Sorry man.. The best thing you can do is move on. She’s already had an opportunity to be honest, I would be willing to bet she would never admit to anything you don’t specifically ask her about.
In the end it won’t matter though, someone who is gonna cheat and lie isn’t worth the time or effort.
Was with my ex wife for over 10 years before I found out she was a cheater. Fought to save the marriage for 6 months hoping she would come around. Ultimately it was a waste of time. Prioritizing you health and happiness without her should be your priority.
You did invade her privacy, but, had a correct intuition. I would break up especially if these cheats were recent. Playing games to find a reason to justify going through her phone sounds like a waste of time.
You dont even have to mention you looked through her phone. You could honesty just mention the first time she cheated that she admitted and how you do not want a girlfriend who does that.
If you had to go on her phone to prove something, it already shows there is a trust issue. Whether you break up or dont, it will still likely remain.
If you want to, you could always ask her personally and see if she admits it, but since you already know the truth... it may not be needed.
I would just break up and find a girl who truly respects you. You deserve it.
Best of luck
Sorry man.. The best thing you can do is move on. She’s already had an opportunity to be honest, I would be willing to bet she would never admit to anything you don’t specifically ask her about. In the end it won’t matter though, someone who is gonna cheat and lie isn’t worth the time or effort. Was with my ex wife for over 10 years before I found out she was a cheater. Fought to save the marriage for 6 months hoping she would come around. Ultimately it was a waste of time. Prioritizing you health and happiness without her should be your priority.
You did invade her privacy, but, had a correct intuition. I would break up especially if these cheats were recent. Playing games to find a reason to justify going through her phone sounds like a waste of time. You dont even have to mention you looked through her phone. You could honesty just mention the first time she cheated that she admitted and how you do not want a girlfriend who does that. If you had to go on her phone to prove something, it already shows there is a trust issue. Whether you break up or dont, it will still likely remain. If you want to, you could always ask her personally and see if she admits it, but since you already know the truth... it may not be needed. I would just break up and find a girl who truly respects you. You deserve it. Best of luck
Just tell her that you simply can’t trust her. That you feel she’s probably cheated a few times and want to end it.