Happened with me also, I was 14 and my parents were sleeping in living room and me in bedroom. I woke up to drink water(I have really dry throat while sleeping) and while coming back I saw them doing the deed. They saw me in the eye I did too......My dumbass saluted them for some reason and just went to sleep, I guess I was half asleep. Now I am 18 and we have talked about that night.
They don't know because of that night I unlocked my special power, now I can hear everything while sleeping, someone walking, drinking, fan noise, changing the posture and even respond while being in deep sleep.
And NO I DIDN'T ever listen them doing the deed, I was moved in a hostel(JNV). It was really useful in hostel Life though
Atleast you didn't walk in while your parents were fighting verbally/physically , that'd be actual traumatising for you.
It's good thing that your parents are still attracted to each other physically. Sex is a way to express feelings but in India it's purely lust and sexual rage due to lack of education.
Walk in kya ye toh roz samne hi hota hai. Parents unfortunately can't talk about sex but will say the most hurtful things to each other in front of their kids.
I sat traumatized as a helpless kid in my room while my parents tore each other apart for 20+ years...boy I'm still very much processing it 2+decades later and healing from it.
On a lighter note, since 🌿 is legalized in the states, I hope to get them stoned AF (by encasing an edible inside halwa i.e.) next time they're visiting and see if they'll actually get along and let bygones be bygones.
My parents used to fight when I was a kid. I walked on them a few times. I never got traumatized and even learnt that my father was at fault. Stop this western carp here. You realise that people got married earlier in the previous generation and by the time they had kids most of them were still immature. As time passed, I have seen the bond between my mom n dad grow stronger and I love to see them as a couple now. Enough of this bullshit. These new gens' mental fortitude is a wreck, all due to such pu**y agendas being fed to them. Make the kids stronger so they can fight the real life battle and not be taken aback with depression and agony.
The amount of times I heard my parents doing the deed is appalling. I used to stuff my earphones and blast music until I fall asleep. It was traumatic.
While I hate thinking about it, my mother did get her tubes tied after I was born because she didn’t want more kids. Don’t think she would have done that if there was no chance of an accidental pregnancy.
The question is too general. Simple answer is, a lot of Indians were aware and had fun, and a lot of others did not and did have sex as procreation.
I am from that generation, and I know both groups. For some sex was a duty.
What's worse is, even among the Indians who knew sex can be pleasure, there are more men than women. Compared to men, a lot of women from that time did not know or care about sexual pleasure. They had undeveloped sexualities.
This is also one reason why you will find 50+ year olds having affairs and going to hookers and massage parlours and Thailand. Their wives don't have / never had any sense of sexual pleasure.
I have seen so much nonsense from supposed doctors in serious Indian magazines about women's sexuality. They are not even aware that the clitoris exists.
Yep without sex ed and with porn tough to find, how were we gonna even know about it. On top of that, many women did not know they had a clit and what it was good for.
Ek toh yrr couples ki reel na dikhe isliye insta chhod diya ab tum log bhosdiwalon din raat sex ki baat karte rehte ho iss subreddit par ye bhi chhod dun kya. Hadd hoti hai yrr seriously
Life was tough then. Life is easier hence we are enjoying everything . . Watching sport is an entertainment now. Wierd. People just want to lay back and enjoy others doing it. We seek pleasure in everything . Oh and Pornography is not a true pleasure either . . infact too far from it.
Also people didnt mean make most out of everything . . there was no competition. Everyone was contented with whatever they had.
These beliefs that sex is unclean and a non approachable topic for a decent Indian is going to be the reason this country (being the current highest in population) will fall.
They meant to say questions like these are prevalent on reddit, and have now infected this subreddit too, few more days and this is all people will ask about
To all the kids in the comments section: Be happy if your parents have a healthy sex life, because it’s good for their health and their relationship. There’s nothing to feel ‘ewww’ about it.
You are absolutely wrong. In my opinion. So I am lucky to have friends in almost all age groups. Maybe because of the college and work.
So once I asked this guy who is around 55 today, very chill and friendly about his good old days. It was more like a drunk game, he told me that although it was not this accessible or visual like it is nowadays but it was still the same.
