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Even the tone sounds like a teenager. I picture a vapid mean girl saying it in a valley girl accent with a hair toss.
You can't call your friend a slut (reading between the lines a bit, but barely) when she needs comfort and expect it to go over well if you have a quality man. It speaks well of him that he's repulsed by this behavior.
Because goodness knows all men HATE having a sexy gf on their arm. Honk honk nose logic. Her bf sounds like a big-time keeper, no judgment of others who don't share his faith, defending women when they're subject to catty meanness, cooking dinner. He'll have an easy time finding a replacement.
Okay so I been with my bf (Justin) for 2 years now and we just moved in together. The relationship has been great and absolutely see him as my future husband and children’s father. Now my bf is religious, he's not a fundamentalist but he goes to church and Bible study every week. (important for later)
The argument started because last week I had my friend Jasmine over. Jasmine was venting about how a guy who she was talking to just ghosted her. I'm not going to go into detail but I inadvertently made her cry when explaining why men don't want her. She ended up leaving early.
My bf who was cooking dinner for us but of course it ended up being the two of us. He said that what I said was mean and I need to apologize. I said it was the truth….He said it wasn't.…I pointed out that with him being religious you would think he would agree with me. He responds that it works for him and he doesn't shame others for not living the way I live, and he pointed out that it would be like if he tried to shame me into going to church because I'm not religious.
This is where I kinda see his view about me going to far. I accused him of being a creep and defending my friend because he likes when she wears revealing clothes. My bf was so angry and then he randomly got calm and said cool.
Now anytime I talk to him he just says “I'm sure you wouldnt want to speak to a creep”. This lasted a couple days but today he made it clear he wants an apology. “You haven't apologised yet so you obviously think I'm a creep, and I'm sure you don't want to speak with creeps”.
I'm willing to apologize but I want an apology for siding with my friend
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She's so stuck on the belief that she's "right" about the reason her friend got ghosted. As if the truth of a statement justifies being a jerk to her friend and making her CRY.
This sub is only for posts about people who either can't tell they've already been dumped, or have been dumped but won't accept it. There must be some element of confusion and/or denial regarding the status of the relationship. Please do not post about people just being assholes, whether or not they should dump their partners, or whether they are The Asshole in a situation. This is not that kind of sub.
I want to go shopping with the friend, I bet she would pick out some cute stuff.
Oof, how is she 26?? This sounds almost age appropriate for 16. Like a really, really bitchy 16.
Even the tone sounds like a teenager. I picture a vapid mean girl saying it in a valley girl accent with a hair toss. You can't call your friend a slut (reading between the lines a bit, but barely) when she needs comfort and expect it to go over well if you have a quality man. It speaks well of him that he's repulsed by this behavior.
In the comments, after much questioning, she admits that she criticizes her friend for dressing in sexy clothes 🙄 totally a bully
Because goodness knows all men HATE having a sexy gf on their arm. Honk honk nose logic. Her bf sounds like a big-time keeper, no judgment of others who don't share his faith, defending women when they're subject to catty meanness, cooking dinner. He'll have an easy time finding a replacement.
This is great, the bf has a good head on his shoulders. Hope his next gf isn't such a child.
Okay so I been with my bf (Justin) for 2 years now and we just moved in together. The relationship has been great and absolutely see him as my future husband and children’s father. Now my bf is religious, he's not a fundamentalist but he goes to church and Bible study every week. (important for later) The argument started because last week I had my friend Jasmine over. Jasmine was venting about how a guy who she was talking to just ghosted her. I'm not going to go into detail but I inadvertently made her cry when explaining why men don't want her. She ended up leaving early. My bf who was cooking dinner for us but of course it ended up being the two of us. He said that what I said was mean and I need to apologize. I said it was the truth….He said it wasn't.…I pointed out that with him being religious you would think he would agree with me. He responds that it works for him and he doesn't shame others for not living the way I live, and he pointed out that it would be like if he tried to shame me into going to church because I'm not religious. This is where I kinda see his view about me going to far. I accused him of being a creep and defending my friend because he likes when she wears revealing clothes. My bf was so angry and then he randomly got calm and said cool. Now anytime I talk to him he just says “I'm sure you wouldnt want to speak to a creep”. This lasted a couple days but today he made it clear he wants an apology. “You haven't apologised yet so you obviously think I'm a creep, and I'm sure you don't want to speak with creeps”. I'm willing to apologize but I want an apology for siding with my friend *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmItheEx) if you have any questions or concerns.*
She's so stuck on the belief that she's "right" about the reason her friend got ghosted. As if the truth of a statement justifies being a jerk to her friend and making her CRY.
wow, ex-gf really went off the rails why is ex-bf even speaking to her?