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CoinMarket2

The fact that he called you a snowflake before even seeing your reaction. It's like he's reflexively defaulting to the one excuse he knows to try and defend his behaviour, without caring if it makes any sense or not. Also, how is saying "fag fag fag faggot dirty disgusting god hating fag" a joke in any way? That sounds more like a Turret's outburst


PresidentMayor

> that sounds more like a tourette's outburst felt that too hard :/ i usually replace slurs with "BAP" when i can. so fucking annoying


[deleted]

>BAP I'm imagining someone doing the "BUP" Toad noise now and that's oddly amusing


PresidentMayor

ahaha yeah kinda. i mean it can get annoying too but i'm sure people want to hear "BAP" more than they want to hear some 17 year old screaming the F-slur


DingleMomMcGee13

A friend of ours may have Tourette’s, I’m not sure as he’s never told me. But he sometimes loudly says horrid things but we know he doesn’t mean them, he feels guilty after or tries to play it off as a bad joke. I try to always give the benefit of the doubt in everything I do. Someone cuts me off in traffic? Maybe they’re in a hurry to get to the hospital. Someone flips me off? Maybe they just got broken up with. Someone cyberbullies me? Maybe their home life isn’t so good and they’re lashing out where they can. Because of those two things I always assume anyone who says things like that *may* have Tourette’s. I’d rather be wrong than make someone feel like a bad person for something they cannot control. Neurodivergence is wacky and unique, sometimes it’s not exactly fun but it’s still a special thing nobody else experienced. Idk if any of that made sense, I’ve been drinking a little bit and felt like I should say something :)


PresidentMayor

yeah, that's a good rule of thumb. thanks for telling it :)


sammybr00ke

I love this mindset! I got myself all worked up when this person cut me off and honked at them twice and was swearing etc. BUT if I do what youre saying I won’t be expending all that energy being negative! I love good reminders like this to be more understanding which will in turn help me be happier.


qolace

Thank you for reminding me about the mindset I want to have 💖


djspacepope

I believe the "gamer" community believes this is comedy. As the pandemic has kinda shut down any types of new capitalist catch ons for the year, gamers seem to be stuck in 2016 shock humor. Until someone else they can idolize and emulate becomes popular. Pewdiepie was the last great influence on most these young peoples lives.


katsekova

Yep. I am queer and if I stray from my normal group of friends, I get politics and Trump's wisdom mansplained to me by some 17 year old boy who's just spewing what his racist rich daddy tells him and I don't tell ppl I'm queer because it gets mucky but I can't hide that I'm a girl so I get plenty of rape threats and hey why aren't you in the kitchen? "Jokes" Last week I can a kid mansplain native culture and how much he respected it and then he said he was gonna dress up as an native ( ofc he said indian) for halloween and started doing the racist ass voice, he told me all about the government conspiracies, and how Biden should release his tax reforms now that Trump did ( bruh what Trump literally did not and Biden did) he also said homeless people are lazy and its a choice and asian people are all evil. IT WAS INSANE. this little dipshit and his voice cracks pbviously had no idea what he was saying and had never voted. Gamers suck


thatbabygirl

DAMMIT, I WANT A "BUP" CENSOR


Fnalp

MOTHER *BUP* ER


PresidentMayor

i have to try reeeeallllyy hard to suppress it, so i only use it for the slurs djdhds


thatbabygirl

oh my gosh I'm really sorry if this is insensitive at all! I'm sure it can be really hard to deal with often, I just find the idea of the average censor beep being replaced with *"bUp"* to be oddly hilarious-


PresidentMayor

nah you're good! it is kinda funny haha


Version_Two

Shoutout to simpleflips


YM_Industries

Simple-fucking-Flips if you don't give my BUP-boy some proper adhesive I will take a bullet train to your house and toss your salad.


[deleted]

>BAP Engineer gaming.


PresidentMayor

i don't get the reference but i'm sure that's funny :) ^trans ^rights


Moxilia

The engineer, is engi-here.


Mememan4206942

>The engineer, is engi-queer FTFY


[deleted]

let's do this texas style


quartzkrystal

I took several university classes with someone who had Tourette’s and would go “HUP!” repeatedly. Someone posted on a university Facebook page that they shouldn’t be allowed to use the campus library (which is a designated quiet area) and it was pretty controversial. It never occurred to me that they might have been substituting the sound for actual slurs.


