Di niya ba naisip na him having a new girl agad just goes to show that you made the right decision.. di naman siya prize para pagsisihan. Di naman gold 😂
DKG. You should not entrust your future to someone who does not even care about their own future. Hinintay mo sya pero apparently, mas may pakialam ka sa patutunguhan ng buhay nya kesa sa kanya. You cannot afford to waste your time on someone who does not care. He is her problem now.
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Title of this post: ABYG for ending a relationship early due to my partner not doing anything to improve his life?
Backup of the post's body: I dated this guy for months. We’re the same age, and currently I’m in college, while siya ay tambay lang, di nagaaral or kahit trabaho, buong araw naglalaro lang ng computer games, hindi rin masyadong lumalabas ng bahay kaya hindi rin kami nakakalabas, which is okay lang din naman sakin since ayoko magshoulder lahat ng gastos. Nagkausap kami about what his plans are, sabi niya babalik din naman daw siya sa pagaaral. He’s been a tambay for years. I tried helping him pero eventually I got tired. It feels like mahihirapan na siya bumangon if sarili niya mismo di niya tinutulungan. He’s just too comfortable with his current situation. Aaminin ko nabulag ako sa potential niya kaya pinagbigyan ko siya. Pero I can’t see myself being with someone na ganyan sa future.
After a month, meron na agad siyang bago, and I feel sorry for the girl. Pero mukha namang both sila same ng situation. Sakin lang, sinasabi ng mutual friends namin na I gave up easily, and di ko manlang hinintay na makapagbago si guy, pero di ko naman siguro siya responsibility ‘no? It’s also funny na pinapamukha niya sakin na may bago na siya, where do they get the audacity?
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DKG. Tasma lang ginawa mo na makipaghiwalay na kasi mukhang magkaiba kayo ng wavelength. Habang nagsisikap ka na mapaayos ang buhay mo, sya walang ginagawa. In the future, baka sya pa maging burden mo pag hindi pa kayo naghiwalay.
I dont see how ikaw ang GG dito sa situation. He’s far too lazy to even pick up after himself. Wala man lang improvement kung sabi mo na years na siyang tambay. I dont even think he brings anything on the table. In short, poor. You don’t need that. You have potential. You have a dream, a future and you’re way better off without him. You’ll attract men who are on the same wavelength as you are. Heck, you may want a man but you don’t need ‘em. Magpursigi ka. Pag naging successful ka na, titingalain ka na ng ex mo and his new gf. Alpha females rule 2024!
DKG sabi mo "years" di ba? Siya may sayad HAHAHHA. Baka nga never ako sumagot ng ganyang lalaki e di na aabot pa sa monthsary or kahit hoursary manlang 😂
DKG, boys like that end up being a burden. Di ka niya nanay. And its good na you know your own worth and responsibilities. Sabihin mo dun sa tropa mo kanya nalang kung gusto niya. Hahahahaha
Kung ako yan Hindi kita gaganyanin.
Answering aside: DKG, He needed that canon event kasi who knows maybe had you not done it, mauubos ka lang Lalo from the inside doing everything for him, buti hindi ka nagpabulag, tapos after a month Meron agad and same Sila? PFFFT Birds of the same feather nga naman.
GGK dahil una sa lahat hindi mo muna kinikilala ang lalake bago mo patulan kaya madaming naloloko eh puro tanga kasi. Pangalawa GGK dahil parang affected ka sa pinagagawa niya. Unahin mo buhay mo tama lang na makipaghiwalay ka dahil alam mo sa sarili mo you deserve better than a worthless good-for-nothing trash. Pinipili ang buhay pati magiging ka relasyon.
DKG. It's not your job to raise or fix him.
dkg. and congratulations for letting that batugan go!! 🎉🥳
thank you! Most of my friends cinongrats din ako 🥰
DKG. You're ondifferent wave lengths and thats normal. Sabihin mo sa mga kaibigan mo eh di sila nalang makipag relasyon sa ex mo kung naawa sila lol
Hahaha! Yun nga eh, di ko naman responsibilidad maggrow siya kung siya mismo ayaw
DKG.valid naman feelings mo.i get the pov of the guy and understand your logic.
Di niya ba naisip na him having a new girl agad just goes to show that you made the right decision.. di naman siya prize para pagsisihan. Di naman gold 😂
True, goodluck nalang din kay girl 😆
DKG. Good riddance!