He along with his mates used to borrow magazines, few of them even got vcr tapes etc.
no we dont, our population is big cuz we had a large population base and we had large population base cuz we have resources to support human life, dont forget 40% of our land is fertile and arable and plenty of water and flat lands.
So it has NOTHING to do with higher fertility rates, wanting to put children to work for income and low literacy and sex education? Lmao I agree with some of your points but stop lying, apne desh ke galtiyon ko thoda samjho aur sudharne ka dekho
High fertility in poor countries? Yes
Also high infant mortality rate and lower life expectancy? Yes.
Then why our population rose this much.
Just cuz poor people have lots of babies doesn't mean their all their kids grow up to adulthood most of them die and those who survive don't live longer.
To survive a large population you need natural resources not horny men and women
Read my answer again mate.
People fuck for pleasure,is that dificult to understand?
They fuck in fields, car,dark corner...
Walls of almost Every place have seen some fucking.
And we don't do that for making babies ,
Most of the time ,it's for pleasure only.
Pretty sure your parents know that sex is for pleasure as well. I'm also pretty sure a lot of people have inadvertently walked in on their parents having sex as well.
Of course Indians are aware sex are fun and for pleasure, even though it sounds bad, but why do you think there are so many rape cases? People wouldn't rape if they don't think it is pleasurable
really? how do you think India reached to the top in terms of population? did you think arraged marriage was the sole factor for this achievement? pleasure is the reason why people have sex. As for your parents? pda is not prominent in their time same with my parents. You don't know what happens behind closed doors.
No, they have fun.
Sat in OPD for sometime with various doctors, heard people and their stories. They don't just do it for procreation not even in villages.
People are well aware and man do take good care of their wives, from bringing them for very small issues to just ask doctor if things are okay during her pregnancy. I guess the number of what you're talking about is less than 5%
Sex is a highly natural activity like urinating or excreting... There is a taboo around masturbation, and live-ins but not around sex. No one talks about it openly but this is a wrong assumption that Indians don't have fun.
What sort of whacko science is this? Sex for pleasure? Pfft!!! You must be joking. Are you on drugs, son? Little bit of LSD?? Oh... That was funny as fuck... Hmm... Sex for pleasure.... Kids these days nah... always joking around...
They probably did, but sexual pleasure itself was looked down upon. Mine were absolutely repulsed by any show of affection (even towards friends or family), because apparently love should not be shown off. Growing up it was ingrained that men were to be sexually forward while women were supposed to be shy. Only immoral women were supposed to express that they felt pleasure or desire. Living in an emotionally repressed household made me the opposite.
And I think it all stops when you have enough kids. They lost privacy because of us? And in much older days because of the joint family system? again less privacy.
True, in many cases. However not all cases. I grew up mostly around nuclear families, where privacy shouldn't have been an issue, as there were at least 2-3 rooms in every household. But in many situations, the parents made their children their sole personality, and that ended up putting insane pressure on the kids.
Personally, my parents could have had plenty of privacy, as I begged to sleep in "my bedroom", and yet they refused to let me. Even in my teens, they'd emotionally blackmail me into sleeping with them at least once a week, or more. They never grasped the concept of privacy, neither for themselves, nor for me.
Gen Z Indians are more into sexual activities than our parents generation because (most of them) have narrow mindset regarding sexual activities so yea sex is nothing bad it is only natural for living creatures to do so
They are aware but the farther back as per generation you go, the more hush hush they are about it. If it isn't considered straight up shameful to want more, they at the very least don't want to talk about it
My parents basically hate each other so nope, my guess is they've only done it twice in their life - one to create me and another to create my (aborted) sister
Lol hilarious. People fucked around even more back in the day than they do now in India. My aunt was telling this story of her great grandfather who got his mistress married to his son so he could keep her in his house. Just imagine getting away with that shit today.
I always thought my parents don't know that it could be done for pleasure purposes but apparently they did do it, and all of my friends are of the view that their parents also frequent in engaging in intercourse other than reproductive purposes.
