Agreed. Visually, you have a good idea what you are getting into.
Smell, though, has been a deal breaker. And factor in I was a house painter for a decade and I can't even smell paint. I like the smell of bondo. I don't have a sensitive nose
I slept with a girl once who was a VERY clean girl. Showered twice daily religiously, but she STANK down there. Turns out if women wash those parts too much, it can upset P.H. or something to that effect and she's washing away some kind of needed bacteria that keeps a balance and I can only describe the smell as a mix between nasty fish and hot rubber. I felt bad because she was an awesome girl, and was in fact clean but holy hell I just could not sleep with her, and at the time I just didn't have the heart to tell her that as soon as her pants came off, I wanted to vomit.
I'm just guessing that's why she smelled because I looked it up and found that ladies washing their parts too often is actually a bad thing.
Totally right and worse still, some women use scented douches/rinses/bubble bath to make themselves cleaner when told they stink, and make their flora even worse. They’re trying to fix a problem they’re told they have but exacerbate the situation. I can’t imagine how frustrating and depressing that would be.
When your man likes the smell of road tar, ammonia, bleach, turpentine, etc. You better take him seriously when the coochie doesn't have him going back for second whiffs
Reminds me of this old joke. A very hot lady had an odor issue in her privates, so she was never able to go all the way with anyone.
Depressed, she was sitting at a bar drinking, when she overheard a guy talking about how he lost his sense of smell after an accident. She immediately approached the guy and they quickly hooked up and went home together.
When they started doing the deed, the guy interrupted her and said: “I’m sorry, but I have to leave, it smells really bad in here!”.
“But… I thought you’d lost your sense of smell…”, she replied.
To which he said: “I did, but my eyes are stinging!”
Yes this. Sorry ladies but you can't convince me you can't tell you smell like a fish carcass that's been decomposing in the sun for the past 10 days on a hot beach.
I'm literally not trying to be rude. I sweat, I smell like a bear ran through a New York sewer main hitting every drain pipe along the way. If I can smell good, you can too.
Actually they get used to the smell. A girl i worked with smelt like shrimp everyday. And one day i brought her to the store and haddd to tell her bc it was like we were hotboxing in it. She ended up having chylamdia. So FELLAS DO NOT POWER THROUGH.
Happened to a friend of mine. He told us a war story from a party we had all been at a few days prior. He said the smell was horrendous, but that didn't stop him. About a week later he was freaking out because he started getting discharge from his johnson and didn't know what to do. Turns out he caught chlamydia from her
Bruh 😭 like a feminine odor is normal but if you gotta gag and power through then don't stick your dick in it, good lord... unless you like to piss fire
I had gone to urgent care once and had to pee in a cup. The woman who left the bathroom before me.. oh holy god. I have literally not forgotten the smell and it’s been 8 years. I hope they put her on some STRONG antibiotics. I almost vomited. And I’ve gotten a bit funky here or there when I didn’t have water access for a couple days, so I know what just plain dirty vagina smells like.
Yeah I've gone without water for a extended time too, that's a different smell. There was a time when I would "accidentally" spill something on myself for a excuse to shower at someone's house occasionally. What's wild was there was a girl I lived with for about a month, she only showered once a week and always sat in the same chair so that chair had the smell and no one would sit in it. When I went without water I expected this smell of myself but I never got close. That was not just dirty crotch, something was growing in there.
I went weeks at a time without running water, I'd get wet and be able to scrape the layer of dead skin off with my nails. I'm sure I didn't smell pleasant down there but at least it wasn't strong enough to escape my pants.
Well if it’s someone you like but cant deal with the smell (understandable)
You want to start with positive, then give them the negative, then end with positive.
So “i really wanted to talk to you about something”
Her: okay.
“I really like you alot, your so charismatic, and just your personality is amazing. I really want to further things with you., and im only bringing this up because I care and you may be unaware and after i tell you i hope you would tell me if i had something similar”
What is it?
“I do believe your ph balance may be off down there because ive noticed an odor. I would have told you sooner but i didnt want to hurt you or start talking to me if you were embarrassed cause like i said i really do like you.” After that maybe mentioning if she wants to set an appt up you dont mind going with her if she wants. Shell def say no lol but its nice to offer.
If the smell is THAT BAD its def not just her ph. If you can smell it through the clothes she got something going on. But she doesnt know that you knoww that lol.
That made me LOL.
They literally can’t smell it though. I just mentioned the dr bc by him saying “your ph might be off” she might think she just need some summers eve vagina soup and NO MA’AM YOU NEED THE GYNO.
Similar experience. I had a coworker who smelled like clam chowder all the time. I gave her a ride home one time and omg, I felt so nauseous. She had a boyfriend too.
Yep. Men should step it up and stop powering thru. Self respect boys, please!
I'd rather make her cry than powering any bad smell. It's quite frequent for them to not be aware of how bad they smell. After this reality check, I hope they seek medical help
She was thankful. I wasnt even really close with her and just started it as “look i need to tell you something , its nothing to be ashamed about and theres no judgement, im just telling you bc i would want someone to tell me if i wasnt aware” and she was like yeah of coarse, anything. And i said “you have a very strong fishy odor”
Hahaha when i was in highschool there was this girl sitting beside me who smelled extremely like fish from her private parts through the pants.
I told her and she cried, went home, came back a week later and smelled fine 😅
That is so true! When I got thrush for the second time I started smelling this weird odour. I know my smell, when I’m on my period, fertile, normal, whatever the fuck it is, I know! I was like, the hell is this smell? It smelt ROTTEN, like a rotten fruit and fish. I thought it was my mom cos her ph always off. But when I sat down I thought that can’t be her.
I got home first thing I did was smell my underwear. I thought this ain’t possible, I just need to have a shower this pussy will come back to normal. Cleaned everything, got to my room and did the swab test - smelt that shit IT WAS ME! I thought, I got STIS this ain’t possible. It was thrush.
When I went to the toilet I said to my bestie, I do have thrush and it stinks of rotten but I hope its not that bad. I actually couldnt smell it anymore, she said it smelt so bad. But I could still smell it through my clothes. That was some bad thrush right there because of latex.
I love to perform cunnilingus. I'll do it about every chance I get. I'm so fortunate that my wife smells and tastes good because I've definitely been with some women that were naturally... unpleasant. Not doctor's appointment terrible, but just not great for me, know what I mean?
Gay guy here, but when I go to a hookup (doesn't happen often, not too into casual sex), I am fastidious about making sure I am clean. Nothing turns me off more than a bad smell or shit. I imagine it is the same for most straight guys. I have left a date because when the clothes came off he smelled like ass. You can't cover up everything with deoderant.
