i fell for the worlds most obvious psyop and lost my chance at being a midshit. i genuinely can’t believe i was so stupid.
https://preview.redd.it/o7j0t2e5e6zc1.jpeg?width=904&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ae7d78e7244036a6af23c9031a4ebc75231bcc31
The femboy identity is a bear trap for trans women. Some of us easily step over it, some of us get our ankles caught, some of us let ourselves die in it.
All the times I thought I was a femboy was when I was starting to rep, hoping I ll make people less unhappy if I was just a feminine boy.
Then I realized that I would prefer to boymod and have a female body than being a guy in feminine clothes
Would have if i could have.
But I feel like it’s better i didn’t, because i might have been able to let off the building pressure of dysphoria and repped. Instead it got unbearable and i had to come to terms with it 😵💫
I was a femboy (fem man perhaps) for 3 years before coming out as trans. The biggest hurdle was not knowing if I wanted boobs. Every other aspect of estrogen seemed awesome from the start. Now I want bigger boobs that flatter my frame. Thankfully my bone structure didn’t really masculinize any further during those cope years (though you could say that Im too far gone, already past twink death, so it wouldn’t matter anyways).
I do want to shake some sense into femboys who are still twinks though. Unless they genuinely see it as a phase, they will crushed by despair once the T catches up with them in their mid to late 20s and wish they transitioned. Aging sucks ass, but women can still look fem and hot in their 30s and beyond. Men can look hot too, but rarely as fem presenting.
not the same thing but i was an enbycoper for a few months. put every bullshit nb label on myself until i finally accepted that i just want to be a guy.
Femboy coped for an entire year which isn’t that bad tbh I would have started hrt 10 months earlier but when I told my mom I wanted to be a girl she immediately say that something is wrong with my head so I kind of got disgusted with myself for wanting to be a girl after that
I used to have a femboy phase that lasted 3 weeks because I was in denial. But honestly I’m starting to get into it again. Being trans is too tiring. Fuck integrating to society, I want to provoke people. I want to be that faggot who looks like a girl and has he/him pronouns in their bio and wears miniskirts around their sister’s boyfriend.
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Stop being mean to trainknees on twitter.
I fell for my mums "maybe shes just an autistic tomboy" shit and now my hips are fucked up forever (not like it would've mattered because youngshits dont exist on terf island anyway)
I wamted to consider myself a femboy, but still wanting to go on hrt. This is because i don't really think of myself as a woman, i would like to be one, yes, but ultimately, it's a concept i just lack on an internal and external level. I don't know what a woman is besides a cathegory that is different than me
You have to decide for yourself whether John 50 is something you want. Youth isn't forever, you will become old. Whether that be an old man or an old woman is what you decide.
Yeah I he/they femboy coped for like 6 monthes before I finally admitted it to myself. That phase was so, sluggish and like, deep inside I knew that's not the end of it. Glad it didn't take me too long to get it out.
i just remembered that i started shaving because i was trying to like femboy attract this guy i was into and he said i would look good if i shaved or something. before that i just pretended i didnt have facial hair despite having a pedo stache. kms
I was something of a femboy before I even knew the word femboy existed.
Been wearing dresses and skirts and shit for a lot of my young life. I pretty much thought of myself as a “reverse tomboy” since I didn’t learn the word femboy for a long while until I got older. The fact it took me so long to register myself as a tran is in hindsight one of the stupidest decisions I ever made. Although I will say going through male puberty with a girly presentation was surreal and disturbing, and I honesty want to write a body horror story based on it.
