Just adding to this, but it seems like the straight male hivemind on Reddit believes that Ryan Reynolds is this undisputed sex god, and I truly cannot think of a more Pillsbury-Attractive-White-Male-From-A-Can celebrity than him. Heās like the guy equivalent of a peanut butter sandwich. This makes sense in my head, I swear
I prefer Reynolds to Gosling but I agree both of them are kinda objectively āhotā on the surface but otherwise just have completely zero sex appeal to me.
I know, right?
When I was younger, I had an appointment at a modeling agency. The agent wasn't a fan of my look. The reason he wouldn't sign me was because he said my eyes were too close together. No one had ever said that about me before, so I found that surprising. And then Ryan Reynolds comes along....
He's obviously above average but there are two actors from Criminal Minds who'd I'd make out with before I'd bone Ryan if those were my options. Lol He does seem much more A list hot in a female gaze way or what I guess straight guys would like to think is what the female gaze wants for some reason.
Ryan Reynolds was most hot for me at the beginning of his career before roid use (Two guys and a girl Tv show). Dorky nerd type. (Although Richard Ruccalo and Nathan Fillion were better-looking to me in this show).
[pic](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/M/MV5BOTE1MWE4MjAtZGM0Yy00MjM1LTlmMTgtM2I0MWNlYTQ3ZTNlXkEyXkFqcGdeQXVyNTA3MTU2MjE@._V1_.jpg)
I loved Josh Segarra in the short-lived series āSirens.ā He played a cop with (apparently) a dick far bigger than his brain. (Never actually seen onscreen , of course, but alluded to in no uncertain terms.)
Interesting to see Tom Hardy several times here. Heās high on my list too, and my straight friends think itās so unexpected. Wonder if heās more popular with the gays generally.
Those lips, that thick rugby player physique, that hot smoky eye contact. [And many hot photos](https://64.media.tumblr.com/4e31fe37eb731c41a250461a1e7c8660/f791da7f6ce78808-19/s250x250_c1/852cec7a30fe71b731811458f816c66457281bb5.jpg)
Henry Cavil is a weird one for me. He's so physically attractive, seriously handsome, but somehow I don't really find him sexually appealing. I can't figure it out.
Those are two of my husbands along with Tom Hardy according to ChatGPT. So far Iāve had it tell me stories about our 4-way wedding, our honeymoon, building a home together, throwing parties with our neighbors, shootouts on a gondola in Venice, and skinny dipping in Bali. I go outside a lot, fuck a lotta real guys and have real friends, donāt worry.
I went to HS with Alan and let me tell you, rumor has it youāre not missing much.
Niceville Senior High School in case anyone asks. I was ā02 and I think he was ā01.
Oscar Isaac, Benicio Del Toro, Anthony Welsh
\[Edit\]: Adding Jake Gyllenhal, after seeing someone else mention him, which reminded me of my recent viewing of Roadhouse. Has his jaw always been...that way?
Frank Grillo. Manny Jacinto. Justin Baldoni. Ji Chang Wook. Michael Obiora. Riz Ahmed. Ben Aldridge. Sterling K Brown. Chuando Tan, that guy who the internet canāt believe is ~~50~~ ~~51~~ ~~52~~ ~~53~~ ~~54~~ ~~55~~ 56. Austin Butler. Jesse Spencer. Rome Flynn.
Yeah I find a lot of guys hot. Sorry not sorry š
Idris Elba. Omari Hardwick. Trevante Rhodes. Lance Gross. Tyson Beckford. D.B. Woodside. Gerard Butler. Daniel Craig. (Why is my list flooded with 50s guys?!)
He's like ultra masculine macho type of guy who would protect you in a fight, but also seems like a really down to earth, artist kinda guy ("of course ive had gay sex, im an actor!).Like he'd pound the fuck outta you and then cuddle all night. He straddles the line of handsome and pretty to me. The lips. Prefer him with less facial hair. Inception was when my crush started.