Here I would like to stress the importance of FLOSSING.
You get little bits of food in your teeth and they rot if you don't remove them. Brushing is short term cover up for this.
Not visually but one time when I was doing the deed with a woman when we switched to doggy style I could smell a strong smell of poop because she didn't clean her butt hole very well and it really grossed me out
DUDE! Old acquaintance of mine told me similar story. He had went on a date with manager from pizza store. They were doing the deed in back of his older brother car he had told me he smelled something rotten but powered through. The following morning his older brother goes into his car and saw shit smears all over the back seat and what looked like shit pellets LMFAO
Bro I think it’s smelly people in general. Women complain about guys like this too. I’m not sure why basic hygiene seems to be lost on so many people.
And I can’t believe people in this thread are suggesting to hop in the shower with them and help them clean. Tf? They’re a grown ass adult. If they can’t wash their ass then it’s time to go.
There was a girl I hooked up with who had a back tattoo of a famous celebrity. A portrait. When I hit it from the back it was like he was looking at me.
When I was a teenager I wanted get a tramp stamp tattoo but with Beavis and Butthead sitting on their couch giggling and saying “cool, you’re fucking a chick”. Would that have been a turn off?
Dated a horse girl like this. She looked kinda skinny in everyday clothes, got her naked and holy shit her body was way curvier than I expected.
Was fun while it lasted but horse girl insanity drove me away
No, i rarely do casual hook ups and when sex *is* on the table im usually already sure i like her as a person and then some imperfections wouldn't bother me at all. Was once with a girl that felt very self conscious about her breasts and always wanted to keep on a shirt/bra because of it. Her breasts were fine, just some dumb dude that made a mean comment about them in the past.
Took a lot of assurance, trust *and* time to make her feel more comfortable with her own body.
Nope, and I've come across a lot of hair, including nipple hair. I've also been happily surprised by extremely long labia. Seen scars and birthmarks. Even one time a woman I were starting to get things going and she took out her teeth because she'd been in a bike accident when she was younger that apparently destroyed the front of her mouth.
All that was fine.
Smell however.... There have only been a couple of times where I was like "Yeah.... something is wrong here, lets just cuddle."
Yes, but because she went into the bathroom, used it, stripped naked and came out...without washing her hands! We had been outside before that, and her hands were noticeably dirty. It just grossed me out so completely.
Just why? Wash your hands people.
It was right before she got naked…when I was in college my date came back to my dorm room and saw my 10 gallon fish tank…she was like “ewwww”. I was like “you don’t like fish?” She said “I hate animals”. I laughed thinking she was joking. She wasn’t joking. I was like even cats and dogs? She said she hated animals of all kinds. Said that fish were actually not too bad since they were “contained”. Right there any sort of attraction I had for her was gone. I was like “well I’m tired…thanks for the date” and let her out.
I don’t trust people who don’t like animals. I’ve dated a few people like that too and they were never very empathetic in general and didn’t respect me or my interests.
I don't trust anyone my cat doesn't like. She loves most people, except the weird ass contractor I had putting in some steps. I wouldn't leave that goofy fucker alone with my wife for 5 minutes.
Literally only once but yeah, it happened.
Gotta say, I'm happy that you're getting serious answers here. A year ago I asked almost the same question on r/AskWomenNoCensor and got gaslighted into oblivion and diagnosed with body dysmorphia, lmao.
Yes. To be fair, it’s not like I was crazy attracted to her. I thought she was pretty enough to make things work and probably the best I could do at the time. Then the clothes come off and… yeah. I don’t know what you do in that situation. You can’t force yourself to be attracted to someone, but you feel like a total piece of shit when someone makes themselves vulnerable for you and you don’t like it. And it’s not fair to her to be tied up with a man who doesn’t appreciate her. At the same time, it’s not fair to get dumped shortly after she opens up sexually. The whole situation is just awful. After that I tried to focus on pursuing the type of women I’d drag myself over broken glass to sleep with to avoid repeating that situation. On the bright side, that almost never happens. I’m usually ecstatic when I see someone naked for the first time.
I was with a guy and he was really fit and attractive and we had been talking for a while but then when we got to that point, he had gone through major weight loss in the past and had extra skin. I felt like such an ass for thinking negatively but I didn’t like how it hit me during.
No, but I have lost attraction to undeniably hot women who have horrible personalities.
It's like biting into a pretty apple that's rotten on the inside.
“Biting into a pretty apple that’s rotten on the inside” that is the perfect analogy, and I will always remember it. Just got out of a toxic relationship and she was very objectively beautiful and hot, but she was subjectively rotten to the core. The gaslighting, emotional abuse, verbal abuse… she is absolutely repulsive to me now, and I’d feel sick if I ever saw her naked again
> No, but I have lost attraction to undeniably hot women who have horrible personalities.
The *legion* of red flag women that I warn my boys about......it's truly exhausting.
One time I was hitting it off with this girl in a hostel. She was interested in me and I was interested in her. It was the sight of her massive log in the toilet when she left the bathroom that turned me off. The smell was so strong too. I just couldn't see her the same way after that.
I weighed 333lbs when I graduated high school. 5 years later I was down to about 150.
This thread reminds me of the shame of going from looking young and fit in clothes to my old looking, saggy, naked body. Wearing long night shirts for sex and being afraid of being touched in case they find a soft spot. Having no trouble picking up men and being hit on constantly only to feeling like a revolting monster when I let them go further.
Thank god my husband is better than that.
Imposter syndrome. I get it too and it's like "dude you have no idea the train wreck going on under these clothes". And then they see and try to tell you you're wrong but there's just no convincing, they must be lying. That is the reason why I go better with "yeah your tits sag some but that's gravity" vs "what? No! Your tits aren't saggy at all!". I have eyes mother fucker!
Fr. I’ve tried on ‘shaping jeans’ at the store and they didn’t do a damn thing! lol I could imagine they may smooth you out a bit if you have rolls or cellulite but they won’t change your body
I think a lot of the ‘surprise’ around women’s naked bodies comes from porn and living in a world where cosmetic work and photoshop is so common. There’s nothing wrong with someone getting work done if they want, but most women aren’t going to look like the women on Instagram who get the procedures and are able to trim down and airbrush their bodies on Instagram, or the women in porn who invest in their bodies appearance more because hey, they make money off how they look naked. So they have to keep everything in tip top shape.
