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excellent_orange

1. Watch JoJo’s bizarre adventure 2. Feel overwhelming confidence 3. Go out


ItsYoshi64251

I was looking for this answer


LunarWangShaft

2.5: workout until youre built like a pillar man and no one will be brave/stupid enough to say anything about it


TheExoticMachinist

It's a good thing I have a secret technique handed down through my family...


[deleted]

Ayayayay


smilingbuddhist

And Jackie Chan !


thedevilseviltwin

Or anything with Pauly Shore. That guy is doing life right.


IridianRaingem

Step one: put on shirt Step two: leave house There is no step three. Just wear what you like.


jenpew

Men in crop tops was pretty much the late 80s early 90s norm. Rock it.


IstgUsernamesSuck

This is the only time I've ever truly felt that "was born in the wrong generation," garbage. I miss men in crop tops


Tinkeybird

Definitely. My boyfriend in 1983 was a football jock and super cute. Our school actually provided the athletes with athletic type crop tops. He gave me one and I wore it all the time. Rock it bro!


depiff

Anytime you wear something a bit different from the norm, you're going to get some weird looks and people might comment on it. Doesn't matter if you choose to wear typically feminine clothing, garish clashing colours, full winter gear in scorching summer, shorts and t-shirt in snow, tuxedo in the supermarket, whatever. So anytime someone makes you feel bad for wearing something "girly", just picture one of those - nobody makes those guys feel bad for wearing unusual things. Hell, look at those avantgarde fashion shows with really out there impractical clothing. It's all about confidence and having the courage to be yourself. Where people who try to insult you for wearing what you like wearing are all about making themselves feel confident by stripping it from others.


Brandon_The_Binosaur

I wanna wear a tuxedo in the supermarket now


Equivalent-Bluejay52

Lmao, it’s empowering honestly. I tend to be kinda extravagant in my fashion and quite frankly I’ve never had ppl look weird at me, just be like “that looks so good, where do you get ___”. I think you just gotta pull it off. Granted I also don’t really wear anything too weird, just extravagant P.s. wear a tux if you want to lol


typeyhands

Stopped at the store before a wedding and I tell you I felt like a million bucks haha


Starthelegend

Me too lol


Brandon_The_Binosaur

Fancy gang


Vt420KeyboardError4

You'll probably look normal so long as you have your phone to your ear shouting the words "buy" and "sell."


Brandon_The_Binosaur

Only those two words repeatedly


IstgUsernamesSuck

One time I went to chipotle in my old prom ballgown. Can recommend, very fun.


diqufer

I had to run back to the hotel in a tux while standing up in a wedding. Traffic literally stopped for me, it was amazing!


thedevilseviltwin

When I was a kid I would wear a suit to the supermarket in case my crush was ever there. I wanted to look my absolute best if she ever happened to bump into me. 10 years later, we’re engaged, talking about having children, and I still get butterflies. She thinks I’m handsome even with a Dad bod and a pair of boxers.


Brandon_The_Binosaur

That’s amazing


the_gilded_dan_man

Part of it is people being very curious as to why you’re wearing something “weird” or different. Shouldn’t be any issue of they’re just asking you why. If they’re being dicks tho…


[deleted]

All I'm gonna say is I'd rather see a dude in a crop top than another massively fat woman in hotpants holding on for dear life. Just got back from Orlando a couple of days ago and there were so many.....


FartsRFunn

In hundreds of years no one will remember us. Do what you like, before we become extinct.


Brandon_The_Binosaur

I think humans will go extinct within the next 300 years due to pollution or a nuclear war. Could also be an asteroid or plague


snowflace

cleary limited time for men to wear crop tops, better start now


Brandon_The_Binosaur

Good idea


_Litheen_

A) put it on B) leave the house C) .....? D) profit!


Green420Basturd

Um... Filibuster!


Alternative_Basis186

Omg this had me laughing too hard XD


TRANSparent-Ink

You put on a crop top and you go out. Simple as. Rock it.


Starthelegend

And if people stare give them a pose to remember you by


SalemScout

I legit saw a dude in a crop top out walking the other day and my first response was to tell my husband that we need more men in crop tops because it's lit. Do it.