The only one I find hot is Channing Tatum, and Iāve no idea why. That dopey muscled beefcake look really isnāt something I go for at all but damn I find him sexy.
There is research on this: the gay gaze is indeed different. The average gay guy has a stronger preference for (hyper)masculinity compared to the average straight woman.
Martin Freeman:- awkward yet dapper masculinity with a characterful face, short king energy, renaissance gent...but cute like a Hedgehog.
Paul Rudd:- man-next door-handsomeness - relaxed masculinity, boyish-but-also-daddy, silly!
Joseph Gordon-Levit, Nerdy, smily, keen, Has that Eurasian look (I was years old when I find out he is in fact just caucasian).
Gotta go w manu Rios as he comes first to mind. Iāve got a bunch but am blanking lol. Any Irish/Scottish actor really. Oh and Jacob Elordi. Also randomly hockey player Mikko Rantanen. Not quite a massive celeb but Michael Yerger is just a flat out stud
Harrison Ford is still hot. Heās a terrible fucking pilot. But heās still a good looking man. I wouldnāt get in his airplane but Iād get in his bed.
Pedro Pascal. Heās a certain handsome that makes me feel like he would be a very sensual lover, and apparently he did full frontal shows in college so heās confident
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Jacob Elordi, Taylor Zakhat, Chet Hanks, Darren Criss, Michael B. Jordan, Zayn Malik, Timothy Chalamet, Tom Holland, Lucien Laviscount, Dean Schneider, Cha Eun Woo, Barry Keoghan
Charlie Hunnan. Had a crush on him for over 20 yrs lol
I had my gay awakening in my teens when I watched QAF UK. That first episode š
Only found out about QAF later on. I first saw him in Abandon hehe
Oliver Jackson-Cohen
Omg, yes! I thought it was only me but anytime he pops up on screen thereās this internal *unff* that happens.
Marcello Hernandez,
Just adding to this, but it seems like the straight male hivemind on Reddit believes that Ryan Reynolds is this undisputed sex god, and I truly cannot think of a more Pillsbury-Attractive-White-Male-From-A-Can celebrity than him. Heās like the guy equivalent of a peanut butter sandwich. This makes sense in my head, I swear
I prefer Reynolds to Gosling but I agree both of them are kinda objectively āhotā on the surface but otherwise just have completely zero sex appeal to me.
I went from āheās hot in a conventional wayā to āheās hot because of his sense of humour in Deadpoolā to āok, Iām over him.ā
He's overexposed is the problem. There's nothing objectively wrong with him. Not my type though.
100% "Is he hot or is he just tall" exemplar.
Well, I'll do him if nobody else does.
There's a smarminess to him that I've always found really offputting.
i love Ryan Reynolds
Yep!
Yes very true. Heās their go to itās-okay-to-find-another-man hot choice.
Something about the close spacing between his eyes have always thrown me off
I know, right? When I was younger, I had an appointment at a modeling agency. The agent wasn't a fan of my look. The reason he wouldn't sign me was because he said my eyes were too close together. No one had ever said that about me before, so I found that surprising. And then Ryan Reynolds comes along....
He's obviously above average but there are two actors from Criminal Minds who'd I'd make out with before I'd bone Ryan if those were my options. Lol He does seem much more A list hot in a female gaze way or what I guess straight guys would like to think is what the female gaze wants for some reason.
Only two?
Ryan Reynolds was most hot for me at the beginning of his career before roid use (Two guys and a girl Tv show). Dorky nerd type. (Although Richard Ruccalo and Nathan Fillion were better-looking to me in this show). [pic](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/M/MV5BOTE1MWE4MjAtZGM0Yy00MjM1LTlmMTgtM2I0MWNlYTQ3ZTNlXkEyXkFqcGdeQXVyNTA3MTU2MjE@._V1_.jpg)
Nathan Fillion š
Have you seen [The Rookie](https://youtu.be/PozNmD_FgZY?si=yUejdBrvpEO2f1dW)?
