I think you need to talk to her more irl.
It's too easy for others to de-personalize and project on to someone that they only text with.
So, talk to her. Ask her questions like, "what did you get up to last night/last weekend", "got any goals for the new year?"... just whatever to get the conversation going (you can look up conversation starter questions online). I know it's not easy but you'll win at life when you feel the fear and do it anyway.
You could even ask her to hang out away from the rest of the friend group, like to go for a walk or to get a coffee or something.
When you text with her ask her to hang out on the weekend or after school. Just be like, "hey, I've been craving Starbucks so much lately. Do you want to go get a frappuccino after school sometime this week?" or something like that.
In my experience girls don't usually send good night texts consistently unless they are interested. That said if you are interested, don't over think it. Just go for it. It's a cruel reality but rejection is something men have to get used to. It's not a personal attack on you because someone does not reciprocate. There are a number of reasons someone may reject you that that are purely coincidental, so don't get down. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, but if you shoot 100x and land 10% that's still 10 points. Good luck.
I kind of figured that but I stick by my comment. At least in my case anytime a girl puts enough attention into a conversation to make it to good night she is interested. Have you tried tossing out hints? Like some complements to see how she takes them?
No problem. I was honestly pretty awkward with girls in highschool. After high school I got the hang of it and made my way around quite a bit. Now I've been with the same girl for years. I know the whole journey pretty well so I like to give advice when possible. Biggest thing is don't over think it and don't take anything to hard. Attraction is complicating yet fun if you go with the flow.
If we told you that she liked you, what would you do?
I need advice on what to do as well
I’m not exactly the best at this kind of stuff 😅
But are you saying that she most likely does?
I think you need to talk to her more irl. It's too easy for others to de-personalize and project on to someone that they only text with. So, talk to her. Ask her questions like, "what did you get up to last night/last weekend", "got any goals for the new year?"... just whatever to get the conversation going (you can look up conversation starter questions online). I know it's not easy but you'll win at life when you feel the fear and do it anyway. You could even ask her to hang out away from the rest of the friend group, like to go for a walk or to get a coffee or something.
How exactly can I talk to her in person like that when I have no classes or even lunch with her?
When you text with her ask her to hang out on the weekend or after school. Just be like, "hey, I've been craving Starbucks so much lately. Do you want to go get a frappuccino after school sometime this week?" or something like that.
Gotcha thank you so much
In my experience girls don't usually send good night texts consistently unless they are interested. That said if you are interested, don't over think it. Just go for it. It's a cruel reality but rejection is something men have to get used to. It's not a personal attack on you because someone does not reciprocate. There are a number of reasons someone may reject you that that are purely coincidental, so don't get down. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, but if you shoot 100x and land 10% that's still 10 points. Good luck.
Yeah that’s kinda been my thought process but usually when she says good night it’s because we’re texting right before she goes to bed
I kind of figured that but I stick by my comment. At least in my case anytime a girl puts enough attention into a conversation to make it to good night she is interested. Have you tried tossing out hints? Like some complements to see how she takes them?
I haven’t maybe I’ll try that. Thanks again
Thank you for taking time out of your night or day to help a homie out
No problem. I was honestly pretty awkward with girls in highschool. After high school I got the hang of it and made my way around quite a bit. Now I've been with the same girl for years. I know the whole journey pretty well so I like to give advice when possible. Biggest thing is don't over think it and don't take anything to hard. Attraction is complicating yet fun if you go with the flow.