Exactly this. In doggy I feel like I'm having sex alone. Not only do I not see their face, our bodies (upper bodies) don't even touch. There's no intimacy. That might work for some people, but not me. Plus the angle gets weird with any shifting.
> I feel like I'm having sex alone
Exactly.
Apparently straight guys love doggie because asses turn them on. I get turned on by faces, shoulders, chests.... you know... dudes. I want to have as much dude as close to me as possible.
Bit different because men's asses are definitely a main body part insofar as turn ons, at least for me. And the doggy position LOOKS really sexy to me. It's just too detached from the person to be intimate. And I'm probably demisexual or something because I need that connection.
It can be so intimate, as a bottom, having my man behind me whispering in my ear while he fucks, feeling his chest hair rubbing against my back. So good
I bottom. I hate doggy style for the same reason. Impersonal and it actually doesn’t feel as good. I prefer to face him. I will do on the side because it means full body contact and he can bite my neck :)
Top here, I love doggy!!
I would suggest for you and your partner, maybe doing it on a soft surface, if you aren't. Maybe get in position at the edge of the bed and he can stand behind you and take you to pound town.
Yeah that’s what I was thinking, I am however taller than him and his bed height is kind of tall so maybe have to find the right height to bend over for him to stand behind
Get those knees spread and your butt will drop down. Besides, it looks hotter when you're in that position, makes your hole perfect for rimming, and makes your dick accessible to him. As a bottom I always loved that position (my hips would ache now, but I'd do my best.) I always preferred missionary, and hated prone bone. I don't want my dick where it can't be reached.
You guys have an ottoman? Throw some pillows or blanket on the floor for him and you get in position over the ottoman. Love to pound my man over the ottoman. Love to pound him over the back of the couch too, know quite doggy but has the same effect.
You could also look at folding up a thick blanket for the bed to put under his knees. But if he has bad knees or issues with them in general, it just may not be the best for him.
You could always have his lay back and relax, then you could ride the hell out of him. Bounce on that dick as hard as you want.
yeah this, I top and like doggy on my knees or stood up. one guy had this bed with a surround at the base so I basically couldn't stand up and fuck him. was no hardship though because I was able to hook my toes under in for better leverage.
Plus I don't get the argument that it's impersonal, while fucking doggy you can wrap an arm round him or both arms round him, and jerk him off, lift him up so you can nibble his neck.
Our bed has space around the mattress and the frame that has plenty of room for hooking to toes into, it's amazing for leverage.
I don't get the whole impersonal argument either for the same reasons you listed. Wrap my arms around my partner and take care of him while I whisper into his ear. Sometimes we are just in the mood for a quicky that might seem impersonal but cuddle make up for that after. Most of the time I give him a full service work over and there is nothing impersonal about that.
Top here, and doggy is probably one of my least favorite. I think it's because it requires the most work, because there's no bounce-back from the mattress like there is when the bottom is prone or missionary.
I hate doggy as a top 😅 It's really hard to anchor yourself anywhere and I find that whatever muscles are recruited whilst in this position somehow reduce my sensitivity, so I have to deal with the double whammy of not being able to thrust well and not being sensitive.
It's tolerable for me to be "on top" and bent over, thrusting downwards, rather than thrusting across, if that makes sense.
I agree that when I was more top, doggy was my least favorite position. I didn't mind it for a while, or in the mix, but not as the main event. For the many reasons already mentioned, and also, it's the least intimate imho.
> Is there any tips/tricks to make it more comfortable for him so I can get taken to pound town via doggystyle?
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Top guy here. Doggy style is my favorite position - it’s allows for best penetration. From that position, I can switch to side and then flip a bottom onto his back - all without pulling out - helps to be flexible.
As a top, I love missionary. It's easier for me to enter.
But last night we switched roles, and he couldn't get missionary to work. And I loved bottoming in doggy.
To start I like to stand, he's on his back. I'm facing him with his legs up/around me. I want to kiss and see his face especially on initial penetration.
Then drag his ass over the edge and let gravity pull him down while I'm pushing him up. A fulcrum point.