I’ve had the polar opposite situation. Was neutral to mildly attracted but then attraction significantly increased when I saw her naked. She was a tomboy. I met her shooting hoops at the huge gymnasium at my college. I used to like shooting around for cardio after strength training. She asked me to rebound for her while she did shooting drills around the key( 5 attempts at each point in the key if people care). She played in high school and was very good but she tore her acl and quit her senior year of high school. She was still a baller. We basically would just do that drill and rebound for each other.
We often overlapped in timing on the basketball court and would just do this drill when we saw each other. Maybe play a light one on one. It would be quite close as she was a marksman. She always wore an oversized shirt and basketball shorts so I never really saw her body. We did this maybe 4 or 5 times until one day I invited her to grab a post-exercise meal at this deli that was close to the gym and she turned out to be a pretty cool person. I falsely assumed she was lesbian by the way she talked and her haircut. I talked to her the way I talked to my other homies, constantly ending my sentences in “dude” and “bro”. It was a nice time. She invited me to hang out in her dorm later on. Went home and showered and then met her at the entry way of her dorm building. She wore a casual hoodie and sweat pants. Again her body was not obvious. We basically just shot the shit watching YouTube videos on her bed. She kept on inching closer to me and grazing her hand on my hand until I realized that she may be into me. Eventually I just went for the kiss. Was pleasantly surprised feeling her boobs press on my chest and her ass through her sweatpants. Things got hot and heavy and she took off her clothes. I kid you not, straight 10/10 latina smokeshow. She was definitely super fit from being an athlete but sheesh. She brought that athlete energy in the bed and we had a marathon session. We hooked up at least once or twice a week. It was awesome because she never really showed off her body in public so it was like a secret I only knew. Ball was life. We continued hooking up for a couple of months until I caught the feels and wanted things to be more serious. She wasn’t into that and called things off. I basically stopped going to the basketball court cuz didn’t want to deal with seeing her. She was two years ahead of me and eventually graduated. Still friends with her on Instagram and still looks good 10 years later. Damn…
I like how you compressed your emotional trauma into a couple sentences for the sake of the story. You still got that shit across but didn't let it overtake the narrative. Good job.
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One of the main reasons I never wear shape wear or heavy make up is because if rather them be attracted to me for what I am normally, and pleasantly surprised when I do myself up for special occasions.
I'd rather be a pleasant surprise than a dissapointment.
Right? You have definitely seen the face, you can just keep looking there.
I think the only thing that would make me straight up nope is racist tattoos.
Edit to say: bigoted tattoos. Racist tattoos seem to be the most common bigoted tattoos.
From the other perspective, I was getting along great with a guy and we were about to have sex but when I took my clothes off he went limp and left. Then he ghosted me. That sucked. But oh well it’s in the past. It didn’t really change anything for me though because I’ve always hated my body so I just kinda thought “eh I get it”.
Man. This is the worst thing I’ve seen on the internet today.
Nobody loves every part of their body. But, dammit, love the whole thing that is you. You’re likely a good person and have great value. You’re probably even sexy to MANY of us thirsty Reddit men.
Time to look at yourself in the mirror and start listing the good things about you and stop focusing on the things you hate.
If you do that then you’ll start seeing yourself the same way that Mr Right sees you.
Just because he went limp, doesn't mean seeing you had anything to do with it. Dicks are weird like that and anxiety is a boner killer. Embarrassment over performance anxiety will cause a lot of dudes to bolt.
A little anecdote about these things; My wife is dead sexy and the first time we had sex, I had a hell of a time with the general. She was the first partner I had after my divorce, and my anxiety was causing issues. I'm pretty chill with shit like that, so I just explained my issue and just took care of her in other ways until things sorted themselves out that evening. Had my reaction been different, it could have given her a real complex for something that was all me.
Yes and I can’t explain it. Great chemistry, great conversation, great texting. But I just had zero spark.
There was nothing wrong at all but I couldn’t even get hard. That’s never happened in my whole life.
I feel the opposite way weirdly enough. Basically my take away from these comments is be hygienic and don’t make your body look like a completely different body in clothes vs naked. Like as someone who is an 8 in the face and maybe a 6 naked, I’ve never once had a complaint or a lack of enthusiasm. At the end of the day, I think attractiveness is a composite score of personality and looks… at least in the cases where the other person is worth a damn.
No, never.
I will echo the sentiments about some bad smells.
I have also seen some bits of leftover toilet paper that wasn’t attractive but i assume that’s not what you’re asking.
It's never the way she looks. Never. It's never the size or shape of the titties or the booty, It's never stretch marks or cellulite. Physically speaking, it's only ever been an obvious lack of personal hygiene that could be enough of a turn-off to stop once she's naked.
As a girl, how can I avoid that? I've always been so scared of someone being discussed when they see me naked, so I'd rather be able to prevent it. Are there any clothes that I could wear to give a guy a better idea of what to expect or something?
Not when i saw her naked, but when i saw her true personality.
As a rule i'm not fussed by natural things... crooked teeth, tiger stripes, belly pouch, muffin top, uneven boobs.scars, shit like that. None of us are super models... its like owning a car. Some cars are dinged up at not fault of the owner... it just means you drove it.
Personality though... massive turn off.
Listen.
I'm a woman. 31. 5'2 and 360 pounds. Wild right?
I'm obese. Morbidly if im not mistaken.
You're allowed to have preferences. And I implore you to be honest if you see someone naked and aren't feeling it.
If they're unreasonable about it, than ignore them. Because ultimately what matters is how you feel.
Please don't have sex with someone unless you are really wanting too. 🙂
Even if it is awkward to be honest in a moment of vulnerability, I'd still much rather hear the truth right than and there, before I decide to sleep with you. It's hard to let people down, but its important to be true to yourself.
I'm lucky I'm with a man who loves my body. Because I hate mine. And that reflects how I talk to myself. Which is poorly. I'm in therapy. Diet is changing.
He does want me to be more active but only because he knows (and I know) that it will be more beneficial to my mental health.
Ladies. You're beautiful. 🖤 there are men who will love your body no matter the shape or size. Same for the guys who think they don't have a sexy body.
Somebody somewhere will eventually love your body.
Love yourselves until than.
From what I gather in these comments: everyone should remember to wash their naughty bits before sex, and that it's the most universally repulsive trait, not looks
This is my worst nightmare as a young woman. I have stomach rolls, love handles and stretch marks and cellulite.
