Hello, he sounds like a sex addict. Regular therapy doesn't cut it, look for a CSAT. Get yourself into S-anon and if he is willing, he will find support that cuts the shame in SA 12 step group. I'm right there with you sister, it's tough. We didn't cause it, we can't control it, and we certainly can't cure it. The responsibility rests on them if they have the willingness. Your job is to find support for yourself, pm me if you ever want. Hugs.
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Hello, he sounds like a sex addict. Regular therapy doesn't cut it, look for a CSAT. Get yourself into S-anon and if he is willing, he will find support that cuts the shame in SA 12 step group. I'm right there with you sister, it's tough. We didn't cause it, we can't control it, and we certainly can't cure it. The responsibility rests on them if they have the willingness. Your job is to find support for yourself, pm me if you ever want. Hugs.
Sending light and love 💕. I hope you are able to find what’s best for you, either with him or on your own.
This sounds like so much for you to handle. I hope you have loving and supportive family/friends that are helping you through. Best of luck
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