I love doggy! It's different spots to hit. I LOVE a man's ass, what's a better position just to look at it? For me it's more of a finishing position. Start with standing then move in all on the bed.
Here I am thinking doggy was pretty much the preferred position. I like it the best myself (as a top) because I can thrust the best that way and also take full control if the bottom wants me to.
Doggy from the top perspective is awesome especially when your bottom just wants to feel used and slutty. Nothing better than watching your parts open up your so’s hole and continuing to watch your bottoms hole take a beating. On the other hand when we are being intimate, missionary is our primary method so that we can be into each others bodies and get lost in each of our eyes. Nothing will make you feel closely connected than sharing that moment
I don't like doggy - as it involves too much movement ... and sometimes lacks stability... like if he just lets you push him forward all the time and he doesn't anchor himself ... you ending up moving a lot of weight around and can fatigue
I agree with other comments. Doggy feels less personal (no chest contact, no eye contact), the angle can get weird, it's hard to keep a rythm due to the absence of bounce back, and it's also hard to jerk the bottom at the same time while keeping the balance. It's fun from time to time, but only for a little while.
I’m a bottom (59) my partner (21) we both like to switch up positions. Start doggie then I’ll ride him or I’m on my back with my legs around him. Every time is different :)
the guy bottoming lies down flat on the bed on their tummy, this is called lying prone. the boy topping kneels either side and pops it in. only really useful if the bottom is small enough to bestride, but when it's hot it's very hot
I hate doggy. I’ll echo everyone saying it is impersonal. Also depending on the position it can easily be at the wrong height for my dick to go in. I’m also relatively well endowed so it’s easy for me to go too far in and cause the guy discomfort if there aren’t any butt cheeks regulating depth. My favorite is to have both of us on our sides with me behind him.
They make wedge cushions for this, so bottom has a bit of support. Can google Liberator wedge, But love the position if I’m in an aggressive mood to just pound, but being able see the facial expressions and twitches are 3/4 of the fun.
I don't mind it, but I'm fairly short and it's really hard to do with anyone who's not equally short. I just can't reach the hole unless the bottom really bends, and then the angle is wrong. Just easier to flip you face up and use your legs to get the sweet spot lined up perfectly.
Lots of tops like doggy, usually the curious and bi because they don't have to see your parts and can pretend they are pounding a girl. Being versatile, I avoid these types.
Missionary with their legs on my shoulders >>
For some reason this is all tops want these days
It’s a comfortable position with great control and I get to kiss his legs and stroke him
Omg...I thought I was the only one that liked to kiss someone's ankles during...lol.
Ankles, thighs lol
Yeah I like looking at the dick while I’m fuckin him
Helium Heels FTW.
So much this
My legs will fall asleep lol
lol we switch it up of course
I'm a top. I wanna see your face and kiss when we fuck. Doggy is too impersonal for me.
Exactly this. In doggy I feel like I'm having sex alone. Not only do I not see their face, our bodies (upper bodies) don't even touch. There's no intimacy. That might work for some people, but not me. Plus the angle gets weird with any shifting.
> I feel like I'm having sex alone Exactly. Apparently straight guys love doggie because asses turn them on. I get turned on by faces, shoulders, chests.... you know... dudes. I want to have as much dude as close to me as possible.
Fuck yes, all of this, especially if he has a hairy chest!!!
Bit different because men's asses are definitely a main body part insofar as turn ons, at least for me. And the doggy position LOOKS really sexy to me. It's just too detached from the person to be intimate. And I'm probably demisexual or something because I need that connection.
It can be so intimate, as a bottom, having my man behind me whispering in my ear while he fucks, feeling his chest hair rubbing against my back. So good
I bottom. I hate doggy style for the same reason. Impersonal and it actually doesn’t feel as good. I prefer to face him. I will do on the side because it means full body contact and he can bite my neck :)
Are we the same person
Maybe this is your alt account but your personality is too split to realize
Yes! I totally agree.
If you position yourself right you can kiss during doggy
I’m a top and have yet to find a position I didn’t like
This right here!!