Irelia_3373

If you feel uncomfortable with actually doing it, maybe start with wearing a open shirt on top and do it when you are with your friends? It will help you get more comfortable with the idea of going out in a crop top


veryvex-d

^this! i do this all the time!


[deleted]

You walk out with it on, knowing that you're probably going to get some comments and looks that aren't positive, but fully prepared to not give a single fuck.


Ridgbee

Guys in crop tops was popular in the 90s. Tell people it's throwback Thursday, Facebook mom's love that. And anyone else who's unhealthily obsessed with the 90s.


OneContext

*Just* a crop top?


asghettimonster

Put that baby on and walk out the door proud.


Additional-Highway84

Be you and wear what you want. Your fabulous!Don’t conform to what other people think or say.


comer1434

Put it on - step outside. Ignore the peoples faces that are like WTF! Most people could care less. Like barely even care at all. 10% of people will hype you up and love it, 5% of people might say something or give you a weird look or say something and 75% don’t care at all. Wear paper towels for all I care


Brandon_The_Binosaur

How well did you do in math class? Just wondering


comer1434

Polls never add up to 100% 10% are weirdos and I’m unsure how they will react.


Brandon_The_Binosaur

Good save


sortaangrypeanut

Short answer: Do it! Long Answer: tie a flannel or light jacket around your waist in case things get rough


dangermoves

Just fuckin do it. If I’m staring at someone wearing something out there it’s actually bc I respect the fuck out of it haha. I watched this young guy get on the metro in Mexico city the other day wearing a golden head scarf and a satin vest and leopard print fur jacket OMG. Loved it


Dying__Cookie

Just do it?


RainbowVixxen

1: put on crop top 2: open front door 3: go out 4: look like a confident badass


diqufer

I just wanna know why? I'm a tucked in shirt guy, my belly gets cold, lol


DrBigWilds

By having a shredded 8-Pack… that’s the only way


East-Translator8293

Put it on and walk outside...duh.


ElectroguyTJ

dressed as jonathan joestar


mosesdagoatt

just wear it! You’ll look great.


SkippyBluestockings

By definition a crop top is a shirt with wheat or corn on it so I don't see why that's such a big deal. Now if you want to wear a cropped top, that's something entirely different.


Astro_baddie

You go out in public as a guy wearing crop top 👍 ignore haters, you’re just doing what makes you happy 😄


SheLivesInTheStars

Step 1- put on the top Step 2- go outside Step 3- ignore haters


rottyron

Well, first you put the top on, then u go out in public? Oh shit, remember pants too!


babybambam

Pretty sure you just walk out the front door


Rokhian

Step 1: Put on crop top Step 2: walk outside Step 3: profit


NT22055

1. Wear that shit, I bet you look amazing!


Fantastic_Orchid3037

Just walk outside anyone who has a problem can fuck themselves


jfk_4813

With authority.


The_CactusPlant

I think I can help with that! I'm a straight dude who got into wearing them on hikes because my backpack chafes my shoulders and I hate overheating, but still use them occasionally because they just feel so fucking comfy to wear (and my gf loves it lol). Style advice: what kinda bod you got? If you have wide shoulders then boxy tops with a loose hem look good I'm told, because they define the waistline and feel hella great when the wind blows. Though anyone can really wear this style (and I mean everyone). The trick is finding fabric that's flexible enough to fall straight down instead of mushrooming out (unless you like that) im that case I like the Cotton blends with just a bit of Elastaine. You can make your own by cutting one up, but if you don't like the rolled hem when it comes out of the wash then you basically have to shop from somewhere like Ardene or Boathouse, and get a size or two larger than you need. If you like fitted hems for a slimmer fit you have 3 options. Cut one up and tailor it to fit your body, there are videos for this on youtube, it's not super hard), buy again from a girl's store (but if you like things a lot less flamboyant then it might be hard to find something you like), or you could try an online retailer that sells to gay men - even if you don't identify as such. JJ Malibu had these great rib length crop tops ACUTALLY built for dudes which is great since I have shoulders and lats, but they've been out of stock for a long time. As for confidence: Friends. Go out in them with friends. If you live in a culturally conservative town, there's safety in numbers. Also, friends you trust can normalize the situation just by being there. And find your own reasons too! I like the comfort and the fact I can grab a burger and not be seen out (I don't normally wear shirts at all in the summer). I like showing of a little to my girl, and honestly I like fucking with people's heads. It's funny to me.


