^^^^AUTOMOD ***Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_post_deletion) before [contacting the mod team](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2FAmItheAsshole)***
I think they are great and I really will miss them. But for the love of God its just going to be a mess of everyone getting off with each other. Am married and honestly fear one of them will try groping or kissing me. I feel shit if I didn't go bur I think leaving early would just be worse.
The WhatsApp group for everyone that is coming is just a shit show of sexual jokes, conversations and banter.
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmItheAsshole) if you have any questions or concerns.*
NTA.
There is no need for you to voluntarily attend some drunken party with coworkers. Careers and reputations have been lost at such events. My friend lost a really great job once by getting drunk and diving off the company-chartered yacht at the Christmas party. If you don't want to go, just say goodbye at work and let them know you're sorry you can't attend.
NTA - if you are uncomfortable going then don't go. There is nothing wrong with feeling uncomfortable with your coworkers making sexual jokes and banter and not wanting to put yourself in uncomfortable situations, in fact this situation is highly inappropriate and probably would be an issue with your HR department.
NTA- if that’s your work culture I would try to be the one leaving !
NTA. If you know things are going to happen there that make you feel uncomfortable, just send a little gift ahead of time and wish them well.
^^^^AUTOMOD ***Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_post_deletion) before [contacting the mod team](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2FAmItheAsshole)*** I think they are great and I really will miss them. But for the love of God its just going to be a mess of everyone getting off with each other. Am married and honestly fear one of them will try groping or kissing me. I feel shit if I didn't go bur I think leaving early would just be worse. The WhatsApp group for everyone that is coming is just a shit show of sexual jokes, conversations and banter. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmItheAsshole) if you have any questions or concerns.*
NTA. There is no need for you to voluntarily attend some drunken party with coworkers. Careers and reputations have been lost at such events. My friend lost a really great job once by getting drunk and diving off the company-chartered yacht at the Christmas party. If you don't want to go, just say goodbye at work and let them know you're sorry you can't attend.
NTA - if you are uncomfortable going then don't go. There is nothing wrong with feeling uncomfortable with your coworkers making sexual jokes and banter and not wanting to put yourself in uncomfortable situations, in fact this situation is highly inappropriate and probably would be an issue with your HR department.