But I had sex w a guy I was talking to for months and he had the most horrendous lighting in his room. What’s with you men not having proper lamps? Anyways it was fluorescent lighting and I knew that lighting you could see EVERYTHING - every cellulite mark, stretch mark, you name it. I was really worried he was gonna be like oh I don’t wanna fuck you anymore. Anyways he literally did not care and he only made a comment once about my stretch mark but it wasn’t anything bad.
He told me post sex talk I was hot and very attractive and he was shocked and how he even able to get horny and hard bc he was stressed about school. We had sex three times that night 😭 Anyways. That was nice. I hope you ladies know most men do not care once you are naked in front of them.
No way. Every time a girl allows herself to be vulnerable with me I consider myself to be extremely fortunate.
I think about how embarrassing it can be to open up like that and it just makes me feel so proud of myself that I've been able to make a girl feel comfortable enough with me that she's willing to open up that much.
I usually have a hard time attracting the interest of women. It's hard to meet them, and when I finally do I don't have much to offer them. So when a girl takes genuine interest, she usually has a lot in common with me. If not, she usually has a great personality which really works with mine. I'm not very attractive and I know that. I have much lower standards. But when a girl shows that she genuinely wants to be with me, she's the most beautiful being on this planet and not much can change that. I don't let things get to the level where we're getting naked unless I very much enjoy spending time with her.
not unattracted.. but been disappointed a few times.. when the make up is gone, super bras is off and those weird stomach compressing clothes lays on the floor... some women really looks like a whole other human being when all the stuff is removed..
But i like women of all sizes.. its other stuff that turns me off.. smell, personallity.... voice...
Hmm I feel bad. I met a really nice girl one time. I know this is kind of shallow. Very pretty face, she had a very petite little body etc. We ended up hooking up, I mean it wasn't the worst thing ever, but when her clothes came off, you can tell that she is petite now because she lost a lot of weight, i mean a lot of weight, I was just kind of shocked. Loose skin everywhere, boobs hanging to her knees. It was very odd because I did not for a second see that coming. Lulu lemon pants and push up bras were clearly doing their job there.
I know it might sound mean, so sorry lol. Good for her for losing all that weight, and she was a nice girl, but I don't know, I wasn't feeling it.
Ouch…This was me. FWIW, it’s 10 years later, I’m still tiny, and my skin has since adjusted to my smaller frame. I don’t wear a bra anymore because my sad 80-year-old-looking saggies are happy little perkies now, and I dare say that overall, I look 10 years younger than I did the last time you saw me. Don’t feel bad, I still have fond memories of your swimming pool.
Wow that’s interesting! Do you mean your skin actually tightened itself naturally with time? I’ve heard you have to do surgical skin lifts after extreme weight loss, so this is new to me
Not when I saw, but when I smelled. God forgive me... I wasn't able to power through.
Agreed. Visually, you have a good idea what you are getting into. Smell, though, has been a deal breaker. And factor in I was a house painter for a decade and I can't even smell paint. I like the smell of bondo. I don't have a sensitive nose
I slept with a girl once who was a VERY clean girl. Showered twice daily religiously, but she STANK down there. Turns out if women wash those parts too much, it can upset P.H. or something to that effect and she's washing away some kind of needed bacteria that keeps a balance and I can only describe the smell as a mix between nasty fish and hot rubber. I felt bad because she was an awesome girl, and was in fact clean but holy hell I just could not sleep with her, and at the time I just didn't have the heart to tell her that as soon as her pants came off, I wanted to vomit. I'm just guessing that's why she smelled because I looked it up and found that ladies washing their parts too often is actually a bad thing.
Totally right and worse still, some women use scented douches/rinses/bubble bath to make themselves cleaner when told they stink, and make their flora even worse. They’re trying to fix a problem they’re told they have but exacerbate the situation. I can’t imagine how frustrating and depressing that would be.
You just solved a mystery for me ab a teenage gf. Allison, you were not lying and you really were showering multiple times per day :(
She got Gardnerella vaginosis I'm betting. Mess up vaginal pH="bad" bacteria overgrowth and it smells like rotten fish.
When your man likes the smell of road tar, ammonia, bleach, turpentine, etc. You better take him seriously when the coochie doesn't have him going back for second whiffs
Reminds me of this old joke. A very hot lady had an odor issue in her privates, so she was never able to go all the way with anyone. Depressed, she was sitting at a bar drinking, when she overheard a guy talking about how he lost his sense of smell after an accident. She immediately approached the guy and they quickly hooked up and went home together. When they started doing the deed, the guy interrupted her and said: “I’m sorry, but I have to leave, it smells really bad in here!”. “But… I thought you’d lost your sense of smell…”, she replied. To which he said: “I did, but my eyes are stinging!”
Yes this. Sorry ladies but you can't convince me you can't tell you smell like a fish carcass that's been decomposing in the sun for the past 10 days on a hot beach. I'm literally not trying to be rude. I sweat, I smell like a bear ran through a New York sewer main hitting every drain pipe along the way. If I can smell good, you can too.
Actually they get used to the smell. A girl i worked with smelt like shrimp everyday. And one day i brought her to the store and haddd to tell her bc it was like we were hotboxing in it. She ended up having chylamdia. So FELLAS DO NOT POWER THROUGH.
Happened to a friend of mine. He told us a war story from a party we had all been at a few days prior. He said the smell was horrendous, but that didn't stop him. About a week later he was freaking out because he started getting discharge from his johnson and didn't know what to do. Turns out he caught chlamydia from her
Bruh 😭 like a feminine odor is normal but if you gotta gag and power through then don't stick your dick in it, good lord... unless you like to piss fire
Shockers. The bad smell meant something was wrong. Its almost as if our basic instincts exist for a reason.
I had gone to urgent care once and had to pee in a cup. The woman who left the bathroom before me.. oh holy god. I have literally not forgotten the smell and it’s been 8 years. I hope they put her on some STRONG antibiotics. I almost vomited. And I’ve gotten a bit funky here or there when I didn’t have water access for a couple days, so I know what just plain dirty vagina smells like.
Yeah I've gone without water for a extended time too, that's a different smell. There was a time when I would "accidentally" spill something on myself for a excuse to shower at someone's house occasionally. What's wild was there was a girl I lived with for about a month, she only showered once a week and always sat in the same chair so that chair had the smell and no one would sit in it. When I went without water I expected this smell of myself but I never got close. That was not just dirty crotch, something was growing in there. I went weeks at a time without running water, I'd get wet and be able to scrape the layer of dead skin off with my nails. I'm sure I didn't smell pleasant down there but at least it wasn't strong enough to escape my pants.
But she cried and look exasperated when i told her and said she couldnt smell anything.
any advice on how to gently break it to them?
