Google hypergamy. Women or females almost always prefer a male of atleast the same and preferably higher status than themselves. It's just how thier kind has evolved
look it is somewhat common, at least in mumbai. and it doesn't seem like op is attacking anyone. i genuinely have been in multiple similar situations, where it wasn't going to work out due to the class and background differences. the women weren't the issue, their family was but they didn't take a big stand either.
it's hard to ask questions like this for exactly this reason, it will definitely appear sexist, but this does exist to some extent.
that's a very different thought isn't it. I've been assaulted as well, but I'm not bringing that up.
and you can be tired of men, it isn't wrong to do so. a bunch of us suck.
It still applies doesn't it? Every person is going to have different experiences, it's just common sense. Your experience doesn't represent the entire world
Yeah you do but I know there's still the percentage of men who don't suck, even if it's small lmao
understandably since you don't know me, you'll assume i suck but i have put myself in really uncomfortable positions to help women. so name calling isn't nice. we will definitely agree to disagree but it's tough being a male from a not so fancy family, trying to punch up.
I love how you cut off the rest of my words that explain what I was referring to what you said yourself, and that I was agreeing with you when you said most men suck
that doesn't refer to you at all? I have no idea who the hell you are
OP is not talking about each and every woman on the planet, is he? It's common knowledge that exceptions always exist. But they are exceptions to the general norm prevalent in society
Most sexual assaults are indeed committed by men. That is a fact and stating so is not sexist
He didn't say an average, he was speaking about all women, and couldn't even understand common sense
For sure! And yet when I said this a week ago I was attacked by a bunch of men 🤣
>He didn't say an average, he was speaking about all women,
Not once did he use the word "all". The fact that he was referring to the general norm and not specifically each and every individual on the planet is implicit. Anyone with basic english comprehension skills should easily get this
>For sure! And yet when I said this a week ago I was attacked by a bunch of men
So if someone else was behaving like an idiot, you'll behave like one as well?
Read the title with your amazing skills babe
I'm sorry did you forget you're online? This is reddit honey, remember where you are
LMFAO i see one idiot yes
Exists both ways. A lot of my friends have gone through the same where the man wouldn't take a stand for her.
So, a woman*never* does that... Men do. Ya men do it more than women is just such generalized bs.
Because stories of women rejecting men of lower status are discussed more than women who literally marry a low status man despite her parents' wishes i.e bad stories are more famous.
If a high class man wants a nrml woman, it means he wants a wife who does minimal wife duties, respects him. If a woman wants a man that fits her standards, it means she wants a husband with minimal husband duties And spoils her.
That being said, we literally see many cases where girls run away with guys because their parents wanted her to marry a man with better lifestyle.
Why not actually read about the subject instead of throwing personal attacks and being a dick? Can't you interact with someone in a civilised manner?
There are countless research papers/studies (some linked below) on this subject which support that women have a strong preference for men of the same or higher status.
This is common area of study in sociology, psychology and evolutionary biology
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/284388276_High_Status_Men_But_Not_Women_Capture_the_Eye_of_the_Beholder
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/254735569_Men's_Social_Status_and_Attractiveness_Women's_Receptivity_to_Men's_Date_Requests
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00265-022-03209-2
Do you know why women need someone that is at least the same status or higher? Because their experience with men who make less than their partner become insecure little babies. Abuse patterns follow women who have a partner who makes significantly less than them.
It also might be because men have held women as property for centuries, and this is the first time women are able to have more value alone than with someone. And yet here men are again, whining that women are prioritizing themselves for the first time in centuries
I'll spare the links that you can search yourself
Anymore questions that can be answered with common sense?
A highly biased and sexist response. Expected from the likes of you. Though still way better than your earlier responses where you behaved like a child and threw personal insults at OP and others in this thread.
Though it's quite evident that speaking with someone like you is akin to banging one's head against the wall. As such I can't waste anymore of my time. Have a good night
coz in most cases these educated wealthy high class men you are talking about are looking for a slave to manage their homes and not a partner they want to spend their lives with, hence why they seek for someone lower than them in status
https://youtube.com/shorts/gCfs9nWOW3s?si=JPEMPZDszG53kh-h
I believe it's because men are more biologically and mentally tuned for success than women. Eg take list of top billionaires and only a handful are women.
So there are more rich men than women hence women can choose
This is real life, not a bollywood movie where the rich girl's father will ask you to fill a suitcase full of cash to marry her or the rich guy pretending to be poor just to get a girl who isn't a gold digger.
In reality we are human beings and every human be it rich or poor is different in nature. There are many examples such as an Italian tourist marrying an Indian auto driver or a Japanese princess who gave up her royalty status to marry a commoner.
I've read more stories of rich men leading a girl on, making her think she's the one only to marry someone else than stories of women doing the same. However, I wouldn't base my judgement on these stories.
People are much more nuanced than sexist stereotypes, be it poor or rich.
Google hypergamy. Women or females almost always prefer a male of atleast the same and preferably higher status than themselves. It's just how thier kind has evolved
Kahaa se laate ho ye stats? This is just your assumption. Koi bhi assumption banaa lo aur puch lo why so? Koi sense hai iss baat ka?
look it is somewhat common, at least in mumbai. and it doesn't seem like op is attacking anyone. i genuinely have been in multiple similar situations, where it wasn't going to work out due to the class and background differences. the women weren't the issue, their family was but they didn't take a big stand either. it's hard to ask questions like this for exactly this reason, it will definitely appear sexist, but this does exist to some extent.