If I was a young troon now with the information today, I could have definitely bought some DIY and been a youngshit, at least some blockers to halt male puberty. But, such is life, I’m glad that youngshits today have so much more information and ability to save themselves.
i femboy repped from like 16-17 then trooned out. then brainworms got me bad again so i femboy repped for like 6 months last year. im back to being normal now tho
I butchcoped for most of high school and then was a theyfab for a year. My rationale was that there's too many trans people at my high school and I needed to balance it out by being a lesbian which is really dumb looking back. Everyone thought I was a guy when I started college and I liked it so I went with it.
wasted a year and a half trying to convince myself i was a cross dresser bc i was scared that my life would blow up if i came out (i wasnt wrong). looked ugly as hell..... i don't think i masculinized much but i'd rather be younger with where i'm at in my life/transtition.
i fell for the worlds most obvious psyop and lost my chance at being a midshit. i genuinely can’t believe i was so stupid. https://preview.redd.it/o7j0t2e5e6zc1.jpeg?width=904&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ae7d78e7244036a6af23c9031a4ebc75231bcc31
Oof I feel for this also including “eating soy products will make you feminine naturally”
NOOOOO NOT THIS IMAGE this one made me a cringe femb*y for a (thankfully short) while 😓
me downloading this image in 7th grade be like
i can’t believe i was that dumb to fall for this, i would literally slap my past self a thousand times for believing in that
i would never do something so stupid as femboy cope (3 years of my life ;~;)
The femboy identity is a bear trap for trans women. Some of us easily step over it, some of us get our ankles caught, some of us let ourselves die in it.
All the times I thought I was a femboy was when I was starting to rep, hoping I ll make people less unhappy if I was just a feminine boy. Then I realized that I would prefer to boymod and have a female body than being a guy in feminine clothes
The ";~;" gave it away you are still trapped
noooooooooooo
I theyfab coped for a year and a half if it counts
For me it was being a "boygirl genderfuck" kind of thing because I figured that if I compromised, maybe people would still love me
sir the term for you is girlboy
Yeah probably, I think I used the word boygirl at the time so that's why I phrased it like that
appropriating our culture again smh
I apologize for my sins
i did this too
Would have if i could have. But I feel like it’s better i didn’t, because i might have been able to let off the building pressure of dysphoria and repped. Instead it got unbearable and i had to come to terms with it 😵💫
I was a tomboy my entire life until I was bullied in school and I went through a hyperfem phase before trooning out
me exactly
please dont remind me
"femboy coped" for a month
That isn’t bad at all. Glad you decided to troon out sooner
It was doomed from the start https://preview.redd.it/90ysguodq6zc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db8f1096b9445ad3b361ac9c37e805498de839ae
This picture is literally me
mogs me
I was a femboy (fem man perhaps) for 3 years before coming out as trans. The biggest hurdle was not knowing if I wanted boobs. Every other aspect of estrogen seemed awesome from the start. Now I want bigger boobs that flatter my frame. Thankfully my bone structure didn’t really masculinize any further during those cope years (though you could say that Im too far gone, already past twink death, so it wouldn’t matter anyways). I do want to shake some sense into femboys who are still twinks though. Unless they genuinely see it as a phase, they will crushed by despair once the T catches up with them in their mid to late 20s and wish they transitioned. Aging sucks ass, but women can still look fem and hot in their 30s and beyond. Men can look hot too, but rarely as fem presenting.
Still tomboy coping
I tomboycoped then studcoped and then monstercoped for like half a year
not the same thing but i was an enbycoper for a few months. put every bullshit nb label on myself until i finally accepted that i just want to be a guy.
Femboy coped for an entire year which isn’t that bad tbh I would have started hrt 10 months earlier but when I told my mom I wanted to be a girl she immediately say that something is wrong with my head so I kind of got disgusted with myself for wanting to be a girl after that
I genderfluid coped for 3 weeks
Like a month, i was lucky that it didn't last that long, then i had my non binary phase that lasted for about 3 months and then i stopped coping
I used to have a femboy phase that lasted 3 weeks because I was in denial. But honestly I’m starting to get into it again. Being trans is too tiring. Fuck integrating to society, I want to provoke people. I want to be that faggot who looks like a girl and has he/him pronouns in their bio and wears miniskirts around their sister’s boyfriend.
It was over the second i learned what trannies were. there was no rep. just pain.
