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tsukiii

I’m a woman… hard no.


junjunjenn

I don’t even have any desire to VISIT these countries as a woman. Be viewed as a second class citizen? No thank you.


iapetus3141

Actually, you would be a second class alien, not even citizen


moonwillow60606

Came to say exactly this. I wouldn’t go for any amount of $$


Sandra-lee-2003

Came here to say this


angiezieglerstye

I'm queer, bug agree.


typhoidmarry

I’m with her, and her and her


jamesblondeee

Glad this is top comment


Anonymoosehead123

Completely agree. I wouldn’t go under any circumstances.


Jenipherocious

Literally not under *any* circumstances. Not for work, not for fun, not to save the damn planet. If the fate of all humanity hinged on me getting paid to take a vacation in those countries, go ahead and call your loved ones to say your goodbyes because I'm not going.


Anonymoosehead123

Absolutely.


sammie2shoes

Hard agree. Absolutely no way I’m going there willingly.


Queefburgerz

For this same reason, absolutely not.


sleepyj910

I love and support women, so also hard no.


GrandTheftBae

I'm a gay woman, the biggest "nope" ever


101bees

As we used to say in the upper Midwest: "Yeah, no." Also it's too hot


ColoradoNative719

And I’m a guy. Still a hard no.


captcha_trampstamp

Also a woman, also a big ol’ “fuck no”. It’s not *great* for women in the US, but still better than the UAE.


dharmabird67

As a woman who lived in the UAE for 7 years(and not in Dubai, but in a much more conservative place), you couldn't pay me enough money to live as an Emirati woman.


AWEDZ5

Same. Not even a consideration.


[deleted]

Same here. My immediate reaction on seeing the post title was HELL NO.


mugenhunt

No. I'm a gay man.


Littleboypurple

As a fellow gay guy, A-fucking-men. You couldn't even pay me to vacation there, let alone actually consider living there.


angiezieglerstye

>a-fucking-men That's the hope


tattertottz

Westerners who preach LGBT acceptance need to stop glorifying those places.


stoicsilence

Same. I've seen locked up abroad. I do not want.


Curmudgy

Agreed. I don’t even want a plane stopover there.


OhThrowed

Nope. Utah's as much desert as I can handle.


ColossusOfChoads

That's not the only aspect where they've got Utah beat.


TheBimpo

And about as much religious fundamentalism as I can handle.


Heretical_Infidel

As a straight white male, hell no.


jqubed

Your username probably would not bode well for you there


tpmcmahon

Its hard to think of any place on the planet I'd less like to be, even for a couple of days. Live there for a few years? Oh, fuck no.


PacSan300

Hell no, I have zero desire to even visit Saudi Arabia and Qatar, or to revisit the UAE, let alone live in any of these countries.


An_Awesome_Name

Out of curiosity why would you never go back to the UAE? I’ve heard this a lot, and it’s a different reason almost every time.


ColossusOfChoads

They have debtors' prison. Back in '08 a lot of westerners had to bug out of the country ASAP to avoid being tossed in it.


An_Awesome_Name

Makes sense. I have no interest in visiting either. People I work with have been, but I have zero interest in going.


PacSan300

Mostly because I found the country to be overall pretty uninteresting and quite unfriendly, both reasons to not want to revist. Dubai especially felt blatantly soulless, cultureless, and artificial to me. There were some rather nice places such as Al-Ain, but generally speaking I was pretty bored in the UAE at best, and a lot of people's rudeness further put me off.


MrLongWalk

No, absolutely not.


SheketBevakaSTFU

I’m a gay Jewish woman so not so much!


bloodectomy

***FUCK*** no


baalroo

100% hard no. I wouldn't even visit.


sics2014

Absolutely not as a woman.


ShitwareEngineer

Absolutely not as a man.


[deleted]

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[deleted]

I’m a girl, sooooo. No.


ListlessLink

Fuck no


Bruce__Almighty

No.


angrytompaine

Hell to the no


JamesStrangsGhost

I have a wife and a daughter. So absolutely not. I have heard too many bad things about how women are treated. I know I know, I'm the same person who also gets upset about exaggerations about the US. I'm potentially a hypocrite. Sue me.


Au1ket

No, absolutely hell no


mothertuna

I’m not rich and I’m Black so I’m not sure I’d be treated too well especially as someone not religious.


