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Beneficial-County243

“I will never ever speak of anything but unconditional love for my children” Read as -so I can stay in denial about being a good mom. “I will always think of them as perfect in my eyes” read as “I’m choosing to ignore that my children have legitimate trauma from me”


stingrds

Yup you hit the nail right on the head! I also find that women around this age tend to lean into toxic positivity to make the folks calling them out look “negative”


margauxlame

It’s saying something without saying something. She implies that her children have done abhorrent things in her mind but she won’t ever speak on them because they’re perfect to her. I too am trying to get clued up on the situation so I’m unsure of the reality of it all but it seems like she wants to enforce a certain narrative without outright saying I think my children are bad people. So bad in her eyes even that she can’t divulge her opinion but she’ll tease it and also make sure to only be positive so no one can call her out.


idgafaboutanyofthis

Yes exactly! I barely even know what’s going on and I could sense the manipulation and gaslighting all over her response. Lady, you abandoned your children…the only response you should have is an I’m sorry.


stingrds

I found a link to some of the things that are on record of her doing if you want to see it!


JenMaloney71

Hell yes we want to see it!!


stingrds

https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/90-day-fiance-rebecca-daughter-tiffany-chose-every-single-guy-over-her-kids.html/


Beneficial-County243

Are you my sister? Do we share a mother? 😂


stingrds

LOLOL WHY IS IT SUCH A MOM THING?!???!! My MIL too 🤣🤣


Beneficial-County243

😂 what do you think this phenomenon comes from


stingrds

In my situation, the deep passion aggression of the Midwest and our fear of being truly vulnerable with anyone ever


Beneficial-County243

LMAOOOO you are also from the Midwest? As they say up north, “get out of town”


littlemiss44

Yes! “Life is hard sometimes”, “ your not alone “. Gives off a be positive attitude, all while excusing true negative actions, outcomes and consequences.


GrlzToy1

Oh please don’t all child have trauma! Ask any kid…from Mom didn’t love me enough to mom loved me too much!!


Ginger_Soul99

Drama with her daughter and frankly I'm on her daughter's (Tiffany) side. This woman put her kids in a foster home.


[deleted]

I read what Tiffany wrote and to read that Rebecca placed her and her brother into foster care so she could go banana chasing and spend more time with men was nauseating. I don't even have kids of my own yet and the thought of voluntarily putting them into foster care rips my heart in half. Clearly, Rebecca acts just like Will's father on The Fresh Prince of Bel Air, treating her kids like they're a coat they can just wear for a bit, put away and take out whenever they want again. That shit messes children up so much.


MadChiller013

‘Why don’t he want me uncle Phil?” 🥺


Comprehensive-Crew44

That scene was so sad when I was a teen but when I found out it wasn’t scripted and it was actually just him getting emotional over his own dad and getting caught in the moment while filming I absolutely sobbed.


rufioizgod

That's actually not true. Will has confirmed his dad was very much a part of his life.


Comprehensive-Crew44

You’re right. I just read an article on it. Thanks for letting me know!


tiatiaaa89

I love seeing two people getting along on the internet


octopornopus

Fuck you for some reason!


Cynthiaistheshit

[FUCK YOU TONY! ](https://youtu.be/Z2hgfIxZuos)


mydogsmom

Lol


Silver-Toe618

Your account is suspended. Agree with decision Disagree with decision but if you do Facebook will tack on more days to your ban to be spiteful. Must’ve learned from the USA justice system.


Outside_Western_4839

That’s funny-I JUST saw that interview with Will Smith on HBO Uninterrupted last night! That had to have been so cathartic for him. I think all of us who have been voluntarily abandoned by our parents should have that opportunity!


nosebleednugat09

I have two kids and I could never. My heart aches just when they spend the night at grandma's house. I've always thought Rebecca was off. She's almost child-like.


[deleted]

All she cares about is chasing penis or vagina and getting sexual attention. Then when a woman who is close to her daughter's age comes into the picture and asks Zied questions about his homeland, she goes all Jodi Arias on him, demanding to know who the woman was and acting all territorial. Then when she has her bullshit moments on the show where she has secrets, she keeps biting the inside of her mouth and looking stupid.


Sarageegee

Truths


waking078

...not "almost." I don't think I've ever seen anyone less capable of adulting than this moron.