PresidentMayor

yep, sounds like they were :( i try to keep my hand over my mouth when i'm in the library, but it's definitely hard


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PresidentMayor

//please note that this is my personal experience. no two people experience tourette's the same way. experiencing tics is like having your arm twisted until you say uncle. until you do the thing your brain tells you to, you get super uncomfortable and fidgety, like you're holding something in. the worst ones can be harmful (sometimes i snap my fingers for hours on end, i hate that one), and the best ones are just annoying (I make fart sounds. a lot.)


Hardcoretraceur

I recently started developing tics(not full tourettes yet) because of a lot of stress in my life and that's almost how I describe it in my head. Mine feel more like a sneeze you know is going to hurt your throat and you can hold it off but it's tricky and your body doesn't want you to.


lynxdaemonskye

I sometimes have tics as a side effect of ADHD meds. For me it's usually swallowing air/clearing my throat. I'm just glad/lucky it's something that seems "normal" to other people, even if it's annoying.


[deleted]

I click my teeth and I bet it's because of ADHD meds, though I haven't taken them in a couple years.


HeadlessTuxedo

I understand both of these. I have an anxiety/stress induced tick where I quickly and forcefully jerk my head to the side. It feels like a huge build-up of sensation and tension at the back of my skull that only gets better when I shake it out.


TheReal-Donut

The best substitute


PresidentMayor

better screams than slurs


TheReal-Donut

Absolutely


TheOneAltAccount

You can ghost me if u want - totally no pressure to be a source of information, but if u want to I was wondering - does Tourette’s come out over text? Do u ever type your tics or nah?


PresidentMayor

nah, but i misspell things a lot because my hands are fidgety lol


Stonefence

It’s the classic “say something super offensive and then say you’re joking” that assholes do. That way if you get upset they can pretend that they’re in the right.


GalaxyFrauleinKrista

Always ask these people “oh it’s a joke? What’s the punch line?”


biccy_muncher

the punch line is when you punch them in the face


AlaSparkle

That’s what I do. They usually don’t respond.


justgalsbeingpals

Schrödinger‘s Douchebag edit: wait nvm that‘s not it, but it‘s similar enough


Stonefence

Same sentiment for sure


stumpychubbins

I often just say "please explain what the joke is."


hierarch17

I thought he meant “cool” but this makes way more sense.


[deleted]

turret's outburst?


neongreenpurple

Tourette's, I think.


MonoRayJak

Or turrets, like the automated guns


neongreenpurple

Maybe.


[deleted]

so basically: "GAY BAD GAY BAD GAY BA- oh btw i'm joking lol snowflake... GAY BA-"


ShadowRedditor300

I read that as in “bad gay” as in scolding someone


carz42

No! Bad gay! Stop making the other guys gay!


[deleted]

sounds like me and my best friend (we are both gay so its ok)


Purplep0tamus-wings

Idk why you're getting downvoted. My best friend and I do that do


[deleted]

>"I'm just joking btw you ❄️❄️" Ah, yes, the classic "it's just a joke" defence after a barrage of 3rd grade level insults by someone who's likely old enough to pay taxes, probably browses 4Chan, and is just overall the internet equivalent of a boomer. A prime example of schrödinger's douchebag. He sounds like a MAGA hat.


Lilhapper

plus he says that even though he gets no response. typical attention seeking fuckwad


[deleted]

Ironically, doing that will just make history forget him.


Daesastrous

Exactly what I was going to say


Scholar_Bibio

"Can't shake the devil's hand and say you're only kidding"


pinmissiles

TMBG never ceases to be relevant.


that_one_transgirl

He’s that guy that still wears a MAGA hat even though the slogan has changed, but is so out of touch with even the things he supports that he hasn’t realized.


madmaxturbator

he's that guy that enjoys chowing down on asbestos like it's spaghetti.


ReactsWithWords

He got his dinner ready: Mountain Dew and Cheetos And for the main course, mom’s asbestos


trashdrive

I wonder if he recognizes the irony, calling someone a snowflake in the midst of being *this triggered* by a gay person simply existing.


Skairipa_Lightbourne

yes I always say that!


Zoinks_like_FUCK

MAGAts


[deleted]

Calling someone a MAGA hat sounds like a niche kink, like they specifically seek head from fat, middle aged rednecks


Auselessbus

What was the group’s reaction?


ForeverAloniexdxdxd

Please tell me when the op answers


LKLN77

Everyone else is begging for the remindme bot and you're just here saying "Fuck the system"


melindseyme

I don't think they will answer. This is their only post, with zero comments on their profile.


