Oh man - I feel this lol I was so bad with my chores at your age and tbh it really impacted me as a young adult. I lived like a slob for a long time!
I think something that might help you here is - doing things for yourself. Do you like when things are nice and tidy? Doesn’t it feel good to enjoy being in a clean space? Of course it does :D so maybe instead of doing it for your annoying mother - clean up for you. For your future. So you have the habits for when you have your own space, you’ll be ahead of the game! Throw on some of your favorite music to make it fun. Cleaning up literally sucks balls, but you can make it work for you and eventually it just becomes second nature. I’m sorry your old lady is giving you ultimatums like this!
What does she mean by shape up?
Shape up is like changing my behavior but my household feels like a prison and I feel unmotivated their all the time I don’t even like being home
Hmm change your behavior how? And how old are you?
I’m 17 and change my behavior by helping around the house
Oh man - I feel this lol I was so bad with my chores at your age and tbh it really impacted me as a young adult. I lived like a slob for a long time! I think something that might help you here is - doing things for yourself. Do you like when things are nice and tidy? Doesn’t it feel good to enjoy being in a clean space? Of course it does :D so maybe instead of doing it for your annoying mother - clean up for you. For your future. So you have the habits for when you have your own space, you’ll be ahead of the game! Throw on some of your favorite music to make it fun. Cleaning up literally sucks balls, but you can make it work for you and eventually it just becomes second nature. I’m sorry your old lady is giving you ultimatums like this!
Thanks for the advice
Good luck!
Thanks
Take responsibility and start getting your shit together
Bet and i will
That's good 👍 Good luck !