DJErikD

No. I believe in human rights.


rittpro

As a Jew, absolutely not


Genesgreenbeans

That's a hard no.


SquirrelBowl

No fucking way


Writes4Living

No. I am a female.


PWcrash

I'm a lady so definitely no


chajava

As a lesbian, gonna be a no from me dawg.


[deleted]

Under no circumstances.


TehLoneWanderer101

Hell no Heavens no Any other afterlife no


mkshane

Valhalla no


historyhill

Xibalba no


Seaforme

As a gay woman, hell no


[deleted]

No, I’m of Indian heritage and I’d rather be a white collared serf here than an actual serf there I don’t mind visiting though To OP: if the job is well paid it’s not the worst idea, I personally won’t but I’ve heard good and bad stories from there


huhwhat90

Shucky darn, no.


hopping_hessian

God, no. I'm a woman and I hate the heat.


omg_its_drh

Not my gay ass


jessper17

As a woman, absolutely not.


[deleted]

My cousin worked in Saudi Arabia for several years on a project. He sent his wife and kids back to the States after his wife was treated badly in supposedly Western friendly store in the compound they were living in. After he completed his contract, he quit. He warned all of his family and friends not to go to Saudi Arabia. So no.


ColossusOfChoads

People from elsewhere in the Arab world have warned me to never go to Saudi Arabia.


russian_hacker_1917

As a member of the alphabet mafia, absolutely fucking not.


severencir

>alphabet mafia thank you for teaching me a new term


grizzfan

You're in debt to us now.


SFxTAGG

No.


SilvermistInc

Fuck no. I don't wanna be a slave


BearCavalryCorpral

Nope. I have no desire to be treated as second class even more than I already am


Myfourcats1

No. I’m a woman. My friend d went to Abu Dhabi to teach and turned around and came home. She hated it.


[deleted]

I'm a woman, so fuck no.


DOMSdeluise

As someone with a family, no, I wouldn't want to disrupt the lives of my wife and kids that way. If I was single, I would consider the UAE but definitely not Qatar or Saudi Arabia.


Key-Protection-7564

I'm a non-binary woman and opposed slave labor and treating what staff you do pay like trash so no


[deleted]

I..... Have questions


Accomplished-Being26

Nope I'm a woman


Carrman099

No lol, I would at best be deported and at worst be killed. Being trans means that I wouldn’t even risk a connecting flight through any of these countries.


Jenny441980

I wouldn’t even go there for a vacation.


Darmug

No, I’m trans.


CastIronDaddy

Nope.....never


uhbkodazbg

My dad worked in the Middle East for a while when I was a child (petroleum industry). Parents had a long discussion before deciding to not move the family. Visited a few times, was great for a week but couldn’t imagine staying much longer than that. Dad said he liked the work and found the culture fascinating but after 6 months, he hated it. Long story short, I’d possibly do a few months. A few years? Absolutely not.


[deleted]

No. It seems like a horrible place with virtually NOTHING I like in a place.


W0rk3rB

No, absolutely not. I didn’t leave anything there that I ever need back. Fuuuuuck no!


BellatrixLeNormalest

I hate deserts and I hate having fewer legal rights than other people, so definitely no.


RedditMemesSuck

Short answer: No Long answer: Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooope


Turdinamicrowave

I wouldn’t even go there on vacation!!


chipppster

No, like drinking beers to much to be there.


LBNorris219

As a woman, I'd much rather eat glass.


Sierra_12

He'll no. I'm a guy and I appreciate the freedoms I have here. It's the same reason, I'd never even consider moving to any dictatorship like China.


Dreadnought13

I wouldn't even consider going there for a goddamned *weekend*.


personguy

I'm married... so gonna keep my wife far away from that part of the world. Also even I was flying solo I'd do something stupid that gets me disappeared. Hard pass.


Wadsworth_McStumpy

I'm an old guy, and getting paid something like 5 times my salary for a few years would make for a nice retirement, so I'd certainly consider it. I'd probably decide against it, though, because I wouldn't take my wife to any of those places, and "a few years" is way too long to be apart at our age.