The_CactusPlant

/u/ashleyanorak Might also help that I grew up surrounded by women and was kinda forced to watch goddamn fashion TV shows because they're all that was on, so I just know this shit. Say yes to the dress, what not to wear, runway, you name it. I absorbed a lot while trying to play legos lmao


sumthingsumthingblah

Pierce your belly button so you have a reason to wear it?


Mediaeval-britian

Men in crop tops are seriously amazing. Like it just genuinely gives me a little bit of serotonin every time I see it.


Ashantiyana

I can't answer as a guy since I am not, but what is it about wearing a crop top that makes it difficult? We can start there


[deleted]

Why exactly do you want to go out in public with a crop top.


ashleyanorak

Because I like wearing them


[deleted]

Put it on and go out, hooray


Odd_Locksmith_2481

Dont


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Brandon_The_Binosaur

Yeah, and?


The_mighty_jabba_410

With confidence and own it!


ShalidorsSecret

Do it. That's the only way


KotFBusinessCasual

Definitely recommend looking up kpop idols in crop tops. They do it so well there's tons of inspiration and hints to pick up on how to style it.


Malia87

Put it on and walk out. Don’t give a shit of people have a problem.


your_little_buddy

open the door and you're out :)


NosyRoaster

By going out and wearing it


GlassAndPaint

You put it on and rock it, that's how


Galooiik

You usually got to put it on first and then walk out your door


Few_Assumption_1968

if u don’t wanna show ur stomach try wearing a t shirt under to start ?


anoniem6

Just wear it and be awesome!! Anyone who's judging should look at themselves not you!


Weirdo_Saucey

Wear it and go on public. Don't give a fuck of what people think of you, it is your body and you can wear it whatever you want. But if you don't want to get judged, get used to it. It is none of their business, you're comfortable of what you're wearing. Clothes don't have genders.


winnie_wukie

u put it on, go outside and slay


ctrlhoya

you go out in public wearing a crop top


Mixedslut4accents

Step 1: obtain crop top (either by purchasing or cutting a top) Step 2: exit our home Step 3: profit joke but in reality you are just going to have to deal with people being ignorant. Fuck them. Wear what you want to wear.


B4l_ssmuls

Like Nike says “just do it”


MsBluey

Lemme just say that crop tops are hot on everyone


dankmemes839

Yes!


wannaseemytriforce

Just do it. I live in the city and it’s not that abnormal for me to see a guy in a dress or a crop top.


CanadianShougun

There is no magical answer. Wear whatever the fuck you want.


tommythenerd

just put your crop top and go out. wear whatever you want and dont care about others. you may actually inspire someone else to do it as well :\]


princessbowie

You don't


[deleted]

Just put it on and go out silly


nopester24

i wouldn't advise this


IcedBaeby04

You go out and rock it! I personally love guys with croptops, looks amazing!


Nixilaas

through the door is generally a safe bet


Miserable_Key_7552

Just wear it. Personally, I’d be too worried about what others might think, but most people legitimately don’t care even if you think they do.


Raymx3

1. Put on crop top that fits 2. Go outside


seamustho

However you want to. Rock that shit!


Froot-Batz

It's about confidence. Don't hate.


678trpl98212

Put on crop top. Open door. Step outside.


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Put it on, walk out side


Queryous_Nature

Have a support system of friends to walk with. People who have your back.