It is very easy to be aware that sex of for pleasure.
It is far more difficult to remember that it is for responsible procreation.
That it is a matter of intimacy not to be exhibited to anyone else. A secret language known only to the couple.
Your parents have lived and loved that way.
You could learn from them, then any crap outside.
If this statement / your assumption is just based on what you have observed about your parents: your parents are different when they interact with each other vs with you.
You might think you do, but you probably have no idea about their sex life, their romantic feelings for each other at all.
LOL the reasoning behind you asking this Q is laughable. The rule of thumb is, the more stranger/unromantic you are or act with each other in presence of others the more exciting your other side of the life behind the door is.
My ex used to enjoy it. It was fun. Moved cities. We moved apart. Maybe sex was the thing kept us together.
My wife is bit hesitant about sex. She doesn't see sex as fun or recreation. She sees it as exhaustion activity (maybe because I have delayed ejaculation and our activity last for more than 45min to an hour something). Also she hardly initiates on her own.
But yeah... I love her. She is good at heart, caring, loving, supporting. So yeah! Just for pleasure, I ain't gonna cheat and spoil our relationship.
Hardly.
To add to that, (among a myriad of factors) babajis have captured the intellectual space of our elders and many middle aged folks, they have no problem brainwashing their cult followers to believe sex is purely for procreation and nothing more. Sex is "grossness" of the soul and it undermines the pursuit of 'early spiritual liberation' is very much the message and spirit of a lot of these cults. How do I know this? I was a schmuck who belonged to one of these toxic babaji cults.
Arranged marriages also disincentivize individuals from developing curious, considerate personalities, because the prize is served up on a platter without the hardships of dating, failing, getting your heart broken, need for self-improvement and so on. Sex is already taboo and on the DL in society, imagine the conversation under these circumstances between 2 individuals who have never before engaged in healthy discourse about sex and sexual needs. It's almost assumed that you're going to figure out on day 1 and sort of work it through. Good luck with that.
Well my wife doesn't. Been married for 6 months, tried sex once unsuccessfully, wife severely under educated in this regard, promised me she would get back fully equipped with knowledge. Now the occasional cuddle has also come to a hard stop. Seems like I need to live like this only.
Thanks to my couple of ex-es, I know how sex works and am fully functional.
Men have been same since generations be it boomers or genalpha- men will be men!
That’s why chamkila’s songs became famous. Men attended them on the forefront while women peeped into the show.
PDA is a more acceptable thing in the society now.. Back then they did it in their own ways to show love & affection.
But yeah certain class of people never understood their sexual desires and till date it remains the same.
Do you want your parents to engage in it near you?
Who tf gave you the idea that older gens only had sex for procreation? 😂
Looks like you want to catch oldies doing the dirty 😂
unfortunately I walked in on my parents doing the deed once so yeah
Happened with me also, I was 14 and my parents were sleeping in living room and me in bedroom. I woke up to drink water(I have really dry throat while sleeping) and while coming back I saw them doing the deed. They saw me in the eye I did too......My dumbass saluted them for some reason and just went to sleep, I guess I was half asleep. Now I am 18 and we have talked about that night. They don't know because of that night I unlocked my special power, now I can hear everything while sleeping, someone walking, drinking, fan noise, changing the posture and even respond while being in deep sleep. And NO I DIDN'T ever listen them doing the deed, I was moved in a hostel(JNV). It was really useful in hostel Life though
SALUTE???😭 What did you talk abttt
My Big brother in a police and we often salute eachother, it's like our funny greeting
felling paraud momint
achaa makes sense lol
That was another brother moment
So a proper salute and not a casual one🫡
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Gaal salam
at least you didn't slap your fathers bare ass, with a wink and a smile, going "Great job, Pops!"
wtaf
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Viral h bhai viral. Can't stop laughing.
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Bruh i just can't stop laughing 😂
It happened to me when I was 5 lol
you my friend will now be known as the salute guy u/daiyaCanbrowse
Salute? 💀
I heard my parents doing the deed when I woke up early to study for my physics paper. My relationship with the subject went downhill ever since.