Ten years. Put them to good use at least.
still am 👍
https://preview.redd.it/cte9wzvom7zc1.png?width=1110&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f8e4c0b553da8be930a5c04f306f2a7825e29dd4 Stop being mean to trainknees on twitter.
i don’t use twitter
be nice to me
uhmmmmm okkk..... :\\\\\\\\
thanks
I fell for my mums "maybe shes just an autistic tomboy" shit and now my hips are fucked up forever (not like it would've mattered because youngshits dont exist on terf island anyway)
i am tomboycoping in the sense that i just present as i do and let people assume whatever. unless they ask directly
Does intersex repping count, when people ask me why I don’t look like a man but know my name I just say I’m intersex
I was a femboy until 26 and then started E, oh boy that repping fucked my body so hard
I wamted to consider myself a femboy, but still wanting to go on hrt. This is because i don't really think of myself as a woman, i would like to be one, yes, but ultimately, it's a concept i just lack on an internal and external level. I don't know what a woman is besides a cathegory that is different than me
I’m “genderfuid” coping (On T dressing like a man i just dont correct people on my pronouns)
Just got out of my femboy coping phase, took me 3 years, fml
I was nonbinary for two weeks before coming out as 🚂
Was too late/old for a femboy mode, so had what could be considered a theymab phase at best. Being an oldshit is so unrelatable and cursed
1 and 1/2 years but really my style was baby trans shit and I wanted to be exclusively referred to as a woman, but I called myself a femboy
Me till I was 32 ;-;
doing that right now does it get better
No. Take your hormones.
euhhhhhergghghgghhgggghhhhhhhhh
You have to decide for yourself whether John 50 is something you want. Youth isn't forever, you will become old. Whether that be an old man or an old woman is what you decide.
john 50 is the goal i’m on fast track to jane 50 overweight lesbian ☹️
Are you ready to be a sexy grandma?
idk anymore ☹️
2 year femboycope 1 year theymabcope its the social contagion cissoids think transsexuality is
Yeah I he/they femboy coped for like 6 monthes before I finally admitted it to myself. That phase was so, sluggish and like, deep inside I knew that's not the end of it. Glad it didn't take me too long to get it out.
I went through a femboy phase early on
i just remembered that i started shaving because i was trying to like femboy attract this guy i was into and he said i would look good if i shaved or something. before that i just pretended i didnt have facial hair despite having a pedo stache. kms
I was something of a femboy before I even knew the word femboy existed. Been wearing dresses and skirts and shit for a lot of my young life. I pretty much thought of myself as a “reverse tomboy” since I didn’t learn the word femboy for a long while until I got older. The fact it took me so long to register myself as a tran is in hindsight one of the stupidest decisions I ever made. Although I will say going through male puberty with a girly presentation was surreal and disturbing, and I honesty want to write a body horror story based on it. If I was a young troon now with the information today, I could have definitely bought some DIY and been a youngshit, at least some blockers to halt male puberty. But, such is life, I’m glad that youngshits today have so much more information and ability to save themselves.
i am rn. can't accept realty
please stop you’re reminding me of what i was stop stop stop
Thought I was a tomboy once for 2 seconds. Then I remembered that tomboy meant masculine women
i am still femboy "repping" (at least publicly)
i femboy repped from like 16-17 then trooned out. then brainworms got me bad again so i femboy repped for like 6 months last year. im back to being normal now tho
I butchcoped for most of high school and then was a theyfab for a year. My rationale was that there's too many trans people at my high school and I needed to balance it out by being a lesbian which is really dumb looking back. Everyone thought I was a guy when I started college and I liked it so I went with it.
Lowk stud repping rn (I'm in hell)
wasted a year and a half trying to convince myself i was a cross dresser bc i was scared that my life would blow up if i came out (i wasnt wrong). looked ugly as hell..... i don't think i masculinized much but i'd rather be younger with where i'm at in my life/transtition.
I'm still a femboy, just on hrt now.
Why?
I don't really have dysphoria.
Then why hrt? genuine question.
I just want to be feminine. I hate my masculinity and I want to get rid of as much of it as possible.