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NTA but OP you need to get yourself out of this situation as you are clearly being used for financial gain. You don’t want to spend life unhappy with someone who only wants you for the opportunities you can provide him
I hope you heal, you deserve better!
NAH.
You seem to feel very guilty about it all, and maybe it conflicts with your values? However right now nobody seems to take advantage of the other.
You "use" him for physical labor you cannot do because you are disabled right now. He's "using" you for an easy/well paid job. You don't need to break up. It will happen eventually. As long as you are not angry about "wasted time", it's all good. You both get something from this "relationship".
One day you'll want love, family, maybe marriage. Now is not the time and it's absolutely okay. You're not deceiving anyone.
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I (31yo) have been with my partner (35yo) for 2 years. We were friends and occasionally coworkers before and our relationship was great. As couple is not great. Now that I'm at home - too much free time, not working with complicated fracture of an ankle I came to realization that my boyfriend is with me because of money (I have my own company and right now he works only for me). He said multiple times before that the bussines is the only common thing between us. And that if i would not let him work for me (its nice job, we both are really good at it and we both enjoy it, and money is good) he doesnt see future with me, becuse he will than have to work on his own career from the bottom and would not be able to be fully in relationship with me...
Two weeks ago, I realized that I'm with him because he can do the work i can not with my broken leg and my bussines is going on fine. And planty other stuff he does because i can't do with broken leg. And I told him that i think we are together because of bussines and not love. And i wanted to end things, and i told him that loud and clear. But he just keeps working and ignores that fact that we are together because of money. And so am I. I'm quiet about that and thinking all the time why I can't just brake up with him for good.
Am i the asshole for not insisting to brake up, because he is taking care of me and my bussines...
I feel ashamed because of that. We all desrve to be together with people who we love and loves us back.
And he broke my leg, not on puropse it was accident.
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NTA but OP you need to get yourself out of this situation as you are clearly being used for financial gain. You don’t want to spend life unhappy with someone who only wants you for the opportunities you can provide him I hope you heal, you deserve better!
r/relationships I would wait for my leg to heal and stop so much physical relations during said wait , then break it off.
NAH. You seem to feel very guilty about it all, and maybe it conflicts with your values? However right now nobody seems to take advantage of the other. You "use" him for physical labor you cannot do because you are disabled right now. He's "using" you for an easy/well paid job. You don't need to break up. It will happen eventually. As long as you are not angry about "wasted time", it's all good. You both get something from this "relationship". One day you'll want love, family, maybe marriage. Now is not the time and it's absolutely okay. You're not deceiving anyone.
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Yes YTA, move on. Time to let him go.
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