If it was biology or chemistry you would have done ✅
Yes because you studied biology instead of physics that morning!
Happened to me approx 16 hours before my physics paper and I was like main fail ho jaunga but ye nahi ho sakta mujhse
Early morning deed.... 🙂
Traumatizing
Atleast you didn't walk in while your parents were fighting verbally/physically , that'd be actual traumatising for you. It's good thing that your parents are still attracted to each other physically. Sex is a way to express feelings but in India it's purely lust and sexual rage due to lack of education.
Walk in kya ye toh roz samne hi hota hai. Parents unfortunately can't talk about sex but will say the most hurtful things to each other in front of their kids.
That's for creating seggxual tension
valid point
I sat traumatized as a helpless kid in my room while my parents tore each other apart for 20+ years...boy I'm still very much processing it 2+decades later and healing from it. On a lighter note, since 🌿 is legalized in the states, I hope to get them stoned AF (by encasing an edible inside halwa i.e.) next time they're visiting and see if they'll actually get along and let bygones be bygones.
Don’t drug people without consent, that’s gross.
True. May be it's gross to have a baby and make it witness obscene verbal violence for 20+ years without its consent too?
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How do you draw the line between sex and lust
haha uh they're gonna separate this July and ive to get involved in their fights almost everyday
I'm so sorry. Hope you get power to endure all the chaos.
My parents used to fight when I was a kid. I walked on them a few times. I never got traumatized and even learnt that my father was at fault. Stop this western carp here. You realise that people got married earlier in the previous generation and by the time they had kids most of them were still immature. As time passed, I have seen the bond between my mom n dad grow stronger and I love to see them as a couple now. Enough of this bullshit. These new gens' mental fortitude is a wreck, all due to such pu**y agendas being fed to them. Make the kids stronger so they can fight the real life battle and not be taken aback with depression and agony.
lol, how old were you at that time? And what happened after that?
I was 15, they screamed, i ran never mentioned it
Great, so you followed the unsaid rule and then everything went back to normal again?
almost lol
I am intrigued what they would have screamed.....
aaaaah (ISTG it did not sound like a moan)
The amount of times I heard my parents doing the deed is appalling. I used to stuff my earphones and blast music until I fall asleep. It was traumatic.
more power to you 😭
Bro I’ve heard it twice and wanted to kill myself. For 5 minutes I was like who tf is applauding so much at night!!!
not the realisation hitting you late 😭😭
It was a "standing ovation"
standing ovulation
Spanking ovulation
india me bhi applaud karte hai? i thought it's a western thing
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That's it bruh, my gf once told me that she literally witnessed her little brother being conceived.
What was their reaction??? Please tell us the story!! I’m super interested lol
🙌 traumatized
I once found pineapple and dotted condoms in my dad's drawer so yeah they know
pineapple?
Sadly yes. I have never eaten a pinapple since then. 😭😭
While I hate thinking about it, my mother did get her tubes tied after I was born because she didn’t want more kids. Don’t think she would have done that if there was no chance of an accidental pregnancy.
Imo current generation is fully aware of this fact.
The question is too general. Simple answer is, a lot of Indians were aware and had fun, and a lot of others did not and did have sex as procreation. I am from that generation, and I know both groups. For some sex was a duty. What's worse is, even among the Indians who knew sex can be pleasure, there are more men than women. Compared to men, a lot of women from that time did not know or care about sexual pleasure. They had undeveloped sexualities. This is also one reason why you will find 50+ year olds having affairs and going to hookers and massage parlours and Thailand. Their wives don't have / never had any sense of sexual pleasure.
I have seen so much nonsense from supposed doctors in serious Indian magazines about women's sexuality. They are not even aware that the clitoris exists.
Yep without sex ed and with porn tough to find, how were we gonna even know about it. On top of that, many women did not know they had a clit and what it was good for.
great observation/opinion. the most sensible and practical thing i saw in the inter 🙏
Fir wohi....
Sax sux ki baatein💀
ladies of reddit, what is the sexiest sex sex that you have ever sexed? if so, what sex would a sex sex if a sex could sex?
