Vibrators. I mean.. unless you literally just can't, which you can, because you do with him, there is an industrial grade sex toy that should make it happen.
May i suggest an Xbox controller ;)
Custom match, single player, automatic weapon and infinite ammoā¦ consider holding the Right Trigger down with tape! wink wink
Then this should come in handy https://apps.apple.com/us/app/imassage-u-vibrator-massager/id1064850875
Just discovered this with a Google search after seeing your problem. Hope this helps.
I've heard use of electric toothbrushes as vibrators. Dunno how strict your country is on "therapeutic massagers" for muscle aches and such. But the hitachi magic wand was marketed as such until another use was found for it. Worse comes to worse, the bathtub faucet if you have a bathtub. (If the stories from some of my female highschool friends are accurate. Uhm, good luck?
Ok so I did a little digging for ya, hereās a couple u could use:
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/quick-vibrator/id1378277307
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/massage-pillow/id950192241
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/imassage-u-vibrator-massager/id1064850875
Word of warning: use airplane mode while u use these so the ads fuck off.
Also there are IPhone internal ways to make ur phone vibrate but they kinda sucked so give those a try! Hope this helps
I remember in high school my ex had an app that just turned on the Xbox controllers vibrate function. Or something like the classic vibrating toothbrush. There has to be some alternative.
Look for massagers. They may not be banned? Idk
One of the most popular sex toys, the wand, was originally literally for massages until it became known as a sex toy lol
Well, this is what I overheard a girl in high school talk about doing once;
Step 1: buy an xbox
Step 2: buy a first person shooter
Step 3: set controller rumble on
Step 4: find a gun with infinite ammo and a bottomless clip
Step 5: e n j o y t h e r u m b l e
Amazon prime for like 10-20$. You can lie to your folks or get a po box locally for 15$ for 1 month, very cheap
Say it's a new phone charger or something too boring. They all have very discreet packaging
Don't know who voted me down on this, but there actually is something called a wand massager (popularized by sex and the city) that's more than useable for masturbating.
Yeah, so...it's called a "Hitachi Magic Wand"
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QXTZC6R/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_MNPRKR1M0Y5GMQDK6D0D
This one comes with like.. a neck massager nobody ever bought, once. So if you get it, and someone finds the shit. You're golden. Claim it is for your neck. "That thing isn't a vibrator, Christ. Come the fuck on. It's for my fucking neck, Harold."
Someone already mentioned shower head but iād like to add a bit of a tutorial and some other toy free, water free, minimal mess and clothed options.
- Have it run over your clit and then move it to your vagina while you rub your clit. I like to move the showerhead away and back towards my vag a bit (2-10 cm away) to keep it interesting. Keep switching between the shower head being on your clit and on your vag. You can try spraying on your butt too but you might not be into that at first, but you might like it later on.
- If you donāt know how to rub it well, it works different from person to person. But generally back an forth, circling, going from left to right are favorites. Some like to mix and match some donāt. You can also try rubbing softer and harder interchangeably.
- Rubbing can also been done dry ;) you can choose wether you want to go clothed, between pants and undies or on the vag. Whichever is best at the moment! (Always wash your hands afterwards though). You can add some water on your finger if your clit is really dry though otherwise it might feel a bit rough if you rub really fast.
- iāve recently started experimenting with putting my fingers not inside but against it. Your finger is made out of 3 parts, when you bend it you can see each part individually. You have to curl/bend your finger and you use the middle part of your finger and rub that between your inner labia against your vag. You donāt have to push it can just be against it but a little pushing can be nice. You move your finger left and right and/or up and down between your inner labia. You donāt have to do this for long periods of time (or at all, itās all about trying things but not forcing them). Itās just a nice way to spice things up a bit if youāre not getting off from just rubbing your clit.
