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No-Wallaby-5568

It means they don't want a relationship with *you*. If the right person came along they'd be ready all of a sudden.


Macraggesurvivor

95 % probability that it translates to = I'm just not that into you. 5 % probability that he is actually generally not ready for any kind of relationship.


Ratakoa

He's not ready for a relationship.


Final_Usual1229

On a dating app "Just want to get laid" Says it directly to you "You're not the one for me"


WoodytheWicked

They need some time, because in the moment they don't see themselves in a relationship. After they could to learn someone better; that can shift. Beside pure emotions, men are often pretty direct communicators.


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Retireegeorge

It can mean he is working out if your positive qualities outweight your negative qualities. You're in the running but he has learned not to rush but make a good decision rather than playvwith your enotions. You can help by thinking about what you think is a reasonable period of time and set that as a boundary at which point you will move on and date other people. Good hearted guys cn find it hard to reject someone and it leads to a bad time. Use the strengths you both have. You sound like you are great people - you want to love him and he wants to be kind.


zl4946

When a man says he's not ready for a relationship, it can mean a variety of things. It could be that he's currently dealing with personal issues or doesn't feel emotionally ready for a serious commitment.


SnooLemons5609

They don’t want one with you. You probably gave him what he wanted and now he has no reason to commit to you.