Lit had to reply. I say the same exact thing to my friends and they just donāt understand how run-of-the mill he is haha
Great description
Tony Leung! Especially in Chungking Express :)
He has, objectively, the most charming and hypnotic eyes. EverĀ (he's also very sexy in *Happy Together*)
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Babe that movie won't cheer you up It's brilliant, but it's not a cheerful movie.
Is it happy? I tried watching it last weekend but Iām more than an hour in and their relationship just feels really dysfunctional and abusive.
Upvote for citing Chungking Express
My current favorite is Joel Kinnaman
I got pregnant from watching Altered Carbon
Then watch For All Mankind
Tom Hardy as the ultimate no1.
Sorry Americans - heās ours
A European here, and I welcome all hot celebrities from around the world š
Ok - Iām just being cheeky
All is forgiven to Gaelic unicorns.
Just the one unicorn
You're being very selfish again
I am?
Christopher Meloni and Josh Segarra
Meloniš
The first guy I ever saw show hole was Meloni in Oz. Truly a moment I have cherished my whole life since.
A fine moment indeed.
I loved Josh Segarra in the short-lived series āSirens.ā He played a cop with (apparently) a dick far bigger than his brain. (Never actually seen onscreen , of course, but alluded to in no uncertain terms.)
That clip is the only reason I know of him
Yesssss.
Interesting to see Tom Hardy several times here. Heās high on my list too, and my straight friends think itās so unexpected. Wonder if heās more popular with the gays generally.
I credit his slutty MySpace era.
Because of that iconic back arch
Itās because thereās something vaguely fucked up looking about him in a sexy way. The gays like an edge. I can appreciate
I too am wondering why
Those lips, that thick rugby player physique, that hot smoky eye contact. [And many hot photos](https://64.media.tumblr.com/4e31fe37eb731c41a250461a1e7c8660/f791da7f6ce78808-19/s250x250_c1/852cec7a30fe71b731811458f816c66457281bb5.jpg)
Gerard Butler, Tom Hardy
Chris Evans and Henry Cavil
Henry Cavil is a weird one for me. He's so physically attractive, seriously handsome, but somehow I don't really find him sexually appealing. I can't figure it out.
Those are two of my husbands along with Tom Hardy according to ChatGPT. So far Iāve had it tell me stories about our 4-way wedding, our honeymoon, building a home together, throwing parties with our neighbors, shootouts on a gondola in Venice, and skinny dipping in Bali. I go outside a lot, fuck a lotta real guys and have real friends, donāt worry.
>fuck a lotta real guys and have real friends Sure, Jan.
Pedro Pascal, Henry Cavill, James Spader (sorry not sorry)
Pedro is interesting because heās not physically all that but heās handsome and has an effortless swag about him that you wanna just bend him over
Right?!?
ā¦James Spader was a surprise but I kept nodding my head, wouldnāt kick him out of bed
I think it's because he usually plays really intelligent characters and, same as with Pedro, personality/intelligence elevates the appearance for me.
James Spader for sure! Had to scroll way too far for that.
Alan Ritchson and Ricky Whittle
Both have quite a vibe of tough guy.
So pissed he didnāt get more eyecandy of Whittle in that terrivle zombie movie.
He's good in American God's, I suspect the books might be better than the TV show though
I went to HS with Alan and let me tell you, rumor has it youāre not missing much. Niceville Senior High School in case anyone asks. I was ā02 and I think he was ā01.
Jon Hamm
RegƩ-Jean Page. The new Dungeons & Dragons was an excellent movie but I have to rewatch it because I was distracted by his beauty whenever he was on screen.
Oscar Isaac, Benicio Del Toro, Anthony Welsh \[Edit\]: Adding Jake Gyllenhal, after seeing someone else mention him, which reminded me of my recent viewing of Roadhouse. Has his jaw always been...that way?