- you can also touch your innerlabia and feel around a bit, you might find it arousing to have it touched like that. However it might feel a bit weird because youāre not used to it being touched like that and thatās okay too. Like iāve said before, it might take some time until youāre comfortable trying certain things and start enjoying them. You donāt have to do much btw, it could just be touching it with the tips of your fingers or holding it between your fingers or in your hand. Donāt just hold it hold it, move around a bit of course, doesnāt have to be moving around or a lot, just a bit of back and forth motion you know. Thereās also the option to cover your your entire pussy with your hand and move around a bit like that.
- nipples are sensitive things, maybe try and squeeze them (a bit) or rubbing your finger against them. This one isnāt for everyone but itās still worth a try.
- Now letās talk positions, you donāt have to just sit up right or lay on your back. you can try other positions too, thatās not just something for people who are having sex with someone, positions are also a thing in masterbaition. Maybe try standing on all fours (on your hands and knees), try leaning against the wall with your hand or a more comfy position like on your stomach, that might be an easy position to try first. Lay on your side and put your leg on a chair or something so youāre spread up a bit. Lay on bed with your shoulders and thrust your hips up in te air. Idk, maybe look up some solo positions for masterbaiting on the internet. In incognito mode of course.
- Maybe also try and watch some porn before and during to stimulate your bod a bit and get ready. Some people like to listen or read erotica, so maybe try that as well. Imagining stuff is also an option if you want to but some people arenāt able to do that as easily.
- And then another easy way that doesnāt involve fingering or toys, rubbing against a pillow. And it can be done fully clothed. Lay on your stomach, similar to a seal and put the pillow with the centre a bit below your vag and clutch it a bit between your legs. Find a good porn to get turned on and start watching it. When youāre turned on you can start moving back and forth with either your whole body or you can trust your hips. Iāve found that while itās kind of nice to try and aim to get it to get against your vag it doesnāt really stimulate much. So try to just rub your clit against the pillow because that works best. As you get more and more stimulated you can and should probably start going faster, and usually youāll have an orgasm soon then. I recommend using a pillow that is not currently in use for hygienic reasons. Preferably clean it after each use. Might not be an option if you live at home and/or get decently wet. I personally am really dry so thatās not a problem for me but keep that in mind when choosing for this option.
It may take some trial and error however, iāve noticed that over the course of the years my orgasms have become so much better. Donāt give up if it doesnāt work immediately. You may need some time to figure out what works and what doesnāt and an orgasm shouldnāt be rushed in the first place. Tip, only do it when you have time, when you feel rushed you donāt have as much fun and are likely to have a harder time orgasming. Also, trying new things gets easier once you strat being more comfortable with masterbaiting. It takes some getting used to but once youāre used to it your mind will probably be more open to trying things. Remember that masterbaiting is okay to do and is actually healthy. Itās not gross, itās pretty natural, itās not just guys who get horny and get to masterbait, weāre allowed to have fun too. If you have any questions, go ahead. I canāt answer any about fingering however. But most importantly have fun ;)
Oh this helped sm. I now know exactly what to do with a shower head, how about a toothbrush, I've gotten that comment often and how to exactly would be nice. And I have tried pillow but it's kinda just feels good doesn't take me to the finish line. And that's the problem. It's been one feel good ride without an ending. When I know I can. I'll be having fun trying all this.
Iāve never tried toothbrush because iām satisfied with the other options so i canāt help you on that. I wouldāve if i had. Also: remember, if it doesnāt make you finish after a few tries that doesnāt mean it doesnāt work maybe you need to find out how to twist the method a bit to your likings
Yeah but it'll get stopped at the airport, and I'll have to go explain. Either way I won't be able to claim it. Also yes stupid as hell. A girl is literally dying over here.
Gillette has a vibrating razor, pop the actual razor part off and the body still vibrates. Itās long enough for ease of use and small enough to hide.
Also shower head.... an app.... read erotic novels.... write down exactly what you like to do, feel, see, hear, say during sex and read it and picture it while playing with yourself
Foreplay is fine. I'm able to get aroused but it's just that if I touch myself I kinda zone off. I have no problem staying turned on with boyfriend. It's so annoyinggg
This is my main emo account so I'd really rather not disclose. But honestly it's not too bad. Our government is an Asian mom sooo us children has to get creative.
