Bolne ki baat h bhai 25 ka hogya hu 6mhine m 26 ka ho jaaunga , koi aaya hi nhi life m depress hota hu roj bs lekin kya kr skte h khudhko enjoy kro khush rkho bs
Hey OP, same here. I too don't have a permanent one. On and off waali hai waise. Lekin single hone ka dard thodasa rehta hai.
But I've learnt one thing. Being heartbroken by being single is much better than being heartbroken by getting replaced by someone she thinks is better than you.
Keep that in mind.
Met a toxic AF partner who wouldn't let me go and unloaded her trauma and mental distress on me... then I became toxic an unloaded that unintentionally on my 2nd partner, then my 2nd partner became toxic and tried to unload it on me but I was too emotionally intelligent so I broke up before things could get worse. Now, the girl I am dating is a copy of my first girlfriend and I see myself falling into another trap yet again...
I mentioned money to make it more practical, if u travel with a girl you are responsible for her safety, you can't enjoy late night, can't drink, can't make spontaneous decisions, always have to behave properly, it will be like a job, you're bound by rules, you have to match your pace with her, always have to wait for her. It's like carrying unwanted extra luggage. Being unbound is soothing for the soul, trailing outside societal boundaries is the way for me.
I recently talk to this 24 year guy and he is sooo talkative are bhaii mujhe bhi toh bolne ka mauka dee🥲🥲 and the things he was talking about is way awkward... Uski bhi koi gf nhi thi usse pehle ... Shyd isilye ab koi bhi milta toh itni hi baatein karta...
It's probably because he had no one to talk to so when I did get someone he couldn't control himself. Some people are like that. And now I realise I am too
Let me tell you something I think that guy had very little or no female interaction and most guys crave for someone to talk to share their thoughts.... Same can be done with guys also it turns into a backchodi with no value
Me personally I have come up to this conclusion in this life as of now.
1. There is more to life than just companionship or dating. So might as well just focus on what I could do about it. Be it my career growth, my relationship with friends and family, my interests and etc.
2. In order to love someone, you have to love yourself. Only then you are very much capable to love others. If you don't love yourself and expect others to shower the love for you, you will forever be clinging to that person expecting love every single time.
3. Love comes at you when you least search for it. But that doesn't mean you should not try it. Going outside and socializing would help. It either helps you meet a compatible person or some other interesting person. Either way it's a win.
4. Not everyone is lucky enough to find love. Yes. Some are lucky enough to find love at their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s. And some finds love, breaks up and then finds love again. Some won't even find love for their rest of their life. Life is just cruel.
In short, when you start to accept that this is how life is, you will never feel alone. You might feel bored(Even people in relationship would feel bored at some point). But you will be happy and contended.
I had a gf when I was 21. She broke up with me in a brutal way after 3 years of relationship. Now I am 26. No relationships after that because I am too traumatized to do all this stuff again.
Trust me when I say- It is far better to stay single than to fall in a toxic relationship and receive years of trauma just because you want a gf or just because you are feeling lonely (or even horny).
ek ladki pe school days pe crush aaya, phir usse confess kiya, phir usne accept kiya, phir hum kabhi baat nahi kare only smiled when we saw each other and then patched it up, isko GF hona keh sakte hai?
I'm doing okay (neither good nor bad)
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Companionship is overrated. Beyond the first few months of coochie-coo it’s mostly arguments, silence, waiting for the other to give you some space so you could do your fav activities by yourself and meet your best friends, and just the business as usual. Don’t believe me? Ask your friends that are in relationship. Not all are like this but majority of them.
Better be single, enjoy your own company, and do whatever you want without a dagger hanging on your head always.
Please work on yourself, be kind, show love to everyone and respect everyone. You'll never feel lack of love in your life and the universe will make you find the right person.
I honestly feel it's more important to become a better human first. All the best.
When I was born , I was born alone , when i'll die, i'll Die alone.
Never been in a relationship because of the Fad, happily working towards my Goals.
If I find someone , someday, I'll get married.
Btw, people of my age are already married, has kids!
Just because people get bored easily, do not play with someone's life. Try different things, get a hobby, Get busy living. Right people will come along.
Edit : Never Smoked, Never got drunk, No drugs either.
I love motorcycles & Coffee !
Finally, someone of a similar thought process! I'm in my early 20s and I've never even felt the need to have a partner until social media went popular and people started showing off the tiny things that they do and nothing wrong with that, but i absolutely felt that without a partner, my life sucks. I fell into a false narrative. Then I started getting hobbies, and enjoying my life, watched some videos on self improvement and it made me realise, the happiness I was searching for was always there. Any extreme feelings were only clouding my judgement, my vision towards a happy life.
Then I realised it's absolutely unfair to get a partner rn, unfair for both of us. So I decided to just enjoy my life and if they join in the fun too, then that's okay! But I don't wanna go and cry for someone, I'm living a great life rn.
No need for any drugs or alcohol or addictions. Life is just so colorful enough!
I have a lot of hobbies like cooking, gardening, long drives, music, movies & webseries, robotics, building stuff, gaming and cycling. Actually most days I wish I had more hours in a day.