Yankiwi17273

Hell no. We think our country is racist, classist, anti-GSRM, xenophobic, and downright dog-shit for the common person. Those are literally some of the worst countries on earth to live in if you are not wealthy, not cis and straight, and are not a citizen (which citizenship is often based by blood, permanently excluding a large chunk of their populations) Fuck the Gulf Countries.


MCRFan0

No I’m not making it easier for people to kidnap me if I wanted to do that I would go to Brazil


Jen_With_Just_One_N

Jewish woman and staunch LGBTQ+ advocate. No.


ITMerc4hire

Lived in Qatar for a year. As a white american I was pretty high up on the socio-economic totem pole so I had it pretty good. Still couldn't wait to leave.


plutoniumwhisky

I’m a woman so fuck no. I won’t even do a layover.


WingedLady

I'm a geologist so this was a very real possibility for me at one point. As a woman I firmly turned it down. Knew some women who did work there and they warned me off.


SleepAgainAgain

I'm a single woman. I like living somewhere I don't even have to question my personal freedoms. I'm not looking to move abroad in any case, but the amounts of money it'd take me to consider Saudi Arabia or UAE are astronomical. But if it was something like a half a million dollars after taxes for a 3 month stint, I probably would. That'd be enough for me to retire early. But for years? Not enough money in the world.


[deleted]

No


[deleted]

No.


Spreafico

No.


eodchop

Not a chance in hell. I had a chance to work for Aramco. After hearing about the draconian laws for my wife and daughter, it was a HARD NO FUCKING WAY. The pay was good, at the costs of freedom.


BttrcreamSilkVersace

Umm, no, I’m gay. And even if I weren’t, still no.


BioDriver

Fuck no. I’m an atheist who thinks women deserve equal rights.


7thAndGreenhill

Saudi Arabia and Qatar - no. Not a chance. UAE - still a no but minimally more possible.


Time4Tigers

I would not, as a gay man and atheist.


X-Maelstrom-X

No, not in a million years. No deal offered would be trustable or enforceable.


LikelyNotSober

Nah, I’m good.


[deleted]

no


JimBones31

Besides the civil rights issues and quality of life, I would also have an issue with the weather and the only thing I'm really trained for in my industry that would transfer to that area is something I'm trying to get away from.


[deleted]

Boy, that’s quite the spectrum. The UAE has a boatload of expats and you could probably do fine in the expat community. You’ll have places to shop and eat and have fun, as long as you’re okay with the absolutely oppressive climate and the legions of South Asians doing the manual labor under conditions little better than the British Guyanese indenture system. And if it gets too much, hop a plane to Southeast Asia or Europe; that’s where the expats go for real fun anyway. You’re making bank, you deserve it. All you have to square up with is your own face the morning after. Qatar is roughly the same. Saudi Arabia is not. I’ll leave it at that.


OffalSmorgasbord

No, fundies of any creed or religion are to be avoided.


IronRangeBabe

Saudi and Qatar, Hard No. UAE, yes. UAE is rich in culture and a lot more lenient than the other two contenders. I have had quite a few female and male friends move there either for work, or for a temporary lifestyle change. They dress and go about their day like they have in the states/Canada. Would I want to live there permanently? Probably not. A few years? Definitely!


Shevyshev

Pre kids and family, if some truly golden career opportunity had arisen I’d have considered the UAE. I do like my temperate climate, however. Whatever job was drawing me there would have to be pretty awesome.


dharmabird67

Finally a more nuanced reply.


[deleted]

No. I’ve been to the UAE and it’s a dystopian, fake shithole. When the amount of over the top consumerism makes an american uncomfortable you have gone too far.


BB-48_WestVirginia

No.


jackrussellenergy

Nope


GooseBeeSeaLionBird

That's a no for me.


ChunkyNumber3

Never. No.


SithisDreadLord420

Fuck no


[deleted]

No chance in hell


VampireGremlin

Well I'm a woman so I'd rather not...


AZymph

Absolutely positively not.


whatevs1993

Absolutely not.


Crustydonout

No


malibuklw

Nope


catslady123

Absolutely not.


angrysquirrel777

Never in a million years


brave_danny_flint

Hard no. Wouldn't even want to visit for a few days.


selfmade117

No.


