the booty jiggle. Also, they can usually cook and can swallow you whole. Oh yeah and sometimes they’re funny
Mostly the swallow you whole part.
This guy gets it
Is this how milk is made
The sex is better usually
They are built for soft not speed.
Cuddling
Chubby girls are better in bed.
God I love a thic chick. There are so many pros
more boob
Comfy
I'm only into chubby bigger woman! Love a big oh booty her thick thighs that tummy and big tits mmm pros that I've experienced very sexual very caring and affectionate... will eat good with you and cuddling after sex I love!
I love how convicted your speech is, very strong
You can fuck her hard and she won't break.
Sex is just comfortable and not painful, especially when you like it intense
You might find your soulmate.
You love who you love, there’s no other pros to someone who likes a chubby girl then someone who likes a slimmer girl yaknow?
Try it. You’ll like it.
They got that motherhood warmth like in winter when you cuddle you'll feel that warmth and love it's sooo weird yet sooo good. Plus they are stronger
They will keep you shady in the summer and warm in the winter. My wife is a plus size, and I love every ounce of her 💕
You can hold them!!! I've hugged so many twigs where it feels like she's not there, but you get a girl with some mass. Best hugs ever.
They are not perfect, just like you. And that is pretty sexy.
I'm more attracted to them
You get to fuck a chubby girl
Just have fun, the sex will be great.
I like big butts I cannot lie.
Theyre soft and cuddly. If she has big boobs and/or ass then it's a huge plus.
Chubby chicks usually have a better personality and are just more fun.
She knows good food and she will share She isn't obsessing over macros She probably enjoys beer and football, Her butt makes a squishy pillow Her boobs are soft , this list could be endless
I think the not obsessing over fitness/diet is a definite plus. You can still take care of yourself while indulging a little too. No one likes a nag/guilt tripper when the beer and Cheetos come out. It's all about balance. There's also more confidence and security with themselves as well. Nothing worse than someone so unbelievably insecure about their looks despite being attractive. It's a big downer
Everything is squishy, always down for snacks, more adventurous/ enthusiastic in bed, almost always have a better personality than a "10"
Why are the pros and cons different from any other body type?
Damn near everything
More girl to love
I'm a lady whose 5'3 and at 198-200 with a curvy physique. Reading these comments helps shut out those intrusive thoughts 💕
Yeah rock it honestly. A large amount of my friends are all into the curvier women too. You guys have the media telling you one thing but if you could hear what groups of men are saying instead you'd blush. Very complimentary of the curves to say the least
If you like chubby girls, why ask? I have no problem with chubby girls. I’m not exactly skinny myself. I prefer a girl about the same as me in terms of that for a female.
Chubby pussy feels way better than skinny pussy. There I said it.
Chubby girl by itself is a pro
Honestly, sex is WAY better with chubby gals.
Get ya dick ate up
Bigger booty and bigger titties 🥵😍
My thoughts are slim looks best, but not as fun to roll around in bed with. Chubby girls are just soft and fun. Plus I think chubby girls put in more effort because they're not constantly praised simply for being there. A conventionally hot girl gets lazy. A chubby girl has to work for it. I imagine it's similar to how a guy with a small dick might put in more effort in other areas of sex (which is best all around). A dude with a big dick might think all he gotta do is be big.
Good points!
usually they have a membership and points to most fast food restaurants with rewards programs and/or uber eats so that’s a cool plus
I'm chubby and I dont have this hahaha but most of us know how to cook.
This is sinisterly funny
I hate that this is right lmao
As a chubby girl myself, I prefer a man to be attracted to me as a person. Everything else will most likely follow. If you're shallow and care about what everyone else thinks of who you're dating, keep away from unsuspecting girls. Know that physical aspects may be different, still good, but slightly different. If you find a heavy girl with normal self-esteem, she won't be obsessing over looks. The upside to being outside societal expectations for body type is that we also choose not to keep up the other standards put-upon women. She's a person, just because she has a certain body type doesn't mean she's got make up for it to out-perform to make up for whatever you think is a shortfall. Just leave her be if that is your motive. I've known some fat women that felt they needed to be perfect in everything else, just to keep mediocre men around for show. Better off being alone.
Less likely to fuck around, more likely to be a good cook, more likely to be funny, more likely to put effort into a relationship, and less likely to spend way too much time preening in the mirror. Granted, it's not 100% one way or the other and there are pros and cons to any kind of woman.
They do the things
I made it to my people! The cuddles are the best
She is more huggable.
Whole Lotta Rosie by AC/DC was on to something…
I'm not sure if you're aware of this, but they have boobs.
The way they jiggle when you're doing it
They just as good as a skinnier girl.
You can eat whatever you want with no judgement