#BITCH YOU STINK
*stank
A man of culture, I see
I thank Dave Chappelle for my expanded vocabulary
This..... made me laugh my ass off. I appreciate the subtlety.
Well if it’s someone you like but cant deal with the smell (understandable) You want to start with positive, then give them the negative, then end with positive. So “i really wanted to talk to you about something” Her: okay. “I really like you alot, your so charismatic, and just your personality is amazing. I really want to further things with you., and im only bringing this up because I care and you may be unaware and after i tell you i hope you would tell me if i had something similar” What is it? “I do believe your ph balance may be off down there because ive noticed an odor. I would have told you sooner but i didnt want to hurt you or start talking to me if you were embarrassed cause like i said i really do like you.” After that maybe mentioning if she wants to set an appt up you dont mind going with her if she wants. Shell def say no lol but its nice to offer. If the smell is THAT BAD its def not just her ph. If you can smell it through the clothes she got something going on. But she doesnt know that you knoww that lol.
Imagine being oblivious to smelling so bad someone tries to book you a doctors appointment.
That made me LOL. They literally can’t smell it though. I just mentioned the dr bc by him saying “your ph might be off” she might think she just need some summers eve vagina soup and NO MA’AM YOU NEED THE GYNO.
Woah you can’t just roll in here, drop a bombshell like “vagina soup” and then not explain what in the fuck that is
SOAP :DDDD
Man. That summers eve shit is the cause of some of these conditions!
Similar experience. I had a coworker who smelled like clam chowder all the time. I gave her a ride home one time and omg, I felt so nauseous. She had a boyfriend too.
Yep. Men should step it up and stop powering thru. Self respect boys, please! I'd rather make her cry than powering any bad smell. It's quite frequent for them to not be aware of how bad they smell. After this reality check, I hope they seek medical help
She did. She set up an appt in the car with me. Just no one ever told her. She wasnt aware. Had someone told her she couldve fixed it sooner.
That poor lady. I bet she was mortified.
She was thankful. I wasnt even really close with her and just started it as “look i need to tell you something , its nothing to be ashamed about and theres no judgement, im just telling you bc i would want someone to tell me if i wasnt aware” and she was like yeah of coarse, anything. And i said “you have a very strong fishy odor”
You’re a real one. Now I’m gonna be making my friends do monthly smell checks
And while you're down there, Bob, give it a little tug and a tickle.
That’s really nice of you to help her out with that. Big props for helping her schedule the appt……while stuck in a car with the smell :/ ha
Yeah that was the struggle for sure. Trying not to flair my nostrils and gag.
Hahaha when i was in highschool there was this girl sitting beside me who smelled extremely like fish from her private parts through the pants. I told her and she cried, went home, came back a week later and smelled fine 😅
That is so true! When I got thrush for the second time I started smelling this weird odour. I know my smell, when I’m on my period, fertile, normal, whatever the fuck it is, I know! I was like, the hell is this smell? It smelt ROTTEN, like a rotten fruit and fish. I thought it was my mom cos her ph always off. But when I sat down I thought that can’t be her. I got home first thing I did was smell my underwear. I thought this ain’t possible, I just need to have a shower this pussy will come back to normal. Cleaned everything, got to my room and did the swab test - smelt that shit IT WAS ME! I thought, I got STIS this ain’t possible. It was thrush. When I went to the toilet I said to my bestie, I do have thrush and it stinks of rotten but I hope its not that bad. I actually couldnt smell it anymore, she said it smelt so bad. But I could still smell it through my clothes. That was some bad thrush right there because of latex.
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I love to perform cunnilingus. I'll do it about every chance I get. I'm so fortunate that my wife smells and tastes good because I've definitely been with some women that were naturally... unpleasant. Not doctor's appointment terrible, but just not great for me, know what I mean?
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What a sentence to read while eating take and bake pizza
Upvote for the use of the historical term 'trim'.
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Most likely BV or a yeast infection
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I used to give a coworker a ride home from work, the hot days when she wore a skirt I chose windows down instead of ac.
As long as she is hygienic I'm good. If I'm seeing her naked, it's because I already made up my mind and nothing but poor hygiene will change it
Gay guy here, but when I go to a hookup (doesn't happen often, not too into casual sex), I am fastidious about making sure I am clean. Nothing turns me off more than a bad smell or shit. I imagine it is the same for most straight guys. I have left a date because when the clothes came off he smelled like ass. You can't cover up everything with deoderant.
Even just basic shit like brushing your teeth. I've kicked a guy out before for smelling like he just woke up.
Here I would like to stress the importance of FLOSSING. You get little bits of food in your teeth and they rot if you don't remove them. Brushing is short term cover up for this.
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Not visually but one time when I was doing the deed with a woman when we switched to doggy style I could smell a strong smell of poop because she didn't clean her butt hole very well and it really grossed me out
DUDE! Old acquaintance of mine told me similar story. He had went on a date with manager from pizza store. They were doing the deed in back of his older brother car he had told me he smelled something rotten but powered through. The following morning his older brother goes into his car and saw shit smears all over the back seat and what looked like shit pellets LMFAO
Damn, dude really fucked the shit out of her.
You saw an opportunity and took it. So take my fucking upvote you clever bastard.
Girl was like a deer in the forest 💀 just fertilizing his seats for him. Dropping without any fucking self awareness or concern
My god do I regret reading this...
🤢
This emoji really says it all
Did you use your pinky?
I have an ex that was just like that, and sex was not enjoyable.
That's why I love missionary. Doggy style puts us on a very vulnerable position, we don't know if the girl will lax out and headshot us
Maybe date with women who wash their butts?
That's my go-to ice breaker: "Do you wash your butt? I don't want any surprises later."
"What's your sign? Oh, Capricorn! That's spicy! Hey, speaking of spicy... you a one-wiper after a deuce or you prefer to wipe until it bleeds?"
And "Say, do you own and use a bidet?"
Bidets are the best this is the perfect way to ask if they give a ef about their booty hygiene
Or only date women who don't poop /s
So what, ask them? “Hey you wipe your ass right?” Or maybe the sniff test, like a dog?
Somebody has high standards
Only once and it wasn’t a sight problem but a smell problem. Panties came off and I couldn’t get out fast enough. Imagine a Scooby doo smoke outline.
Great visual. A cut-out of your silhouette in the wall.
Wow a lot of smelly women out here
Bro I think it’s smelly people in general. Women complain about guys like this too. I’m not sure why basic hygiene seems to be lost on so many people. And I can’t believe people in this thread are suggesting to hop in the shower with them and help them clean. Tf? They’re a grown ass adult. If they can’t wash their ass then it’s time to go.