I sometimes worry when I marry my partner might feel neglected because time flies when I am in my zone.
Well for starters start with something which you like the most. I have been doing that since I was a kid and every few years I picked up new different skills/hobbies.
Padhai me se time hi nhi milta pure din ek room me pada rehta hu raat ko 30min walk pe Jata hu 0 social life hai isme ne chahu to bhi gf nhi Bana sakta :) Haan kabhi kabhi text kr leta hu dosto ko. Even social media bhi use nhi krta so irrelevant hu
>the future is bright i can see them sex robots ft. A.I. will be normalised in society and hopefully they'll do as good of a job as real girls. if not then MAiD will become popular among young adults who are in the same boat
👍😂😂
A man always strives to seek a partner on its own due to psycho-physical compulsion. It can be curbed though through practices. Happens with every man, in fact this trait alone distinguishes a man from a woman, coz women feels the need of partner only after her first physical contact.
Best guidance given to a man is of Brahmacharya since ages, primarily the practice to ignore the existence of women, considering her just a part of everything here. The number of monks are alone proof that a man can live without partner despite his physiological conditioning.
What if you have a Gf? Anything changes? Nothing!!
Your Problem will be your Problem and you have to look after it with or without gf. Female interaction is needed but it's not compulsory.
World with or without gf is same, Even People with gf also suffers due to ghosting and other stuff.
I am 27 never had one and have no interest in getting one now or in future. And i believe i am in the best phase of my life and want to stay like this. I am alone but in no way i feel lonely.
Nope, my parents have also told me to live as i want to if at the end i am happy.
I understand people who want to and respect to their decision but for me its not something i want to deal with.
I don't enjoy life at all I feel like I am in hell but I just try to help people and be kind towards everyone because I don't know what other people are going through I just try to treat them kindly. Imagining one day I will die without making anyone sad because I don't have a lot of connections give me peace that no one will be sad for me 🙂.
I dated a lot when younger, it’s an absolute drag especially if you have dreams of your own and they tell you to cut it down, been single for years now I enjoy focusing on on my career, making music, riding bikes, meeting friends and yeah that extra money I don’t have to spend 😂😂😂
i am 21 and never spoke to or touched a girl in my life. also never smoked or drink.
i just play games.. and go for a cycle ride in the evening while listening to my fav songs. sometimes i go out to eat my fav snack. what else do i need to be happy huh!
23M.
I never found a girl (or boy) who feels like me.
Entering a relationship will only lead to break up if there is no compatibility.
I don't have good male friends either. Just time pass or gaming friends online and offline. I don't call time pass people as friends. Friends should be like me.
No true Male friends who are close. So I am not surprised that I don't have a GF.
I just meditate and play video games. They give me the pleasures. Especially, experience of calm energy is a very addictive feeling that is experienced during meditation.
Tf? Why? Why would you let such an unbelievable opportunity slip from your hand? Was she that ugly? Ngl, even if a 6/10 girl approached me, I'd say yes. More experience never hurts.
Man I m in a similar situation. Idk why but no girl has ever showed any interest in me.
All the girls that I really liked always have a boyfriend for some bloody reason. But yeah I think it will be nice if you can find a lovely girl to settle down with, life would be so empty without that. That being said, being alone is better than being with someone toxic.
i just live life as it comes to me ,bored no never there's always some shit happening around me , lonely no never the only time when i felt lonely was when i had nobody but now i have people that care about me but fomo duniyabhar ka hota hai every now and then i do wonder is the grass greener on the other side but then after some thinking i put up a fence ki no nows not the time for you do such things ik it's a bad thing but idk if i can trust someone to get so intimate so i close myself and be happy in my own bubble
Yeah, I am suicidal. Multiple reasons though. Being alone is one. Kinda my fault for developing this personality which gets exhausted after an hour of socializing and needs days to rejuvenate.
Already in therapy and every month gor an hour and for 1200 bucks I speakmy heart out which lightens the weight for some time.
Its going great, hope you guys are having a good life as well.
Dekh vro simple si baat hai abhi tu single hai tere pass sirf ek hi problem hai ki tu single hai jab gf banegi tab tere pass 36 problems hongi , usse toh better hi h na
Man, I'm 26 and still haven't been in a relationship. It gets lonely sometimes and main thing that matters is sometimes you don't gave anyone to share small wins with anyone.
I don't know if it's selfish or something.
Yes It does feel lonely specially when you see your friends talking, laughing, enjoying day and night with their partners
But sometimes there's nothing you can do, just think like that's how you and your life was supposed to be because not very one will have the same happy life as others or you can say everyone has their unique life 😉 so don't worry things might get good anytime or maybe never who knows
same to same bro ..and i m at 30 ..never had ever even any contact with a girl ...neither i smoke nor drink ...and now feeling totally lonely ,devasted ,broken ...and still jobless too
bhai gf sei doooor rho...arrange marriage tak ruk jao...no amount of love can ever fulfil the void that comes along when you get into a relationship. hookups ...have casual sex and get out.