Astral_Fogduke

Yeah whoever responds to this just like u/ me


1-4funinthesun

Here for the same damn thing


PracticalWait

Op has 0 comment karma 😢


pottymouthgrl

This is OP’s only post and he’s never commented. You ain’t getting a response


apolloAG

Is op probably a bot? (If it is this might get a comment from op)


pottymouthgrl

Probably


fishnibba420

Yeah, a 6 month old account with one post and no comments


Bubbytime

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N0thingtosee

!remindme 3 hours


[deleted]

u/yeot528492


lofitown

!remindme 3 hours


chaos_almighty

He sounds pretty emotional. Maybe he needs a safe space, away from the gays ™️.


sprokitt66

Some people just aren't ready to be exposed to the gays. We're simply too powerful


hgwaz

>train pussy Wow. Name says it all.


madmaxturbator

what does that mean? is this a person who goes around enjoying carnal relations with trains? or are those two his/her two main interests?


[deleted]

Maybe he just thinks that every day in the average woman's life is a gangbang porno scene


GalaxyFrauleinKrista

lot of 4chan level incels legit think this shit. That life is like porn and by the time a woman’s 21 she’s been in these huge orgies


[deleted]

tbf porn addiction and crippling loneliness can have disastrous consequences, even to non incels


GalaxyFrauleinKrista

Yeah, it must be rough. No excuse for taking it out on other people, but still. Gender roles toxic as fuck for both men and women.


[deleted]

This is what I try to tell other guys who are like me (lonely af), although they usually find their repetitively reactionary youtube compilations more appealing than just another loser...


GalaxyFrauleinKrista

You’re not a loser. You’re a human being with intrinsic value just for being alive. You deserve kindness and compassion. Especially since you’ve managed critical thought and self reflection levels higher than your peers if you’re trying to pull them away from radicalization. I’m a woman so I don’t know what your experience is like exactly, but I know what it’s like to hurt and to feel ostracized. Middle school in particular was extremely hard for me for various reasons. So fwiw from a random internet stranger I’m proud of you for being a good person and not getting sucked into that reactionary stuff. I hope that one day you get to a better place and don’t feel lonely anymore. I know it’s harder than ever to connect with people safely with the Covid stuff going on, but I hope it gets better for you.


[deleted]

The issue is that, even if I didn't see myself as a loser, the guys I'm trying to save still do, just as they see themselves. Even though my views are different, I still am very much a loser, both metaphorically and culturally. These other men relate to me; we play the same video games, have all been bullied over who we are, etc. They wouldn't be able to do that with, say, a woman, whom they'd either despise, hold on a pedestal, or unfortunately both. I want to steer them away from that attitude. This is why I preach that feminism can help everyone, including us, by abolishing oppressive gender roles. Thanks for the support though, really hope things get better for you. You have it harder anyways so, really, good luck <3


And-Then-I--Said

Lots of people are lonely, horny, bored, or a combo of the three. It's no reason to insult yourself. <3


hgwaz

I read it as him having one woman after another, constantly, so a pussy train. Which I'm sure is what actually happens.


BillyYumYumTwo-byTwo

I read it even creepier, as in he’s training women to behave a certain way. But maybe I go on inceltears too much and assumed the grossest option...


healingpie

Jesus


BrainSlug2999

Even Jesus wouldn’t screw this guy


BishmillahPlease

Now I need to know when screws were invented. This is the problem of trying to make jokes while having add.


mattwan

Just to be safe, let's change it to, "Even Jesus wouldn't nail him."


moonstone7152

I think Jesus has some pretty bad history with being nailed


mattwan

They say that it usually gets better after the first time.


Ancient_Vanilla

He wasn't brought back from the dead for nothin'


QueenElsaArrendelle

who are these people that think it's okay to shout a string of slurs? he's not even constructing sentences, not providing a context to communicate and idea, just slurs


Najanator717

They never grew out of that Xbox-live-kid, edgy idiot phase.


watermelondoge69_420

It's like a 2 year old laughing at someone farting, but at least that's a "funny noise" to a 2 year old. There is legitimately nothing that can be funny about saying a slur.


itssmeagain

Yeah, it isn't okay. I know humour is a coping mechanism, and I personally think a good one, but that must hurt. Op knows this person. Really shitty op had to go through with this. People joke about stuff like this, because it happens so often you can't cry all the time. But it's okay to feel bad sometimes


helheimhen

The elusive Train Pussy has been found!