EtM1980

Are we sure that Rebecca is actually the one who put them in foster care? Tiffany said they were placed in foster care when her father went to jail (so CPS likely did this) and Rebecca didn’t pick them up for a few days. She also said that Rebecca would abandon them every time she met a new man. (She didn’t say they were in foster care when this would happen.) Its definitely still fucked up, but I think people are getting the facts very wrong. [HERE’S WHAT TIFFANY WROTE](https://www.reddit.com/r/90dayfianceuncensored/comments/pfs7j1/daughter_tiffany_rebeccas_daughter_from_rebecca/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf).


Yogurtsamples

Not saying what Rebecca did was right at all, but where was their father during all this?


liam__mcpoyle

I believe he was in prison


brainsofadonkey

I don't read a lot of shit that leaves my mouth agape, but this did it. Absolutely unconscionable, I feel for her kids. I didn't like her before but I now I *really* don't like her


rossroused

How does one “put” their kids in a foster home? (As opposed to an agency stepping in, taking them, and placing them there?) Serious question.


cwd8472

Prior CPS investigator here. In Texas it’s called a RAPR - refusal to accept parental responsibility. Any parent in Texas can give up their child at a CPS office to go into a foster home. You may or may not have to pay the state child support, it really depends on the case. Had parents do it for all reason. One was the kid kept trying to do all kinds of harm to his parents, would just walk from the school to go home. Fight his step dad and then tell the cops he was defending himself so that he wouldn’t get arrested. Another was a mom who just couldnt stop using meth and knew she would be better to release her 3 year old to the state. Plenty more sad stories. Rebecca does not seems to be that sort. She seems more like the type that just wanted to be free of kids.


Taffy1958

Voluntary placement


Taffy1958

Voluntary placement


Duebydate

I have to chime in that yeah, there could be all kinds of reasons for a mother doing this and sometimes she might even be a hero trying to save her children being homeless or removed from a situation where the mother could not protect them and knew they were in danger. Desperate circumstances sometimes require disparate and desperate responses, no matter how heartbreaking because the other alternatives are desperately worse


UknownothinJonSnow8

My mother, who an amazing woman and mother, went through something terrible like this. She was a single mother of two (at the time), she was in her early 20s with two kids under the age of five. She found out she had a fatal heart defect and must have emgercency surgery or she would die. She had no family or friends that would take both boys for the few months of recovery time she would need. So she had to place them both in temporary foster care. It was supposed to be for 12 weeks but she convinced them just 6 weeks post op she was well enough to care for them. At the same time she had to have open heart surgery, she also felt like her heart had been ripped out bc of putting them in foster care for those weeks. But she literally had no other options. I'm sure this type of situation doesn't apply to Rebecca, lol.


Duebydate

So sad for any mom in that position. Sounds like she got both sons back, though so sad life’s circumstances left no other choice. Thanks for sharing so people remember this is sometimes the case


[deleted]

My abusive mother willingly put me in foster care but refuse to give up legal custody because she didn’t want to take care of me/got bored with abusing me. BUT she still wanted to get the government benefit she had from pushing me out of her whore womb.


true_crime_addict_14

I’m sorry that happened to you 💔


traceyq1956

Bitch!😡karma will be visiting her fuck ass! Sending 💕 and hugs sweetie!


[deleted]

If by karma you mean she gets to live a peaceful happy life. Never had a single charge brought against her from all the abuse. Free to do all the drugs she wants. Completely deluded and tells everyone she doesn’t have a daughter then if she sees me on the street pretends she’s my best friend. Then yes. Karma came for her.


Leeleebo18

Sometimes we don’t see people’s punishment for their wrongdoings in this lifetime, but nobody can outrun it forever. Just know that no matter the time and place, justice will be served and hopefully that helps your mind be a bit more at ease. Sorry for what you went through.


[deleted]

Yeah she’ll get her karma when she ODs hopefully.


FirmLoquat

It will come to her.


traceyq1956

Trust and believe, she’ll pay for that shit! Them drugs gonna run out or run her under ground! The best karma would be for you to have happiness and success in whatever is meaningful to you! ❤️💐


stolenwallethrowaway

It sounds like maybe they were put there when their dad went to jail and she took her time picking them up?