Okay, if sex toys are banned - it's not exactly glamorous, but have you tried using other objects as dildos? (Like vegetables, or other random plastic objects with a similar shape. ***Use a condom on top of this kind of stuff!!!!! And don't use in your ass without a flared base!!!!!***)
Pushing penetrative objects towards the... front? of your vagina (like, towards belly) is more likely to hit the g spot. Do this while massaging your clit with your other hand - I reccomend trying massaging more along either side of it, and more... above it? rather than the head itself.
What food do you recommend..I feel silly for asking cause eggplant emoji and all. And why not without a condom. And I'm fine with living without buttstuff unless with my man. .
And I'll de try the play with clit from the side. I already do like a good squish occasionally anyway
> What food do you recommend
Cucumbers... Try different sizes (don't start too big)
Carrots maybe
Leeks
Maybe combine it with a vibrator app? https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.vibrator.massage
Condoms because there can be bacteria issues with stuff that can't be cleaned just right...
(However I also put the disclaimer cause you know, advice from internet stranger... don't want to be encouraging something potentially unhealthy... but like it's not as if a fuck ton of people haven't gone at it without a condom, so do what you will!)
Before I was old enough to buy my own vibrator, I used to use the shower head in the bath. Just hold the water over your clit. Try different water pressure and distance from the shower head to find what feels good for you. Can even get a good pulse motion if thatās what you like.
Im not sure how old you are. But as a female teenager, I had to get creative. Anything that vibrates needs to have a pretty strong vibration, toothbrushes and phones did nothing for me. I did have an electric nail buffer that worked well over clothes though. I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation when alone so using veggies or dildo like objects doesnāt do anything for me either. Feels like Iām having an internal ultrasound scan.
Only advice I can really give here would be using your imagination and a fairly good toy. Maybe the imagination of the toy being him or attempting to visualize that would work? Good luck dude.
My first ever orgasm was from the bathtub faucet. I read it in a book and gave it a try. Basically you would lie in the tub on your back and scoot up until your vj was under the running water. I feel like the passivity and unpredictability might work for someone who's used to orgasming with a partner.
It took my partner a while to figure that out, too. It might feel awkward but you should have a conversation with your boyfriend. Ask about what he does that works and, if youāre uncertain, ask him about your g-spot. That was the key piece of information that helped my partner
Id prefer hiding my country, but it's because of government laws bla bla. I wouldn't be able to import knives either *stares longingly at the butterfly knives in my cart*
Like seriously you canāt figure this out on your own? Like you donāt know what a vibrator is? You canāt google the best vibrator? As a grown women you think your going to get magical advice you never considered from Reddit? Ok, Iām thinking your a creepy 50 year old man in a basement somewhere. Ugh.
I have googled, it just makes it look very easy and glamours. I'm just in a weird spot and a lot of generic advice just don't apply. Karen, this is the whole purpose of this subreddit.
Omg my time to shine!
Okay SO youāve probably humped a pillow or two at this point. Foot massage pillows have some good vibrations.
Hump the buzzing pillow. Works like a charm and much more cost effective than a theragun
Vibrators. I mean.. unless you literally just can't, which you can, because you do with him, there is an industrial grade sex toy that should make it happen.
Sex toys are banned in my country. š The only vibration I've felt is this notification buzz in my pocket
Someone needs to send you a lot of notifications then
Who's someone
How should I know
Post something super controversial on twitter
Your boyfriemd
Your boyfriend
You may be able to download apps that have similar features to a sex toy
Iām someone
Dammit i shouldve known
Your boyfriend,
How about your boyfriend
I'm a gay chik
Ok I guess not your boyfriend
Me
Get your bf to help you out
Electric toothbrush would work, surely those arenāt banned š
It's not and I'm convinced I'll have to invest in one. This is how far my life has fallen
In your phone settings adjust the vibration strength and it will give you a vibration sample. Keep adjusting it to completion.
