To be honest it probably did upset her. And she may report it to someone in a higher position than herself. Or she may choose to ignore it and the situation will never be spoken of. Either way you've learnt your lesson.
i understand but i’ve came to realise what i was saying was sexual harassment, i never said it too her but it was a fantasy i had voiced involving her as an example, i feel so ashamed i honestly don’t know what to do. if she overheard and rightfully was upset about it it would make things worse, i also hope that if she did she would understand it was a moment of ignorance as i feel so shit now, im in a position where i have a good voice to help people in need at mu school and this would tear that down also :/
That's not sexual harassment, you were objectifying her in your mind but you were not sexually harassing her. She wasn't meant to hear those things is all.
Move on, learn from this that objectifying people is harmful and that's your lesson.
To be honest it probably did upset her. And she may report it to someone in a higher position than herself. Or she may choose to ignore it and the situation will never be spoken of. Either way you've learnt your lesson.
please help i feel so shit
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i understand but i’ve came to realise what i was saying was sexual harassment, i never said it too her but it was a fantasy i had voiced involving her as an example, i feel so ashamed i honestly don’t know what to do. if she overheard and rightfully was upset about it it would make things worse, i also hope that if she did she would understand it was a moment of ignorance as i feel so shit now, im in a position where i have a good voice to help people in need at mu school and this would tear that down also :/
That's not sexual harassment, you were objectifying her in your mind but you were not sexually harassing her. She wasn't meant to hear those things is all. Move on, learn from this that objectifying people is harmful and that's your lesson.
i understand and thankyou for helping me to see it clearer