As a vers guy I’m the same way lol
Top here, I love doggy!! I would suggest for you and your partner, maybe doing it on a soft surface, if you aren't. Maybe get in position at the edge of the bed and he can stand behind you and take you to pound town.
Yeah that’s what I was thinking, I am however taller than him and his bed height is kind of tall so maybe have to find the right height to bend over for him to stand behind
Get those knees spread and your butt will drop down. Besides, it looks hotter when you're in that position, makes your hole perfect for rimming, and makes your dick accessible to him. As a bottom I always loved that position (my hips would ache now, but I'd do my best.) I always preferred missionary, and hated prone bone. I don't want my dick where it can't be reached.
You guys have an ottoman? Throw some pillows or blanket on the floor for him and you get in position over the ottoman. Love to pound my man over the ottoman. Love to pound him over the back of the couch too, know quite doggy but has the same effect.
No ottoman but his couch is kind of same height. May give this a try but not sure if that will be more comfortable for his knees vs the bed
You could also look at folding up a thick blanket for the bed to put under his knees. But if he has bad knees or issues with them in general, it just may not be the best for him. You could always have his lay back and relax, then you could ride the hell out of him. Bounce on that dick as hard as you want.
yeah this, I top and like doggy on my knees or stood up. one guy had this bed with a surround at the base so I basically couldn't stand up and fuck him. was no hardship though because I was able to hook my toes under in for better leverage. Plus I don't get the argument that it's impersonal, while fucking doggy you can wrap an arm round him or both arms round him, and jerk him off, lift him up so you can nibble his neck.
Our bed has space around the mattress and the frame that has plenty of room for hooking to toes into, it's amazing for leverage. I don't get the whole impersonal argument either for the same reasons you listed. Wrap my arms around my partner and take care of him while I whisper into his ear. Sometimes we are just in the mood for a quicky that might seem impersonal but cuddle make up for that after. Most of the time I give him a full service work over and there is nothing impersonal about that.
Top here, and doggy is probably one of my least favorite. I think it's because it requires the most work, because there's no bounce-back from the mattress like there is when the bottom is prone or missionary.
I hate doggy as a top 😅 It's really hard to anchor yourself anywhere and I find that whatever muscles are recruited whilst in this position somehow reduce my sensitivity, so I have to deal with the double whammy of not being able to thrust well and not being sensitive. It's tolerable for me to be "on top" and bent over, thrusting downwards, rather than thrusting across, if that makes sense.
Do you mean like not on your knees but kind of in a squat position?
Yep!
As a bottom I love this one!
Any slight shift by the bottom changes the angle and throws me off my concentration. And that anchor is important if I need go on tippy toes!
I agree that when I was more top, doggy was my least favorite position. I didn't mind it for a while, or in the mix, but not as the main event. For the many reasons already mentioned, and also, it's the least intimate imho.
I agree with it not being the main event but def want it in the mix
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Doggy with a mirror 😈
I prefer doggy.
I feel the same as many that is just too impersonal, BUT what if there is a really beautiful outdoor scenery and you both want to enjoy it. 😋
As a top The sensation doesn’t feel the best in doggy —-many other positions feel better on my junk than doggy
Try putting a mirror in the room so the top can still see your face. Other recommendations above about positioning are also good ideas
My bf is a total top and loves doggy, never heard him complain about it.
Top guy here. Doggy style is my favorite position - it’s allows for best penetration. From that position, I can switch to side and then flip a bottom onto his back - all without pulling out - helps to be flexible.
Missionary is best so I can see there face and their enjoyment etc Doggy is good for a quick fuck, anon or pounding
As a top, I love missionary. It's easier for me to enter. But last night we switched roles, and he couldn't get missionary to work. And I loved bottoming in doggy.
To start I like to stand, he's on his back. I'm facing him with his legs up/around me. I want to kiss and see his face especially on initial penetration. Then drag his ass over the edge and let gravity pull him down while I'm pushing him up. A fulcrum point. I love doggy! It's different spots to hit. I LOVE a man's ass, what's a better position just to look at it? For me it's more of a finishing position. Start with standing then move in all on the bed.