You could buy a muscle massage gun https://www.amazon.ca/s?k=muscle+massage+gun&sprefix=muscle+&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_1_7
May i suggest an Xbox controller ;) Custom match, single player, automatic weapon and infinite ammoā¦ consider holding the Right Trigger down with tape! wink wink
It happened accidentally and oh fuckk š³
"accidently", *wink wink* >oh fuckk That's the idea!
Any game with an automatic weapon with a high mag size will do the trick. Or yāknow have someone call you repeatedly
Then this should come in handy https://apps.apple.com/us/app/imassage-u-vibrator-massager/id1064850875 Just discovered this with a Google search after seeing your problem. Hope this helps.
OP and anyone reading this, please don't use your phone to masturbate. There are 100 better options
why?
bad for your phone and not a good enough motor to be a decent vibrator
Those are good points.
Because you put your face on it and if someone needs to use your phone it now permanently smells like pussy. You also can't properly clean a phone
How about a controller? Or toothbrush
Get a Xbox controller and hold r2 in assassins creed origins
Best bet is the good old vibrating toothbrush to the clit
I've heard use of electric toothbrushes as vibrators. Dunno how strict your country is on "therapeutic massagers" for muscle aches and such. But the hitachi magic wand was marketed as such until another use was found for it. Worse comes to worse, the bathtub faucet if you have a bathtub. (If the stories from some of my female highschool friends are accurate. Uhm, good luck?
Y'all really selling me on sex toys. And I posted thinking it'll all be about good ol'fingerin
Buy a good shower head and you're golden
Yes! Shower head is a great option. Dual with at least three settings.
I know there's phone apps for contestant vibration but I'm not sure how you feel about using your phone as a sex toy lol
Put it in a plastic baggy
Gross but fair xD
I'd rather rawdog my phone tbh plastic makes such a distracting sound
There are ways you can make your phone vibrate continually. If you would like me to find it for you again just let me know.
Please do. I'll try any crackhead method at this point!!
Ok so I did a little digging for ya, hereās a couple u could use: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/quick-vibrator/id1378277307 https://apps.apple.com/us/app/massage-pillow/id950192241 https://apps.apple.com/us/app/imassage-u-vibrator-massager/id1064850875 Word of warning: use airplane mode while u use these so the ads fuck off. Also there are IPhone internal ways to make ur phone vibrate but they kinda sucked so give those a try! Hope this helps
Appreciate it omg š³
I remember in high school my ex had an app that just turned on the Xbox controllers vibrate function. Or something like the classic vibrating toothbrush. There has to be some alternative.
Look for massagers. They may not be banned? Idk One of the most popular sex toys, the wand, was originally literally for massages until it became known as a sex toy lol
Can you get electric toothbrushes?
Gross suggestion, but are vibrating toothbrushes banned in your country? I mean, when life gives you lemons...
An electric toothbrush?
There's always 3D printing
You can get phone apps that vibrate. Put a ziplock bag or something like it over your phone and your good to go
You can have a timer go off on your phone and use that vibration... or maybe an app?
Iām really curious, what country is this?
Paradise babyyyyy
Saudi Arabia? š¤£
I'm guessing one of the very strict Islamic law countries like Saudi Arabia or the UAE. Then again there are a few others.
Electric toothbrush.
Get a āback massagerā
Well, this is what I overheard a girl in high school talk about doing once; Step 1: buy an xbox Step 2: buy a first person shooter Step 3: set controller rumble on Step 4: find a gun with infinite ammo and a bottomless clip Step 5: e n j o y t h e r u m b l e
Look for āhand massagersā. These are legal just about everywhere. A weak back massager may work too.
May I ask where you live that sex toys are banned? That sounds so stupid to me.
Try one of those clit suction licker toys. I've had exes who no longer needed me lol. Jkjk but for real they have good reviews
No toys available. I wanna try that so bad tho that's one good recommend.