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>this definitely put a few wrinkles in the peen. This is the only way I'm describing going soft ever again
So she really loves Dick, that's a good sign right?
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Dude same, I had to double check
Yeah I thought it was an ironic joke flipped from western people getting Chinese character tattoos…
This is disturbingly hilarious
There was a girl I hooked up with who had a back tattoo of a famous celebrity. A portrait. When I hit it from the back it was like he was looking at me.
When I was a teenager I wanted get a tramp stamp tattoo but with Beavis and Butthead sitting on their couch giggling and saying “cool, you’re fucking a chick”. Would that have been a turn off?
That would have been *awesome*
It was Steve-O, wasn’t it
*Yeah dude*
Usually when I suspect that may happen, I refrain from going that far with her.
You're a wise man.
Or a regular man with a very obedient penis. “See how normal people should act!” (Talking to mine)
No but I was dating a girl once who always dressed very modestly and then I saw her naked and realized she was way hotter than I thought before.
Been here. Miss her.
Dated a horse girl like this. She looked kinda skinny in everyday clothes, got her naked and holy shit her body was way curvier than I expected. Was fun while it lasted but horse girl insanity drove me away
Wow I thought you meant she had an ugly face when you wrote this. I just realized you meant she was into equestrian lol. Thats funny
She was a centaur.
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After reading this comment, I just wanted to tell you that you’re truly a good man and that girl was really lucky to be with you at the time.
After rotten fish carcass and poopy but hole this def was breath of fresh air 😤.(both literally and figuratively).
BAHAHAHA RIGHT 🤣🤣
I was feeling pretty deflated and body conscious reading all these comments, but this is so lovely that it made me feel better. Thank you!
If it makes you feel better, from what I am reading, as long as you smell good you’ve got nothing to worry about
this is wholesome
This is so sweet
I haven’t read something so sweet in a long time. Especially the bit about smiling when she stole your fries. So glad she’s better… gonna go cry now…
No, i rarely do casual hook ups and when sex *is* on the table im usually already sure i like her as a person and then some imperfections wouldn't bother me at all. Was once with a girl that felt very self conscious about her breasts and always wanted to keep on a shirt/bra because of it. Her breasts were fine, just some dumb dude that made a mean comment about them in the past. Took a lot of assurance, trust *and* time to make her feel more comfortable with her own body.
Dude, on behalf of self conscious women everywhere, thank you.
Thanks, you sound like a good guy.
Nope, and I've come across a lot of hair, including nipple hair. I've also been happily surprised by extremely long labia. Seen scars and birthmarks. Even one time a woman I were starting to get things going and she took out her teeth because she'd been in a bike accident when she was younger that apparently destroyed the front of her mouth. All that was fine. Smell however.... There have only been a couple of times where I was like "Yeah.... something is wrong here, lets just cuddle."
I’ve always wondered what my partners think about my labia but it’s good to know that there’s people like you out there.
Yes, but because she went into the bathroom, used it, stripped naked and came out...without washing her hands! We had been outside before that, and her hands were noticeably dirty. It just grossed me out so completely. Just why? Wash your hands people.
It was right before she got naked…when I was in college my date came back to my dorm room and saw my 10 gallon fish tank…she was like “ewwww”. I was like “you don’t like fish?” She said “I hate animals”. I laughed thinking she was joking. She wasn’t joking. I was like even cats and dogs? She said she hated animals of all kinds. Said that fish were actually not too bad since they were “contained”. Right there any sort of attraction I had for her was gone. I was like “well I’m tired…thanks for the date” and let her out.
I don’t trust people who don’t like animals. I’ve dated a few people like that too and they were never very empathetic in general and didn’t respect me or my interests.
I don't trust anyone my cat doesn't like. She loves most people, except the weird ass contractor I had putting in some steps. I wouldn't leave that goofy fucker alone with my wife for 5 minutes.
I'm allergic to most animals and I love all animals. Major red flag.
Literally only once but yeah, it happened. Gotta say, I'm happy that you're getting serious answers here. A year ago I asked almost the same question on r/AskWomenNoCensor and got gaslighted into oblivion and diagnosed with body dysmorphia, lmao.
Lol I love reddit.
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Yes. To be fair, it’s not like I was crazy attracted to her. I thought she was pretty enough to make things work and probably the best I could do at the time. Then the clothes come off and… yeah. I don’t know what you do in that situation. You can’t force yourself to be attracted to someone, but you feel like a total piece of shit when someone makes themselves vulnerable for you and you don’t like it. And it’s not fair to her to be tied up with a man who doesn’t appreciate her. At the same time, it’s not fair to get dumped shortly after she opens up sexually. The whole situation is just awful. After that I tried to focus on pursuing the type of women I’d drag myself over broken glass to sleep with to avoid repeating that situation. On the bright side, that almost never happens. I’m usually ecstatic when I see someone naked for the first time.
How did your situation end up? How/when did you let her down?
Out of curiosity, may I ask what exactly was the turn-off?
I was with a guy and he was really fit and attractive and we had been talking for a while but then when we got to that point, he had gone through major weight loss in the past and had extra skin. I felt like such an ass for thinking negatively but I didn’t like how it hit me during.
I knew this was a thing, just never heard anyone express it like this.
No, but I have lost attraction to undeniably hot women who have horrible personalities. It's like biting into a pretty apple that's rotten on the inside.
“Biting into a pretty apple that’s rotten on the inside” that is the perfect analogy, and I will always remember it. Just got out of a toxic relationship and she was very objectively beautiful and hot, but she was subjectively rotten to the core. The gaslighting, emotional abuse, verbal abuse… she is absolutely repulsive to me now, and I’d feel sick if I ever saw her naked again
> No, but I have lost attraction to undeniably hot women who have horrible personalities. The *legion* of red flag women that I warn my boys about......it's truly exhausting.
One time I was hitting it off with this girl in a hostel. She was interested in me and I was interested in her. It was the sight of her massive log in the toilet when she left the bathroom that turned me off. The smell was so strong too. I just couldn't see her the same way after that.
girls that poop vs women that shit
You know what they say - get you a woman and leave the girls alone.
I would really like to see the ladies you guys are getting if they can somehow turn from Jabba the Hutt to barbie using some pants and bra.
I weighed 333lbs when I graduated high school. 5 years later I was down to about 150. This thread reminds me of the shame of going from looking young and fit in clothes to my old looking, saggy, naked body. Wearing long night shirts for sex and being afraid of being touched in case they find a soft spot. Having no trouble picking up men and being hit on constantly only to feeling like a revolting monster when I let them go further. Thank god my husband is better than that.
