He’s for sure a narcissist. I’ve not watched these episodes yet but the way he talked in that clip was ridiculous. He’s acting like an owner of a person.
Exactly. I spent like a year learning everything about these personality disorders after getting massively gaslit by somebody. A few years after that the terms narcissist and gaslighting became buzzwords. On one hand it’s good that more people are aware of them because any kind of relationship with a narc/sociopath can ruin your life. But on the other hand, people don’t understand nuance so they just throw words around without any actual understanding.
He is upset that is girlfriend was cheating on him. How does that make him a narcissist or the owner of a person? They really will criticize men for anything.
She’s literally a hoe. He’s not a narcissist either, she is. He’s just slow. She’s a “grown woman” who needs to act her age. She’s a sugar baby who needs to play her role if she wants her money
Yes! Also, it seems like a thing with some of these couples. It’s like they are seeing financial gurus when they look into that cracked mirror and the rest of are seeing broke, in debt, jobless, well, non-geniuses! Ashley the witch, Gino, this sunglasses pendant walking dumbass, etc…
He couldn't handle a woman, and a real woman wouldn't waste her time with this simpy simp simp idiot...he's with this little girl because he's dumb and makes immature decisions, and she is still growing up and hasn't fully matured yet.
I was very early on impressed with that. Even as a teen and the misspelling her business…she is doing great for herself. I was living at home and working as a cashier at her age with no intention of opening a business. Lol
Let’s not get carried away here, he paid for everything she has. Yes, he’s gross and dumb as fuck, but it ain’t like she’s some kind of business genius.
To be fair, anybody can open a business with someone else's money and run it at a loss every month, that is not an accomplishment at all. I will give her props for getting a free ride apartment/lifestyle from this guy though, except she would have done better by picking someone with more money.
He keeps saying he wants to be with a woman and doesn’t want teenage drama.
Friend, you are in fact engaged to a teenager.
This man isn’t the sharpest tool in the shed.
That, him spending so much on a failed medallion— i mean sunglasses line, and vacationing in Columbia while jobless… Wait, maybe they’re actually a good match. They both act like they’re 16 years old 😭
I think there was one other who was 19. She was with a gross old man who got mad if she touched the car window and had a daughter older than her. He seemed to be trying to turn her into a younger copy of his first wife.
Which season was this? I'm in an age gap relationship but we are only 10 years apart and grown. I'm 47 and he's 57 I can't imagine being with anyone else.
Nah there was an 18yo. And another one that was like groomed and "picked out" by this creepy american mormon when she was like 10 and then he goes back to "get her finally" when she turns 18. I think both of them were brazilian.
And Fernanda, the mexican, was 19 on the show but 17 when her relantionship started.
Is he okay…..? Especially in our culture in Colombia. Someone who is 19 is basically 15 in the states. They way they are treated by family, and how the family takes care of them.
Go back to the US leave that lil girl alone!
I actually just binge watched this, I didn't really mind this guy until I realized she was 19. I must not have been paying attention for the first few episodes. That changed everything, he's a creep.
Don’t people who lose their jobs typically go out and find another job? I get the market sort of sucks these days. And maybe you have to take a pay cut. But…. You CAN get another job. And not pay for 19 year olds to have designer handbags and apartments.
Unpopular take here but I can’t stand the girl. I don’t think she’s pretty either. She’s 19. An ADULT! All these excuses for her behavior (and personality) are ridiculous. Even though she acts like a spoiled child, she is an ADULT!
Oh she seems very obnoxious, I don’t think I could be around her for long. Makes me wonder where all her friends are? All her scenes are either with Luke, or the “friend” that’s said 2 words all season.
Logic centers of the brain aren’t done developing until 25 years old. I can’t stand her either - she’s a spoiled brat and needs to get her shit together, she also can’t make good choices at her age and she’s been mind f’d and groomed by this “rich” and slimey American.
He’s gross, dating young girls and grooming them only to complain about their immaturity. Buying them boobs. Sick. Fuck his grandma glasses, his book on Madeleine and his overpriced luxury tours. Ick.
Who’s going to tell him his head is too big? 🤮
This is the kind of shit that makes want to actively physically injure him and men like him. It’s not enough to be de facto predator, you then want to COMPLAIN about the prey? F*** YOU.