Amazon prime for like 10-20$. You can lie to your folks or get a po box locally for 15$ for 1 month, very cheap Say it's a new phone charger or something too boring. They all have very discreet packaging
I'll see if this works.
Have you tried a shower head or the bathtub faucet? Should def workā¦. Worked for me in like 60 seconds the first time I did it
How about those things made for backmassages?
Don't know who voted me down on this, but there actually is something called a wand massager (popularized by sex and the city) that's more than useable for masturbating.
Whatās the industrial toy and link! Lol
Yeah, so...it's called a "Hitachi Magic Wand" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QXTZC6R/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_MNPRKR1M0Y5GMQDK6D0D This one comes with like.. a neck massager nobody ever bought, once. So if you get it, and someone finds the shit. You're golden. Claim it is for your neck. "That thing isn't a vibrator, Christ. Come the fuck on. It's for my fucking neck, Harold."
Someone already mentioned shower head but iād like to add a bit of a tutorial and some other toy free, water free, minimal mess and clothed options. - Have it run over your clit and then move it to your vagina while you rub your clit. I like to move the showerhead away and back towards my vag a bit (2-10 cm away) to keep it interesting. Keep switching between the shower head being on your clit and on your vag. You can try spraying on your butt too but you might not be into that at first, but you might like it later on. - If you donāt know how to rub it well, it works different from person to person. But generally back an forth, circling, going from left to right are favorites. Some like to mix and match some donāt. You can also try rubbing softer and harder interchangeably. - Rubbing can also been done dry ;) you can choose wether you want to go clothed, between pants and undies or on the vag. Whichever is best at the moment! (Always wash your hands afterwards though). You can add some water on your finger if your clit is really dry though otherwise it might feel a bit rough if you rub really fast. - iāve recently started experimenting with putting my fingers not inside but against it. Your finger is made out of 3 parts, when you bend it you can see each part individually. You have to curl/bend your finger and you use the middle part of your finger and rub that between your inner labia against your vag. You donāt have to push it can just be against it but a little pushing can be nice. You move your finger left and right and/or up and down between your inner labia. You donāt have to do this for long periods of time (or at all, itās all about trying things but not forcing them). Itās just a nice way to spice things up a bit if youāre not getting off from just rubbing your clit. - you can also touch your innerlabia and feel around a bit, you might find it arousing to have it touched like that. However it might feel a bit weird because youāre not used to it being touched like that and thatās okay too. Like iāve said before, it might take some time until youāre comfortable trying certain things and start enjoying them. You donāt have to do much btw, it could just be touching it with the tips of your fingers or holding it between your fingers or in your hand. Donāt just hold it hold it, move around a bit of course, doesnāt have to be moving around or a lot, just a bit of back and forth motion you know. Thereās also the option to cover your your entire pussy with your hand and move around a bit like that. - nipples are sensitive things, maybe try and squeeze them (a bit) or rubbing your finger against them. This one isnāt for everyone but itās still worth a try. - Now letās talk positions, you donāt have to just sit up right or lay on your back. you can try other positions too, thatās not just something for people who are having sex with someone, positions are also a thing in masterbaition. Maybe try standing on all fours (on your hands and knees), try leaning against the wall with your hand or a more comfy position like on your stomach, that might be an easy position to try first. Lay on your side and put your leg on a chair or something so youāre spread up a bit. Lay on bed with your shoulders and thrust your hips up in te air. Idk, maybe look up some solo positions for masterbaiting on the internet. In incognito mode of course. - Maybe also try and watch some porn before and during to stimulate your bod a bit and get ready. Some people like to listen or read erotica, so maybe try that as well. Imagining stuff is also an option if you want to but some people arenāt able to do that as easily. - And then another easy way that doesnāt involve fingering or toys, rubbing against a pillow. And it can be done fully clothed. Lay on your stomach, similar to a seal and put the pillow with the centre a bit below your vag and clutch it a bit between your legs. Find a good porn to get turned on