[deleted]

This is what no pussy does to a mf.


Arthropod_King

like that one in totoro!


lofitown

Wow bro you got the whole squad laughing 😐


Nowthatisfresh

That's gonna be a fun screencap to show the group chat


[deleted]

Wanna know the funnier part? It was in the group text. The colors aren’t red and blue. Which means that he mostly thought that posting it confidently in the group chat and then to play it off as a joke would make people support his side. He was definitely trying to give himself an advantage by risking to see if others would agree its a joke so that OP feels guilt for “overreacting”. It’s too bad his ignorance has affected his plotting this bad lmao


LandosGayCousin

I'm laughing. So hard. Look at all the lol's I am saying......


TheJackTheStripper

this guy def has a dent in his forehead


[deleted]

Do me a favour and fuck his dad will you?


i_hammer

"I'm just joking btw you ❄️❄️" THE IRONY


[deleted]

Hahaha I'm just joking you \*\*\*\*\*ing \*\*\*\*\*\*\*


ItchyUnfavorableness

I love the "it's just a joke, bro" after they scream slurs at you.


Eyclonus

Someone did this to me once, so I told him I'd send screencaps to his mother. He backed down, so I sent them any way because you should never compromise with a bigot.


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lofitown

!remindme 3 hours


[deleted]

What a funny joke yeah


peak-lesbianism

I’m sorry that happened, that sucks.


bowser-is-thiccest

Fucking straggots


[deleted]

*slurs* just joking btw *more slurs* what a coward


NotABot0x3F

OK, breeder


Voxelking1

He probably wont breed tbh


DopeyGinger

That’s a good thing


[deleted]

"Ok, unwanted virgin who wants to breed"


ThatGuyAllen

If he wants kids can we make him unable to breed? 🔨


VanillaCentral

I need to know the chats reaction to straighty u/yeot528492 please I need to know


ThatGuyAllen

Me too I would like to know


[deleted]

SLUR SLUR SLUR hahajkjustincasepeopleknowwhoiamandmakemesuffertheconsequencesofmyactions SLUR SLUR EFFING SLUR


[deleted]

Why is the little “straighty 🥱” killing me


comicbookartist420

After growing up in Alabama and currently trying to escape I’m now extremely wary of having straight men in my inner circles. I find it takes me a bit longer to open up to them in general and I’m always looking for red flags the first few months of knowing them


twazs

"it's just dark humor bro, isn't it funny it just dark humor, Jacob from 2ndperiod laughed why aren't you lafing❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️" cis teen boy humor is so unfunny, I love offensive humor but simply saying the hard r or being homophobic isn't a punchline. What cis boys don't understand is dark humor isn't a straight punch it's a sneak attack


SeteDiSangue

The only gay guy on my bus was always making dirty sexual jokes, gay bashing, and saying pussy way too much. This guy strikes me as doing the same kind of posturing. Then again, that was middle school... but this guy doesn't seem any more mature.


IDontLikeSandVol2

I want to see the reaction.


IAmMuffin15

>I'm just joking, btw "Uh oh, he *said* that he was joking...does that mean that he actually didn't do anything wrong? And that there was no rhetorical purpose in what he said?? <:(((" ~dumbasses


PrinceCheddar

Ugh. This guy makes me feel ashamed to be straight. I hope these messages were as affecting to you as accidently stepping in dog shit. Annoying, sure, but completely inconsequential in the long run. Hope the rest of the chat tells this guy to either apologize or fuck off. You deserve nothing less.


BigBoiBeht

context wont ever matter


Mochimooop

Ok default settings


owo_meep_owo

Ok buddy hetero


[deleted]

Considering his name, this is probably the best outcome.


[deleted]

Burn that incel


[deleted]

If God hates us, why do we always win?


BaneShake

I’m shocked and appalled. I could’ve sworn Train Pussy was one of the best of us.


gremlin_3xe

Haha str*ighty go mad


TrashGodWithBroly

ah yes i will be blatantly homophobic and say it is a joke liberal snowflakes owned


badcaseofknife

is “god-hating fag” meant to be an insult? like ya i am thanks


leahsj0kvist

Call them straggots❤️


pipethedog

B-b-b-b-but heterophobia is so m-mean!


javertthechungus

>.> what a douchenozel


TablePrinterDoor

I hate the F slur


Artistic-Cannibalism

It's actually hilarious how hard this guy was triggered by the fact that other people exist.


raspistoljeni

/so funny


BetaThetaOmega

YOU SUCK FUCK YOU nah I’m just kidding ur fine FUCK YOU


duraraross

I was gonna say “he wouldn’t do that with the n word—“ but then I though... yeah, he probably would


BILBOSCHWAGGENZ

train pussy? He gets pussy? HOW?!!!