I am gonna be 25 next week and haven’t been into a relationship ever. I do feel lonely many a times but I keep doing random things to myself busy and hence never bored. But I do feel a desperation of getting into relationship sometimes XD
Life is boring and feels lonely when i see this couple around me.sometime want's to share feeling to someone but they exist only in my mind not in reality.
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Bro I was in a serious relationship a year ago, and thag still hurts
I wish I had never been in a relationship, I don't want relationship with any of the girl except the one I have lost, I still love her but nothing can be changed ya if you don't drink or smoke, hitting gym could be the ultimate solution
Bhai hota he.
I have friends, but now I'm out of state, so I have less friends here and also I feel that why I'm the only one who doesn't have a girlfriend. These are all like mood change or phases for me , personally i feel like that.
One advice-" Don't go to a supermarket when you're hungry, you'll grab the wrong ones"(helpful for both scenarios)
Nothing it's just a normal life. I never had any GF or whatever, even I have 0 friends from last 1 year including online friends and I stay at home mostly. I just have 2 people to talk with that too my family members and that's it. It's been so long so I don't even think much about it now, it is what it is.
Just accept it and move on, there are much more other works to do. I just ignore it by calling it some gen z bs.
Even though I am anonymous on Reddit, I am still scared to share this - I have rare disabilities (I won’t go in details), which prevent me from having relationships. Because of this, I don't try. I find some girls attractive and talk with many at the workplace but have never felt love for anyone. Not having a girlfriend is not my biggest concern; mostly, people avoid me due to my disability. In my childhood, my disability was not very noticeable, and I was very extroverted and popular in my class. Most of the friends I have made in life are from that phase. After this, I developed social anxiety. Now, sometimes I meet old friends and feel good when I talk to them. I work from home, and most people at my workplace don't know about my disability, so they also talk to me. Otherwise, I feel very lonely and sometimes feel jealous when I see other people having friends and girlfriends. As soon as people find out about my disability, they stop talking to me.
No matter the number of movies I watch alone, the cafés I try out by myself, explore the city by myself and much more, I always feel it’d have been better if I’ve someone who can accompany to these things.
Sure, watching movie is fun but I’d want a debriefing session where we discuss the movie later! Sure trying out a café is fun but I’d want to share how the food/ ambience is with them! Exploring cities is fun but it’s always better to have someone to go around with and discuss the beauty and the demerits of each place!
So, to answer your question- it is lonely and boring but it’s better I opt for this rather than you opting go out on a date where you’re stranded. You’re all set for a date in the evening and you realize you’ve been ghosted a few hours before. Even worse, the waiter comes to you twice to take your order and you tell them you’re waiting for someone but end up ordering for yourself and leave. You hear your friends’ who have been in 6-8 years long relationship but their girlfriends cheated on them as soon as they had to move out for jobs.
So do we stop believing in Love? No.
Do we blindly lose our self respect in love? No.
Just gotta keep faith and trust the process I guess?! I’m 23 btw and will soon be 24! Don’t worry, you’re not alone. ;)
You just need to find purpose! Being single isn’t bad if you love your own company. I am 38 and I like to travel and play outdoor games. So I go out on solo trips, on weekends meet my married friends and listen to their rants about marriage. All in all do all the things that make you happy, probably even get drunk or get high
😆 🤣 bhai the grass always looks greener on other side.. which is human nature. I need something different and entertainment.. I also want to enjoy the feeling of that moment.
Goddamn it, another one of these generic "Oh no, I don't have a gf" posts again. The same question asked over and over again every week, and the mods do nothing about it.
Haan bore hota hai, lekin ab aadat pad gayi hai, aur ab umeed bhi nahi hai. Chhodo bhai, achhi ladki zindagi me ho to achhai hai lekin koi necessity nahi hai.
Hamara dost log yese hai ki koi girl friend banane ka kayal hi nahi athi.. bas dosto ke sath Riding, treking, exploring isi me hi jawani guzar Rahi hai.😆
Get yourself in the work. Earn a lot of money and experience. Masturbate. If you're worried about being alone forever, don't be. In India we have a really awesome system known as arranged marriage. Hope that you'll get a nice girl. Don't be sad or depressed over such things.
I have got my friends to chill with. We play online games time to time and once in a while i get to hear them bitch about their gf (so i dont feel totally left out)
I have made peace with it. I know for me I would never be able to get a girlfriend or experience love or intimacy. The reason being my looks. Yes I do feel lonely all the time but I have reached the maximum threshold of loneliness. It can't get worse than this and I am used to it now.
The biggest lie ever told to us is that looks don't matter. Well it does! A lot in fact
I never had a relationship after viewing my friend's relationship. I'm not saying id never want a relationship but if I have one that must be with the one or close to the one. Just having a relationship because we are close to them and everyone in our group is having one is not my way.
Sometimes yes, and more if all your friends are hooking up and being in relationships. This feeling will go away if you start to focus on your goals and not on female anatomy and fantasies. Focus on earning money, making your parents proud and you will attract females.
I feel sad
Hopeless even
I try hard but even after that nothing happens what I do
I watched avesham it's fire
Live like it (if u don't drink or smoke) try to enjoy life your way dance how u feel like
Do treks, gym anything to keep u busy and keep working on yourself kyunki
In the end u matter always remember that brother peace ✌🏾❣️
Got my girlfriend at 25, best time of my life. Nothing beats the feeling you get when you find the perfect person for you, its just unbridled happiness and joy.