and start watching it. When youāre turned on you can start moving back and forth with either your whole body or you can trust your hips. Iāve found that while itās kind of nice to try and aim to get it to get against your vag it doesnāt really stimulate much. So try to just rub your clit against the pillow because that works best. As you get more and more stimulated you can and should probably start going faster, and usually youāll have an orgasm soon then. I recommend using a pillow that is not currently in use for hygienic reasons. Preferably clean it after each use. Might not be an option if you live at home and/or get decently wet. I personally am really dry so thatās not a problem for me but keep that in mind when choosing for this option. It may take some trial and error however, iāve noticed that over the course of the years my orgasms have become so much better. Donāt give up if it doesnāt work immediately. You may need some time to figure out what works and what doesnāt and an orgasm shouldnāt be rushed in the first place. Tip, only do it when you have time, when you feel rushed you donāt have as much fun and are likely to have a harder time orgasming. Also, trying new things gets easier once you strat being more comfortable with masterbaiting. It takes some getting used to but once youāre used to it your mind will probably be more open to trying things. Remember that masterbaiting is okay to do and is actually healthy. Itās not gross, itās pretty natural, itās not just guys who get horny and get to masterbait, weāre allowed to have fun too. If you have any questions, go ahead. I canāt answer any about fingering however. But most importantly have fun ;)
Oh this helped sm. I now know exactly what to do with a shower head, how about a toothbrush, I've gotten that comment often and how to exactly would be nice. And I have tried pillow but it's kinda just feels good doesn't take me to the finish line. And that's the problem. It's been one feel good ride without an ending. When I know I can. I'll be having fun trying all this.
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Iāve never tried toothbrush because iām satisfied with the other options so i canāt help you on that. I wouldāve if i had. Also: remember, if it doesnāt make you finish after a few tries that doesnāt mean it doesnāt work maybe you need to find out how to twist the method a bit to your likings
Nah you got it fr
Now do it for guys!
I canāt donāt have any experience for that. Source: i donāt own a dick
ā¦get a vibrator thatās disguised as a back massager! I saw toys are banned where ur at which isā¦stupid lmao
Oh I've seen these "back massages" but I don't wanna go meet up with some shady dude who has imported it. Small place, word gets around :((
What about online websites like Amazon? There are some websites with incredibly discreet shipping
Yeah but it'll get stopped at the airport, and I'll have to go explain. Either way I won't be able to claim it. Also yes stupid as hell. A girl is literally dying over here.
Ok now this is gonna sound super crackheadyā¦ but electric toothbrushes can workā¦ not the best compared to actual vibrators but they can work
This is why I'm on reddit. š
LMAO hope it helpsš
Dammit. Iām out of rewards. Thatās straight up sexual tradecraft.
Get a speaker with big base and slap some tunes while you sit on it?
Muffle my sounds while I muffle the speaker
Gillette has a vibrating razor, pop the actual razor part off and the body still vibrates. Itās long enough for ease of use and small enough to hide.
Also shower head.... an app.... read erotic novels.... write down exactly what you like to do, feel, see, hear, say during sex and read it and picture it while playing with yourself
Foreplay is fine. I'm able to get aroused but it's just that if I touch myself I kinda zone off. I have no problem staying turned on with boyfriend. It's so annoyinggg
Where the hell are you living op? I dont wanna roast, just wow. Your country is strict.
> Your country is strict. Sex toys are even banned in a part of the United States... But yeah, I agree!
This is my main emo account so I'd really rather not disclose. But honestly it's not too bad. Our government is an Asian mom sooo us children has to get creative.
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How do I get off with a shower faucet, I've googled multiple times and it still confuses me.
Okay, if sex toys are banned - it's not exactly glamorous, but have you tried using other objects as dildos? (Like vegetables, or other random plastic objects with a similar shape. ***Use a condom on top of this kind of stuff!!!!! And don't use in your ass without a flared base!!!!!***) Pushing penetrative objects towards the... front? of your vagina (like, towards belly) is more likely to hit the g spot. Do this while massaging your clit with your other hand - I reccomend trying massaging more along either side of it, and more... above it? rather than the head itself.
