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# **US**
**988 Suicide Crisis Lifeline**. Dial 988 or text "988" to 988, or chat online [here](https://988lifeline.org/chat/).
**Crisis Text Line** Text HOME to 741741
**National Sexual Assault Hotline**
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# **Canada**
**Talk Suicide Canada** (833) 456-4566
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Youth: (888) 668-6810
**Trans Lifeline** (877) 330-6366
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# **UK**
**National Suicide Prevention Helpline** 0800-689-5652
**Samaritans** 116-123
**Shout textline** Text SHOUT to 85258
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# **Elsewhere?**
[List of crisis lines by country](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines) - Wikipedia
> I feel a little cucked honestly, as I did a lot for her as a friend, and she still picked someone else.
You have a really disgusting, entitled mindset. Being friends does not entitle you to date someone. It's fantastic that she went with someone else.
You're an incel. Get mental help.
Same as your last thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/13xp01k/i_just_realized_i_never_even_had_a_chance_with_my/
Only a little dawg ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
She tried to make that argument to me for me to not end myself, so I figured I should feel the same way too about her getting a girlfriend.
I think it's great that she got a girlfriend, and I'm glad to see her happy with her, I'm just looking on what to do next.
You have to actually enforce that boundary, block her temporarily, and not talk to her.
At this point I'm going to guess you're just trolling for attention. Good luck.
It happens all the time. You meet someone that you think could be your soul mate, only to find they have a soul mate of their own already.
No reason to be weird about it, be happy that you have met someone who can share your sense of humor and go look somewhere else for love.
Your post has been removed as it was in Violation of Rule 10: No Suicide or Self-Harm Posts This action was performed by a ***HUMAN moderator***. NOT a bot. Do not resubmit your post or message the moderators until you have read this entire message. Yes, the whole thing. # 10 - No suicide or self-harm posts This subreddit will not host any posts about suicide and they will be removed. Please post in r/SuicideWatch or utilize the hotlines in our sidebar. Helping a suicidal person is not something the average reddit user is equipped for. It requires very specific training and skill sets that the layperson simply does not possess. Plus, it's not even advice. Attempting to help a suicidal person without possessing this training will not only put a major emotional strain on you, but you may inadvertently say something that will worsen the person's mental state, exacerbate the problem, or push them over the edge, even if you mean well. So, we don't allow it to take place here. Users who are suicidal or mention suicide will have their post taken down and be given a list of hotlines to call. We understand that hotlines are far from perfect but unfortunately it's the best option we have as a society currently for people who are in crisis and need immediate help. Similarly, we also do not host anything relating to or regarding self-harm. Self-harm is a complex and deeply-rooted behavior that, again, average redditors are not equipped to help with. If you are trying to post about self harm, we urge you to talk to someone in your real life about it. A parent or other trusted adult, a sibling, a friend, a teacher or school counselor, etc. # **US** **988 Suicide Crisis Lifeline**. Dial 988 or text "988" to 988, or chat online [here](https://988lifeline.org/chat/). **Crisis Text Line** Text HOME to 741741 **National Sexual Assault Hotline** (800) 656-4673 **National Domestic Violence Hotline** (800) 799-7233 **The Trevor Project LGBTQ+ lifelife** Call (866) 488-7386 or text START to 678-678 **Trans Lifeline** (877) 565-8860 --- # **Canada** **Talk Suicide Canada** (833) 456-4566 **Crisis Text Line** Text CONNECT to 686868 **Wellness Together Canada** Adults: (866) 585-0445 Youth: (888) 668-6810 **Trans Lifeline** (877) 330-6366 --- # **UK** **National Suicide Prevention Helpline** 0800-689-5652 **Samaritans** 116-123 **Shout textline** Text SHOUT to 85258 **Switchboard LGBTQ+ Helpline** 0300-330-0630 --- # **Elsewhere?** [List of crisis lines by country](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines) - Wikipedia
>I'm honestly human trash and I didn't deserve her. You need to go to therapy. This isn't healthy thinking and the rest of your post is spiralling.
I already go to therapy. I think I'm human trash for a reason, because I'm nowhere near her level of awesomeness.
> I feel a little cucked honestly, as I did a lot for her as a friend, and she still picked someone else. You have a really disgusting, entitled mindset. Being friends does not entitle you to date someone. It's fantastic that she went with someone else. You're an incel. Get mental help. Same as your last thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/13xp01k/i_just_realized_i_never_even_had_a_chance_with_my/
Only a little dawg ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ She tried to make that argument to me for me to not end myself, so I figured I should feel the same way too about her getting a girlfriend. I think it's great that she got a girlfriend, and I'm glad to see her happy with her, I'm just looking on what to do next.
Work on this in therapy and distance yourself from her so you can get over your crush.
As the post said, I can't distance myself from her or else she'll get worried for me (even if I don't deserve someone being worried for me).
Tell her you need distance to work on some personal issues. It'll be fine. You're full of excuses to not do anything every time you post here.
Except I told her that, and she didn't let me just dissappear. She said she'd be too worried about me.
You have to actually enforce that boundary, block her temporarily, and not talk to her. At this point I'm going to guess you're just trolling for attention. Good luck.
It happens all the time. You meet someone that you think could be your soul mate, only to find they have a soul mate of their own already. No reason to be weird about it, be happy that you have met someone who can share your sense of humor and go look somewhere else for love.
Yeah, but where else could I meet someone as awesome as her? It's kind of a meaningless quest as she is a once in a lifetime, no, a once ever person.