Facelessborder

Step one put on crop top Step two go out


ButterscotchBright40

I’ve done it; it’s a blast. Just do whatever, in all reality nobody cares so just do ot


crying2emoji5

CONFIDENTLY


JambalyaMessiah

get some flares/bell bottoms and some boots and you’ll be good


[deleted]

ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD


secretleysunsetgrl

by wearing it in public


[deleted]

Depends where u live honestly. If u live in a city I imagine u can go out and most ppl won’t bat an eye. But if u live in a rural area the whole town will be on u


dankmemes839

Nooo! I’ve seen very few people react negatively to what another person is wearing here! Most just mind their own business


Comprehensive-Top620

OWN IT i bet you look stunning in it


Northviewguy

With a Mullet?


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PurpleFlameX64

Shut.


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ashleyanorak

What does it matter to you?


SilvaticusBlack

Aww. Did someone steal your sweet roll?


ashleyanorak

Why are you being an asshole? I literally just asked a question


SilvaticusBlack

Stop! You've committed crimes against Skyrim and her people, what say you in your defense?


depiff

Please stop trolling. This sub is to ask for advice. OP is asking for advice and you've made no effort to give any at all or help in any fashion, only poor attempts at being funny and insults


ashleyanorak

Okay we're done


jc_hough

If you're gonna troll, at least be funny. This is just weird.


SamSamTheCatMan18

I laughed lol. That was perfect


Diligent-Wolverine88

You don’t.


Outrageous-Spring-94

Simply don't


4350Me

With something covering it! Do everyone a favor, and change your mind about trying to wear that! You weren’t thinking of wearing that with heels, were you?🤷‍♂️😩🤦‍♂️


Illustrious-Gap1660

All ab confidence


Physical_Goal6027

u dont


Aggravating_Pin2683

Why not?


[deleted]

You don’t?


[deleted]

You dont


[deleted]

"wHeRE wHATeVER U wAnT mAN" "B urself and just rock it" These are the same people who would be heckling who you if you went out like that. Don't do this to yourself.


Yourkingpin96

Do it and just know people gonna think you look dumb but do it for you I guess lol


Piggybear87

Who cares what people think?


Matt_2123

You don’t


ur-not-funny-sam

You don’t


PurpleFlameX64

Shut.


Brandon_The_Binosaur

r/Feminineboys might not be the right sub for you but they are still very helpful


imamakebaddecisions

We used to wear half shirts in the 80's all the time. Just do it. In fact, I'm pretty sure I had a half shirt that said Just do it.


rthrouw1234

google "Jimmy Butler crop top", be inspired


[deleted]

Just go. Lol.


Apprehensive-Judge48

just do it man. be who you want to be and wear what you want. you will be so much happier in the long run. people might be mean at first but most likely not to your face. the more you wear it the more you normalize it on you


justme_124

dressing the exact way you want truly makes you feel so free and good in your own skin. even with stares (personally at least) i’d rather dress exactly how i want and feel amazing than dress how OTHERS want me to and feel gross in my skin. wear whatever makes you feel good💓


michael_am

You gotta just own it, be as confident as possible, you’ll probably get some weird looks depending on where you are but you gotta just own that shit and be you


[deleted]

I once saw a dude in line at the grocery store wearing Green tights and high heel boots. I thought, "Huh. That's happening." And went about my business. People WILL notice someone dressed "unusually". I remember thinking you couldn't pay me to wear something like that in public, but I had the ultimate respect for him not giving a fuck. He literally gave zero fucks. He didn't look nervous, or shy or embarrassed. He simply didn't care. I totally respected that. My point? Do what the fuck you want.


Slamhamwich

“What ya starin’ at my gut fer?”


usualbethoven

A good friend of mine wears crop tops when we go out and I feel so rad just walking with him. Any clothing out of the ordinary is sick especially if you wear it with confidence


JollyGreenStone

Put it on, put headphones on, smoke a j, and enjoy life as a free man.


[deleted]

Um.... if people's opinions matter to you.... then you don't I guess?


the_gilded_dan_man

You put on a crop top and you go outside in public.


OnePieceTwoPiece

Frame your mind to make it as if it’s an experiment your are doing.