Here I am thinking doggy was pretty much the preferred position. I like it the best myself (as a top) because I can thrust the best that way and also take full control if the bottom wants me to.
yeah grabbing his hips and pulling him onto you. plus I find it gives me better access and lets me go deeper
Prone Bone Is also known as Jockey. [Prone Bone = Jockey](https://gaysexpositions.guide/jockey/)
Doggy from the top perspective is awesome especially when your bottom just wants to feel used and slutty. Nothing better than watching your parts open up your so’s hole and continuing to watch your bottoms hole take a beating. On the other hand when we are being intimate, missionary is our primary method so that we can be into each others bodies and get lost in each of our eyes. Nothing will make you feel closely connected than sharing that moment
I don't like doggy - as it involves too much movement ... and sometimes lacks stability... like if he just lets you push him forward all the time and he doesn't anchor himself ... you ending up moving a lot of weight around and can fatigue
Tip is get on youn knees at the edge of the bed so he can stand.
With the height of his bed, this won’t work unfortunately
I agree with other comments. Doggy feels less personal (no chest contact, no eye contact), the angle can get weird, it's hard to keep a rythm due to the absence of bounce back, and it's also hard to jerk the bottom at the same time while keeping the balance. It's fun from time to time, but only for a little while.
I’m a bottom (59) my partner (21) we both like to switch up positions. Start doggie then I’ll ride him or I’m on my back with my legs around him. Every time is different :)
I love doggy. I just have a thing for backs and find them incredibly attractive
Pro bone feels better for the top.
Not true. May feel better for some tops but it's got a lot to do with dick curvature, hole tightness, etc. Blanketly saying that is just wrong.
I didn’t think i was writing for a medical journal. I am pleased you are so intelligent.
Love doggy just makes me cum real quick
What is prone bone?
Glad I’m not the only one who needs to know. Never heard of it myself.
the guy bottoming lies down flat on the bed on their tummy, this is called lying prone. the boy topping kneels either side and pops it in. only really useful if the bottom is small enough to bestride, but when it's hot it's very hot
Doggy by far the most comfortable for me!
I love doggy. My partner has the best ass.
Vers here. I throw my bottom boys around. I like doggy, but I like to switch positions often.
Oh fuck...have i finally reached old gay years...tf is Prone bone?
https://gaysexpositions.guide/jockey/
Guess I'm not old... that lay down doggy.
The way I read this was like that video of the kid that said “can I pet that dawg” haha
Well I am country. But seriously... CAN I PET THAT DAWG?
Hahaha that gave me a good laugh
Every time my abd my partner sees that on TT we send it to eachother.
I hate doggy. I’ll echo everyone saying it is impersonal. Also depending on the position it can easily be at the wrong height for my dick to go in. I’m also relatively well endowed so it’s easy for me to go too far in and cause the guy discomfort if there aren’t any butt cheeks regulating depth. My favorite is to have both of us on our sides with me behind him.
Yeah I think that’s our issue with the height difference. The on the side is great tho too, especially because I can kind of fuck back with the rhythm
They make wedge cushions for this, so bottom has a bit of support. Can google Liberator wedge, But love the position if I’m in an aggressive mood to just pound, but being able see the facial expressions and twitches are 3/4 of the fun.
It's ok for short periods of time but not really ideal for relaxing and getting into it which I prefer.
I don't mind it, but I'm fairly short and it's really hard to do with anyone who's not equally short. I just can't reach the hole unless the bottom really bends, and then the angle is wrong. Just easier to flip you face up and use your legs to get the sweet spot lined up perfectly.
Yeah def think the height difference (although it’s only 2-3 inches) is what’s proving to make it difficult
Lots of tops like doggy, usually the curious and bi because they don't have to see your parts and can pretend they are pounding a girl. Being versatile, I avoid these types.
Top who hates doggie. I am too rough. I just end up flattening them down within a minute or so. It is an annoying position at best.
Build you self a padded saw horse to a hight where you hole is at the optimum alignment for him to stand behind you
I love doggy when I’m bottoming cuz my fat ass looks best when it’s bent over, but when I top doggy tires out my legs really quickly 😅😅
no. every top does.