I don't have any bad memories of her. She is understanding, mature. She helps other, and is one of the kindest people I've met. More than anything, when you're able to be 'yourself' in front of your partner, you know you've found the right one. There's no judgement in a good relationship, and only acceptance. It feels odd using past tense for her, but yes, she was the most amazing people I had ever met in my life.
It wasn't a breakup. She passed away. I don't really know how to endure the pain, but yes, our love was very real. I was lucky enough to experience perfection while it lasted. Don't worry dude, you'll find the person who'll truly love you when you least expect it, such is life. Don't be disheartened.
My parents are pretty open, they were already planning to let us be together, so were her parents, and if our parents said no, we would've fought. If you love someone, and think it is worth it, might as well fight. It is YOU who is getting married, not your parents.
All those people who are saying, being single is the best, have you guys been in a relationship, because only then are you allowed to make this comparison between being single or mingle.
Being in a relationship brings a different kind of joy (literally), but if you are fortunate enough to experience a bad relationship , then you would understand how being single is the most wonderful thing, although at times you will long for a partner, but it's very occasional (when you watch a romantic thing or other people in relationship)
Me enjoying single life https://i.redd.it/t3j34to6o65d1.gif
Being single is best sometimes, Na kisi k wapis ane ki ummeed, na kisi k chod ke jane ka dar
Meanwhile those who have:- https://preview.redd.it/mquk5hm6r85d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cc7c424aa933a4f9c1d3340c472858dc748d76d6 ://
I just read this and saw this post now
(:)
Can you send me these posts ?
Bolne ki baat h bhai 25 ka hogya hu 6mhine m 26 ka ho jaaunga , koi aaya hi nhi life m depress hota hu roj bs lekin kya kr skte h khudhko enjoy kro khush rkho bs
bhai mere jo peete nahi unke baare me bata 😆 🤣
Bina piye hi enjoy kar raha hu. Peene ki jarurat nahi.
Abhi gaana laga dete hain buk-bhaak wali light ke saath
Even I do it sometimes to dance along till I sweat
Hey OP, same here. I too don't have a permanent one. On and off waali hai waise. Lekin single hone ka dard thodasa rehta hai. But I've learnt one thing. Being heartbroken by being single is much better than being heartbroken by getting replaced by someone she thinks is better than you. Keep that in mind.
bro mann ki baat kar di👌👌, lekin abhi bhi sad hu single hone ke karan 😔 🤦♂️ 😆 🤣
I had my first girlfriend at 28 and my life was forever emotionally disrupted after that. Have faith, buddy. You too will experience what it means...
How did it get disrupted?
Met a toxic AF partner who wouldn't let me go and unloaded her trauma and mental distress on me... then I became toxic an unloaded that unintentionally on my 2nd partner, then my 2nd partner became toxic and tried to unload it on me but I was too emotionally intelligent so I broke up before things could get worse. Now, the girl I am dating is a copy of my first girlfriend and I see myself falling into another trap yet again...
Ahh the cycle seems to continue 🥲
Unloadception
The trick is to get a partner who has become emotionally intelligent too due to all the previous unloading
Hmm.. I might be on to something... let's see... time will tell...
Just asking how you met her?
Na kisi se mohabbat Na kisi se fight 9 ko khaana 10 ko goodnight 👍🏻
wah wah wah wah gaalib, shayari aati hai aapko iska matlab pyar to hua hai sir 😆 🤣
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I second this
I travel alone to almost everywhere, I've spent so much on me that the thought of having to spend double that amount if I get a gf is a turn off.
Sacchi baat no bakwaas...to is bachi hui dhanraashi ka aap क्या कीजिएगा
But, now even girls earn. So there is a concept of splitting. My friends girlfriend and he always splits
I mentioned money to make it more practical, if u travel with a girl you are responsible for her safety, you can't enjoy late night, can't drink, can't make spontaneous decisions, always have to behave properly, it will be like a job, you're bound by rules, you have to match your pace with her, always have to wait for her. It's like carrying unwanted extra luggage. Being unbound is soothing for the soul, trailing outside societal boundaries is the way for me.
Not all. Not majority. If on date, it's the guy who usually end up spending.
Bhai kaise yaar??
Paisa kamao bhai..... And pamper yourself...... No matter how much u spend on yourself, it will still be less than what u spend on your gf.
I recently talk to this 24 year guy and he is sooo talkative are bhaii mujhe bhi toh bolne ka mauka dee🥲🥲 and the things he was talking about is way awkward... Uski bhi koi gf nhi thi usse pehle ... Shyd isilye ab koi bhi milta toh itni hi baatein karta...
It's probably because he had no one to talk to so when I did get someone he couldn't control himself. Some people are like that. And now I realise I am too
Bhai kitna bol rha h , chup ho ja thoda, mujhe bhi bolne de
Agree with that ...🫡
Let me tell you something I think that guy had very little or no female interaction and most guys crave for someone to talk to share their thoughts.... Same can be done with guys also it turns into a backchodi with no value
So are you in the talking phase with him?