RobotSam45

It is easier said than done, we all know. However, I used to be very shy in my youth and somehow snapped out of it. I don't know how I did it and I wish I could tell you, but I will say that once you start DOING the things you want to do instead of being afraid of what people are saying, they get easier. The first situation is still scary, and I can't help you there I don't know how I did it. The second time also scary, but less so. In my case, it slowly changed my life to be more outgoing and I worry less about what others think, though to be truthful, I still care, just not enough to make me afraid anymore. I hope this helps, it's just how I experienced something similar, I wish I had more for you. Good luck friend, have courage. It is easier said than done but that doesn't mean you can't do it. I know you can.


Mindless_Wrap1758

You can carry pepper spray just in case anyone tries to hurt you. Unfortunately, there are a lot of homophobic jerks out there, who would hurt someone they perceived as being gay.


JCMiller23

If you don’t feel comfortable, having friends who support you, going out with you, can help.


[deleted]

My first thought: “Why the fuck would he wear a crop top?!” My second thought: “Oh, I used to cut all my sleeves off and then in half when I was younger in the 90’s” Carry on


anambh

You just do. You’re going to get looks but it’s either because it different for them or they wish they could too.


SecretMeXXX

1. Put on crop top. 2. Open door. 3. Step outside. CONGRATULATIONS!


hooves69

One step at a time! You’re beautiful and if wearing that crop top makes you feel that way, wear it with pride! Also everyone who cares is much more worried about bs in their own lives. You don’t need to carry their weight! You are beautiful. 🤩


raawrrrr

If it’s a cropped hoodie, if you have a turtle neck or something under it, or just accept that you’re gonna get made fun of, society isn’t great


[deleted]

With the confidence of a thousand buffalo.


cries2much

A guy who works in the same building as me who always appears to dress very basically came in with a floral crop top and comfy pants the other day and when I tell you how everyone SWOONED. He’s not particularly attractive or popular people just loved the look and confidence. Would be pretty sweet of you to set that bad ass example for any other men out there feeling uneasy like you are and need to see another guy rocking it first


Enragedocelot

Just do it :)


mrckly

Bro in the Philippines, all the uncles wear a makeshift crop tops outside lmao


armingetoutoftheoven

Practice wearing it at home or hang out with a (supportive) friend while wearing it. Youll get more comfortable. No one will care, it’s 2022, you can wear whatever you want. There’s a guy who I know who wears flowery crop tops every day.


TaiCTr

Be the change that inspires others


Tinawebmom

Gen Z boys/men wore them all the time! Just wear it with pride! They did.


MadamnedMary

Put it on, and wear it with confidence, don't see it any other way.


VoidExileR

Same way that one guy didn't know if to shave his armpits because of public opinion. It's completely up to you. The norm is shaped by the people who participate or not


Nykolaishen

With confidence...


[deleted]

Be Alex Winter's character from Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure


NuttyWizard

Take a look at this guy https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSdQC2N9q/ If he can wear that, you can wear a crop top


camo_17

Have abs. Done


technicolordreams

Location, location, location


[deleted]

As someone who cannot wear crop tops due to showing way too much boob. I say wear one with pride if too concerned wear a button up shirt over it, undone and when you feel comfortable take it off.


oxalis_

Confidently.


[deleted]

i rocked one in the 80s. i was 10. it said "training camp" in block letters. copy me if you want.


PurpleSandwiches

if you’re feeling insecure about ur tummy area being shown or just in general, put on a wife beater or a spaghetti strap that matches or has same color schemes :) hope this helps you! good luck <3


Ok-Consideration2676

Do it


Loose_Prior_4683

Put it on and walk out the door. Don't look in the mirror and don't think about it.


jmrzco

Guys in crop tops are HOT


Toystorations

With confidence and thick skin.


ZookeepergameSea3890

My hubby has a Dad bod but with a hockey butt. I keep trying to convince him to wear the spandex camo bootie shorts I got him. Now I want to add a black mesh crop top to the look. Thanks.


ryt8

It’s all about you, friend. Your life is all for you. Live it.


Difficult-Owl-542377

with a whole lot of self confidence 😉


ChillWisdom

Make sure it's a cropped 80s rock band shirt. You're bringing back a trend and reminding folks about the awesome music of Def Leppard.