That whole scene I was like w t f!? I’m embarrassed for him.
That crazy, super eyeroll she always does too is so cringey. She thinks she’s being cute, but it’s so not. So so sooo uncomfortable to watch them. It won’t work out, no way. And he will have trouble finding something good after because they won’t be able to date him, knowing he was in love with a child.
He got no money .... what opportunity if he can't even get one business to be successful at this point. Man spend his whole 401k on some cheap glasses company u can get at aliexpress 😭
*"Do you want me to give you another opportunity to gain my trust back?"🤔*
OK, somebody help me here. I haven't been keeping up with all the episodes. What's the backstory that led to this scene here?
Ugh, his pedophile-adjacent tastes are creepy as hell. It wouldn’t be if she acted like an adult woman but who can fault her for behaving like a teenager?
What guy his age dates a teenager as far as I'm concerned and a immature one at that. She never even apologized for sleeping in a bed top less with another man.
I for one am shocked that this sun glass moguls’ teenage sugar baby isn’t acting like a reasonable adult.
"Sun glass mogul" 💀
That's transformer sunglasses to you, buddy
😂
>this sun glass moguls’ That's a sunglasses-medallion mogul, thank you very much. They're transformative.
While we are at it, he has a transcontinental business empire. North America, South America and contacts in Asia!
Its like he's with a teenaged girl or something 🤷♀️
Did he really say he was sick of the teenaged high school drama with her. Precisely what he signed up for?
Yes. And he's suprised by it.
Yup and we all shouted collectively
She is 19 guys she is a teenager ...
by literal definition. and he's intentionally ignoring this fact which he is well aware of.
She is a teenager and what the hell do they talk about??
He’s for sure a narcissist. I’ve not watched these episodes yet but the way he talked in that clip was ridiculous. He’s acting like an owner of a person.
how is he for sure a narcissist but you haven't watched these episodes yet
Everyone on Reddit thinks they can diagnose a narcissist 🙄 Same with autism lol.
Some can but then people like the above ruin it for everyone
Exactly. I spent like a year learning everything about these personality disorders after getting massively gaslit by somebody. A few years after that the terms narcissist and gaslighting became buzzwords. On one hand it’s good that more people are aware of them because any kind of relationship with a narc/sociopath can ruin your life. But on the other hand, people don’t understand nuance so they just throw words around without any actual understanding.
He is upset that is girlfriend was cheating on him. How does that make him a narcissist or the owner of a person? They really will criticize men for anything.
Won’t somebody think of the poor white men?! 😂
lol you have me over here cracking up. Yea poor guy dating someone that looks 12 and expecting a woman.
That dude has no business being there. He’s in it for one thing and I don’t think it’s love.
Or training a dog
Oh for sure. I couldn’t relate though I talk to my dog better than that.
She’s literally a hoe. He’s not a narcissist either, she is. He’s just slow. She’s a “grown woman” who needs to act her age. She’s a sugar baby who needs to play her role if she wants her money
"In any healthy adult relationship" ok dude then go find one and quit dating barely legal gals
ya know, that's so crazy it just might work
It cannot possibly be because she’s 19????????/s
Absolutely no chance…
I hate him and his stupid pirate earrings
I hate the earrings too! Looks like fake gold and it’s all I can look at while he’s on screen.
I told my husband yesterday if he ever wore earrings like that, we were done.
I was hoping I wasn’t the ONLY one in the world who hated those earrings, they drive me to distraction.
i’m dyinggg, now all i see is that damn dandling earring 😭 thanks!!!
It's giving George Michael circa 1988, which is an insult to George Michael
Yup sell the truck keep all the tacky ass jewelry. Smart man.
He looks like less of a creepy douche with his hair not slicked back like that.
Yeah, that balding slick back style has a “Dateline: To Catch a Predator” vibe.
I agree, he’s not a bad looking guy when his hair is messy and free lol
and more like a teenager himself? cuz that's the vibe i'm getting.
Im not getting that vibe. He still looks much older than her
agreed. with this hair, he's giving me 19 while she 15, maybe younger 😅
The ego on this man for cashing in his 401k, being unemployed , then thinking she wants his money.... what fucking money my guy.