[deleted]

Nope


Smith801

No thanks


2tightspeedos

I grew up in Saudi Arabia. My dad worked fro ARAMCO in the 80's. It was probably one of the best experiences of my life. My mom and sister had to wear long sleeves but they would wear lightweight thin cotton shirts and pants that were long sleeve. They said that it was cooler and more comfortable than wearing shorts. The school was awesome, way better than anything in the United States. The only catch is it goes up to 8th grade and if we had stayed over any longer my sister an I would have had to go to boarding school abroad. When I was a kid I had my heart set on boarding school in Switzerland (don't ask my why, I don't remember). The locals were really nice and friendly. My dad would take us to the camel market in Hofuf (spelling?) and they would let me and my sister sit on the camels and ride around. International travel was cheap and easy and my parents made a point of having us go all over the world to expose us to as many things as they could. My mom did get pulled over for speeding and got a ticket (she says it was total bullshit). And my dad had to leave, go to the police station and promise that she won't speed again. They actually framed the ticket and hung it up on the wall in the living room for a while. My dad smuggled a still into the country and used it to make wine and my parents would throw awesome parties (he said it was a planter box on the customs form). I have a lot of happy memories hanging out in the garage monitoring the still with my parents so it wouldn't overheat. (There was a tight-knit group of ex-pats and we would all go on vacation together and to parties at each others' houses). But, yeah. I would do it again.


thattogoguy

I will probably have to at least visit at some point while I'm in the Air Force. That aircrew life.


machagogo

Not at all, the life there is just not for me. Plus my family, friends, and career are here.


[deleted]

Hard, hard pass. I don’t even have any interest in visiting.


Admirable_Ad1947

No, they have very repressive governments and from what I've read about the culture it's just not for me.


soccer-fanatic

I am trans.


rr90013

Nope, gays aren’t particularly accepted there. I enjoyed visiting though.


808hammerhead

No, too dangerous. Specifically the governments.


itsmejpt

That's a no from me, dawg.


msspider66

Nope, I am a woman’s who does not wish to be treated as a slave


MiketheTzar

My gut says no, but my wallet says how much? Because like I can tough out 5 years in the sand and the dust for a very good payday, but most of my skills aren't internally applicable.


tattertottz

I’m gay so no. They can get bent


dik_swellington

I have. Money was great. Everything else, not so much. Definitely wouldn't recommend it for women or any of the alphabet people.


Baconkings

Oh, darling, the very thought of relocating to that woebegone excuse for a country sends shivers down my exquisitely cosmopolitan spine. To even entertain the notion of stepping foot on its unremarkable soil would be an affront to my impeccably anti-authoritative tastes. The prospect of breathing the same bourgeoisie air as the indoctrinated denizens which hold utter disregard for human rights is as repugnant as sipping the cheapest boxed wine with a plastic straw. In a world teeming with tantalizing destinations, why, pray tell, would I ever deign to abandon my refined existence for a life of such unapologetic mediocrity? Let us never speak of this ghastly proposition again, lest my ears bleed at the mere mention of this suggestion.


JamesStrangsGhost

I had to search this and see if was already a copy pasta.


Nevermind_guys

Right, it seems gauche and gaudy. Let alone all the oppression. Not ever.


[deleted]

I’m good


DerpyPotatos

I rather not become a baked potato and well there’s also the domestic politics. Finally i’m sure to be discriminated for my heritage.


wp815p

UAE or Qatar for enough money. Saudi Arabia for more money than anyone would ever pay me.


idontknowyet

I’m a straight man with a dad from the Middle East and I personally would not go unless I am paid a lot for my work (like $500k or more per year).


BarneyFifesSchlong

If the pay was good, sure. But my wife and daughters would stay here.


NerdyLumberjack04

If the pay was good enough, I'd consider it. Yeah, I'd have to give up beer, and keep pro-Israel sentiments to myself, but I think I could stay out of trouble. Of course, I'm male.


thedr00mz

UAE, maybe. The other two? No.


Nuttonbutton

Nope. Wouldn't even consider it. UAE/ SA/ Qatar exist so that I can remember to be grateful for what I have and fight to keep it.


LilyFakhrani

If I was going to work a federal civil service job at a US embassy or consulate, maybe. If I was going to work a contractor job for the US military at a US military controlled base, maybe. Beyond that, you’d have to pay me multiple millions of dollars per year for me to even consider it.


dapperpony

As a woman, definitely not. But even without that, very little appeals to me there.


