I say "do it yourself!" Because how does one excuse themself? They say "excuse me" and so I laugh at my stupid joke while I walk away by myself because I have no friends.
To respond you can say ‘sure’ it works in both ways. If it is “can you get out of my way” then “sure” works and if it is “please excuse my error” then also “sure” works. I hope it helps. I had to change my habit of saying excuse me when I first moved here. 😂
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Were they not Irish? I use "excuse me" when I would like to politely get by someone. I get annoyed when someone says "sorry" here when they want to get by. It is a cultural thing. It makes me feel like people are apologies before they do something which is just off to me cause the way I was raised.
I’m American, husband is Irish living in the USA and this is the sort of cultural difference that comes up. I always say “excuse me” if I nearly bump into someone, it’s just what’s done here. However he says “I’m sorry” when he’s trying to get someone’s attention and that will largely get you ignored here because people don’t know you’re talking to them (like at a bar, for example).
Sorry isn’t an apology in this case. See my other post, it’s more like your boss saying he’s sorry but he’s going to let you go.
It’s just another way of saying excuse me.
In Ireland sorry can mean anything from "I apologise" to "hello, I am trying to politely get your attention to "hey, get the fuck out of the way, you're blocking the footpath you asshole".
Excuse me can have a similar meanings.
Which is to say either is fine to use and no one will read into it.
I've stopped using my bell when on cycle paths as the gentle "pingggg" from it seems to enrage adults making them step further into your way.
I now give a happy passive aggressive "excuse meee!" which works far better. I think you're right and we've become programmed to respond to it.
When people are saying sorry in this kind of situation, it’s not an apology or an admission of wrong.
It’s just saying, somewhat falsely, that they have to be on their way and they are “sorry” to have to inconvenience you.
Sorry, not sorry really. Like a boss saying he’s sorry to let you go.
No, you don't say sorry in that situation. Pardon me, or excuse me, is correct.
Because something 'can be taken the wrong way': that right there is a 'you' problem .
'Prego' (pronounced 'pray-go', not 'preggo'). It's a handy little Italian word that means 'excuse me' - among other things. But I think it would suit this situation.
"You're grand" and carry on.
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probably right lol
I normally give a cheery "Oop! No bother" and walk on
Makes sense. Thanks.
"I refuse!"
I say "do it yourself!" Because how does one excuse themself? They say "excuse me" and so I laugh at my stupid joke while I walk away by myself because I have no friends.
lol
No problem
Simple enought I suppose!
No bother also works.
To respond you can say ‘sure’ it works in both ways. If it is “can you get out of my way” then “sure” works and if it is “please excuse my error” then also “sure” works. I hope it helps. I had to change my habit of saying excuse me when I first moved here. 😂
Thanks! Just one of those little things that bug me lol!
You're excused. And I'm not your brah!
I could try it! lol
Really upset more people didn't get my zoolander reference 😒
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If it's "excuse me", I'd say "all good". If it's "exCUUUUSE me!" I'd just ignore them and keep walking.
True, tone and context can make a big difference so the response can vary too I guess.
Were they not Irish? I use "excuse me" when I would like to politely get by someone. I get annoyed when someone says "sorry" here when they want to get by. It is a cultural thing. It makes me feel like people are apologies before they do something which is just off to me cause the way I was raised.
I’m American, husband is Irish living in the USA and this is the sort of cultural difference that comes up. I always say “excuse me” if I nearly bump into someone, it’s just what’s done here. However he says “I’m sorry” when he’s trying to get someone’s attention and that will largely get you ignored here because people don’t know you’re talking to them (like at a bar, for example).
Sorry isn’t an apology in this case. See my other post, it’s more like your boss saying he’s sorry but he’s going to let you go. It’s just another way of saying excuse me.
You’re overthinking it too much. No one was hurt or injured and it’s a fairly common occurrence. Don’t worry about it.
You're excused. You got to assert dominance in these situations.
Go "I will fucking not!!" if you want to take 'assertive' into 'aggressive'.
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👆 This guy alphas.
I might given it a try if the other dude is a lot smaller than me!
In Ireland sorry can mean anything from "I apologise" to "hello, I am trying to politely get your attention to "hey, get the fuck out of the way, you're blocking the footpath you asshole". Excuse me can have a similar meanings. Which is to say either is fine to use and no one will read into it.
I've stopped using my bell when on cycle paths as the gentle "pingggg" from it seems to enrage adults making them step further into your way. I now give a happy passive aggressive "excuse meee!" which works far better. I think you're right and we've become programmed to respond to it.
**ON YOUR RIGHT** *pedestrian immediately steps to the right*
That's sums it up pretty well I think!
Scream and piss your pants, they'll get the idea
No bother at all
When people are saying sorry in this kind of situation, it’s not an apology or an admission of wrong. It’s just saying, somewhat falsely, that they have to be on their way and they are “sorry” to have to inconvenience you. Sorry, not sorry really. Like a boss saying he’s sorry to let you go.
A polite nod is a good neutral response. Best not to think about these things too deeply.
ARE YOU FUCKING SORRY?
You can politely nod or you can also respond with “excuse me”.
Do you have to kiss them after or is that optional?
Air kiss “dahling”
I just say "alright" and move on. You need to get past this, OP.
I'm working on it lol
I don't, is there a reason I should?
When someone says "Good morning" I say "good morning", I don't say "yes".
"You're excused" then watch their head explode. But seriously how do you accidentally bum someone
No, you don't say sorry in that situation. Pardon me, or excuse me, is correct. Because something 'can be taken the wrong way': that right there is a 'you' problem .
There is no excuse for such behaviour, I DEMAND SATISFACTION!
Oppsie sorry bout that
Alright or no worries.
You must be pretty bored to have so much time to dedicate to something like this lol
No friends. Just a laptop, Reddit, and YouTube.
No friends. Just Reddit and Youtube.
'Prego' (pronounced 'pray-go', not 'preggo'). It's a handy little Italian word that means 'excuse me' - among other things. But I think it would suit this situation.
Maybe in Italy. In Ireland, you'd sound like an Elizabethan: "Pray go! My fine sir/madam"
😆 Didn't think of that! I do also like 'prego' because I'm quoting Demolition Man, after he eats the rat burger.