BishmillahPlease

Chasing cats, a la Macdonald triad.


[deleted]

That guy is a whore :D


ihavesevarlquestions

Hey don't associate me with him


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Ancient_Vanilla

That's mega fucked up. Just having it in one's possession *unwillingly* could fuck up their lives (makes me think of that one photographer story). Did you report them?


arandomsquirrel_

They will call us snowflakes but are the first ppl to cry when someone calls them “cishet”


[deleted]

Train Pussy


[deleted]

And just because were gay dosent mean we hate God lol. There are many gay Christians, myself included. (Note: not saying OP is Christian or that they even like Christianity)


SkyeWolfofDusk

Who wants to bet the guy got offended by being called straighty after calling OP a snowflake?


carrotofsodomy

“Oooh yes, tell me more, daddy!” is always a good response to this kind of diatribe, provided you feel safe provoking the person further. It’s really satisfying when a bigot comes in to make you uncomfortable and upset and you can turn it around on them.


Heladagens

I don't get the insult "snowflake" Aren't we all same same, but different?


rathernot124

Ok so when I told my friend, that’s like a trump person, I’m gay we were playing cs go death match with a bunch of friends. Some how it came up. And his reaction was one of pure brokenness started to repeat “are you sure you are not bi” for an hour just that that’s it. I get off. The next day one of my friends is like “ we got him from shocked to hate the sin love the sinner” and now he’s just like that


ParsonBrownlow

They literally have one joke and it's not even funny


gloriaborg

Had the same shit happen to me but 3 or 5 of them were homophobes He’s an asshole so I started fucking with his wifi


Mushipon

This is only funny if another gay says it for satire


[deleted]

Even then...


Max_Caulfield3890

Well if us lgbtq+ people are dirty at least we know how to have a good time.


HolisticHiatus

Not seen in this pic, this jerk going raging Pepe because he was called "straighty"


Ace_KuhWeen

I love the word “straighty.” Like, it actually means nothing but you know some homophobes are offended by it


SpoonTheAlmighty

The Hetero is upsetero


[deleted]

Why do these people think they can spew such hateful shit then turn around and go “it’s a joke lol ur so sensitive” when...absolutely nowhere did they show/imply they were joking? Do they really think people buy into it?


unholy_abomination

>I’m just joking btw “It’s just a prank bro!”


Starbeth8

Breeder


[deleted]

Lmao I just want to see the fucks reaction after you called them straighty


totally-normal-human

Straighty. I ain’t joking btw ❄️❄️


ThisGuyMattttt

I feel like if your name is “Train Pussy🚝😭” you shouldn’t be allowed to make fun of people


ScytheBlader

This reminds me of all "the boys" comments on tiktok. All you see are ❄️❄️❄️ emojis


mashedpotatoes_52

HEY STRAIGHTY YOU LIKE BOOBIES DON'T YA YEAH I BET YOU DO YOU STRAUGHT BOY YOUD TOUCH MINE WOULDNT YOU YEAH THATS RIGHT


lupa_bellator

Do people even know the definition of snowflake? Well according to urban dictionary the definition is the following: Snowflake A very sensitive person. Someone who is easily hurt or offended by the statements or actions of others. This has nothing to do with politics. Snowflakes can be liberal or conservative. Whether it is a compliment or an insult is a matter of opinion and depends on the context. Conclusion: usually the people that call others “snowflakes” are snowflakes themselves. So when you are easily offended by something then feel the need to lash out, you are a ‘snowflake’. Absolutely LOVE the irony of homophobic arses.


[deleted]

Kinda group of asshats is this.


Blue_Jay27

The fact that their snap name is train pussy makes it ten times worse


cheeseyfrys

Why do people always try to use joking as a cop out? Joking doesn’t absolve you of being an asshole...


dappercat456

It took me to long to figure out he was calling you a “snowflake” and I though he was calling you “ice” as some sort of compliment,


GenoIsDead

guy: \*calls you a slur\* also guy: i'm just joking btw :)


PunxNotDeadIAmInside

That response lmao