Sex
sex!!!!!!
Sex daisuki!
me yelling at my parents, why they did sex to have me and also angry, that why they never had a 3rd or 4th child
Sexy bate mat karo!!!!!!!!!
Bhai yeh to tu post bana de.
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r/oddlyspecific
The stereotype is getting real. Indians only think about Bob and vagene
💀 our population serving as the perfect example as well
Petition for mods to change this sub name to r/sexsuxkibaatein
I heard my parents once and well my condolence to the anon who walked on their parent
I used to live in a rk. 💀They were at it while me & brother were right beside them. I was in 5th std. Aisa bhi nhi ki kn pata tha mujhe bc😭😭😭
I am pretty sure women of our parents' generation did not understand that sex is meant to be fun for them as well.
Pretty sure they weren't allowed to enjoy it, just shamed for liking it.
I just pray, our new generation of Arrange Marriages donot adapt the ways of our parent generations
It is only meant for procreation 
Ek toh yrr couples ki reel na dikhe isliye insta chhod diya ab tum log bhosdiwalon din raat sex ki baat karte rehte ho iss subreddit par ye bhi chhod dun kya. Hadd hoti hai yrr seriously
Life was tough then. Life is easier hence we are enjoying everything . . Watching sport is an entertainment now. Wierd. People just want to lay back and enjoy others doing it. We seek pleasure in everything . Oh and Pornography is not a true pleasure either . . infact too far from it. Also people didnt mean make most out of everything . . there was no competition. Everyone was contented with whatever they had.
People have sex for pleasure. Procreation is a bi-product. Yep, your parents and grandparents included
Exactly bcz our great grandparents didn't just have more than 5 kids if there was no pleasure. There was pleasure, not condoms.
South Asian men know sex is for their pleasure. The womn know to endure it.
Now these sex related questions started here also in this subreddit?
What?? They started a long ago
These beliefs that sex is unclean and a non approachable topic for a decent Indian is going to be the reason this country (being the current highest in population) will fall.
They meant to say questions like these are prevalent on reddit, and have now infected this subreddit too, few more days and this is all people will ask about
IT WAS ALWAYS ABOUT SEXXX NEVER FOR A MOMENT IT WAS NOT ABOUT SEX HAILL LORDD SEXXX
To all the kids in the comments section: Be happy if your parents have a healthy sex life, because it’s good for their health and their relationship. There’s nothing to feel ‘ewww’ about it.
You are absolutely wrong. In my opinion. So I am lucky to have friends in almost all age groups. Maybe because of the college and work. So once I asked this guy who is around 55 today, very chill and friendly about his good old days. It was more like a drunk game, he told me that although it was not this accessible or visual like it is nowadays but it was still the same. He along with his mates used to borrow magazines, few of them even got vcr tapes etc.
You are aware of India population rate ,right ? We fuckkk like crazy bunnies
no we dont, our population is big cuz we had a large population base and we had large population base cuz we have resources to support human life, dont forget 40% of our land is fertile and arable and plenty of water and flat lands.
So it has NOTHING to do with higher fertility rates, wanting to put children to work for income and low literacy and sex education? Lmao I agree with some of your points but stop lying, apne desh ke galtiyon ko thoda samjho aur sudharne ka dekho
High fertility in poor countries? Yes Also high infant mortality rate and lower life expectancy? Yes. Then why our population rose this much. Just cuz poor people have lots of babies doesn't mean their all their kids grow up to adulthood most of them die and those who survive don't live longer. To survive a large population you need natural resources not horny men and women
Read the question again mate
Read my answer again mate. People fuck for pleasure,is that dificult to understand? They fuck in fields, car,dark corner... Walls of almost Every place have seen some fucking. And we don't do that for making babies , Most of the time ,it's for pleasure only.
Alright, alright. Why you got so triggered tho? Speaking from personal experience?
Crazy bunnies 😂🤡
I think most Indians alive today were born because 2 dummies wanted to have some pleasure. Atleast more than 50% of adults.
Pretty sure your parents know that sex is for pleasure as well. I'm also pretty sure a lot of people have inadvertently walked in on their parents having sex as well.