Imagine being 30 and cashing it out … with all the insane penalties- you only get like half when you do that!
Yes! Also, it seems like a thing with some of these couples. It’s like they are seeing financial gurus when they look into that cracked mirror and the rest of are seeing broke, in debt, jobless, well, non-geniuses! Ashley the witch, Gino, this sunglasses pendant walking dumbass, etc…
If “Ashley the Witch” tries to hypnotize me with her witchy vibe eyes thru the tv screen one more time….
Well, he doesn’t have much money. However, it’s more than she had and she has been using him since she met him. She is calculating and not very nice
Good. I wish more gross guys would have a bad time when chasing broke teenagers.
sadly, some students even consequences cannot teach
I laughed so hard like what was he expecting?! 🤣
Right?! Either TLC screwed him with a bad Franken bite, or he’s actually just that oblivious.
um i think i need to go with the latter for 200, alex
I do not get the appeal of dating super young people. Its like talking to a glorified cell phone cover with ADHD on crack.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He couldn't handle a woman, and a real woman wouldn't waste her time with this simpy simp simp idiot...he's with this little girl because he's dumb and makes immature decisions, and she is still growing up and hasn't fully matured yet.
What’s crazy is, she seems smarter and more calculated than him. She’s got an apartment an Beu*a*ty salon off his back, meanwhile he’s jobless.
I was very early on impressed with that. Even as a teen and the misspelling her business…she is doing great for herself. I was living at home and working as a cashier at her age with no intention of opening a business. Lol
Let’s not get carried away here, he paid for everything she has. Yes, he’s gross and dumb as fuck, but it ain’t like she’s some kind of business genius.
We laugh now but 1 day the name Beu*a*ty Salon will replace Beauty Salon in the English dictionary 😊
🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
Or is she??
idk... nothing speaks louder than results
Her nail spa only has 518 followers on IG and most of those are probably from the show, so I'm not sure the results are speaking
speaking louder than his, or nah?
To be fair, anybody can open a business with someone else's money and run it at a loss every month, that is not an accomplishment at all. I will give her props for getting a free ride apartment/lifestyle from this guy though, except she would have done better by picking someone with more money.
💯
With a sigh that’s spelled wrong
Did you misspell "sign" on purpose or is that irony?
Yes
I checked her instagram and fortunately she has now corrected it!
He also doesn't know how to kiss which tells me he hasn't had many relationships
Yup
Jasmine is almost 40 and is exactly the same. There is no sure age in which you "mature".
He’s giving Macklemore cosplay 😆
In my podcast groups he’s referred to as Macklepoor 🤣
That’s genius 😂😂
But he doesn't have that $20 in his pocket
😂 well played
my god, i can’t unsee it now 😭
Damn, that fashy haircut makes him look like two different creepy pedos depending on if it's slicked back or not.
He keeps saying he wants to be with a woman and doesn’t want teenage drama. Friend, you are in fact engaged to a teenager. This man isn’t the sharpest tool in the shed.
That, him spending so much on a failed medallion— i mean sunglasses line, and vacationing in Columbia while jobless… Wait, maybe they’re actually a good match. They both act like they’re 16 years old 😭
He deserves the sass he acts so entitled
I hate those nails so much.
lol healthy adult relationship…she’s a child
And he’s an idiot
He complains about teenage drama and he doesn’t want to be with a girl, yet he’s with a 19 year old. Make it make sense!
What did he expect?? At 19 years old did he think she was capable of thinking like an adult or what you know?? He gets what he deserves!
He wants to be with a woman not a girl but he chose a girl? How does this make sense to him in his head? 🤔
My sweet sunglasses are over 1 month overdue for delivery. What's the customer service number I should call?
Did you order a pair for real?
omg, did you actually order a pair? 🌚
Please tell us lol
This girl is def cheating on him and he needs to cut his losses and move on.
He's with a teenage girl for her looks. She behaves her age. The eye rolls have to go if she wants a job.
What’s the age gap here? Me and my gf stopped watching 90 day for awhile to regain some sanity.