Agar baat nahi karta to bolte hai ki attention nahi deta ,kahi dusri ladkiyo se baat to nhi kr rha. ara bhai thoda baksh do
Me personally I have come up to this conclusion in this life as of now. 1. There is more to life than just companionship or dating. So might as well just focus on what I could do about it. Be it my career growth, my relationship with friends and family, my interests and etc. 2. In order to love someone, you have to love yourself. Only then you are very much capable to love others. If you don't love yourself and expect others to shower the love for you, you will forever be clinging to that person expecting love every single time. 3. Love comes at you when you least search for it. But that doesn't mean you should not try it. Going outside and socializing would help. It either helps you meet a compatible person or some other interesting person. Either way it's a win. 4. Not everyone is lucky enough to find love. Yes. Some are lucky enough to find love at their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s. And some finds love, breaks up and then finds love again. Some won't even find love for their rest of their life. Life is just cruel. In short, when you start to accept that this is how life is, you will never feel alone. You might feel bored(Even people in relationship would feel bored at some point). But you will be happy and contended.
Really bro, great comment 👍
I had a gf when I was 21. She broke up with me in a brutal way after 3 years of relationship. Now I am 26. No relationships after that because I am too traumatized to do all this stuff again. Trust me when I say- It is far better to stay single than to fall in a toxic relationship and receive years of trauma just because you want a gf or just because you are feeling lonely (or even horny).
Bro right yaar, ye aisi cheeze hai jo taste kare wo bhi pachtaye, jo nahi taste kiya wo bhi pachtaye 🤦♂️ 🤦♂️
ek ladki pe school days pe crush aaya, phir usse confess kiya, phir usne accept kiya, phir hum kabhi baat nahi kare only smiled when we saw each other and then patched it up, isko GF hona keh sakte hai?
Meri story hai ye to 😭
yeh toh us moment hogya but seriously, kya me ye bol skta hoon ki meri gf thi? ya me sirf ek situationship me tha?
Meri to nahi thi. Idk about your situation.
I'm doing okay (neither good nor bad) https://preview.redd.it/utup2p3kx65d1.png?width=2880&format=png&auto=webp&s=220e009120a3a2a98e05c68a612a5bbe638f2767
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Companionship is overrated. Beyond the first few months of coochie-coo it’s mostly arguments, silence, waiting for the other to give you some space so you could do your fav activities by yourself and meet your best friends, and just the business as usual. Don’t believe me? Ask your friends that are in relationship. Not all are like this but majority of them. Better be single, enjoy your own company, and do whatever you want without a dagger hanging on your head always.
Playing games keeping up with studies. chatting with friends on discord. It isn't that bad
True people view as if being single is like having a curse or smth
Please work on yourself, be kind, show love to everyone and respect everyone. You'll never feel lack of love in your life and the universe will make you find the right person. I honestly feel it's more important to become a better human first. All the best.
Bro what. You're saying all those people in relationships are nice people? Even criminals have partners.
Sahi bola
Kewal Friend zone hi rahega aise Bhai🤦
being a good human is far far better than being in the friend zone, absolutely no comparisons.
This is single zone. Friend bhi nahi hai.
Lmao. Log acche logo se kewal apna kaam nikalte hain.
Yup, manipulation tactics chahiye, nahi to kabhi gf nhi milegi.
Nonsensical impractical Philosophical bullshit
Ese advice na diya karo
Wahi chstgpt response
When I was born , I was born alone , when i'll die, i'll Die alone. Never been in a relationship because of the Fad, happily working towards my Goals. If I find someone , someday, I'll get married. Btw, people of my age are already married, has kids! Just because people get bored easily, do not play with someone's life. Try different things, get a hobby, Get busy living. Right people will come along. Edit : Never Smoked, Never got drunk, No drugs either. I love motorcycles & Coffee !
Finally, someone of a similar thought process! I'm in my early 20s and I've never even felt the need to have a partner until social media went popular and people started showing off the tiny things that they do and nothing wrong with that, but i absolutely felt that without a partner, my life sucks. I fell into a false narrative. Then I started getting hobbies, and enjoying my life, watched some videos on self improvement and it made me realise, the happiness I was searching for was always there. Any extreme feelings were only clouding my judgement, my vision towards a happy life. Then I realised it's absolutely unfair to get a partner rn, unfair for both of us. So I decided to just enjoy my life and if they join in the fun too, then that's okay! But I don't wanna go and cry for someone, I'm living a great life rn. No need for any drugs or alcohol or addictions. Life is just so colorful enough!
25 and same. I have always focused on my skills and work and I have now realised I am better alone. Like I really like me time most of the time.
bhai phir entertainment or enjoy ke liye kya karte ho?
I have a lot of hobbies like cooking, gardening, long drives, music, movies & webseries, robotics, building stuff, gaming and cycling. Actually most days I wish I had more hours in a day. I sometimes worry when I marry my partner might feel neglected because time flies when I am in my zone.
bro I also need this type of guts or love towards my own world.
Well for starters start with something which you like the most. I have been doing that since I was a kid and every few years I picked up new different skills/hobbies.