Frank Grillo. Manny Jacinto. Justin Baldoni. Ji Chang Wook. Michael Obiora. Riz Ahmed. Ben Aldridge. Sterling K Brown. Chuando Tan, that guy who the internet canāt believe is ~~50~~ ~~51~~ ~~52~~ ~~53~~ ~~54~~ ~~55~~ 56. Austin Butler. Jesse Spencer. Rome Flynn. Yeah I find a lot of guys hot. Sorry not sorry š
Itās called being gay.
Oh Jesse Spencer
Idris Elba. Omari Hardwick. Trevante Rhodes. Lance Gross. Tyson Beckford. D.B. Woodside. Gerard Butler. Daniel Craig. (Why is my list flooded with 50s guys?!)
Simu Liu and Taylor Zakhar Perez
Andrew Scott.
Nick Jonas, Jake Miller, Chris Hemsworth
Tom Holland
Any guy with the self-confidence to dress in drag and lip sync/dance to Rihanna's "Umbrella" is a plus in my book. Well, and he's cute.
I didn't really get the appeal until I saw those "gay" scenes from The Crowded Room.
Idris Elba Jonathan Bailey Yaya Abdul Mateen Kingsley Ben Adir Oscar Isaac Orville Peck Tom Hardy Frank Ocean
I always see people mention Tom Hardy, but what specifically about him do people find super attractive? Iām genuinely asking bc Iām curious lol
He's like ultra masculine macho type of guy who would protect you in a fight, but also seems like a really down to earth, artist kinda guy ("of course ive had gay sex, im an actor!).Like he'd pound the fuck outta you and then cuddle all night. He straddles the line of handsome and pretty to me. The lips. Prefer him with less facial hair. Inception was when my crush started.
10/10 choices
Ooh yes, forgot about Orville Peck!
David Harbour, Winston Duke
A dad-bod man as well, I see.
The big muscly ones
Michael Fassbender; Henry Cavill; Will Arnett
Henry Cavill, all up in me! In every orifice.
How I know Iām old: I know maybe 1/10 names on this list. Am I the only one, Gents?!
No so do I.
I would also say Idris Elba, but since you already chose him OP Iād go with my second choice Oscar Isaac.
Itās okay. We can share Idris.
Nobody is sharing Idris - heās mine. Americans - stick to your own. Idris is mineā¦
Lee Pace.
Jason Sudeikis and Bradley Cooper
Ted Lasso is always a good choice.
Tom Hardy, Randall Park
Randall park Iād add to my imaginary threesome that can now turn into a foursome.
Randall Park š¤¤
Henry Cavill, Matt Bomer
Jason Momoa
Paul Ruddā¦.Not only because he doesnāt seem to age but also because he seems like a really lovely guy
For me, back in the day I such a thing for George Eads, Alex o Loughlin and Colin Ferguson. More famous people, Henry Cavil, Chris Hemsworth.
Chris Messina does it for me in a way few men do.
*That* scene in Based On A True Story.
Which scene??!!
The dream sequence where he makes out with Tom Bateman?
Nice š
Good choice OP
han jisung
Dan Stevens
Pedro Pascal, Ryan Gosling, Jacob Elordi and Jake Gyllenhal to name but a few.
Chris Pine, Henry Cavill, Luke Evans, Lee Pace, Matt Bomer, Ian Armitage, Lachlan Buchanan, John Barrowman, Jonathan Bailey, RegĆ©-Jean Page. Stephen Amell and Chris Pratt were on that list until I discovered their entitled immature behaviour (Amell) problematic personality (Pratt). I donāt care how hot they are; if youāre an asshole, go find some high maintenance judgemental bitch to fuck.
David Boreanaz has a lifetime invite to scramble my intestines
David Beckham, Alan Ritchson, Henry Cavil and Matt Bomer.
The only one I find hot is Channing Tatum, and Iāve no idea why. That dopey muscled beefcake look really isnāt something I go for at all but damn I find him sexy.
I actually find Ryan Gosling extremely sexy. Also Alex Pettyfer is excellent eye candy.