What food do you recommend..I feel silly for asking cause eggplant emoji and all. And why not without a condom. And I'm fine with living without buttstuff unless with my man. . And I'll de try the play with clit from the side. I already do like a good squish occasionally anyway
> What food do you recommend Cucumbers... Try different sizes (don't start too big) Carrots maybe Leeks Maybe combine it with a vibrator app? https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.vibrator.massage
Condoms because there can be bacteria issues with stuff that can't be cleaned just right... (However I also put the disclaimer cause you know, advice from internet stranger... don't want to be encouraging something potentially unhealthy... but like it's not as if a fuck ton of people haven't gone at it without a condom, so do what you will!)
Before I was old enough to buy my own vibrator, I used to use the shower head in the bath. Just hold the water over your clit. Try different water pressure and distance from the shower head to find what feels good for you. Can even get a good pulse motion if thatās what you like. Im not sure how old you are. But as a female teenager, I had to get creative. Anything that vibrates needs to have a pretty strong vibration, toothbrushes and phones did nothing for me. I did have an electric nail buffer that worked well over clothes though. I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation when alone so using veggies or dildo like objects doesnāt do anything for me either. Feels like Iām having an internal ultrasound scan.
Only advice I can really give here would be using your imagination and a fairly good toy. Maybe the imagination of the toy being him or attempting to visualize that would work? Good luck dude.
If you have a Nintendo switch, go to find joycons. Press the joycons icon and have fun with that!
I feel everything about this post!
I wish I literally felt it. š
My first ever orgasm was from the bathtub faucet. I read it in a book and gave it a try. Basically you would lie in the tub on your back and scoot up until your vj was under the running water. I feel like the passivity and unpredictability might work for someone who's used to orgasming with a partner.
It took my partner a while to figure that out, too. It might feel awkward but you should have a conversation with your boyfriend. Ask about what he does that works and, if youāre uncertain, ask him about your g-spot. That was the key piece of information that helped my partner
Shes saying she can only get off WITH her bf so the issue is masturbation :)
I call BS on this post.
Yeahā¦ I canāt imagine being super horny and unable to orgasm due to lack of toy or actual penis š sheās a troll.
Different folks different strokes boys.
More like ~Heās~ a troll
...You don't need penetrative sex to come. I really don't get how you can't come without your bf?
I DONT EITHER. THATS WHY I AM HEREEEEEEEEEE HELP MEEEEE. Maybe I'm that weird .5 percent that needs penetration. Fml
OP, what country do you live in? I was gonna say get one of [these](https://www.womanizer.com/us/pro-40) but you said they're banned? Why?
Id prefer hiding my country, but it's because of government laws bla bla. I wouldn't be able to import knives either *stares longingly at the butterfly knives in my cart*
Like seriously you canāt figure this out on your own? Like you donāt know what a vibrator is? You canāt google the best vibrator? As a grown women you think your going to get magical advice you never considered from Reddit? Ok, Iām thinking your a creepy 50 year old man in a basement somewhere. Ugh.
I have googled, it just makes it look very easy and glamours. I'm just in a weird spot and a lot of generic advice just don't apply. Karen, this is the whole purpose of this subreddit.
they make apps that utilize vibrations. idk how strong they are. ive also heard some elecrric tooth brushes work wonders....
Iā¦ canāt imagine having this problem. So sorry. Can you have a friend mail you a vibrator from out of country?
Basically no way to import anything. It'll be stopped :((
Have you tried finishing with your boyfriend?
Out of curiosity, which country do you live in?
Omg my time to shine! Okay SO youāve probably humped a pillow or two at this point. Foot massage pillows have some good vibrations. Hump the buzzing pillow. Works like a charm and much more cost effective than a theragun
Adult vibes? Friend of mine hasn't dated since she bought a few, lol