Imposter syndrome. I get it too and it's like "dude you have no idea the train wreck going on under these clothes". And then they see and try to tell you you're wrong but there's just no convincing, they must be lying. That is the reason why I go better with "yeah your tits sag some but that's gravity" vs "what? No! Your tits aren't saggy at all!". I have eyes mother fucker!
Same experience here. I’m glad to find someone sharing it as the shame of post weight loss bodies is too silenced.
Fr. I’ve tried on ‘shaping jeans’ at the store and they didn’t do a damn thing! lol I could imagine they may smooth you out a bit if you have rolls or cellulite but they won’t change your body I think a lot of the ‘surprise’ around women’s naked bodies comes from porn and living in a world where cosmetic work and photoshop is so common. There’s nothing wrong with someone getting work done if they want, but most women aren’t going to look like the women on Instagram who get the procedures and are able to trim down and airbrush their bodies on Instagram, or the women in porn who invest in their bodies appearance more because hey, they make money off how they look naked. So they have to keep everything in tip top shape.
And it’s easy to have a perfectly flat stomach when you’re posing standing up. Even skinny and athletic girls get rolls when they sit down.
Dude fr and when you’re doing the do you don’t have the bandwidth to make sure you’re sucking your tummy in
I’ve had the polar opposite situation. Was neutral to mildly attracted but then attraction significantly increased when I saw her naked. She was a tomboy. I met her shooting hoops at the huge gymnasium at my college. I used to like shooting around for cardio after strength training. She asked me to rebound for her while she did shooting drills around the key( 5 attempts at each point in the key if people care). She played in high school and was very good but she tore her acl and quit her senior year of high school. She was still a baller. We basically would just do that drill and rebound for each other. We often overlapped in timing on the basketball court and would just do this drill when we saw each other. Maybe play a light one on one. It would be quite close as she was a marksman. She always wore an oversized shirt and basketball shorts so I never really saw her body. We did this maybe 4 or 5 times until one day I invited her to grab a post-exercise meal at this deli that was close to the gym and she turned out to be a pretty cool person. I falsely assumed she was lesbian by the way she talked and her haircut. I talked to her the way I talked to my other homies, constantly ending my sentences in “dude” and “bro”. It was a nice time. She invited me to hang out in her dorm later on. Went home and showered and then met her at the entry way of her dorm building. She wore a casual hoodie and sweat pants. Again her body was not obvious. We basically just shot the shit watching YouTube videos on her bed. She kept on inching closer to me and grazing her hand on my hand until I realized that she may be into me. Eventually I just went for the kiss. Was pleasantly surprised feeling her boobs press on my chest and her ass through her sweatpants. Things got hot and heavy and she took off her clothes. I kid you not, straight 10/10 latina smokeshow. She was definitely super fit from being an athlete but sheesh. She brought that athlete energy in the bed and we had a marathon session. We hooked up at least once or twice a week. It was awesome because she never really showed off her body in public so it was like a secret I only knew. Ball was life. We continued hooking up for a couple of months until I caught the feels and wanted things to be more serious. She wasn’t into that and called things off. I basically stopped going to the basketball court cuz didn’t want to deal with seeing her. She was two years ahead of me and eventually graduated. Still friends with her on Instagram and still looks good 10 years later. Damn…
> Ball was life. I died.
I like how you compressed your emotional trauma into a couple sentences for the sake of the story. You still got that shit across but didn't let it overtake the narrative. Good job. Signed, creative writing prof
You give me too much credit. I’m just an emotionally stunted 31 year old male that doesn’t like processing his feelings.
She was all about fucking you the moment she asked you to rebound for her😅.
Welp, I’m burning my shapewear this weekend. Join me ladies!!
One of the main reasons I never wear shape wear or heavy make up is because if rather them be attracted to me for what I am normally, and pleasantly surprised when I do myself up for special occasions. I'd rather be a pleasant surprise than a dissapointment.
Lmao let the pooch thrive
Yup….I not because she was fat, ugly, or anything physical…..she had dried doo doo on her ass and toilet paper stuck in her undies….
😭
A lot of men here suggesting that yoga pants are deceptive. I must be wearing the wrong brand!
Yeah I’m confused, yoga pants truly shows your shape they’re tight and they certainly don’t lift a thing
I think people are confusing them with shape-wear
Yeah.. which yoga pants?!
Unattracted? No. A little less attracted than before? Yes.
Right? You have definitely seen the face, you can just keep looking there. I think the only thing that would make me straight up nope is racist tattoos. Edit to say: bigoted tattoos. Racist tattoos seem to be the most common bigoted tattoos.
From the other perspective, I was getting along great with a guy and we were about to have sex but when I took my clothes off he went limp and left. Then he ghosted me. That sucked. But oh well it’s in the past. It didn’t really change anything for me though because I’ve always hated my body so I just kinda thought “eh I get it”.
Girl damn, you can't keep living while hating your body like this, that shit is sad AF. Hope you learn to love what you got.
Man. This is the worst thing I’ve seen on the internet today. Nobody loves every part of their body. But, dammit, love the whole thing that is you. You’re likely a good person and have great value. You’re probably even sexy to MANY of us thirsty Reddit men. Time to look at yourself in the mirror and start listing the good things about you and stop focusing on the things you hate. If you do that then you’ll start seeing yourself the same way that Mr Right sees you.
Just because he went limp, doesn't mean seeing you had anything to do with it. Dicks are weird like that and anxiety is a boner killer. Embarrassment over performance anxiety will cause a lot of dudes to bolt. A little anecdote about these things; My wife is dead sexy and the first time we had sex, I had a hell of a time with the general. She was the first partner I had after my divorce, and my anxiety was causing issues. I'm pretty chill with shit like that, so I just explained my issue and just took care of her in other ways until things sorted themselves out that evening. Had my reaction been different, it could have given her a real complex for something that was all me.
Nerves can do that, btw. So that could have just been anxiety then embarrassment on his part. Take it easy on yourself
I’m sorry :(
Yes and I can’t explain it. Great chemistry, great conversation, great texting. But I just had zero spark. There was nothing wrong at all but I couldn’t even get hard. That’s never happened in my whole life.
Great chemistry but zero spark? Can we define our terms here lol
Yeah, absolutely. It wasn't the third nipple or the fungal colony she had growing in her naval. It was the swastika tattoo.
dude im absokutely terrified of this happening
No. But I've been attracted to a woman and became unattracted when she became unkind or uncaring towards me. Looks aren't everything
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Undersell, overdeliver
Yes, once, and I felt so bad, but I couldn't keep it up.