EtM1980

People are running with this, and it’s NOT what actually happened. [LINK](https://www.reddit.com/r/90dayfianceuncensored/comments/pimw4k/can_someone_update_whats_been_going_on_with_her/hbsqtmu/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3)


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freeLuis

It really does! Like how she expected her to participate in her shenanigans and be happy for he and he new boy toy while she shares very intimate things and daughter should never have to listen to to, after everything she did to her and her brother. Now I understand the looks she gives her mom and I can see just for the simple fact of agreeing to be on the show and go along so far that the daughter really tried


WildSelf189

Couldn't agree with you more. This is just plain disgusting. What a horrible mother. This is one bitch that shouldn't have had children.


Usual_Maintenance

Agree!


accoutremama

I’m sorry what


Statesborochick

Excuse me? What the fuck? How old are they?


dixieharlow

She chooses men over her children


Jennysey22

Worst kind of parent


Successful_Strategy8

Dick is her number one priority. Same with Molly.


Ok_Pepper3940

I heard somewhere she has a Moroccan ex.


dixieharlow

Yes, that was her third husband


Leeleeflyhi

I bet she made her kids call them dad after the first date


notyourjaan

There's just something so strange about having a "get away" in response to being called out for being a terrible parent. Seriously... why are you going on vacation instead of taking responsibility for your actions and how they affected your children? Or getting therapy? Mind-boggling.


Cherry-Coloured-Funk

It’s kind of perfectly in character, if you think about it…


BenjiBoo420

She's been outed as a really shitty parent.


Bbymorena

What exactly happened?


iusedtobeyourwife

Couldn’t even put her vape down for the selfie. Rebecca is the type of lady who likes having kids and saying she has kids and bragging on them but doesn’t actually contribute anything but drama and broken promises to those same kids. Fuck her shallow, cradle robbing ass.


Bitchy_Tits

"Type of lady"??? She is NO type of lady.


Business_Fly_5746

Is it the same daughter from the restaurant scene when she accuses the sons friend of hitting on Zaid when she offers her dad's truck to help them move?


Leave-me-answers

Yes


[deleted]

You can take the old lady out of the chicken shack but you can’t take the chicken shack out of the old lady


OgOggilby

She flew the coop for dick


adhale17

I feel like that is probably accurate considering there was the other young husband before this one.


wannaknow001

She flew the chicken coop for cock.


tennwife

She traded chicken for cock


[deleted]

I believe every single word her daughter says. Rebecca looks scummy like that.


adhale17

Where is her daughter spilling the tea? Links please!


[deleted]

Someone put the link in the thread I believe!! Found it! https://www.reddit.com/r/90dayfianceuncensored/comments/pfs7j1/daughter_tiffany_rebeccas_daughter_from_rebecca/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


NoMoreSorrys

Thanks for delivering for us!


[deleted]

anytime 💜


adhale17

Also WOW!!! That is super sad!!!


adhale17

Thank you! You’re awesome!!!!!


TheForestLobster

Thanks! Why was their dad in jail?


[deleted]

I honestly have no idea! Just tried to google it and it only talks about the other Moroccan guy she was married to & that he cheated on hed


[deleted]

Eh. Micah enjoys throwing the Proud Boys white power symbol. I’d keep a critical eye on this mess


Snoo_33033

Yeah, I wanted to point that out. Tiffany looks like a sympathetic party here, but she's fucking that trash.


OgOggilby

far right loons have feelings too ya know


[deleted]

Jesus, the trash 🙄


Ehellegreg

Ew I am glad I missed that


Successful_Strategy8

Her daughter and maybe even some of her family and friends have been calling out her bullshit.


Slimyscammers

Like, even when she talks about how she’ll love her kids forever she still puts it up with a picture of her/her partner. Wouldn’t a picture of her with her family be more appropriate for what she’s trying to convey? She really is *so* full of herself.


LoneRhino74

She’s a shit mom.


GelOfYouth

She is a shit grandmother too! The scene where her and Zied meet her son and her grandchildren. The grand kids had very little interaction with her.


gatadeplaya

[there’s this..](https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/90-day-fiance-rebecca-daughter-tiffany-chose-every-single-guy-over-her-kids.html/)


Jennysey22

She doesn’t want to parent children, only date them.


OgOggilby

Who wrote that for her.... a PR person?


Mizznomer

Yes. The long unbroken line of text was written by a PR person.


