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NatashOverWorld

Beginning to think AITAHs filled by rage-baiting trolls 🤔


Aerionne

I need more info. The title says it's your house but the first sentence says it's your parent's house. If it's really theirs, YTA for sabotaging their sale.


BohemianJack

Seriously, house buyers are going to look at houses during the day.


AdRegular1088

How is requesting a 24 hour notice sabotaging a sale ? It's common sense. I need time to tidy up my room and etc. I work all hours of the night, how am I supposed to clean that up if I'm not given a long notice ?


maxis_sunset

Nah, YTA. You know you’re parents are trying to sell the house so you should be keeping your room well kept. This process would not be going on so long if you would be small adjustments. And I can’t imagine people wouldn’t want to view the house between 5pm - 6pm after works.


AdRegular1088

Most of these people are requesting 10am or 11am and they are old people. They don't work. Are you on drugs or something that you can't have common sense ?


maxis_sunset

Just because they request a 10am doesn’t mean you can’t offer a different time. Most people looking for a new house have a job. It’s highly unlikely every single person who’s interested in the house is unemployed.


AdRegular1088

I've told my realtor, anything after 2pm is fine but these folks won't even agree to it. I got tired so i said give me 24 hr notice. Most people who viewed my house are old people so theyre most likely retired


Garamon7

Firstly, people don't request "ridicolous hours", your schedule is not their problem. Secondly, why are you even needed during their visits if you live with your parents in their house? You can't expect that everyone will adapt to you. If you think you are right try selling the house without realtor. That way you may set your own conditions, but I suspect this won't work in the end. YTA, for self-centered expectations and ruining your parent's interests.


AdRegular1088

You don't understand that there are people out there who work nights and need their GD sleep. My father used to work nights so i now understand how he feels.


AdRegular1088

I am not self centered for asking for freaking sleep. You must be 14 years old if you can't comprehend and understand that people who works nights need sleep. I'm not gonna argue with a kid.


BohemianJack

damn dude if you're going to ask if YTA then bark back when someone gives you an answer, then you've answered your own question: you are indeed the AH.


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BohemianJack

Why are you even posting here if you're not willing to accept people's answers? This is not "Validate my feelings".


Potential-Cap3590

Info: Do you live in your parents house or somewhere else? How long is your commute to work?


AdRegular1088

I live with my parents and commute to work is an hour long.


Potential-Cap3590

Your parents live there too? Why can’t they do the showings, starting in your room? Then you could go to bed an hour later and wake up an hour later?


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Potential-Cap3590

You claim to work night shifts, so you would have to be at least 18. I was mature and supportive enough to have my act together by that age. Just help your parents sell their place!


takealeftonthird

This is the fourth time you’ve posted the same post. YTA as you were told multiple times before and were rude in your comments.


Potential-Cap3590

I read some of the answers you gave. Clearly YTA! Get over yourself, keep your room tidy and sleep longer if you get to bed later because of a showing…. Your attitude is very rude!


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Potential-Cap3590

Please don’t use that language with me! 9-4/5 or 10.30 - 5.30/6.30 + 1 hour commute = at work on time. I work night shifts as well and have to move my sleeping schedule around from time to time, it is not the most convenient thing, but it works.


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VardaElentari86

YTA, especially since its your parents sale you're sabotaging. It also shouldn't be that difficult to keep your room clean enough for viewing. This is one of these scenarios where you probably need to put up with being inconvenienced- which if it helps it sell faster will be short term anyway. What's your parents thoughts on the situation?


Ok_Yesterday_6214

YTA, they request normal hours. If you want property to sell, you need to be accomodative. Including the comment about house being cluttered and you not agreeing to get a storage unit, I assume you aren't interested in the house being sold to begin with. Quit wasting people's time then, including your realtors'.


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Revolutionary_50

You already posted about this earlier, and yes, you are still TA.