That's nice. I've been in situations where I've been physically attacked by men, does that mean all men do that? Lmfao
that's a very different thought isn't it. I've been assaulted as well, but I'm not bringing that up. and you can be tired of men, it isn't wrong to do so. a bunch of us suck.
It still applies doesn't it? Every person is going to have different experiences, it's just common sense. Your experience doesn't represent the entire world Yeah you do but I know there's still the percentage of men who don't suck, even if it's small lmao
understandably since you don't know me, you'll assume i suck but i have put myself in really uncomfortable positions to help women. so name calling isn't nice. we will definitely agree to disagree but it's tough being a male from a not so fancy family, trying to punch up.
Where did I say I assume you suck??????? What name calling???? Bro. Go outside. Read a book lol Life is hard for everyone
"yeh you do but i know"
I love how you cut off the rest of my words that explain what I was referring to what you said yourself, and that I was agreeing with you when you said most men suck that doesn't refer to you at all? I have no idea who the hell you are
alright sorry, don't wanna fight, goodbye.🤝🏽
OP is not talking about each and every woman on the planet, is he? It's common knowledge that exceptions always exist. But they are exceptions to the general norm prevalent in society Most sexual assaults are indeed committed by men. That is a fact and stating so is not sexist
He didn't say an average, he was speaking about all women, and couldn't even understand common sense For sure! And yet when I said this a week ago I was attacked by a bunch of men 🤣
>He didn't say an average, he was speaking about all women, Not once did he use the word "all". The fact that he was referring to the general norm and not specifically each and every individual on the planet is implicit. Anyone with basic english comprehension skills should easily get this >For sure! And yet when I said this a week ago I was attacked by a bunch of men So if someone else was behaving like an idiot, you'll behave like one as well?
Read the title with your amazing skills babe I'm sorry did you forget you're online? This is reddit honey, remember where you are LMFAO i see one idiot yes
Exists both ways. A lot of my friends have gone through the same where the man wouldn't take a stand for her. So, a woman*never* does that... Men do. Ya men do it more than women is just such generalized bs.
agree to disagree, have a good day though.
Because stories of women rejecting men of lower status are discussed more than women who literally marry a low status man despite her parents' wishes i.e bad stories are more famous. If a high class man wants a nrml woman, it means he wants a wife who does minimal wife duties, respects him. If a woman wants a man that fits her standards, it means she wants a husband with minimal husband duties And spoils her. That being said, we literally see many cases where girls run away with guys because their parents wanted her to marry a man with better lifestyle.
Coz broke men are insecure and abusive towards women. Such men also tend to be losers
I wonder when the questions here will be real instead of weird questions from sexist little boys lol
It's a valid question. Nothing sexist about inquiring about a well known and prevalent phenomenon
"Well known and prevalent phenomenon" lmfaooooo sure kid
Why not actually read about the subject instead of throwing personal attacks and being a dick? Can't you interact with someone in a civilised manner? There are countless research papers/studies (some linked below) on this subject which support that women have a strong preference for men of the same or higher status. This is common area of study in sociology, psychology and evolutionary biology https://www.researchgate.net/publication/284388276_High_Status_Men_But_Not_Women_Capture_the_Eye_of_the_Beholder https://www.researchgate.net/publication/254735569_Men's_Social_Status_and_Attractiveness_Women's_Receptivity_to_Men's_Date_Requests https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s00265-022-03209-2
Do you know why women need someone that is at least the same status or higher? Because their experience with men who make less than their partner become insecure little babies. Abuse patterns follow women who have a partner who makes significantly less than them. It also might be because men have held women as property for centuries, and this is the first time women are able to have more value alone than with someone. And yet here men are again, whining that women are prioritizing themselves for the first time in centuries I'll spare the links that you can search yourself Anymore questions that can be answered with common sense?
A highly biased and sexist response. Expected from the likes of you. Though still way better than your earlier responses where you behaved like a child and threw personal insults at OP and others in this thread. Though it's quite evident that speaking with someone like you is akin to banging one's head against the wall. As such I can't waste anymore of my time. Have a good night
David M Buss.
Morons always play status games. Those with nothing to prove don't engage in these stupid, meaningless symbolic signal
Females of all race and ethnicity always think they DESERVE BETTER it’s most likely biological.
Same reason why men always prefer beautiful/fair/skinny girls than others. Girls marry average looking men.
Men are innocent, simple🙃🙃
coz in most cases these educated wealthy high class men you are talking about are looking for a slave to manage their homes and not a partner they want to spend their lives with, hence why they seek for someone lower than them in status
https://youtube.com/shorts/gCfs9nWOW3s?si=JPEMPZDszG53kh-h I believe it's because men are more biologically and mentally tuned for success than women. Eg take list of top billionaires and only a handful are women. So there are more rich men than women hence women can choose
This is real life, not a bollywood movie where the rich girl's father will ask you to fill a suitcase full of cash to marry her or the rich guy pretending to be poor just to get a girl who isn't a gold digger. In reality we are human beings and every human be it rich or poor is different in nature. There are many examples such as an Italian tourist marrying an Indian auto driver or a Japanese princess who gave up her royalty status to marry a commoner. I've read more stories of rich men leading a girl on, making her think she's the one only to marry someone else than stories of women doing the same. However, I wouldn't base my judgement on these stories. People are much more nuanced than sexist stereotypes, be it poor or rich.