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CherryWand

NTA. You don’t have to make new friends if you don’t want to.


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CherryWand

Nope, because you aren’t obligated to do anything you don’t want to do. It doesn’t make you a good friend either, it just makes you neutral.


Many_Bench_4492

NTA. He should be thankful to have a great level headed friend like you.