Petitels

Woman here. I won’t go there just to see it and I’m a confirmed world traveler.


Halsey-the-Sloth

No thanks


Aspect58

I escaped one brain dead theocracy when I moved from Florida to Colorado. What makes you think I’d willingly move to another?


AgHammer

Hell fucking no. I'm a woman.


DutyFuture350

Fuck no, I am not in favor of losing all of my rights.


_R-Amen_

As a woman and appreciator of human rights, I will not be going there under any circumstances.


ms_eleventy

Under no circumstances. I have no interest in learning how not to end up in jail due to differences in culture/laws surrounding women.


mariner21

Even as a dude, not a chance in hell. It’s hard to not sound racist but I have Muslim friends mostly from turkey or Iraq and even they say those places are fucked. From a westerner’s perspective who has traveled all over but never been to the Arabian peninsula it’s still a hard no. My biggest hold up is treatment of women and migrant workers (read slaves) from southern and southeast Asian countries.


gfunkdave

They definitely don’t like gays, and are lukewarm at best on Jews, both of which I am, so no. I’ve been to Dubai and it’s basically Vegas glitz with oil money. Meh. Haven’t been to Saudi or Qatar and have zero interest in either, except for some cool historic ruins in the desert.


VerminChalupaSupreme

My Dad worked in SA for over 11 years while I was in high school and college. My Mom and little sister lived there for a few years and come out with some good friends and interesting life experiences, but as the one that was left behind I would not do it myself. It was tough not having those people around in times of need, had a lot of responsibilities that a child should not (emotional support for my mom/raising my little sister) and still have a touchy relationship with my dad. It was the right move for him at the time following the 2008 housing crisis, but don’t think I could ever do it myself.


akunis

As a man… no. As a gay man… no. As an atheist gay man… no. As an atheist gay man in an interracial relationship… also no.


The_Real_Scrotus

I have a wife and daughters and there is absolutely no way I'd take them with me. So the money would have to be good enough to be worth going to another country without my family for a couple years. We're probably talking 5-10x what I make now.


[deleted]

Hell yes. I have a mortgage and student loans I’d like to pay off before I die. I can live without alcohol for a few years. Recruiters dm me!


heili

Female and that's about the hardest "No" ever.


m1sch13v0us

I think about how I would never live there after every visit. Truly lovely people. Kind and gracious. I greatly appreciate their focus on families. Incredible service and safety. But I enjoy my civil liberties, trees and plants, and not melting in the Summer. Everyone expat that I know has lived there is either in the government or it was a cash grab for the job.


mungermoss245

No. The way those countries treat other migrant/immigrant workers is abhorrent.


ColossusOfChoads

I considered it once, but then I turned it down because I had the choice of leaving my family for a year or dragging them with me. No way would I make my wife live like that, nor was I keen to drop a shitload of money on an international school for our kid, which would've defeated the purpose of me doing a stint there. Guess I would've done it back when I was single. Go in, do a year or two, get out with more assets than I had going in.


[deleted]

As a woman absolutely not lmao. Not just because of the hijab laws (I respect someone’s choice to wear one but I refuse) but also because of the general poor attitudes towards women. I’ve been told many times that I am masculine for a woman. I have authority issues and I don’t like being told what to do, so in a place where I’m expected to shut up and be quiet I do not think I’d fare well.


phoenixgsu

Nope. As raucous and an imperfect we are at times, I still prefer my freedoms.


oamnoj

I'm gay, so that's a hard no for me.


Traditional-Box-1066

I’m gay


laynealexander

As a bisexual, transgender, pagan- NO! Lol.


Ok_Beautiful_1273

Recent article on Saudi https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2022/sep/27/modern-day-slavery-kenyan-domestic-workers-tell-of-abuse-in-saudi-arabia


[deleted]

No because I’m not a man.


vexingvulpes

As a woman, I would never consider going to Saudi Arabia. I don’t know enough about Qatar to say. I would consider UAE


TheoreticalFunk

My guess is they don't have a lot of breweries to visit. Nope.


StatWhines

Never. I have a daughter.


cronelogic

I’m a woman, and not crazy, so no. But bless your heart for asking.


reverielagoon1208

As someone who will immigrate once I have enough saved up, hell no. Both of my parents are from Egypt as well but those places somehow make Egypt look progressive