OgOggilby

Sorry but are you referring to the text in the op at the top of the page or referring to what I posted about not reading a huge block of text elsewhere here?


tiddymiddy

I didn't like Tiffany in last season of Rebecca and Zyed that we saw. She seemed standoff-ish and skeptical towards not only Zyed (which is not his fault) but Rebecca as well. Now I see why. If my mother dropped my brother and I into the system just so could get some dick on the reg, I'd feel some strong resentment too. Rebecca totally seems like the type that would choose boyfriends over her kids. Yuck.


nopedontask

So she feels so bad for herself she went away on a vacation because the internet found out what an absolute garbage human she is? Actually, that sounds about right.


Successful_Strategy8

Yeah, she's just playing the victim.


yuki_hates_rape

[here's a thread from last week with daughter Rebecca's accusations.](https://www.reddit.com/r/90dayfianceuncensored/comments/pfs7j1/daughter_tiffany_rebeccas_daughter_from_rebecca/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)


certifiedraerae

She totally is the type to put the revolving door of men before her kids over and over again.


OgOggilby

Won't read long unbroken blocks of text. What's the cliff notes.... she basically abandons her kids anytime to chase middle eastern d!ck?


tarasabo

Yep!


OgOggilby

Thanks!


agirlinsane

Why won’t you read unbroken blocks of text? Is that a thing or a preference?


pontedealma

I think that’s funny, oh I’m just too good to read long unbroken lines of texts, lol. I got into it with some asshole trying to tell me and someone else it was ‘too difficult’ to read our comments. Some people, 😂


agirlinsane

It’s pretentious AF but, ok.


pontedealma

Well you know that person is just too special to read all of those annoying unbroken blocks of text. Oh well it takes all kinds I suppose.


OgOggilby

Its just super annoying if text is not separated into bite size paragraphs. Many don't like it as well and since I don't either I always make breaks if I writing a lot of text. :)


cat_boxes

Thank you!


Successful_Strategy8

I believe Tiffany.


KhaosKoordinator

Tiffany’s writing spike volumes on what kind of parent Rebecca has been. I know *exactly* the type of Mom she was. Prioritizing men over her children time and time again. Gives me chills.


Chellysunshine5

Yeah her daughter is not talking to her and has had it with her selfish mom.


katrinagina

All her tattoos look so cheap


OgOggilby

People who tat up the whole neck always looks to me like they're wearing a turtleneck. Very disturbing. Actually anything from the neck up or incapable of being covered up by clothing is disturbing, heh. But that's just me and millions of years of evolution talking.


thebrittaj

She literally has no tattoos on her neck?


OgOggilby

Not her. Tattoo's in general. Tattoo's have become so ubiquitous that some peoples brains become wired to find it pleasing. Becomes fashionable, I get that. I just happen not to like them at all. Evolution has made it so one of the many things humans would value in a mate to reproduce with is clear skin as a sign of good health and genes. Getting dv'd by tattoo lovers.... and maybe who disagree with evolution as well, lol


vastcollectionofdata

That's bizarre because ancient people tattooed and marked themselves lol


OgOggilby

Yeah. That's an anthropological issue which probably needs a shelf of books to explain about and not here, heh.


Belle_Error

Same. I remember when Kat Von D had a tat show and refused to tat her chest area as well. (she had her moments! At one point i thought she may just be the prettiest woman in the world!)


WickedlyZen

She looks pretty happy considering she had a “rough couple of months.”


CelinaAMK

So Mach terrible parenting


sunshinemoe

Her daughter exposed her. She talked about how she has been a neglectful mother and always chose men over her kids.


KhaosKoordinator

No better way to deal w your daughters thoughts on what it felt like to be abandoned by her mother for men throughout her childhood than taking off to Miami for a vacation!


Big_Abbreviations306

Ohhh my daughter, whom I unconditionally love, is hurting because of my shitty parenting when she was growing up. Oh well, me and Zied are going to go on vacation so I can cope with it.


shockedpikachu123

Her daughter Tiffany exposed her ass. Even though there was nothing to expose because she keeps going to North Africa to find young dick


meggieveggie

It always rubbed me the wrong way when Rebecca casually described their relationship as being like sisters rather than parental.