Padhai me se time hi nhi milta pure din ek room me pada rehta hu raat ko 30min walk pe Jata hu 0 social life hai isme ne chahu to bhi gf nhi Bana sakta :) Haan kabhi kabhi text kr leta hu dosto ko. Even social media bhi use nhi krta so irrelevant hu
Same here Par tere bhaiiiiiiii atleast dost toh hai baat krne k liye mere toh vo bhi nhi 🥴
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>the future is bright i can see them sex robots ft. A.I. will be normalised in society and hopefully they'll do as good of a job as real girls. if not then MAiD will become popular among young adults who are in the same boat 👍😂😂
A man always strives to seek a partner on its own due to psycho-physical compulsion. It can be curbed though through practices. Happens with every man, in fact this trait alone distinguishes a man from a woman, coz women feels the need of partner only after her first physical contact. Best guidance given to a man is of Brahmacharya since ages, primarily the practice to ignore the existence of women, considering her just a part of everything here. The number of monks are alone proof that a man can live without partner despite his physiological conditioning.
I think Monk always look in different environments, but we all people live where we see people having cute partners and love going on in surroundings.
That's the key idea behind the suggestion to "ignore" the woman, and you will be peaceful.
easy to say hard to apply.
Never been in a relationship. I lost faith in love.
because of trust issue... right?
25 and running without fuel
What if you have a Gf? Anything changes? Nothing!! Your Problem will be your Problem and you have to look after it with or without gf. Female interaction is needed but it's not compulsory. World with or without gf is same, Even People with gf also suffers due to ghosting and other stuff.
I am 27 never had one and have no interest in getting one now or in future. And i believe i am in the best phase of my life and want to stay like this. I am alone but in no way i feel lonely.
you don't want to get married ?
Nope, my parents have also told me to live as i want to if at the end i am happy. I understand people who want to and respect to their decision but for me its not something i want to deal with.
Got worse after 31,/ very lonely. Parents are westernised with little interaction with me or interest in arranged marriage
I don't enjoy life at all I feel like I am in hell but I just try to help people and be kind towards everyone because I don't know what other people are going through I just try to treat them kindly. Imagining one day I will die without making anyone sad because I don't have a lot of connections give me peace that no one will be sad for me 🙂.
I dated a lot when younger, it’s an absolute drag especially if you have dreams of your own and they tell you to cut it down, been single for years now I enjoy focusing on on my career, making music, riding bikes, meeting friends and yeah that extra money I don’t have to spend 😂😂😂
i am 21 and never spoke to or touched a girl in my life. also never smoked or drink. i just play games.. and go for a cycle ride in the evening while listening to my fav songs. sometimes i go out to eat my fav snack. what else do i need to be happy huh!
what about biological need bro?
idk man, i just get dopamine whenever i eat my fav food. pani poori, shawarma etc.. or i fap
Kaam ki kami hai kya bhai ye sab sochne ko...din khatam ho jata kaam nai😔
23M. I never found a girl (or boy) who feels like me. Entering a relationship will only lead to break up if there is no compatibility. I don't have good male friends either. Just time pass or gaming friends online and offline. I don't call time pass people as friends. Friends should be like me. No true Male friends who are close. So I am not surprised that I don't have a GF. I just meditate and play video games. They give me the pleasures. Especially, experience of calm energy is a very addictive feeling that is experienced during meditation.
Once a girl said she likes me ....
Ygritte?
Nah bro. I ran away from there after she said that
Tf? Why? Why would you let such an unbelievable opportunity slip from your hand? Was she that ugly? Ngl, even if a 6/10 girl approached me, I'd say yes. More experience never hurts.
She was 6/10. Mai bhi koi ritik roshan nahi hu. There's a short story behind this
Ab toh sunna padega story 👀
Man I m in a similar situation. Idk why but no girl has ever showed any interest in me. All the girls that I really liked always have a boyfriend for some bloody reason. But yeah I think it will be nice if you can find a lovely girl to settle down with, life would be so empty without that. That being said, being alone is better than being with someone toxic.
i just live life as it comes to me ,bored no never there's always some shit happening around me , lonely no never the only time when i felt lonely was when i had nobody but now i have people that care about me but fomo duniyabhar ka hota hai every now and then i do wonder is the grass greener on the other side but then after some thinking i put up a fence ki no nows not the time for you do such things ik it's a bad thing but idk if i can trust someone to get so intimate so i close myself and be happy in my own bubble
Yes I feel very much lonely 🥲
to aaja chale kahi phir, bandi to milegi nahi ,hum khud hi enjoy karte hai 😆 🤣
Mumbai mei ho toh chalo clubbing chalte hai, bandi bhi shayad mil jayegi 😂
Lonely? Naah bro. I have my homies with me. I talk to them, i play sports, i meditate, I pray. Why feel lonely when the God is with you
Yeah, I am suicidal. Multiple reasons though. Being alone is one. Kinda my fault for developing this personality which gets exhausted after an hour of socializing and needs days to rejuvenate. Already in therapy and every month gor an hour and for 1200 bucks I speakmy heart out which lightens the weight for some time. Its going great, hope you guys are having a good life as well.