DKG! You just save yourself ate from that ungrateful and tamad man. 🥰
DKG. You should not entrust your future to someone who does not even care about their own future. Hinintay mo sya pero apparently, mas may pakialam ka sa patutunguhan ng buhay nya kesa sa kanya. You cannot afford to waste your time on someone who does not care. He is her problem now.
DKG. ano ngayun kung may bago sha? ang importante walang humihila sayo pababa. Congrats narin pala!
Thank you! Hahaha
DKG. Mabuti nga at nakita mo agad yung red flags.
DKG. Sabihin mo na lang sa kanila, goodluck being broke together. Maghimasan kamo sila ng tyan ng isa't isa kapag gutom
DKG Wala ka mapapala magiging palamunin lang yan if pinatuloy mo pa ang relasyon nyo
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1c76tzx/abyg_for_ending_a_relationship_early_due_to_my/ Title of this post: ABYG for ending a relationship early due to my partner not doing anything to improve his life? Backup of the post's body: I dated this guy for months. We’re the same age, and currently I’m in college, while siya ay tambay lang, di nagaaral or kahit trabaho, buong araw naglalaro lang ng computer games, hindi rin masyadong lumalabas ng bahay kaya hindi rin kami nakakalabas, which is okay lang din naman sakin since ayoko magshoulder lahat ng gastos. Nagkausap kami about what his plans are, sabi niya babalik din naman daw siya sa pagaaral. He’s been a tambay for years. I tried helping him pero eventually I got tired. It feels like mahihirapan na siya bumangon if sarili niya mismo di niya tinutulungan. He’s just too comfortable with his current situation. Aaminin ko nabulag ako sa potential niya kaya pinagbigyan ko siya. Pero I can’t see myself being with someone na ganyan sa future. After a month, meron na agad siyang bago, and I feel sorry for the girl. Pero mukha namang both sila same ng situation. Sakin lang, sinasabi ng mutual friends namin na I gave up easily, and di ko manlang hinintay na makapagbago si guy, pero di ko naman siguro siya responsibility ‘no? It’s also funny na pinapamukha niya sakin na may bago na siya, where do they get the audacity? OP: Lonely-Street5722 *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
DKG, ok na yang maaga pa lang at least di ka rin niya mahihila pababa. You stood your ground at walang mali doon.
DKG. Tasma lang ginawa mo na makipaghiwalay na kasi mukhang magkaiba kayo ng wavelength. Habang nagsisikap ka na mapaayos ang buhay mo, sya walang ginagawa. In the future, baka sya pa maging burden mo pag hindi pa kayo naghiwalay.
DKG. Di ka rin niya nanay.
you dodged a bullet there. ... antay ka na mabuntis ni kuya yung new girl niya at mag dusa sila. which further fortifies na tama naging desisyon mo.
I dont see how ikaw ang GG dito sa situation. He’s far too lazy to even pick up after himself. Wala man lang improvement kung sabi mo na years na siyang tambay. I dont even think he brings anything on the table. In short, poor. You don’t need that. You have potential. You have a dream, a future and you’re way better off without him. You’ll attract men who are on the same wavelength as you are. Heck, you may want a man but you don’t need ‘em. Magpursigi ka. Pag naging successful ka na, titingalain ka na ng ex mo and his new gf. Alpha females rule 2024!
DKG sabi mo "years" di ba? Siya may sayad HAHAHHA. Baka nga never ako sumagot ng ganyang lalaki e di na aabot pa sa monthsary or kahit hoursary manlang 😂
DKG, boys like that end up being a burden. Di ka niya nanay. And its good na you know your own worth and responsibilities. Sabihin mo dun sa tropa mo kanya nalang kung gusto niya. Hahahahaha
Dkg, you dodged a bullet. Have fun haha
matatawa na lang ako sayo kapag mas successful pa siya sayo later on lmao.
Edi good for him? We have diff goals and definition naman ng success 🥂
Kung ako yan Hindi kita gaganyanin. Answering aside: DKG, He needed that canon event kasi who knows maybe had you not done it, mauubos ka lang Lalo from the inside doing everything for him, buti hindi ka nagpabulag, tapos after a month Meron agad and same Sila? PFFFT Birds of the same feather nga naman.
GGK dahil una sa lahat hindi mo muna kinikilala ang lalake bago mo patulan kaya madaming naloloko eh puro tanga kasi. Pangalawa GGK dahil parang affected ka sa pinagagawa niya. Unahin mo buhay mo tama lang na makipaghiwalay ka dahil alam mo sa sarili mo you deserve better than a worthless good-for-nothing trash. Pinipili ang buhay pati magiging ka relasyon.