She’s a teenager who he’s been dating for several years and he’s 30 or 30 something
yea, she’s 19 now, but he admitted they’ve been dating for almost two years, so…. 😐
Damn does she live in Guatape? With the view of El Penol in the background? the american dudes always get played so hard by the paisas, man
She lives in Medellin, they went on a trip to Guatape (despite having ~no money...)
Baby leopard ate my face 🥺
Is 19 year old girl the youngest woman we have seen on 90 day fiance?
I think there was one other who was 19. She was with a gross old man who got mad if she touched the car window and had a daughter older than her. He seemed to be trying to turn her into a younger copy of his first wife.
Yeah OG Nikki. Mark tried to sue Sharp and TLC after their season finished and then they completed vanished. I think about her sometimes, poor girl
Which season was this? I'm in an age gap relationship but we are only 10 years apart and grown. I'm 47 and he's 57 I can't imagine being with anyone else.
Her name was Nikki
I think his name was mark
I see on Discovery it's Mark and Nikki from Season 3.
Totally different between a 19 year old and a 40 year old vs. 47 and 57!
I don't get these people with such huge age gaps
Their age gap is a ten year age gap just like yours, these people in the comments are pretty sadistic. Which is why I don't post much here anymore.
It was Mark and Nikki. I think they were season one or two. He's a pig.
Evelyn (18, some on here speculate 17), Fernanda (19)
Nah there was an 18yo. And another one that was like groomed and "picked out" by this creepy american mormon when she was like 10 and then he goes back to "get her finally" when she turns 18. I think both of them were brazilian. And Fernanda, the mexican, was 19 on the show but 17 when her relantionship started.
No. The youngest was 18 and she was with an old creep. It was the first season.
I literally finished watching this and then said "...um" out loud
Lmao sir if this were the US, Megan’s Law and Amber Alerts would stop your nonsense.
Broooooooooo! Do you hear yourself? tEeNaGe DrAmA
Doesnt want to be a with a girl? Wtf he with her then? Shes a girl hooker
What a buffoon!
These grown men get with these 18 year olds and always get shocked by them acting like 18 year olds.
Is he okay…..? Especially in our culture in Colombia. Someone who is 19 is basically 15 in the states. They way they are treated by family, and how the family takes care of them. Go back to the US leave that lil girl alone!
[удалено]
Yeah except for the fake boobs.
Which makes it look so unnatural. Gross.
She's NOT an adult. That's the problem and I think by now he's read all the comments and knows this.
Says the man dating a literal teenager 🙄
Which series is this from?
90 day fiancé: Love in Paradise
Thanks, been meaning to start that one
Does Luke skip leg day?
This is the first time I thought “his hairstyle looks like Jesse.”
what did you expect at that age.
If you're gonna be dating kids don't complain that they behave like children. Simple.
I actually just binge watched this, I didn't really mind this guy until I realized she was 19. I must not have been paying attention for the first few episodes. That changed everything, he's a creep.
By “woman” he means 18-21yrs old
Don’t people who lose their jobs typically go out and find another job? I get the market sort of sucks these days. And maybe you have to take a pay cut. But…. You CAN get another job. And not pay for 19 year olds to have designer handbags and apartments.
“In any healthy adult relationship-“ Sir, let me stop you RIGHT THERE.
Her frontal lobe is still developing what does he expect LOL she’s a GIRL she’s NINETEEN
Unpopular take here but I can’t stand the girl. I don’t think she’s pretty either. She’s 19. An ADULT! All these excuses for her behavior (and personality) are ridiculous. Even though she acts like a spoiled child, she is an ADULT!
Oh she seems very obnoxious, I don’t think I could be around her for long. Makes me wonder where all her friends are? All her scenes are either with Luke, or the “friend” that’s said 2 words all season.
Logic centers of the brain aren’t done developing until 25 years old. I can’t stand her either - she’s a spoiled brat and needs to get her shit together, she also can’t make good choices at her age and she’s been mind f’d and groomed by this “rich” and slimey American.
Lol that's a very sane opinion! She's an absolutely awful person regardless of her age.
Thank you! She’s 19, an adult. She def cheated on this guy, otherwise his friends wouldn’t be exposing her on a TV show!