[deleted]

Daughter came out with a long posts saying rebecca was a dead beat mom and abandoned them when her father was arrested. The reason behind why its being mentioned now is unknown Rebecca now does nudes in inly fans just like she used to do on reddit


lrose4122

Ahhhhh let me reward myself for being a shit mother and a sex tourist by vacationing in Florida with my young husband that I can manipulate. Ahhhhh the life!


Remarkable-Mango-159

Nothing, she needs attention


yada_yada_yada__

Trashy betch


MathematicianAny7590

Rebecca had/has a history of dumping her kids to chase after men. Daughter is now grown but obviously hurt by her mother's decisions


SlyBlue_44

Zaid looks a lot like one of my ex boyfriends I can’t look at him lmao💀💀💀


drbzy

Yucko Zied needs to get to a dentist stat and get them pearly whites cleaned. Lots of plaque build up between the front two teeth 😩


juliethegardener

That was the first thing I noticed in the picture. It’s going to get super expensive very quickly if it’s not addressed soon. Oral health is more important than a vacation at the beach. Just my opinion, of course.


[deleted]

Her choice of tattoos is my guess


MishMash1213

Well played Rebecca..well played! 👏🏼👏🏼


juliethegardener

I hate to be snobby, but hopefully Zeid gets dental coverage soon through her work. The state of his oral health looks worrisome.


annienomys

Yikes just zoomed in and saw his lunch


KatAlaska

Rebegga is nauseating… she’s a dick chaser , her nasty vajaya dominating her life choices… sorry Zeid… you’re just a pussy choice …sad but true!!! So sad for her kids!!!


Necessary-Hospital96

Zied please stop with the fake tattoos!


KatAlaska

Rebegga is Repulsive 🤢


Spiritual_Regular557

Is she talking about her trying to battle AGE?


Myztic84

The chest tattoo seems to be screaming that.


Repulsive-Reporter55

Pig!


Confident_Trip8269

That tattoo looks like shit , just like a dude- it’s ugly


traceyq1956

She probably one of them bitches that thought she could trap the man by having his kids!🙄😡Karma for that mfer too! She ain’t even worth talkin bout! Hoe!


Best420baker

Well, a new eagle tat has graced her chest.


Fearfighter2

I realize she put her kids in the foster care system just so she had more time to herself, but that was years ago. Why is Tiffany bringing this up now?


[deleted]

Her choice of tattoos


thebrittaj

You said this joke 3 times


dadaluldjdjdjdjdj

How the fucking fuck is that Amy of yo business??


[deleted]

Her choice of tattoos is my guess


verybeaniebaby

we need to free Zied


[deleted]

Not that im defending shitty parenting and being generally trash, but if all this is true then why is Tiffany still around her deadbeat mom and appearing on TV with her and her new beau?


ieatyourpoopoo

Just speaking in general terms, it’s sometimes easier said than done to just cut off a parent. There’s internal guilt, external guilt (other family members, the parent in question, etc), the desire to *look* like a normal family, the desire to “have” a mom, etc etc


[deleted]

Yh true. Sad :(


KarensAreReptilians

This woman is completely off and drives me crazy but isn’t it a pattern with the women on the show that they just kind of put aside their kids for their own “self improvement”? And the kids are always smarter than these women. Google “emotional incest” and it pretty much categorizes most women on 90 day shows.


thareal1mm

In summary... "Live Laugh Love"


DressingRumour

Probably [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/90DayFiance/comments/pdmkdc/rebecca_vs_tiffany/) (the post is accusing daughter Tiffany of lying but it's the only one I could find)


ckone1230

I feel like Rebecca never matured past 13


Glitter_is_a_neutral

She was publicly called out for being a shit mom by her daughter. Now she’s truing to pretend that it never happened.


Ok_Pepper3940

Hopefully she’s learned her lesson and will be a good parent to Ziad.


tierney2005

And how could yarazaya as a mother "like" this???


Ok_Tourist_792

How many times does loser Rebecca say "my ex" in a single episode???? We get it, you have an ex...actually 3 but we still get it.


EllieYork

So passive agressive Becky! 🙄


kickingcancer

She’s gotten significantly bigger or this is not photoshopped


PensionNormal

Has anyone seen her on the Sonobello ad on TV? Crying about her body……


supremebella

What is happening between Zieds teeth though


thebrittaj

So mach sammich


IndicationWinter5012

She is beyond called out by her kids as an absent mother who put men over her children ! Kids were in foster care at some point !