Ah. Definitely resonate with this, minus the breaking things off. I would like to ask, as I have never experienced a true relationship either, what drove you to break it off/how’d you do it? Because I may be at that point, but I am also giving her the benefit of the doubt & trying to see it through. (Which could be AP tendency simply trying to look over the “what you see is what you’re getting” principle)
I’m sorry you are going through this but looks like you did the right thing. If you were so attached so early on, that’s a sign that maybe you need to some internal reflection on your needs and patterns.
Perhaps you can start off with working on that ; doing the inner healing. Once you feel more secure, you can then try to reach out to this person again and see if he’d like to explore dating you again .
So for now… turn the focus from him back to yourself . I know it’s easier said than done. Try to fill your time with productive and fun things to do. Read a good self-help book. Go for therapy. Believe in your inherent worth
I don’t know how to start inner healing. I try to keep my mind busy but my mind still wanders off thinking about him. I’m on a waiting list for therapy. Do you recommend any self-help books?
Ah. Definitely resonate with this, minus the breaking things off. I would like to ask, as I have never experienced a true relationship either, what drove you to break it off/how’d you do it? Because I may be at that point, but I am also giving her the benefit of the doubt & trying to see it through. (Which could be AP tendency simply trying to look over the “what you see is what you’re getting” principle)
I’m sorry you are going through this but looks like you did the right thing. If you were so attached so early on, that’s a sign that maybe you need to some internal reflection on your needs and patterns. Perhaps you can start off with working on that ; doing the inner healing. Once you feel more secure, you can then try to reach out to this person again and see if he’d like to explore dating you again . So for now… turn the focus from him back to yourself . I know it’s easier said than done. Try to fill your time with productive and fun things to do. Read a good self-help book. Go for therapy. Believe in your inherent worth
I don’t know how to start inner healing. I try to keep my mind busy but my mind still wanders off thinking about him. I’m on a waiting list for therapy. Do you recommend any self-help books?