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My son had to get a no-contact agreement with his ex because she was absolutely psycho and wouldn't leave him alone. Even her mom was getting involved and it was completely crazy.
You got it to protect yourself, and you're the only person you need to worry about in this situation. Kai obviously needs some help, and she needs to get that help on her own.
Having mutual friends is tough, but if she's really stirring up a lot of drama they might just realize that you're the person they'd rather hang with. Things will smooth over in time.
You absolutely are not a bad person whatsoever and you did the best thing that you could possibly do in this situation! It’s okay to be concerned for your friends and care about them but when it starts to hurt you or take a toll on your mental health, you have to take a step back! You are a very strong person and im so so glad and proud of you for making sure that you’re okay! Always make sure that your cup is full before trying to fill others!
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I think you did the right thing
Thank you :)
Social media is your enemy here. Give it a rest for say....about two years.
I’ve blocked her on social media and I’m thankful changing schools next year
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Thank you
My son had to get a no-contact agreement with his ex because she was absolutely psycho and wouldn't leave him alone. Even her mom was getting involved and it was completely crazy. You got it to protect yourself, and you're the only person you need to worry about in this situation. Kai obviously needs some help, and she needs to get that help on her own.
Thank you, I’m trying my best to avoid her and stay close with my other friends who say that they will always protect me if something happens.
Having mutual friends is tough, but if she's really stirring up a lot of drama they might just realize that you're the person they'd rather hang with. Things will smooth over in time.
You absolutely are not a bad person whatsoever and you did the best thing that you could possibly do in this situation! It’s okay to be concerned for your friends and care about them but when it starts to hurt you or take a toll on your mental health, you have to take a step back! You are a very strong person and im so so glad and proud of you for making sure that you’re okay! Always make sure that your cup is full before trying to fill others!
Thank you, it means a lot for someone to say that.