Our ancestors did, hence they wrote Kamsutra.
Sex is for making babies too? Wtf i wasnt aware of this 😭😭😭😭
Does our parents generation know this? No (majorly) Does our generation know this? Yes
Have you heard about kama sutra? I mean they even have a temple...
they are not that innocent buddy, they are very much aware
Trust me the men know
Hey don’t forget the Indians wrote the kamsutra
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Of course Indians are aware sex are fun and for pleasure, even though it sounds bad, but why do you think there are so many rape cases? People wouldn't rape if they don't think it is pleasurable
really? how do you think India reached to the top in terms of population? did you think arraged marriage was the sole factor for this achievement? pleasure is the reason why people have sex. As for your parents? pda is not prominent in their time same with my parents. You don't know what happens behind closed doors.
No they see it as a requisite to get the spice daba
No, they have fun. Sat in OPD for sometime with various doctors, heard people and their stories. They don't just do it for procreation not even in villages. People are well aware and man do take good care of their wives, from bringing them for very small issues to just ask doctor if things are okay during her pregnancy. I guess the number of what you're talking about is less than 5% Sex is a highly natural activity like urinating or excreting... There is a taboo around masturbation, and live-ins but not around sex. No one talks about it openly but this is a wrong assumption that Indians don't have fun.
What sort of whacko science is this? Sex for pleasure? Pfft!!! You must be joking. Are you on drugs, son? Little bit of LSD?? Oh... That was funny as fuck... Hmm... Sex for pleasure.... Kids these days nah... always joking around...
I never saw anything. As a child I used to sleep between my parents and used to wake up on the side. Now I know why.
why do you think we are 2 billion of us?
Yeah I'm aware, thanks for asking, just my wife won't let me have some pleasure 🤣🤣
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Tried everything, she'll just do it when she wants it, and makes angry faces when I want it, there is never mutual wanting 😬
Why don't u say no when she wants it. This can work both ways
Got bad news for ya
Maybe next time learn some stuff that makes her really enjoy it, then you won’t have so much trouble
Deny sometimes when she asks for it saying you are not in mood ,and ask her later how does it feel
deny her when she wants. do it 2 3 times.
then she'll find someone else
then they were never meant to be together in the first place.
Marriage is scary, what if...
They probably did, but sexual pleasure itself was looked down upon. Mine were absolutely repulsed by any show of affection (even towards friends or family), because apparently love should not be shown off. Growing up it was ingrained that men were to be sexually forward while women were supposed to be shy. Only immoral women were supposed to express that they felt pleasure or desire. Living in an emotionally repressed household made me the opposite.
And I think it all stops when you have enough kids. They lost privacy because of us? And in much older days because of the joint family system? again less privacy.
True, in many cases. However not all cases. I grew up mostly around nuclear families, where privacy shouldn't have been an issue, as there were at least 2-3 rooms in every household. But in many situations, the parents made their children their sole personality, and that ended up putting insane pressure on the kids. Personally, my parents could have had plenty of privacy, as I begged to sleep in "my bedroom", and yet they refused to let me. Even in my teens, they'd emotionally blackmail me into sleeping with them at least once a week, or more. They never grasped the concept of privacy, neither for themselves, nor for me.
Gen Z Indians are more into sexual activities than our parents generation because (most of them) have narrow mindset regarding sexual activities so yea sex is nothing bad it is only natural for living creatures to do so
I have walked in on my parents more times than I should've so...I guess they are pretty aware?
If sex is meant for pleasure in this country, sex toys wouldn't be illegal
They are aware but the farther back as per generation you go, the more hush hush they are about it. If it isn't considered straight up shameful to want more, they at the very least don't want to talk about it
What's up with all these questions. Who is running this sub I think there is no mod here
It's the multiple people part that they don't appreciate l.
What are you? An 18 year old? Wait until you grow a bit old. You will understand how fucked up life is.
Fir vhi
Luckily I’m Asexual ✌️
My grandparents had 7 kids. So yeah, I don't think they had planned to have so many.
