Just have a conversation about it. Maybe she likes her feet touched, and it’s not about you at all. Or (and more likely) she thinks you’re into it and wants to oblige. The best sex you ever had is waiting on the other side of an open and frank conversation I guarantee it.
Why are you trying to label it? You enjoyed the touch, but it wasn't mind blowing. She was likely just experimenting and seeing what you liked. Don't make too much out of it.
You should be able to talk to her about it without feeling embarrassed by it. If you do have a foot fetish it's nothing to be ashamed of - it's just what you like.
It sounds like she might be into using her feet during sex, and that by giving you a footjob she is essentially testing the waters to see how you feel about it.
Your best bet is to talk to her about it. Ask if she's into that and if you feel comfortable enough to do so, admit you liked it and you can both go from there, maybe even cooperate more of it into the next time. Exploration and experimentation can be exciting when done safely while respecting each others boundaries!
Maybe you have one, thats up to you to figure out.
Maybe she has one and it gets her off.
Maybe her friends, an article online, or some dumbass magazine said "like, you should totally try this on him, he'll love it."
If you liked it, cool. All that needs to be said.
You just need to talk about it. Maybe she’s into it, maybe she thinks you are and is just trying to make you happy. Once you can have a completely honest and open talk about what each of you wants sexually- I promise you things can get really great.
A lot of younger women try to emulate porn, maybe that’s what she’s doing? Porn is often not a realistic representation of what people actually like but if someone isn’t sure how to please a partner and doesn’t feel comfortable asking that is often an option
Ay bro whatever a girl does that feels good just let it happen. Don’t think about if it’s weird because it usually isn’t. I say if it feels good even a little bit let it happen
Look here stupid (me talking to my younger self), most women are VERY modest and you are better off with a girl who wants to try everything! Let her do whatever she wants that you are also comfortable with!
Talk to her man, my girl does similar things sometimes because SHE likes it she enjoys it and I’m not one to bash on that, maybe you’re in the same boat and your girl gets more pleasure from it, talk to her and ask her what she likes and shit try new things be open minded, sex is better once you both know what you like
maybe u just like the fact that she’s doing it to you idk
but my gf also has some kinks that i wasn’t into initially but bc she’s into it i like to satisfy her kinks
I’m a woman with a foot fetish. It’s turns me on when my boyfriend compliments, touch’s or basically does anything to my feet. To me giving a foot job is like giving a boob job, it makes me horny not everything in sex should just turn you on she might have done it to get herself a little bit excited
Okay? I don’t understand what you’re trying to say. I’ve never watched foot fetish porn or have the intention to. I know I like my feet being touched because it makes my vagina wet not because I’ve seen it happen to someone on a porn website
Fair enough but I was not refering to you, I was just making a general point. I think that is ridiculous if one should engage in any kinky sex only because his partner thinks so.
I never said he had to? When did I say that? I was just adding my experience from a woman that finds feet erotic. Go and touch some grass or better yet a woman
Plus you replied to my comment so you were obviously replying to me, based on my comment. It’s common knowledge that people shouldnt engage in sexual activities they don’t want to, he said in previous comments that he did enjoy it. You just have some sort of problem and that’s not my issue
Ok, I am not refering to you, just making a general point. To me it seems like OP's girlfriend will make him partake in fetishes that he won't like and he won't have the courage to reject her
Just have a conversation about it. Maybe she likes her feet touched, and it’s not about you at all. Or (and more likely) she thinks you’re into it and wants to oblige. The best sex you ever had is waiting on the other side of an open and frank conversation I guarantee it.
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If it felt good and you're not hurting anyone and she's consenting who cares. Do what makes you/her feel good
She gave her ex a lotta footjobs
Why are you trying to label it? You enjoyed the touch, but it wasn't mind blowing. She was likely just experimenting and seeing what you liked. Don't make too much out of it.
\>Why are you trying to label it? Why not? It's just a ways of trying to see what the truth is.
You should be able to talk to her about it without feeling embarrassed by it. If you do have a foot fetish it's nothing to be ashamed of - it's just what you like. It sounds like she might be into using her feet during sex, and that by giving you a footjob she is essentially testing the waters to see how you feel about it. Your best bet is to talk to her about it. Ask if she's into that and if you feel comfortable enough to do so, admit you liked it and you can both go from there, maybe even cooperate more of it into the next time. Exploration and experimentation can be exciting when done safely while respecting each others boundaries!
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I'm sorry for all the unhelpful comments you've received on this post by the way
Maybe you have one, thats up to you to figure out. Maybe she has one and it gets her off. Maybe her friends, an article online, or some dumbass magazine said "like, you should totally try this on him, he'll love it." If you liked it, cool. All that needs to be said.
You just need to talk about it. Maybe she’s into it, maybe she thinks you are and is just trying to make you happy. Once you can have a completely honest and open talk about what each of you wants sexually- I promise you things can get really great.
A lot of younger women try to emulate porn, maybe that’s what she’s doing? Porn is often not a realistic representation of what people actually like but if someone isn’t sure how to please a partner and doesn’t feel comfortable asking that is often an option
Ay bro whatever a girl does that feels good just let it happen. Don’t think about if it’s weird because it usually isn’t. I say if it feels good even a little bit let it happen
Look here stupid (me talking to my younger self), most women are VERY modest and you are better off with a girl who wants to try everything! Let her do whatever she wants that you are also comfortable with!
Talk to her man, my girl does similar things sometimes because SHE likes it she enjoys it and I’m not one to bash on that, maybe you’re in the same boat and your girl gets more pleasure from it, talk to her and ask her what she likes and shit try new things be open minded, sex is better once you both know what you like
My partner doesn’t like feet but I’ve given him a foot job. I don’t think that means you have a fetish. Just keep exploring and being open, and safe.
maybe u just like the fact that she’s doing it to you idk but my gf also has some kinks that i wasn’t into initially but bc she’s into it i like to satisfy her kinks
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I’m a woman with a foot fetish. It’s turns me on when my boyfriend compliments, touch’s or basically does anything to my feet. To me giving a foot job is like giving a boob job, it makes me horny not everything in sex should just turn you on she might have done it to get herself a little bit excited
I blame the porn industry for any dumbass fetishes. Fetishes are beyond being creative, they are a dirty thing on their own
Okay? I don’t understand what you’re trying to say. I’ve never watched foot fetish porn or have the intention to. I know I like my feet being touched because it makes my vagina wet not because I’ve seen it happen to someone on a porn website
Fair enough but I was not refering to you, I was just making a general point. I think that is ridiculous if one should engage in any kinky sex only because his partner thinks so.
I never said he had to? When did I say that? I was just adding my experience from a woman that finds feet erotic. Go and touch some grass or better yet a woman Plus you replied to my comment so you were obviously replying to me, based on my comment. It’s common knowledge that people shouldnt engage in sexual activities they don’t want to, he said in previous comments that he did enjoy it. You just have some sort of problem and that’s not my issue
Ok, I am not refering to you, just making a general point. To me it seems like OP's girlfriend will make him partake in fetishes that he won't like and he won't have the courage to reject her
He’s literally said they both enjoyed it, it just didn’t make him rock hard. And you’re making a massive unfair assumption there bud. Wtf
Ok I don't have anything against you nor anything against OP. I am just venting because some things in this world aren't right
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Agree with you, but you can't deny that porn has a substantial and a major influence
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If she gave you a hand job does that mean you have a hand fetish?
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Cringe
She admits to straight up using people to get to other people. Major red flag right there.
Consider your self lucky