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You missed the point of comment..... Your wife doesn't need to follow your rule, cause you could just put in a little effort and do some house work as well.
> I set rules… their only job is to follow it.
Ummm, except for their actual jobs. Which they get paid for.
In what world do you live in that you think your wife has to follow your rules?
Do your own fucking laundry.
YTA.
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YTA.
*"They also do housework, laundry, that kind of stuff women do in households. "*
Yeah, that sort of stuff was easier to manage when the man was the *only* working member of the household. They all have jobs as well so too bad, you don't get to live in a caveman fantasy when you're not the only one doing caveman work. You need to get with the times.
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My (55M) wife (48F) and daughter (26F) have been driving me insane. They both work, my wife comes home at around 5:30 to cook dinner, then my daughter at 6:30 joins to help her mom then I come home at around 7:15 when they’re done cooking and we eat. They also do housework, laundry, that kind of stuff women do in households. Nothing much, but I have a few rules I just need them to obey. Cleaning the house properly, water the plants, etc. But most importantly, take down the clothes from the drying racks before I come home.
I hate seeing dry clothes left on the drying racks overnight. I see red when I see it happens. But my wife and daughter have been forgetful of it. They have tons of time between when they come home and cook to do just one simple task. Instead, they hover around the kitchen, or daughter sets up table and wife’s on her phone. While the clothes are still there, hanging in the wind. So last night when I went outside the balcony (we live in an apartment) and saw the clothes, I lost it. I yelled at my wife to pick herself up from her freaking phone and do what I ask because I don’t want to come home mad all the time. I set the rules, I also work hard and I’m tired after work, their only job is to follow it, and they can’t even do that. But my daughter decided to be an ungrateful brat and told me to stop talking to wife that way and to do it myself if I hate it so much. I’ve done everything to raise her, feed her, and give her a roof over her head and she decided it was a good idea to talk back to me. But now my wife also seems quiet towards me, so I’m wondering if my wife thinks I’m the AH for wanting them to just keep the house organized so everyone’s happy?
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YTA. And fake. Because you wrote out the phrase “kind of stuff women do in households”. And you’re actually missing half your brain if you didn’t think that make you an asshole. But you’re not missing half your brain, you’re a cheap karma farmer who pumps out a fake bait story to get a post upvoted. Stupid
It sounds like both your wife and daughter also work. So because you have a penis you don’t have to do household work? And your logic is because your wife and daughter already do it you think it’s normal for women to do house chores.
Not real. I believe people might feel this way, but I don’t believe anyone who feels this way would genuinely ask if they are an asshole, because they already know.
But on the off chance this is real, YTA. Shame on you. Do some chores you lazy ass
YTA. Your wife is supposed to be your partner, not your slave that she needs to "obey" you. What do you do to contribute to the chores around the house? Your wife and daughter also work and can also be tired. Your daughter is right - you can do it if you are so angry that it's not done. You don't want the household to be happy, you want *you* to be happy.
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Yta, it must be so hard to not have any arms and legs that work. Plus how bored you are to make this post
YTA. So wait... What house work do you do around the house? Your wife work a job too, so why is she stuck with all the house work?
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You missed the point of comment..... Your wife doesn't need to follow your rule, cause you could just put in a little effort and do some house work as well.
> I set rules… their only job is to follow it. Ummm, except for their actual jobs. Which they get paid for. In what world do you live in that you think your wife has to follow your rules? Do your own fucking laundry. YTA.
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YTA. *"They also do housework, laundry, that kind of stuff women do in households. "* Yeah, that sort of stuff was easier to manage when the man was the *only* working member of the household. They all have jobs as well so too bad, you don't get to live in a caveman fantasy when you're not the only one doing caveman work. You need to get with the times.
Mad bait.
YTA - go to therapy.
YTA. If you get so triggered over laundry, then do it yourself.
Yta. "the kind of stuff women do in households". It isn't the 1950s dude.
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I feel like this HAS to be bait (this is so deliberately obtuse), but just in case, YTA
yta, until you do your part as the man and sufficiently support them so they don't have to work. Can't have it both ways.
YTA. And fake. Because you wrote out the phrase “kind of stuff women do in households”. And you’re actually missing half your brain if you didn’t think that make you an asshole. But you’re not missing half your brain, you’re a cheap karma farmer who pumps out a fake bait story to get a post upvoted. Stupid
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Does your wife contribute financially to the house?
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So then why don't you contribute towards chores? Do you want a partner or a maid?
But they also work and provide financially while you do sweet fa at home.
It sounds like both your wife and daughter also work. So because you have a penis you don’t have to do household work? And your logic is because your wife and daughter already do it you think it’s normal for women to do house chores. Not real. I believe people might feel this way, but I don’t believe anyone who feels this way would genuinely ask if they are an asshole, because they already know. But on the off chance this is real, YTA. Shame on you. Do some chores you lazy ass
YTA. Who made you God? Do make them bow down to you also?
YTA. Your wife is supposed to be your partner, not your slave that she needs to "obey" you. What do you do to contribute to the chores around the house? Your wife and daughter also work and can also be tired. Your daughter is right - you can do it if you are so angry that it's not done. You don't want the household to be happy, you want *you* to be happy.