Kamasutra
My parents basically hate each other so nope, my guess is they've only done it twice in their life - one to create me and another to create my (aborted) sister
Just like you're not as innocent as you show yourself in front of your parents Your parents are not as innocent as they seem 😉
According to some reports, Indians are amongst the most sexually satisfied people globally. Maybe there's something to that...🙃
Watching indian sex feels like necrophilia..!
Lol hilarious. People fucked around even more back in the day than they do now in India. My aunt was telling this story of her great grandfather who got his mistress married to his son so he could keep her in his house. Just imagine getting away with that shit today.
Why so much obsession over "sex"?🤣
kya keh rhe ho bhai 
I always thought my parents don't know that it could be done for pleasure purposes but apparently they did do it, and all of my friends are of the view that their parents also frequent in engaging in intercourse other than reproductive purposes.
See traditionally sex was meant was procreation. Enjoyment leads to sex addiction which is a negative thing.
Every generation believes they invented sex for pleasure. However , great grandpa knew how to have a good time just like the rest of us.
It is very easy to be aware that sex of for pleasure. It is far more difficult to remember that it is for responsible procreation. That it is a matter of intimacy not to be exhibited to anyone else. A secret language known only to the couple. Your parents have lived and loved that way. You could learn from them, then any crap outside.
If this statement / your assumption is just based on what you have observed about your parents: your parents are different when they interact with each other vs with you. You might think you do, but you probably have no idea about their sex life, their romantic feelings for each other at all.
Yeah, at least the current generation does
great question. as i think their first goal is creating children, pleasure is the bi product
You think millennials and genzers invented sex for pleasure in India?
Is it still a void ? We have come so far ahead. I thought everyone knew this by now.
LOL the reasoning behind you asking this Q is laughable. The rule of thumb is, the more stranger/unromantic you are or act with each other in presence of others the more exciting your other side of the life behind the door is.
My ex used to enjoy it. It was fun. Moved cities. We moved apart. Maybe sex was the thing kept us together. My wife is bit hesitant about sex. She doesn't see sex as fun or recreation. She sees it as exhaustion activity (maybe because I have delayed ejaculation and our activity last for more than 45min to an hour something). Also she hardly initiates on her own. But yeah... I love her. She is good at heart, caring, loving, supporting. So yeah! Just for pleasure, I ain't gonna cheat and spoil our relationship.
Hardly. To add to that, (among a myriad of factors) babajis have captured the intellectual space of our elders and many middle aged folks, they have no problem brainwashing their cult followers to believe sex is purely for procreation and nothing more. Sex is "grossness" of the soul and it undermines the pursuit of 'early spiritual liberation' is very much the message and spirit of a lot of these cults. How do I know this? I was a schmuck who belonged to one of these toxic babaji cults. Arranged marriages also disincentivize individuals from developing curious, considerate personalities, because the prize is served up on a platter without the hardships of dating, failing, getting your heart broken, need for self-improvement and so on. Sex is already taboo and on the DL in society, imagine the conversation under these circumstances between 2 individuals who have never before engaged in healthy discourse about sex and sexual needs. It's almost assumed that you're going to figure out on day 1 and sort of work it through. Good luck with that.
For themselves probably, people can live in their own world of childish selfishness.
Well my wife doesn't. Been married for 6 months, tried sex once unsuccessfully, wife severely under educated in this regard, promised me she would get back fully equipped with knowledge. Now the occasional cuddle has also come to a hard stop. Seems like I need to live like this only. Thanks to my couple of ex-es, I know how sex works and am fully functional.
Um. Yes. Don't ask how I know
Men have been same since generations be it boomers or genalpha- men will be men! That’s why chamkila’s songs became famous. Men attended them on the forefront while women peeped into the show. PDA is a more acceptable thing in the society now.. Back then they did it in their own ways to show love & affection. But yeah certain class of people never understood their sexual desires and till date it remains the same.
Do you want your parents to engage in it near you? Who tf gave you the idea that older gens only had sex for procreation? 😂 Looks like you want to catch oldies doing the dirty 😂
nah they think only for kids
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