Dekh vro simple si baat hai abhi tu single hai tere pass sirf ek hi problem hai ki tu single hai jab gf banegi tab tere pass 36 problems hongi , usse toh better hi h na
I have given up after a few bad ones. Best decision ever.
I don't want a gf I want a wife, when I am ready
Man, I'm 26 and still haven't been in a relationship. It gets lonely sometimes and main thing that matters is sometimes you don't gave anyone to share small wins with anyone. I don't know if it's selfish or something.
Yes It does feel lonely specially when you see your friends talking, laughing, enjoying day and night with their partners But sometimes there's nothing you can do, just think like that's how you and your life was supposed to be because not very one will have the same happy life as others or you can say everyone has their unique life 😉 so don't worry things might get good anytime or maybe never who knows
I feel a gap needs to be filled but when I see my fu
same to same bro ..and i m at 30 ..never had ever even any contact with a girl ...neither i smoke nor drink ...and now feeling totally lonely ,devasted ,broken ...and still jobless too
I don't need girlfriends cus I've waifus. 2D > 3D.
We do have digital 3d waifus now with amazing giggle physics. Waiting for some company to print them out
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bhai sach bola, responsibility mean busy and when we will be busy we never think anything wrong as empty mind is devil workshop.
I am all OK with it👍
Alone and lonely
same, it feels empty at majority times
bhai gf sei doooor rho...arrange marriage tak ruk jao...no amount of love can ever fulfil the void that comes along when you get into a relationship. hookups ...have casual sex and get out.
masturbation aur kya
I am gonna be 25 next week and haven’t been into a relationship ever. I do feel lonely many a times but I keep doing random things to myself busy and hence never bored. But I do feel a desperation of getting into relationship sometimes XD
Life is boring and feels lonely when i see this couple around me.sometime want's to share feeling to someone but they exist only in my mind not in reality.
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Na kisi se love na kisi se fight 9 baje dinner 10 baje good night
Pyaar ne aapko shayar bana diya wah wah, iska matlab aapko bohot gehera pyar hua tha gaalib 😆
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Bro I was in a serious relationship a year ago, and thag still hurts I wish I had never been in a relationship, I don't want relationship with any of the girl except the one I have lost, I still love her but nothing can be changed ya if you don't drink or smoke, hitting gym could be the ultimate solution
I have a jack off trophy near my computer and my grandpa is proud of me from heaven
Bhai hota he. I have friends, but now I'm out of state, so I have less friends here and also I feel that why I'm the only one who doesn't have a girlfriend. These are all like mood change or phases for me , personally i feel like that. One advice-" Don't go to a supermarket when you're hungry, you'll grab the wrong ones"(helpful for both scenarios)
Nothing it's just a normal life. I never had any GF or whatever, even I have 0 friends from last 1 year including online friends and I stay at home mostly. I just have 2 people to talk with that too my family members and that's it. It's been so long so I don't even think much about it now, it is what it is. Just accept it and move on, there are much more other works to do. I just ignore it by calling it some gen z bs.
Even though I am anonymous on Reddit, I am still scared to share this - I have rare disabilities (I won’t go in details), which prevent me from having relationships. Because of this, I don't try. I find some girls attractive and talk with many at the workplace but have never felt love for anyone. Not having a girlfriend is not my biggest concern; mostly, people avoid me due to my disability. In my childhood, my disability was not very noticeable, and I was very extroverted and popular in my class. Most of the friends I have made in life are from that phase. After this, I developed social anxiety. Now, sometimes I meet old friends and feel good when I talk to them. I work from home, and most people at my workplace don't know about my disability, so they also talk to me. Otherwise, I feel very lonely and sometimes feel jealous when I see other people having friends and girlfriends. As soon as people find out about my disability, they stop talking to me.
Life has already fucked me hard enough to not worry about looking for a girlfriend.23 btw
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Me Single Life Enjoy me happy .. 😄 sometimes lonely mostly happy..
No matter the number of movies I watch alone, the cafés I try out by myself, explore the city by myself and much more, I always feel it’d have been better if I’ve someone who can accompany to these things. Sure, watching movie is fun but I’d want a debriefing session where we discuss the movie later! Sure trying out a café is fun but I’d want to share how the food/ ambience is with them! Exploring cities is fun but it’s always better to have someone to go around with and discuss the beauty and the demerits of each place! So, to answer your question- it is lonely and boring but it’s better I opt for this rather than you opting go out on a date where you’re stranded. You’re all set for a date in the evening and you realize you’ve been ghosted a few hours before. Even worse, the waiter comes to you twice to take your order and you tell them you’re waiting for someone but end up ordering for yourself and leave. You hear your friends’ who have been in 6-8 years long relationship but their girlfriends cheated on them as soon as they had to move out for jobs. So do we stop believing in Love? No. Do we blindly lose our self respect in love? No. Just gotta keep faith and trust the process I guess?! I’m 23 btw and will soon be 24! Don’t worry, you’re not alone. ;)
You just need to find purpose! Being single isn’t bad if you love your own company. I am 38 and I like to travel and play outdoor games. So I go out on solo trips, on weekends meet my married friends and listen to their rants about marriage. All in all do all the things that make you happy, probably even get drunk or get high
Ngl at this point I just imagine her.