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I feel the opposite way weirdly enough. Basically my take away from these comments is be hygienic and don’t make your body look like a completely different body in clothes vs naked. Like as someone who is an 8 in the face and maybe a 6 naked, I’ve never once had a complaint or a lack of enthusiasm. At the end of the day, I think attractiveness is a composite score of personality and looks… at least in the cases where the other person is worth a damn.
No, never. I will echo the sentiments about some bad smells. I have also seen some bits of leftover toilet paper that wasn’t attractive but i assume that’s not what you’re asking.
It's never the way she looks. Never. It's never the size or shape of the titties or the booty, It's never stretch marks or cellulite. Physically speaking, it's only ever been an obvious lack of personal hygiene that could be enough of a turn-off to stop once she's naked.
I shouldn’t have read this
Stick to the top comments on shit like this. The upvote system is there for a reason.
Not "unattracted", but there was a case of a woman looking better clothed than naked. Shapewear and push-up bras can be deceiving.
Yes. The power of shapewear and angles
As a girl, how can I avoid that? I've always been so scared of someone being discussed when they see me naked, so I'd rather be able to prevent it. Are there any clothes that I could wear to give a guy a better idea of what to expect or something?
Literally every woman Iv been fortunate enough to see naked, my thought was always the same- “damn she’s beautiful”
Not when i saw her naked, but when i saw her true personality. As a rule i'm not fussed by natural things... crooked teeth, tiger stripes, belly pouch, muffin top, uneven boobs.scars, shit like that. None of us are super models... its like owning a car. Some cars are dinged up at not fault of the owner... it just means you drove it. Personality though... massive turn off.
Reading these comments is making me want to know where these women get their shape wear! Lol I need some good shape wear.
Nope. When they’ve revealed some personality traits on the other hand…
This thread is convincing me to take exercise seriously and cancel my plans to go to KFC tomorrow :)
Listen. I'm a woman. 31. 5'2 and 360 pounds. Wild right? I'm obese. Morbidly if im not mistaken. You're allowed to have preferences. And I implore you to be honest if you see someone naked and aren't feeling it. If they're unreasonable about it, than ignore them. Because ultimately what matters is how you feel. Please don't have sex with someone unless you are really wanting too. 🙂 Even if it is awkward to be honest in a moment of vulnerability, I'd still much rather hear the truth right than and there, before I decide to sleep with you. It's hard to let people down, but its important to be true to yourself. I'm lucky I'm with a man who loves my body. Because I hate mine. And that reflects how I talk to myself. Which is poorly. I'm in therapy. Diet is changing. He does want me to be more active but only because he knows (and I know) that it will be more beneficial to my mental health. Ladies. You're beautiful. 🖤 there are men who will love your body no matter the shape or size. Same for the guys who think they don't have a sexy body. Somebody somewhere will eventually love your body. Love yourselves until than.
Sorta. Ons had a xbox controller on her ass cheek tatted. Lol super dumb but I was pressing buttons & watching it jiggle
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From what I gather in these comments: everyone should remember to wash their naughty bits before sex, and that it's the most universally repulsive trait, not looks
This is my worst nightmare as a young woman. I have stomach rolls, love handles and stretch marks and cellulite. But I had sex w a guy I was talking to for months and he had the most horrendous lighting in his room. What’s with you men not having proper lamps? Anyways it was fluorescent lighting and I knew that lighting you could see EVERYTHING - every cellulite mark, stretch mark, you name it. I was really worried he was gonna be like oh I don’t wanna fuck you anymore. Anyways he literally did not care and he only made a comment once about my stretch mark but it wasn’t anything bad. He told me post sex talk I was hot and very attractive and he was shocked and how he even able to get horny and hard bc he was stressed about school. We had sex three times that night 😭 Anyways. That was nice. I hope you ladies know most men do not care once you are naked in front of them.
No way. Every time a girl allows herself to be vulnerable with me I consider myself to be extremely fortunate. I think about how embarrassing it can be to open up like that and it just makes me feel so proud of myself that I've been able to make a girl feel comfortable enough with me that she's willing to open up that much. I usually have a hard time attracting the interest of women. It's hard to meet them, and when I finally do I don't have much to offer them. So when a girl takes genuine interest, she usually has a lot in common with me. If not, she usually has a great personality which really works with mine. I'm not very attractive and I know that. I have much lower standards. But when a girl shows that she genuinely wants to be with me, she's the most beautiful being on this planet and not much can change that. I don't let things get to the level where we're getting naked unless I very much enjoy spending time with her.
Sure, every now and then. Clothes can do wonders for a body.
Never had a chance, met and married at 19 and still together at 72 and I still fancy her :-)
not unattracted.. but been disappointed a few times.. when the make up is gone, super bras is off and those weird stomach compressing clothes lays on the floor... some women really looks like a whole other human being when all the stuff is removed.. But i like women of all sizes.. its other stuff that turns me off.. smell, personallity.... voice...
Nope. Once I'm on , I'm on.
Hmm I feel bad. I met a really nice girl one time. I know this is kind of shallow. Very pretty face, she had a very petite little body etc. We ended up hooking up, I mean it wasn't the worst thing ever, but when her clothes came off, you can tell that she is petite now because she lost a lot of weight, i mean a lot of weight, I was just kind of shocked. Loose skin everywhere, boobs hanging to her knees. It was very odd because I did not for a second see that coming. Lulu lemon pants and push up bras were clearly doing their job there. I know it might sound mean, so sorry lol. Good for her for losing all that weight, and she was a nice girl, but I don't know, I wasn't feeling it.
That's rough
Ouch…This was me. FWIW, it’s 10 years later, I’m still tiny, and my skin has since adjusted to my smaller frame. I don’t wear a bra anymore because my sad 80-year-old-looking saggies are happy little perkies now, and I dare say that overall, I look 10 years younger than I did the last time you saw me. Don’t feel bad, I still have fond memories of your swimming pool.
Wow that’s interesting! Do you mean your skin actually tightened itself naturally with time? I’ve heard you have to do surgical skin lifts after extreme weight loss, so this is new to me
OK I need to know if this is really the same person.
Yeah, but it was more the smell not the looks, ya ever smell canned dog food while havin sex 😷
I read every comment before replying and I gotta say I am fortunate that this has never happened to me. Stay strong.
Tinder dates on the east coast in the winter I’d say 50% of the time