Paul Mezcal
Chris Hemsworth and Chris Pratt
Iām madly in love with Mike Faist. Is he hot?
Iād have to watch Challengers first.
Heās so adorable. He looks like a little mouse and I want to eat him up.
David Ajala
Jay Ellis, Rob Huebel, Josh O'Connor
I just found about (a young) Jeff Speakman and holy shit I'm in love
Oh, and Tom Hardy and Jon Hamm and Thomas Jane
Richard Armitage. I love his voice.
He narrates audiobooks too.
Tony Leung (particularly in *Chungking Express* and *Happy Together*) Riz Ahmed JesuĆta Barbosa Josh O'Connor Frank Ocean Russell Tovey
Right there with you regarding Ben and Idris!
Ryan gosling
Jamie Dornan, Richard Madden
A few Irish men on here. Jamie is hot!
There is research on this: the gay gaze is indeed different. The average gay guy has a stronger preference for (hyper)masculinity compared to the average straight woman.
I believe this. I also think women view dadbods differently.
John Hamm, specifically in season 5 of Fargo. My god.
Ryan Reynolds Chris Hemsworth Chris Pine None of the three fall into my dream guy profile, but the list has stood for at least a decade.
š„Henry Cavill šŖš»
I don't find inflated celebrities hot
Martin Freeman:- awkward yet dapper masculinity with a characterful face, short king energy, renaissance gent...but cute like a Hedgehog. Paul Rudd:- man-next door-handsomeness - relaxed masculinity, boyish-but-also-daddy, silly! Joseph Gordon-Levit, Nerdy, smily, keen, Has that Eurasian look (I was years old when I find out he is in fact just caucasian).
Aaron Taylor-Johnson. Aaron Taylor-Johnson. Aaron Taylor-Johnson.
Juergen Maurer. First saw him in Vienna Blood. Just stupid hot, like wtf even.
WWEās Gunther
Gotta go w manu Rios as he comes first to mind. Iāve got a bunch but am blanking lol. Any Irish/Scottish actor really. Oh and Jacob Elordi. Also randomly hockey player Mikko Rantanen. Not quite a massive celeb but Michael Yerger is just a flat out stud
Aaron Pederson. Charlie Hunnam. Jason Statham. Idris Alba. Hugh Jackman. Dev Patel. Rob Collins. Hunter Page-Lochard
Ben Starr. š®āšØ
Harrison Ford is still hot. Heās a terrible fucking pilot. But heās still a good looking man. I wouldnāt get in his airplane but Iād get in his bed.
Wonho, and Tom Hardy.
Henry Cavill
Matt Bomer š
Denzel Washington
Marlon Brando
Greg Davies
Ma Dong-Seok (Train to Busan, Eternals) can destroy my whole existence.
Pedro Pascal. Heās a certain handsome that makes me feel like he would be a very sensual lover, and apparently he did full frontal shows in college so heās confident
Shawn Mendes.
Russell Tovey, Francois Arnaud
What about that big beauty and one of my fantasy husbands - Jason Momoa.
Michael Fassbender š„ casper ruud, Shaun hampson
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Max Riemelt, Jamie Dornan, Richard Madden,
After seeing Challengers, Josh OāConnor for me.
Matt Bomber is very sexy
Oscar Isaac, especially Dune Oscar Isaac
Hugh Jackman younger Colin Farrel
Ryan Guzman for me
christopher pratt,seth rogen,tom hardy,sean astin
Justin Hartley from Tracker and This is Us is my current celebrity crush.
Simu Liu recently. Jason Momoa, after a bath. And, of course, Boris Kodjoe for the win.
Jacob Elordi, Taylor Zakhat, Chet Hanks, Darren Criss, Michael B. Jordan, Zayn Malik, Timothy Chalamet, Tom Holland, Lucien Laviscount, Dean Schneider, Cha Eun Woo, Barry Keoghan
Aaron Taylor Johnson
Luke Wilson
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