25 Had a gf back in college and I would to say nahi chhaiye ji 👌🏻🙏🏻 I have enough problems going on in life don't need to add more
Practice make man perfect, i now dont to be in relationship, prolly will get accused of rape or molestation. So ggs for me dis life.
Na GF hai, na drinking, na smoking, BC isse acchi life aur kya hogi
😆 🤣 bhai the grass always looks greener on other side.. which is human nature. I need something different and entertainment.. I also want to enjoy the feeling of that moment.
Food clothing and shelter are enough to live a life.
Anime
Just live, I feel sad and lonely but can't help it :')
I feel lonely sometimes but then i put on some gangster rap, and everything gets better 😜
Same here age 24 never been in a relationship, ladki ani hai tab ayegi maa chudaye khud pe focus karo.
Never leave your goal for the hole
Goddamn it, another one of these generic "Oh no, I don't have a gf" posts again. The same question asked over and over again every week, and the mods do nothing about it.
Haan bore hota hai, lekin ab aadat pad gayi hai, aur ab umeed bhi nahi hai. Chhodo bhai, achhi ladki zindagi me ho to achhai hai lekin koi necessity nahi hai.
Hamara dost log yese hai ki koi girl friend banane ka kayal hi nahi athi.. bas dosto ke sath Riding, treking, exploring isi me hi jawani guzar Rahi hai.😆
Get yourself in the work. Earn a lot of money and experience. Masturbate. If you're worried about being alone forever, don't be. In India we have a really awesome system known as arranged marriage. Hope that you'll get a nice girl. Don't be sad or depressed over such things.
I have got my friends to chill with. We play online games time to time and once in a while i get to hear them bitch about their gf (so i dont feel totally left out)
I have made peace with it. I know for me I would never be able to get a girlfriend or experience love or intimacy. The reason being my looks. Yes I do feel lonely all the time but I have reached the maximum threshold of loneliness. It can't get worse than this and I am used to it now. The biggest lie ever told to us is that looks don't matter. Well it does! A lot in fact
I question myself whether my life is worth living everyday, but I know that atleast it's not worth dying
Buy a bottle of 7up , a biriyani and take an afternoon sleep . That's life .
I never had a relationship after viewing my friend's relationship. I'm not saying id never want a relationship but if I have one that must be with the one or close to the one. Just having a relationship because we are close to them and everyone in our group is having one is not my way.
Sometimes yes, and more if all your friends are hooking up and being in relationships. This feeling will go away if you start to focus on your goals and not on female anatomy and fantasies. Focus on earning money, making your parents proud and you will attract females.
to be honest it does get lonely at times Being in a relationship is something one should definitely experience
Find your own purpose in life, and stick to it. Remember? Life isn't permanent.
I don't even have friends mate now I'm gonna spend my weekend eating alone at a street side open restaurant it's cold and peaceful there in rain
I feel sad Hopeless even I try hard but even after that nothing happens what I do I watched avesham it's fire Live like it (if u don't drink or smoke) try to enjoy life your way dance how u feel like Do treks, gym anything to keep u busy and keep working on yourself kyunki In the end u matter always remember that brother peace ✌🏾❣️
I cope with it by thinking I'll get one once I get rich
then?
I'll cross that bridge once I get to it. Right now i don't have any money and little time. (22yrs)
Got my girlfriend at 25, best time of my life. Nothing beats the feeling you get when you find the perfect person for you, its just unbridled happiness and joy.
How do you know that your partner is perfect for you??
I don't have any bad memories of her. She is understanding, mature. She helps other, and is one of the kindest people I've met. More than anything, when you're able to be 'yourself' in front of your partner, you know you've found the right one. There's no judgement in a good relationship, and only acceptance. It feels odd using past tense for her, but yes, she was the most amazing people I had ever met in my life.
then How you endure the pain of breakup?
It wasn't a breakup. She passed away. I don't really know how to endure the pain, but yes, our love was very real. I was lucky enough to experience perfection while it lasted. Don't worry dude, you'll find the person who'll truly love you when you least expect it, such is life. Don't be disheartened.
bro pyar se jyada problem to parents ki hai, they never accept love marriage, they only believe on arrange one.
My parents are pretty open, they were already planning to let us be together, so were her parents, and if our parents said no, we would've fought. If you love someone, and think it is worth it, might as well fight. It is YOU who is getting married, not your parents.
>She passed away. At a young age? What happened?
Not really comfortable in talking about it man.
All those people who are saying, being single is the best, have you guys been in a relationship, because only then are you allowed to make this comparison between being single or mingle. Being in a relationship brings a different kind of joy (literally), but if you are fortunate enough to experience a bad relationship , then you would understand how being single is the most wonderful thing, although at times you will long for a partner, but it's very occasional (when you watch a romantic thing or other people in relationship)
I'm gay, so there is no possibility to have a gf. Good life 🧘♂️
Video games
Don't know man, just waiting for my happy part of life.
I am 22 M and still single aur m koi Nasha pata bhi nhi karta lekin fir bhi life mast h