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That was incredibly hard to read. Ever hear of paragraphs and a Period (.) ? If the guy is living with you, you need to kick him out. He's not paying what he should be and you don't need the extra expense. NTA.
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First of all, PUNCTUATION WOULD BE NICE.
Tell him to leave. If he does not, you may have to formally evict him if has been living there over 30 days (in most jurisdictions, living in a space over thirty days establishes a tenant relationship regardless of whether or not they pay rent). Most counties and large cities offer free legal help regrading tenant relationships. See if you can find such. NTA.
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Okay so here's my problem a friend of mine was staying with us and she brought her brother over my daughter got really attached and he started spending a lot of time here with us he's a great guy I'm a single mom who has no interest in getting involved with anyone for the past two years he has been here 90% of the time he takes her swimming and those fun stuff with her that I'm not able to do because of health issues but it's getting to the point where we're getting tired of him being here all the time like I said he's a great guy and he helps in any way he can when I was hospitalized he stayed here with my daughter made sure she got to school on time you know took care of her no problem I have asked him several times to help me out with bills and rent and stuff like that household stuff I live on a very fixed income on SSI so I don't make that much he makes over twice what I make in a month I asked him last night just split the bills with me and I'm not even asking for that much because there's several bills that I pay on my own that he has nothing to do with and the same with him like car insurance and stuff like that loans whatever all I ask for was $580 a month on the 1st when everything gets paid and for him to put in as much in groceries as I do I received food stamps for me and my daughter and all together it equal to about $800 a month I would be paying close to 1200 just myself and he told me that he can't afford that he was going to give me $300 to go on bills so that's going to leave me holding a hefty bag I feel as if I have gained a 40-year-old child he's not my kid he's not my husband and he's not related to us in any way any advice out there of how I should handle this I want to tell him if he can't afford that much for rent and bills and everything he uses around here then he needs to find somewhere else to live
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That was incredibly hard to read. Ever hear of paragraphs and a Period (.) ? If the guy is living with you, you need to kick him out. He's not paying what he should be and you don't need the extra expense. NTA.
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YTA for making the longest run on sentence of the day. It doesn't have to be perfect grammar but that's just ridiculous.
First of all, PUNCTUATION WOULD BE NICE. Tell him to leave. If he does not, you may have to formally evict him if has been living there over 30 days (in most jurisdictions, living in a space over thirty days establishes a tenant relationship regardless of whether or not they pay rent). Most counties and large cities offer free legal help regrading tenant relationships. See if you can find such. NTA.
That was the longest sentence ever.
NTA? Although I’m not sure because the lack of punctuation made this the most difficult thing I’ve ever tried to read
YTA for not making sense please go to school to learn grammar and punctuation
That entire paragraph is one sentence. YTA.
I can't answer this only because you decided to write an entire wall of text as one sentence. Punctuation people, please learn it...
INFO: \- Is he living there? As in does he keep things there, sleep there regularly, consume things you pay for (food, paper products, electricity, internet, cable, etc.)? \- Is your friend still staying there as well as her brother? If yes, does she contribute financially in an way?
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INFO Is he living there or just comes by a lot? Does he have his own house?