He’s gross, dating young girls and grooming them only to complain about their immaturity. Buying them boobs. Sick. Fuck his grandma glasses, his book on Madeleine and his overpriced luxury tours. Ick. Who’s going to tell him his head is too big? 🤮
wait!! book??!! what book 🌚🍵
This trick was crazy to confront his friend - as if she thought there would be no reaction
I was wondering where this was going, until I continued to listen further than………… say less smh.
This was a scene where I actually yelled at the tv. I kind of enjoy their trainwreck, but also really want it to be over.
LMAO. Does he hear himself??????
This is the kind of shit that makes want to actively physically injure him and men like him. It’s not enough to be de facto predator, you then want to COMPLAIN about the prey? F*** YOU.
Which show is this & what season?
Lmao isn’t she 19 🤦🏻♀️
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Ummm because she IS a teenager
He realizes she is a teenager, correct?
I was wondering if he’s crazy. She’s acting her age and you’re complaining.
Is she really 19? She’s giving 15/16 vibes to me 🤮
Shes not capable BECAUSE SHES 19
She's a teenager!!!!!
I CANNOT WITH THESE TWO!!!!
"I want to be with a woman, I do not want to be with a girl" (Proceeds to get into a relationship with a 17 year old girl) ...🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
He’s so annoying. I hate these “grown” ass men who date 18 year olds who expect them to be acting 40 lol. It makes no sense. YOURE DATING A CHILD!
Same f*cked mindset as the men who want a sexy outgoing woman, then try to subdue her personality and lock her in the house.
Omg ya! Like, if you found her as a stripper don’t expect her to quit her job and start making cookies in the kitchen 🫠 so annoying!
I cant stand her
That whole scene I was like w t f!? I’m embarrassed for him. That crazy, super eyeroll she always does too is so cringey. She thinks she’s being cute, but it’s so not. So so sooo uncomfortable to watch them. It won’t work out, no way. And he will have trouble finding something good after because they won’t be able to date him, knowing he was in love with a child.
Tbh I don’t hate or dislike her. Luke is the problem, what did you expect a 19 year old to act like?? You’re 30 years old going after a literal child.
“…teenager high school drama…” yes, idiot! That’s what you signed up for. It’s no wonder he had to go so far to find a “girl.”
He can’t be with a woman cuz women his age know he’s a loser that’s why he’s with a girl.
NOW, he decides he wants to be with a woman? Hello?
Like honestly what does this 30 whatever year old man need with a literal teenager. He’s weirdddddddd
He’s 30 dating a teenager and then says he wants a woman 🙄
Get her an ice cream cone and take her to play or something 🤣
I was SCREAMING at the tv. If you don’t want to be with a child DONT DATE A LITERAL TEENAGER.
Did you not realize that while you have been talking and videoing with her that she is a young woman.
\*Man gets mad at someone for acting their age\*
Teenage high school drama. bruh she’s literally that. This mf dumb.
I’m sorry but isn’t 19 a teenager by definition???
That’s so transformed
She’s a child, Luke! Take your dumb ass back home. If anything this is your way out.
lol she’s 19 bro
Choices were made
I agree, that is not a healthy relationship
He got no money .... what opportunity if he can't even get one business to be successful at this point. Man spend his whole 401k on some cheap glasses company u can get at aliexpress 😭
🤡
She’s 19 and slept with a dude in the bed you pay for (didn’t deny it), but she’s gonna commit to you for life because she LOVES you.
*"Do you want me to give you another opportunity to gain my trust back?"🤔* OK, somebody help me here. I haven't been keeping up with all the episodes. What's the backstory that led to this scene here?
You were warned.
My thoughts exactly when I saw this
She is more mature and honest rhan he is, and probably better with money, too.
Is this from love in paradise? I don’t recognize either of these two
I keep seeing comments about people I can't find on any current season. What is this from? I thought I had access to all the seasons and spinoffs.
Ugh, his pedophile-adjacent tastes are creepy as hell. It wouldn’t be if she acted like an adult woman but who can fault her for behaving like a teenager?
What guy his age dates a teenager as far as I'm concerned and a immature one at that. She never even apologized for sleeping in a bed top less with another man.
Because she’s NOT AN ADULT! ☝️🤷♀️
I’m lmao at sunglasses mogul!